Marriage Counseling Therapists in Milwaukee County, WI
Robin Marie Monson-Dupuis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , SAC , RYT
Verified Verified
Greenfield, WI 53228
Trained as a marriage & family therapist; love helping heal fractured relationships.
I work with those who suffer from trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, and losses of all kinds. I specialize in working with law enforcement & their spouses/families. Clients want to move through their suffering toward some peace and find joy again in their lives. I help clients who are feeling disconnected from meaning in life find their purpose & discover the unique gifts they have to offer the world. Persons in life transitions are eager to explore this. Families/couples who are struggling with addiction, infidelity, or parenting difficulties are some of my favorite clients; we work together to instill harmony and tolerance.
Trained as a marriage & family therapist; love helping heal fractured relationships.
I work with those who suffer from trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, and losses of all kinds. I specialize in working with law enforcement & their spouses/families. Clients want to move through their suffering toward some peace and find joy again in their lives. I help clients who are feeling disconnected from meaning in life find their purpose & discover the unique gifts they have to offer the world. Persons in life transitions are eager to explore this. Families/couples who are struggling with addiction, infidelity, or parenting difficulties are some of my favorite clients; we work together to instill harmony and tolerance.
Mehwish Aqueel
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, LPC, MSc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53221
I have indepth experience and training in DBT Dialectical Behavior Therapy for treatment of Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorder, ADHD, PTSD, Trauma, Grief, Self-esteem, Stress, Anger-Management, Marriage Counseling, Parenting, Interpersonal Skills Development & Addiction.
“A JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP” (Tao Te Ching) I am a National Board Certified Counselor specialized in Evidence Based Treatment. My treatment philosophy is to help Adolescents, Adults and families manage stressful life situations, relational stressors, embrace change, acceptance and meet challenging goals.
I have indepth experience and training in DBT Dialectical Behavior Therapy for treatment of Depression, Anxiety, Mood Disorder, ADHD, PTSD, Trauma, Grief, Self-esteem, Stress, Anger-Management, Marriage Counseling, Parenting, Interpersonal Skills Development & Addiction.
“A JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP” (Tao Te Ching) I am a National Board Certified Counselor specialized in Evidence Based Treatment. My treatment philosophy is to help Adolescents, Adults and families manage stressful life situations, relational stressors, embrace change, acceptance and meet challenging goals.
Credentials MS - LPC (License Professional Counselor) Member of American Counseling Association- Member of the National Anger Management Association Associate Certified Coach(ACC) - Certified Christian Coach (CCC) - Certified Relationship Coach (CRC)- Relationship and Marriage Educator (RME) - Anger Management Certificate (AMC) - Conflict resolution- Prepare couples /Enrich.
I graduated from Concordia University, WI. There, I obtained a master's degree in Professional Counseling. I have a special interest in couple's therapy, healthy relationship training, and youth issues. I am a member of the National Anger Management Association, Anger Management certification, a certified relationship coach, and has been trained in multiple curriculum to help families achieve healthy relationship. Bilingual Spanish/English. I believe in the holistic approach to therapy, (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social and economical well-being). Friendly, culturally sensitive, solution focus, brief therapy, behavioral, and cognitive therapy approach. 414-405-1682 or miraclecounselingcoaching@gmail.com.
Credentials MS - LPC (License Professional Counselor) Member of American Counseling Association- Member of the National Anger Management Association Associate Certified Coach(ACC) - Certified Christian Coach (CCC) - Certified Relationship Coach (CRC)- Relationship and Marriage Educator (RME) - Anger Management Certificate (AMC) - Conflict resolution- Prepare couples /Enrich.
I graduated from Concordia University, WI. There, I obtained a master's degree in Professional Counseling. I have a special interest in couple's therapy, healthy relationship training, and youth issues. I am a member of the National Anger Management Association, Anger Management certification, a certified relationship coach, and has been trained in multiple curriculum to help families achieve healthy relationship. Bilingual Spanish/English. I believe in the holistic approach to therapy, (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social and economical well-being). Friendly, culturally sensitive, solution focus, brief therapy, behavioral, and cognitive therapy approach. 414-405-1682 or miraclecounselingcoaching@gmail.com.
