Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Waukesha, WI

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Susan A. Ringle
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LPCC, RPT-S
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188  (Online Only)
Additionally, I am experienced in successfully treating Borderline Personality, Attachment & Adoptions issues, parent-child/adolescent conflicts, and family and family systems distress.
A sense of safety is critical for progress in psychotherapy, and I take care to provide that sense of safety for each person I serve. I appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family I encounter, and work in partnership with them to create their own unique healing process, based upon proven treatments, solid research, and recent advances in treatment protocol. I am a certified trauma counselor, registered play therapist, and Theraplay practitioner and trainer. I provide family therapy that prioritizes the value of each member of the family, healing individuals and relationships, and building or rebuilding healthy family dynamics.
Additionally, I am experienced in successfully treating Borderline Personality, Attachment & Adoptions issues, parent-child/adolescent conflicts, and family and family systems distress.
A sense of safety is critical for progress in psychotherapy, and I take care to provide that sense of safety for each person I serve. I appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family I encounter, and work in partnership with them to create their own unique healing process, based upon proven treatments, solid research, and recent advances in treatment protocol. I am a certified trauma counselor, registered play therapist, and Theraplay practitioner and trainer. I provide family therapy that prioritizes the value of each member of the family, healing individuals and relationships, and building or rebuilding healthy family dynamics.
(262) 600-3145 View (262) 600-3145
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Roxanne Allaire
Counselor, MS, LPC-IT, NCC
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53186
My ideal clients are adults and teens who possess one or more of these personality traits: high sensitivity, emotional intensity, or giftedness (above-average intensity, drive, complexity, and empathy). If this sounds like you, you may feel like you don't fit in or belong in the world and wonder about life's meaning and purpose. You experience many deep emotions throughout the day that no one else seems to understand, leaving you feeling lonely, guilty, ashamed, or depressed about your thoughts, behaviors, or coping methods. You may be asking yourself, "What's wrong with me?"
My ideal clients are adults and teens who possess one or more of these personality traits: high sensitivity, emotional intensity, or giftedness (above-average intensity, drive, complexity, and empathy). If this sounds like you, you may feel like you don't fit in or belong in the world and wonder about life's meaning and purpose. You experience many deep emotions throughout the day that no one else seems to understand, leaving you feeling lonely, guilty, ashamed, or depressed about your thoughts, behaviors, or coping methods. You may be asking yourself, "What's wrong with me?"
(262) 747-2407 View (262) 747-2407
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Serenity Counseling Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, SAC-IT, MS
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188
Client problems come in all shapes and sizes, with all kinds of different life experiences and reasons and needs. Problems are common in the world, and it is hard to shoulder the responsibilities set on our shoulders. It can feel lonely with the burden that people carry, and it seems reasonable to find ways to meet needs that are not being met. Sometimes these can be unhealthy habits that just cause more problems. Sometimes, it leads to a build up of pressure until everything is overwhelming and out of control. It disrupts our Serenity, and building this back up sometimes needs a helper.
Client problems come in all shapes and sizes, with all kinds of different life experiences and reasons and needs. Problems are common in the world, and it is hard to shoulder the responsibilities set on our shoulders. It can feel lonely with the burden that people carry, and it seems reasonable to find ways to meet needs that are not being met. Sometimes these can be unhealthy habits that just cause more problems. Sometimes, it leads to a build up of pressure until everything is overwhelming and out of control. It disrupts our Serenity, and building this back up sometimes needs a helper.
(262) 444-0257 View (262) 444-0257
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Samantha Lueloff
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53189
Many of the individuals Samantha works with struggle with some form of anxiety that prevents them from feeling complete, whole, or living the life they want to live. She specializes in working with individuals struggling to overcome Anxiety, OCD, Trauma, and Eating Disorders. Sam also works well with individuals striving to build and maintain healthy boundaries and relationships.
Many of the individuals Samantha works with struggle with some form of anxiety that prevents them from feeling complete, whole, or living the life they want to live. She specializes in working with individuals struggling to overcome Anxiety, OCD, Trauma, and Eating Disorders. Sam also works well with individuals striving to build and maintain healthy boundaries and relationships.
