Emotionally Focused Therapists in Pietermaritzburg
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I am working with people who may struggling with stress, trauma, Rape, domestic violence, bereavement, partener abuse, low self esteem ect
I am working with people who may struggling with stress, trauma, Rape, domestic violence, bereavement, partener abuse, low self esteem ect
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Thokozani Sithole
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Pietermaritzburg 3201
Thokozani Sithole is a Counselling Psychologist registered with Health Professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA) and the Board of Healthcare Funders (BHF). I hold a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology from the University of KwaZulu-Natal and a Postgraduate Diploma in HIV and AIDS Management from the Stellenbosch University. I am currently pursuing a Doctoral degree in Consulting Psychology from the University of South Africa. I started working as a Psychologist in the year 2014.
Thokozani Sithole is a Counselling Psychologist registered with Health Professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA) and the Board of Healthcare Funders (BHF). I hold a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology from the University of KwaZulu-Natal and a Postgraduate Diploma in HIV and AIDS Management from the Stellenbosch University. I am currently pursuing a Doctoral degree in Consulting Psychology from the University of South Africa. I started working as a Psychologist in the year 2014.
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I am an experienced, competent and professional Social worker working with children, Adolescent, individuals, elders and organizations. I specialize in anger management, trauma debriefing, conflict management and Bereavement. I use a centered holistic wellness approach to assess, analyze and help my clients reach their optimal well-being. My counseling sessions are individually tailored. I first focus on what brought the client to my practice and move on to other factors that contribute to my clients sufferings. I offer empathetic understanding. I also consider cultural, spiritual and religious background of my clients.
I am an experienced, competent and professional Social worker working with children, Adolescent, individuals, elders and organizations. I specialize in anger management, trauma debriefing, conflict management and Bereavement. I use a centered holistic wellness approach to assess, analyze and help my clients reach their optimal well-being. My counseling sessions are individually tailored. I first focus on what brought the client to my practice and move on to other factors that contribute to my clients sufferings. I offer empathetic understanding. I also consider cultural, spiritual and religious background of my clients.
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DD Conco Private Social Worker
Social Worker, BSocSci Hons, SACSSP
Verified Verified
Pietermaritzburg 3201
The ideal clients' issues may include stress, anxiety, work-life balance, depression , family problems, substance abuse, trauma, grief and loss, low self-esteem, gender based violence anger management. Clients need therapeutic ways to cope with their challenges and gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their pattern of behavior. The clients goals is to develop coping skills for overwhelming emotions, increase self-esteem and reducing negative self-talk. The ideal clients want to live a more fulfilling and balanced life and they are willing to put in the effort to make it happen.
The ideal clients' issues may include stress, anxiety, work-life balance, depression , family problems, substance abuse, trauma, grief and loss, low self-esteem, gender based violence anger management. Clients need therapeutic ways to cope with their challenges and gain a deeper understanding of themselves and their pattern of behavior. The clients goals is to develop coping skills for overwhelming emotions, increase self-esteem and reducing negative self-talk. The ideal clients want to live a more fulfilling and balanced life and they are willing to put in the effort to make it happen.
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I aim to enable men and women to thrive by becoming the best version of themselves. The process addresses trauma, anger, stress and anxiety within themselves and their relationships through emotional awareness and practical interventions. During the sessions, I strive to enable my clients to experience physical and emotional relief from stress, anxiety and embodied trauma.
I aim to enable men and women to thrive by becoming the best version of themselves. The process addresses trauma, anger, stress and anxiety within themselves and their relationships through emotional awareness and practical interventions. During the sessions, I strive to enable my clients to experience physical and emotional relief from stress, anxiety and embodied trauma.
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Angel Mbali Mthembu Mensah Mrs
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Pietermaritzburg 3200
Is it trauma (divorce, rape, GBV, death of a loved one) or relationship problems, a child displaying behavioral problems, occupational distress? Struggle no more, my aim is to alleviate suffering and prevent depression, anxiety and suicidality from debilitating & ending your life. 13 years in the field has widened the scope of my knowledge & skill. As well as a successful personal healing journey, (in pursuit of peace, meaning & fulfillment), which has afforded me the confidence to offer my clients a practical & reliable treatment plan as I guide them step by step in therapy through a supportive approach.
Is it trauma (divorce, rape, GBV, death of a loved one) or relationship problems, a child displaying behavioral problems, occupational distress? Struggle no more, my aim is to alleviate suffering and prevent depression, anxiety and suicidality from debilitating & ending your life. 13 years in the field has widened the scope of my knowledge & skill. As well as a successful personal healing journey, (in pursuit of peace, meaning & fulfillment), which has afforded me the confidence to offer my clients a practical & reliable treatment plan as I guide them step by step in therapy through a supportive approach.