David is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Substance Abuse Counselor who works with older teens and adults (age 17 years and up), families, and couples. He specializes in treating people suffering from drug, alcohol, and other forms of addiction. David has worked extensively with individuals and couples dealing with marital and child rearing difficulties. He also has extensive experience working with children and teens struggling with a wide range of issues including ADHD, school, attachment, divorce/separation, trauma, grief, anxiety, depression and conduct.
David is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Substance Abuse Counselor who works with older teens and adults (age 17 years and up), families, and couples. He specializes in treating people suffering from drug, alcohol, and other forms of addiction. David has worked extensively with individuals and couples dealing with marital and child rearing difficulties. He also has extensive experience working with children and teens struggling with a wide range of issues including ADHD, school, attachment, divorce/separation, trauma, grief, anxiety, depression and conduct.
I also work with same- and opposite-sex couples seeking to address a variety of problems and goals, including: relationship difficulties; conflict; lack of intimacy/feeling disconnected; infidelity, separation, divorce; disagreements about values, important life decisions, parenting style; improving communication; building a strong, loving relationship; adjusting to life events ( marriage, cohabitation, child birth, etc.
My approach to psychotherapy is focused on building a strong and collaborative relationship with you, the client, working with you to provide immediate symptom relief and make sustainable change. My style is warm, curious, and engaged. I provide a safe and confidential space for you to share your story. I am influenced by the psychodynamic tradition, focusing on how you relate to yourself and others. As you begin to feel understood, accepted, and more deeply known in therapy, a trusting therapeutic relationship develops. This results in greater self-understanding and leads to change, including immediate symptom relief and longer-term transformation.
I also work with same- and opposite-sex couples seeking to address a variety of problems and goals, including: relationship difficulties; conflict; lack of intimacy/feeling disconnected; infidelity, separation, divorce; disagreements about values, important life decisions, parenting style; improving communication; building a strong, loving relationship; adjusting to life events ( marriage, cohabitation, child birth, etc.
My approach to psychotherapy is focused on building a strong and collaborative relationship with you, the client, working with you to provide immediate symptom relief and make sustainable change. My style is warm, curious, and engaged. I provide a safe and confidential space for you to share your story. I am influenced by the psychodynamic tradition, focusing on how you relate to yourself and others. As you begin to feel understood, accepted, and more deeply known in therapy, a trusting therapeutic relationship develops. This results in greater self-understanding and leads to change, including immediate symptom relief and longer-term transformation.
Mark Hirschmann
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53217
" It is based, in large part, upon the wisdom in John Gottman's book, "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.
Do you miss the closeness you once had? Are you afraid that divorce may be on the horizon? I can help you renew a close loving relationship with your partner. I can teach you how to resolve conflicts effectively and reduce the likelihood of strong negative emotions getting out of control.
" It is based, in large part, upon the wisdom in John Gottman's book, "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.
Do you miss the closeness you once had? Are you afraid that divorce may be on the horizon? I can help you renew a close loving relationship with your partner. I can teach you how to resolve conflicts effectively and reduce the likelihood of strong negative emotions getting out of control.
I have been practicing child, marriage and family therapy for the last 25+ years.
Is anger that goes out of control ruining your life? Is depression driving you into the ground? Is your family life not going right? I can help you find solutions for above by working together with you. Life can be very stressful given the speed and options of society today. Sometimes you can get lost in this and it causes a disruption in your mental health. It helps to get and objective resource to help you find your way back to feeling more emotionally sound and in better control of your life.
I have been practicing child, marriage and family therapy for the last 25+ years.
Is anger that goes out of control ruining your life? Is depression driving you into the ground? Is your family life not going right? I can help you find solutions for above by working together with you. Life can be very stressful given the speed and options of society today. Sometimes you can get lost in this and it causes a disruption in your mental health. It helps to get and objective resource to help you find your way back to feeling more emotionally sound and in better control of your life.