(262) 235-5960 View (262) 235-5960
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Jessica Rustler
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53188
Are you struggling with finding your place in the world? Are you experiencing relationship issues? Are you looking for a place to get it all off your chest? As a teenager, young adult and adult you may be facing roadblocks that are difficult to talk about but sharing those struggles can be important for growth and restoration. Therapy is a place where we are able to work together to rebuild your self-compassion so you can move forward in life. You can feel good about the positive changes you wish to achieve!
Are you struggling with finding your place in the world? Are you experiencing relationship issues? Are you looking for a place to get it all off your chest? As a teenager, young adult and adult you may be facing roadblocks that are difficult to talk about but sharing those struggles can be important for growth and restoration. Therapy is a place where we are able to work together to rebuild your self-compassion so you can move forward in life. You can feel good about the positive changes you wish to achieve!
(262) 891-4303 View (262) 891-4303
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Caitlin Wheeler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PT
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188
Hello, Im glad you’re here! Seeking a therapist is an incredible first step at choosing yourself and your well-being - to choose yourself takes strength and bravery, and that does not go unnoticed. I am passionate about supporting those who struggle with eating/feeding disorders or disordered eating habits, and are ready to start living a life that feels their own.
Hello, Im glad you’re here! Seeking a therapist is an incredible first step at choosing yourself and your well-being - to choose yourself takes strength and bravery, and that does not go unnoticed. I am passionate about supporting those who struggle with eating/feeding disorders or disordered eating habits, and are ready to start living a life that feels their own.
(262) 476-7903 View (262) 476-7903
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Andrea Furby
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188
Andrea is an experienced well-rounded therapist who believes that each client is unique and can tailor therapy to individual needs using a variety of evidenced-based techniques. Andrea is a firm believer that although talk inspires change, changes in behavior need to happen in our lives to create the positive change we seek.
Andrea is an experienced well-rounded therapist who believes that each client is unique and can tailor therapy to individual needs using a variety of evidenced-based techniques. Andrea is a firm believer that although talk inspires change, changes in behavior need to happen in our lives to create the positive change we seek.
(414) 877-6940 View (414) 877-6940
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Luciana Gonzalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ICS
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188
We provide a full continuum of care at locations around the country, including residential treatment centers; a full suite of outpatient programming, with Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP), Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP), and outpatient services with a flexible number of days per week; telehealth; and alumni programming. All of our programs have received accreditation from the Joint Commission for Behavioral Healthcare, the nation’s most respected healthcare accreditation body.
We provide a full continuum of care at locations around the country, including residential treatment centers; a full suite of outpatient programming, with Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP), Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP), and outpatient services with a flexible number of days per week; telehealth; and alumni programming. All of our programs have received accreditation from the Joint Commission for Behavioral Healthcare, the nation’s most respected healthcare accreditation body.
(262) 383-4064 View (262) 383-4064
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Claudia M Moreno
Counselor, MS, LPC, CHT
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53186
Hello, I am a licensed professional counselor and certified hypnotherapist. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is built on trust, compassion and a willingness to gain new insights. I strive to create an emotionally safe and warm environment promoting trust in the healing process. I utilize a holistic and strengths based-approach and promote collaboration to create a personalized plan of action.
Hello, I am a licensed professional counselor and certified hypnotherapist. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is built on trust, compassion and a willingness to gain new insights. I strive to create an emotionally safe and warm environment promoting trust in the healing process. I utilize a holistic and strengths based-approach and promote collaboration to create a personalized plan of action.
(262) 278-0229 View (262) 278-0229
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Mind body spirit program
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188
Are you stressed? Depressed? Anxious? Angry? Do you suffer from fatigue? Insomnia? High blood pressure? chronic pain? PMS? Infertility? Cancer? Memory Problems? I can help. I am a clinical health psychologist with a specialty in behavioral medicine and am dedicated to empowering patients to positively heal their mind, body and spirit. I have received specialty training in mind body medicine across the country, including through Harvard Medical School/Cambridge Hospital and University of Miami/Jackson Memorial Medical Center. I imploy innovative practices: EMDR, hypnosis, and meditation, to improve the lives of her patients.