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Roxanne Goodchild Specialist Wellness Counsellor
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
Pietermaritzburg 3201 (Online Only)
You are unique, with your own strengths and weaknesses. With the right perspective and tools, you can overcome great challenges. There is much to be gained by working through our challenges- a fuller, more authentic and abundant life. But admitting that you're facing troubles, that you need assistance or that you do not feel fulfilled is the first step. Reach out if you need a safe space & an empathetic ear to work through difficulties, and to discover the hope that lies beyond what you have experienced. "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in given circumstances"
You are unique, with your own strengths and weaknesses. With the right perspective and tools, you can overcome great challenges. There is much to be gained by working through our challenges- a fuller, more authentic and abundant life. But admitting that you're facing troubles, that you need assistance or that you do not feel fulfilled is the first step. Reach out if you need a safe space & an empathetic ear to work through difficulties, and to discover the hope that lies beyond what you have experienced. "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in given circumstances"
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Nazanin Madadi-Coetzee. No New Sessions Are Taken.
Registered Counsellor, MA, HPCSA - Counsellor
Verified Verified
Claremont 3201
Changing, healing, and transforming one to become strong, fulfilled, and content is my passion. With more than a decade of experience and serving thousands of clients from around the globe and South Africa, I am dedicated to help you to bring healing to your personal issues and relationship matters. My focus is in the field of marriage, relationship problems, helping clients to heal trauma, anxiety, depression and suppressed anger, addiction, codependency, and grief therapy. I love to teach self mastery.
Changing, healing, and transforming one to become strong, fulfilled, and content is my passion. With more than a decade of experience and serving thousands of clients from around the globe and South Africa, I am dedicated to help you to bring healing to your personal issues and relationship matters. My focus is in the field of marriage, relationship problems, helping clients to heal trauma, anxiety, depression and suppressed anger, addiction, codependency, and grief therapy. I love to teach self mastery.
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A client once asked me: “Don’t you get tired of listening to people’s problems for so many years?” I intuitively responded”: “How can I get tired of listening to their solutions?” I have for most of my life been training and supervising counsellors at two different universities. At the same time always running a private practice part time to ensure I learn from my clients: How they tell their problem saturated stories; and then how we together discover the alternative stories from which they then build their solutions and a preferred life story.
A client once asked me: “Don’t you get tired of listening to people’s problems for so many years?” I intuitively responded”: “How can I get tired of listening to their solutions?” I have for most of my life been training and supervising counsellors at two different universities. At the same time always running a private practice part time to ensure I learn from my clients: How they tell their problem saturated stories; and then how we together discover the alternative stories from which they then build their solutions and a preferred life story.
Online Therapists
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Hameeda Bassasuleman
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Durban 4001 (Online Only)
My ideal client is committed to the therapeutic process and is willing able to embark on a journey of self-discovery in order to find out their strengths, weaknesses and what makes them unique.
My ideal client is committed to the therapeutic process and is willing able to embark on a journey of self-discovery in order to find out their strengths, weaknesses and what makes them unique.
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I truly believe that every human being needs a counsellor at some point(s) in life, because life is hard and the list of problems a person can face - and the impact those problems can have - is, seemingly, endless. Needing or wanting help to live a meaningful and fulfilling life is a natural and healthy response. Please know that it is possible.
I truly believe that every human being needs a counsellor at some point(s) in life, because life is hard and the list of problems a person can face - and the impact those problems can have - is, seemingly, endless. Needing or wanting help to live a meaningful and fulfilling life is a natural and healthy response. Please know that it is possible.
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Im a Clinical Psychologist trained both in the UK and South Africa and deal with a variety of mental health issues (ncluding depression, anxiety, bipolar mood disorder, grief,couples therapy, and so on). My multifaceted training allows an edge to the psychotherapeutic field and generally helps in the overall healing process.I am trained in different therapeutic approaches including brain-working recursive therapy, gottman couples therapy, dialectical beahviour therapy, etc. The non-judgemental, empathetic therapeutic space allows for change, growth, improvement in the self and healing.
Im a Clinical Psychologist trained both in the UK and South Africa and deal with a variety of mental health issues (ncluding depression, anxiety, bipolar mood disorder, grief,couples therapy, and so on). My multifaceted training allows an edge to the psychotherapeutic field and generally helps in the overall healing process.I am trained in different therapeutic approaches including brain-working recursive therapy, gottman couples therapy, dialectical beahviour therapy, etc. The non-judgemental, empathetic therapeutic space allows for change, growth, improvement in the self and healing.
![Photo of Vanessa Olivia Wright, HPCSA - Couns. Psych., Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/35fad14f-4a42-4b5b-ae31-4da91df9183a/1/320x400.jpeg)
People seek therapy for a variety of reasons; some people seek it because they have felt depressed, anxious or angry for a long time. Others have been through a traumatic event, or have a problem that they need help navigating - they may be going through a divorce, feel overwhelmed by a new job, have lost a loved one, or are facing difficulties in raising their children. Some people just want to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Whether it is through individual/play/couple or family therapy, I help people to work through such issues in a supportive and non-judgemental environment.