Additionally, I specialize in Marriage and Family Therapy.
Is your anger getting in your way? Do you miss the closeness you once had with your partner? Are you afraid that the divorce may be on the horizon? Are your children struggling in school? Are you feeling sad? Is your child ignoring you ? Are you worried? Is life over whelming you? ***** If the answer is YES, I CAN HELP YOU REGAIN THE CONTROL YOU ONCE HAD OVER YOUR LIFE. ***** Please visit my website relationship-counseling-milwaukee.com
Additionally, I specialize in Marriage and Family Therapy.
Is your anger getting in your way? Do you miss the closeness you once had with your partner? Are you afraid that the divorce may be on the horizon? Are your children struggling in school? Are you feeling sad? Is your child ignoring you ? Are you worried? Is life over whelming you? ***** If the answer is YES, I CAN HELP YOU REGAIN THE CONTROL YOU ONCE HAD OVER YOUR LIFE. ***** Please visit my website relationship-counseling-milwaukee.com
Caitlin Myles Weber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Whitefish Bay, WI 53217
A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I help individuals and couples with their sex lives, relationship structures, conflict and communication, systemic oppressions, parenting, grief, family conflicts, infertility, pregnancy, perinatal, infidelity, trust building, life transitions, depression & anxiety.
I practice sex therapy, individual therapy, and couples therapy in southeastern Wisconsin. I also specialize in family building, queer families, pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting. I help clients ages 15-75 with issues in individual mental health, sex and sexuality, relationships, and family dynamics. Areas in sexuality I help people with include dissatisfaction with sex, sexual pain, desire and arousal issues, out of control sexual behavior, difficulty with orgasm, healthy sex after trauma, polyamory, swinging, kink, gender & orientation discovery. Health at Every Size aligned, ace spectrum affirming, neurodivergence specialized.
A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I help individuals and couples with their sex lives, relationship structures, conflict and communication, systemic oppressions, parenting, grief, family conflicts, infertility, pregnancy, perinatal, infidelity, trust building, life transitions, depression & anxiety.
I practice sex therapy, individual therapy, and couples therapy in southeastern Wisconsin. I also specialize in family building, queer families, pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting. I help clients ages 15-75 with issues in individual mental health, sex and sexuality, relationships, and family dynamics. Areas in sexuality I help people with include dissatisfaction with sex, sexual pain, desire and arousal issues, out of control sexual behavior, difficulty with orgasm, healthy sex after trauma, polyamory, swinging, kink, gender & orientation discovery. Health at Every Size aligned, ace spectrum affirming, neurodivergence specialized.
Blanche C Brown -- Your Best Self Therapy LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LPC, ATRL
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53222
I am a licensed psychotherapist/ marriage and family therapist who embraces the entire family system working with individuals, couples, and families.
What concerns are you struggling with that have negatively impacted your life? Have feelings of anxiety and depression become too overwhelming to manage? Or, are you a couple facing challenges causing you to question your commitment to each other? The person you are most intimate with may not know what you need in the relationship. Does your family fail to realize the unique connection they have with one another? Is there blaming and resentment because of unresolved conflicts? I am a compassionate professional who is invested in you and here to support you during your healing process
I am a licensed psychotherapist/ marriage and family therapist who embraces the entire family system working with individuals, couples, and families.
What concerns are you struggling with that have negatively impacted your life? Have feelings of anxiety and depression become too overwhelming to manage? Or, are you a couple facing challenges causing you to question your commitment to each other? The person you are most intimate with may not know what you need in the relationship. Does your family fail to realize the unique connection they have with one another? Is there blaming and resentment because of unresolved conflicts? I am a compassionate professional who is invested in you and here to support you during your healing process
Named twice by Milwaukee Magazine as one of Milwaukee area's top Psychotherapists for Sexual and Marital therapy.
As a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, my specialty is sex and marital therapy. In my practice I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing a variety of sexual problems. These include orgasmic dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain disorders, vaginismus, lack of interest in sex, and sexual addictions. I also do general marital therapy and general psychotherapy.