Are you stressed? Depressed? Anxious? Angry? Do you suffer from fatigue? Insomnia? High blood pressure? chronic pain? PMS? Infertility? Cancer? Memory Problems? I can help. I am a clinical health psychologist with a specialty in behavioral medicine and am dedicated to empowering patients to positively heal their mind, body and spirit. I have received specialty training in mind body medicine across the country, including through Harvard Medical School/Cambridge Hospital and University of Miami/Jackson Memorial Medical Center. I imploy innovative practices: EMDR, hypnosis, and meditation, to improve the lives of her patients.
(414) 939-7931 View (414) 939-7931
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Megan Carey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53188  (Online Only)
Are you a "people pleaser"? Are you feeling weighed down by life? Does it feel like you are stuck, when everyone else has it figured out? Are you tired of giving to others, leaving nothing for yourself? If this feels familiar and you are ready to get to the bottom of what has gotten you here, know that help is here. I work with clients to work through what's hurting, develop strength in the face of life's stressors, and build a life that feels right for them.
Are you a "people pleaser"? Are you feeling weighed down by life? Does it feel like you are stuck, when everyone else has it figured out? Are you tired of giving to others, leaving nothing for yourself? If this feels familiar and you are ready to get to the bottom of what has gotten you here, know that help is here. I work with clients to work through what's hurting, develop strength in the face of life's stressors, and build a life that feels right for them.
(727) 761-6429 View (727) 761-6429
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Venessa Farn
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, SASD, NCC, CTS
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53188  (Online Only)
My practice centers around building relationships and learning how to take care of ourselves and others. I find that people come to therapy hoping to find someone to tell them the answers, and my goal is to help people become of aware of the answers they already have: I am not the expert, you are. My practice is based in attachment theory and trauma recovery, helping people understand the physiological and developmental processes behind their behaviors, and guiding people towards lasting change while providing a caring and compassionate place to heal.
My practice centers around building relationships and learning how to take care of ourselves and others. I find that people come to therapy hoping to find someone to tell them the answers, and my goal is to help people become of aware of the answers they already have: I am not the expert, you are. My practice is based in attachment theory and trauma recovery, helping people understand the physiological and developmental processes behind their behaviors, and guiding people towards lasting change while providing a caring and compassionate place to heal.
(920) 633-3422 View (920) 633-3422
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Abby Carncross
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53186
Hello! My name is Abby and I would love the opportunity to get to know you and see if I would be a good fit as your therapist! Are you feeling like you are stuck, anxious, need a change, or doubting your self? Have you ever wanted someone non-judgmental to talk to? I know exactly what you're feeling: everyone has their opinions on decisions you make, just doing life is hard, constantly feeling on edge. All of these can be true AND let me see if I can help navigate some of that. Living in our society right now is really hard and I hope to collaborate with you to make living life a little easier.
Hello! My name is Abby and I would love the opportunity to get to know you and see if I would be a good fit as your therapist! Are you feeling like you are stuck, anxious, need a change, or doubting your self? Have you ever wanted someone non-judgmental to talk to? I know exactly what you're feeling: everyone has their opinions on decisions you make, just doing life is hard, constantly feeling on edge. All of these can be true AND let me see if I can help navigate some of that. Living in our society right now is really hard and I hope to collaborate with you to make living life a little easier.
(414) 436-5488 View (414) 436-5488
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Ryan Sershon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAC, MSW
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53146  (Online Only)
I am inspired by those who have overcome adversity in their lives and who are learning to work through their challenges, even when it is difficult. I specialize in working with adults, couples and adolescents facing depression, anxiety, substance use disorders, co-occurring disorders, mood disorders, anger and relationship issues.
I am inspired by those who have overcome adversity in their lives and who are learning to work through their challenges, even when it is difficult. I specialize in working with adults, couples and adolescents facing depression, anxiety, substance use disorders, co-occurring disorders, mood disorders, anger and relationship issues.
(262) 205-6492 View (262) 205-6492
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Fallyn E Duque
Art Therapist, MS, ATR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53188
I'm passionate about providing a safe and secure space for individuals, families, or partners who are willing to express emotions in a collaborative environment.
I'm passionate about providing a safe and secure space for individuals, families, or partners who are willing to express emotions in a collaborative environment.