People seek therapy for a variety of reasons; some people seek it because they have felt depressed, anxious or angry for a long time. Others have been through a traumatic event, or have a problem that they need help navigating - they may be going through a divorce, feel overwhelmed by a new job, have lost a loved one, or are facing difficulties in raising their children. Some people just want to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Whether it is through individual/play/couple or family therapy, I help people to work through such issues in a supportive and non-judgemental environment.
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Welcome to Sasha Talia Counselling. I consult in areas of Abuse/ Addiction/ Trauma/ Narcissism/ Relationships/ Depression/ Anxiety / Pregnancy related, Child welfare, as well as other general counselling requirements. This is a safe space where you journey through your heart and mind to function holistically as the best version of yourself. With innovative techniques in counselling this dynamic therapy practice pioneers the process of counselling in excellence. Happiness prioritized.
Welcome to Sasha Talia Counselling. I consult in areas of Abuse/ Addiction/ Trauma/ Narcissism/ Relationships/ Depression/ Anxiety / Pregnancy related, Child welfare, as well as other general counselling requirements. This is a safe space where you journey through your heart and mind to function holistically as the best version of yourself. With innovative techniques in counselling this dynamic therapy practice pioneers the process of counselling in excellence. Happiness prioritized.
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I am a licensed Social Worker with 22 years experience in the field. I work with diverse populations. In these challenging times, one does need to debrief and talk to someone, your mental health matters. Take that first step and reach out.
I am a licensed Social Worker with 22 years experience in the field. I work with diverse populations. In these challenging times, one does need to debrief and talk to someone, your mental health matters. Take that first step and reach out.
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Delene Strydom
General Counsellor, BSocSci Hons, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
Verified Verified
Ballito 4399
If you're feeling overwhelmed by circumstances, experiencing anxiety, depression, or a sense of being lost or misunderstood, or struggling with cognitive strain, bullying, or relationship issues, it may be helpful to reframe your perspective, establish new goals, and cultivate greater self-awareness and consciousness. Recognising the impact of past trauma on your present reality is crucial, as is embracing the potential for joy and fulfillment. Additionally, addressing any struggles with addiction can empower you to regain control of your life. I'm here to support you through these challenges and help you navigate towards healing
If you're feeling overwhelmed by circumstances, experiencing anxiety, depression, or a sense of being lost or misunderstood, or struggling with cognitive strain, bullying, or relationship issues, it may be helpful to reframe your perspective, establish new goals, and cultivate greater self-awareness and consciousness. Recognising the impact of past trauma on your present reality is crucial, as is embracing the potential for joy and fulfillment. Additionally, addressing any struggles with addiction can empower you to regain control of your life. I'm here to support you through these challenges and help you navigate towards healing
![Photo of Debbie Jameson, MA, HPCSA - Clin. Psych., Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/8a83271f-1fac-4470-9331-693ef438e530/1/320x400.jpeg)
I am an independent Clinical Psychologist registered with the HPCSA. I specialise in psychological assessment and psychotherapy working with a wide range of psychological problems that affect adults, adolescents, couples and families. Areas of interest: Anxiety and Stress Management; Depression; Suicidal thoughts; Relationship issues (Marital / Couples counselling); Trauma (domestic violence, sexual assault, hijacking, accidents, robberies etc); Substance Abuse; Grief and Bereavement; Conflict/ Anger Management
I am an independent Clinical Psychologist registered with the HPCSA. I specialise in psychological assessment and psychotherapy working with a wide range of psychological problems that affect adults, adolescents, couples and families. Areas of interest: Anxiety and Stress Management; Depression; Suicidal thoughts; Relationship issues (Marital / Couples counselling); Trauma (domestic violence, sexual assault, hijacking, accidents, robberies etc); Substance Abuse; Grief and Bereavement; Conflict/ Anger Management
I am a passionate and energetic person who thrives in empowering people to be the best version of themselves.
I am a passionate and energetic person who thrives in empowering people to be the best version of themselves.
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Being a qualified and registered Wellness Counsellor, having experienced loss and grief firsthand, I've dedicated myself to helping others cope with similar challenges. I understand how overwhelming it can be to deal with grief alone, and I am committed to providing compassionate guidance and support to individuals and families during their healing journey.
Being a qualified and registered Wellness Counsellor, having experienced loss and grief firsthand, I've dedicated myself to helping others cope with similar challenges. I understand how overwhelming it can be to deal with grief alone, and I am committed to providing compassionate guidance and support to individuals and families during their healing journey.
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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.