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Relationships

Does Your Romantic Relationship Have This Quality?

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on July 18, 2022

Throw away your laundry list of qualities you would like in a life partner. This one could be the one that you really want.

Throw away your laundry list of qualities you would like in a life partner. This one could be the one that you really want.

Marriage

The "End Marital Spats in Less than 5 Seconds" Hack

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on April 30, 2022

Too many arguments in your relationship? Discover a skill that happily married people possess and put an end to needless, unending bickering.

Too many arguments in your relationship? Discover a skill that happily married people possess and put an end to needless, unending bickering.

Sex

Want to Super-Heat Your Sex Life Tonight?

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on August 12, 2018

A little-known but highly effective way to have better sex.

A little-known but highly effective way to have better sex.

Marriage

3 Sins Your Marriage Counselor Should Never Commit

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on April 7, 2018

Considering marriage or couple's counseling? Then you will need to read this.

Considering marriage or couple's counseling? Then you will need to read this.

Sex

The Vicious Sex and Affection Cycle

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on January 28, 2018

When your relationship is spinning out of control, you should learn to dance.

When your relationship is spinning out of control, you should learn to dance.

Marriage

Forget to Buy Your Spouse a Gift?

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on December 26, 2017

In the doghouse because you forgot to buy your spouse a Christmas gift? Well, here is your "get out of jail free" solution.

In the doghouse because you forgot to buy your spouse a Christmas gift? Well, here is your "get out of jail free" solution.

Marriage

The Marital Fight That Never Ends

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on September 29, 2017

This vicious cycle is a marriage-busting monster.

This vicious cycle is a marriage-busting monster.

Marriage

Warning: You or Your Spouse May Be Addicted to Criticism

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on September 15, 2017

Can people be addicted to criticism in the same way they can be addicted to alcohol?

Can people be addicted to criticism in the same way they can be addicted to alcohol?

Marriage

There Really Is a One-Minute "Marriage Cleanse"?

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on July 25, 2017

Too busy for a "date night"? Try this instead.

Too busy for a "date night"? Try this instead.

Marriage

The Number One Reason Marriages Fail

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on June 22, 2017

The sad reality is that most people who marry never really have a WE-dding.

The sad reality is that most people who marry never really have a WE-dding.

Relationships

Could You and Your Partner Pass This 1-Minute Relationship Test?

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on May 27, 2017

The assumptions that can destroy love, and how to stop making them.

The assumptions that can destroy love, and how to stop making them.

Marriage

The Secret Gift That Will Turbocharge Your Relationship

Neil J Lavender Ph.D. on May 5, 2017

The Secret Gift: What it is and how to use it.

The Secret Gift: What it is and how to use it.