(262) 732-5479 View (262) 732-5479
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Donald Lee Schade
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53186  (Online Only)
Donnie utilizes a solution-focused and client-centered approach that supports clients in setting and reaching personalized, obtainable goals that improve their overall wellbeing. He also draws on evidence-based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to teach clients coping skills and help them develop a better understanding of the connections between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With almost ten years of clinical practice, Donnie has abundant experience integrating these therapy modalities in a manner best suited to meet the needs of each client.
Donnie utilizes a solution-focused and client-centered approach that supports clients in setting and reaching personalized, obtainable goals that improve their overall wellbeing. He also draws on evidence-based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to teach clients coping skills and help them develop a better understanding of the connections between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With almost ten years of clinical practice, Donnie has abundant experience integrating these therapy modalities in a manner best suited to meet the needs of each client.
(920) 824-3949 View (920) 824-3949
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Claire Therese Stangl
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAC
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53186
Understanding that the mind, body, and spirit all play key roles in your well-being, I use a person-centered, integrative therapy approach that focuses on all areas of your life. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental working environment in order to establish a positive rapport and trusting, therapeutic relationship.
Understanding that the mind, body, and spirit all play key roles in your well-being, I use a person-centered, integrative therapy approach that focuses on all areas of your life. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental working environment in order to establish a positive rapport and trusting, therapeutic relationship.
(262) 537-5889 View (262) 537-5889
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Jennifer Larsen
Counselor, LPC-IT, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53186
I have a long history of working with those who have experienced; domestic violence, sexual abuse, trauma, relationship difficulties, sexual concerns, PTSD, as well as depression, anxiety, personality disorders and more. I work with men, women, and couples. I am a person-centered therapist who believes that clients are the experts of their own lives. I am honored to be invited to join my clients on their journey of healing and to offer a judgment free, supportive, and comfortable space for all of my clients to be themselves and explore their goals with me! Starting therapy is scary, I strive to make this a comfortable process.
I have a long history of working with those who have experienced; domestic violence, sexual abuse, trauma, relationship difficulties, sexual concerns, PTSD, as well as depression, anxiety, personality disorders and more. I work with men, women, and couples. I am a person-centered therapist who believes that clients are the experts of their own lives. I am honored to be invited to join my clients on their journey of healing and to offer a judgment free, supportive, and comfortable space for all of my clients to be themselves and explore their goals with me! Starting therapy is scary, I strive to make this a comfortable process.
(262) 300-7199 View (262) 300-7199
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April D. Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-IT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waukesha, WI 53146
Struggling with your child's depression or anxiety? Does your teen or pre-teen have intense moments of crisis? Are they having thoughts of harming themselves? If you are looking for answers or just feel lost in what to do next, let's do this together. Finding your way back to your child does not have to be done alone.Let me help you navigate your adolescent's world. Together we can rebuild trust and communication with your child.
Struggling with your child's depression or anxiety? Does your teen or pre-teen have intense moments of crisis? Are they having thoughts of harming themselves? If you are looking for answers or just feel lost in what to do next, let's do this together. Finding your way back to your child does not have to be done alone.Let me help you navigate your adolescent's world. Together we can rebuild trust and communication with your child.
(262) 393-4449 View (262) 393-4449
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Kelley Steeves
Counselor, MS, LPC-IT
Verified Verified
Waukesha, WI 53187
I have a passion for helping clients get unstuck from things holding them back. Whether it's finding and keeping relationships, worries about the future getting in the way of living life now, or past traumatic or unpleasant experiences that are keeping you up at night. I work best with adults and couples who are ready to dig into the work, coming out the other side with a life filled with joy and meaning. OCD, relationship issues, personality disorders, perinatal and postpartum women, anxiety, trauma and depression are my specialties.
I have a passion for helping clients get unstuck from things holding them back. Whether it's finding and keeping relationships, worries about the future getting in the way of living life now, or past traumatic or unpleasant experiences that are keeping you up at night. I work best with adults and couples who are ready to dig into the work, coming out the other side with a life filled with joy and meaning. OCD, relationship issues, personality disorders, perinatal and postpartum women, anxiety, trauma and depression are my specialties.
(262) 447-4676 View (262) 447-4676
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.