Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

21 Endorsed

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

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Jack May's ideal client faces challenges like sex addiction, financial disorders, anger management, or relationship struggles, including couples work. They feel overwhelmed and seek a non-judgmental space to explore their difficulties. They need compassionate guidance and accountability to break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and improve relationships. Their goals include gaining control, achieving financial stability, and fostering deeper connections. Driven by a desire for growth, they seek a fulfilling, balanced life.

Jack May, based in Santa Barbara, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in sex addiction, financial disorders, and anger management. He integrates CBT, mindfulness, and EFT in his practice. Jack is the Community Engagement Director for SB-CAMFT and enjoys various outdoor activities, including off-grid camping and golf.

truggling with sex addiction, financial stress, anger, or relationship challenges can leave you feeling isolated and overwhelmed. You're not alone, and it’s okay to seek help. In a non-judgmental space, I offer compassionate guidance tailored to your unique journey. Together, we can break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen your relationships

Call or Email Jack May now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 203-0021

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717

I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction

$250 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

I am looking forward to helping you take better care of yourself and reach your goals

Let's Connect (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 203-0021

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717

I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction

$250 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

I am looking forward to helping you take better care of yourself and reach your goals

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $250
Couple Sessions $250
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Pay by American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

Aetna
Anthem
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
CenCal
Cigna and Evernorth
First Health
Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
Health Net
Managed Health Network (MHN)
Modern Health
Optum
UC Ship
UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
Out of Network

I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $175. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $250. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 94423 Jack May
In Practice for 13 Years
Certificate from California Association of Anger Management Providers CAAMP2017 / 2017
Attended Phillips Graduate Institute, Graduated 2011

Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Anger Management
Depression
Sexual Addiction

Expertise

Addiction
ADHD
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Body Positivity
Cancer
Codependency
Divorce
Drug Abuse
Dual Diagnosis
Emotional Management
Emotional Tolerance
Family Conflict
Infidelity
Internet Addiction
Life Coaching
Marital and Premarital
Men's Issues
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Parenting
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Veterans

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

21 Endorsements

Kristine Tye

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Jack May is a dedicated individual and therapist. He is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals!

Vasily Todoriko

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Highly professional yet warm, Jack goes above and beyond when considering the needs of his clients. When working with him, rest assured you are in the hands of a highly qualified clinician.

Rudi Lion

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Jack is a highly skilled and thoughtful therapist. Good to have on anyone's team!

Karima Shamma

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT

Jack cares deeply for his clients and is an attentive, insightful and caring therapist with an easy-going style.

Kristi Miller, LMFT

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Author

Jack May has an innate skill to connect with his clients and provide relevant and helpful therapeutic support. I refer clients to him often.

Alina P. Halonen

Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPCC, CCTP

If you are looking for a highly skilled clinician who specializes in treating men's issues or you are a couple who is seeking guidance and support, I highly recommend Jack May. He has a successful track record of helping his clients achieve their goals.

Kady Fleckenstein

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Jack has a magnetic personality that makes you feel instantly at ease. He listens with intent, is a terrific resource and very reliable. His straight-forward approach is always appreciated as is his passion for helping people.

Danielle Sharkey

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Jack is passionate and committed to helping his clients reach their therapeutic goals. I highly recommend him!

Erika Feely

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC

Jack is a highly skilled therapist! He genuinely cares about helping his clients.

Jonathan W. Thompson II

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, APCC, CCTP, CSAM

Jack is a highly skilled mental health clinician who works with men's issues, individuals, couples and families. He utilizes an eclectic approach that is warm and inviting. He also is a compassionate supervisor who has assisted me in becoming licensed.

Brandi Davis

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CPT, CPC

Jack is the real deal. Not only is he both kind and well-educated, he is also truly committed to providing the best possible care to his clients. It's clear that his heart is in this work and that clients can expect the best with him.

Tesa Saulmon

LMHC, CSAT-C

Jacks dedication to his client's well-being was evident during our training together. His insightful and empathetic approach to therapy is truly commendable.

Emelina Bellé

Marriage & Family Therapist, PHD(c), LMFT, CST, CSAT, CPTT

Jack is an outstanding therapist who has extensive experience and specialty expertise in ensuring high-quality care. I highly recommend Jack and am confident in referring clients.

Fiorella Chujutalli

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MS, RN, BSN

Jack is an excellent therapist. He is very easy to connect to and experienced in his field.

Dave Fung

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

You want someone who has the tools and skillset to navigate the challenges of sex addiction. Jack has trained for this and exemplifies a clinican who can warmly and expertly support you. See for yourself!

Alexus Cordova

Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, APCC

Jack is a very skilled individual who has a deep care for his clients. He is easy to connect with and has a high level of experience. He has a genuine care and passion for helping others!