Named twice by Milwaukee Magazine as one of Milwaukee area's top Psychotherapists for Sexual and Marital therapy.
As a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, my specialty is sex and marital therapy. In my practice I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing a variety of sexual problems. These include orgasmic dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain disorders, vaginismus, lack of interest in sex, and sexual addictions. I also do general marital therapy and general psychotherapy.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, APSW, LCSW-IT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wauwatosa, WI 53226
Are you experiencing challenges as a result of depression, anxiety, grief, parenting, marital communication and intimacy, substance abuse, negative self image, complicated life transitions and self doubt? In our therapeutic work together, combining aspects of somatic experiences, mindfulness, solution focused goal setting, emotional processing, acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques and dialectical behavior therapy, you will experience a reduction in anxiety and negative thought patterns. You will benefit from an improvement in communication tactics within your relationships and your overall wellness!
Are you experiencing challenges as a result of depression, anxiety, grief, parenting, marital communication and intimacy, substance abuse, negative self image, complicated life transitions and self doubt? In our therapeutic work together, combining aspects of somatic experiences, mindfulness, solution focused goal setting, emotional processing, acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques and dialectical behavior therapy, you will experience a reduction in anxiety and negative thought patterns. You will benefit from an improvement in communication tactics within your relationships and your overall wellness!
AMRI Counseling Services
Counselor, PhD, DSW, LPC, CSAC, CTTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53216
Services include Mental Health Counseling, Substance Abuse Counseling, Drug & Alcohol Testing, Marriage & Family Therapy, Anger Management, Medical & Medication Services, Pharmacy Services, Daily Living Skills, Parenting, Offender Reentry Programs and more.
Providing Quality Mental Health Counseling, Alcohol and Drug Counseling, medical/medication services, pharmacy services, and family support services such as housing, daily living skills, educational/ academic services, parenting and nurturing to children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. ***We accept most ALL insurances and private pay*** Call us at 414-455-3879 or email us at clinic@amricounseling.com to schedule an appointment.
Services include Mental Health Counseling, Substance Abuse Counseling, Drug & Alcohol Testing, Marriage & Family Therapy, Anger Management, Medical & Medication Services, Pharmacy Services, Daily Living Skills, Parenting, Offender Reentry Programs and more.
Providing Quality Mental Health Counseling, Alcohol and Drug Counseling, medical/medication services, pharmacy services, and family support services such as housing, daily living skills, educational/ academic services, parenting and nurturing to children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. ***We accept most ALL insurances and private pay*** Call us at 414-455-3879 or email us at clinic@amricounseling.com to schedule an appointment.
I understand the pain and heartache you may be dealing with whether it's trying to salvage a marriage or your own mental/emotional health.
Has your "I do" turned into "I'm not sure"? Or perhaps you've discovered the love you have for your spouse doesn't seem to be enough? Maybe feelings of emptiness are overpowering every area of your life? You want relief from those feelings of loneliness and emptiness, but it seems you can't seem to find it.
I understand the pain and heartache you may be dealing with whether it's trying to salvage a marriage or your own mental/emotional health.
Has your "I do" turned into "I'm not sure"? Or perhaps you've discovered the love you have for your spouse doesn't seem to be enough? Maybe feelings of emptiness are overpowering every area of your life? You want relief from those feelings of loneliness and emptiness, but it seems you can't seem to find it.
Taking that first step into counseling can be a daunting task. At Shoreside we will make those first steps as smooth as possible. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, marital issues, life adjustments or any other issues that are challenging our goal is promote your health and well being in a way that suits you. We have seasoned compassionate professionals that treat clients of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations. We will meet you on your journey to better health exactly where you are and work together to provide you with the necessary tools to reach your goals.
Taking that first step into counseling can be a daunting task. At Shoreside we will make those first steps as smooth as possible. Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, marital issues, life adjustments or any other issues that are challenging our goal is promote your health and well being in a way that suits you. We have seasoned compassionate professionals that treat clients of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations. We will meet you on your journey to better health exactly where you are and work together to provide you with the necessary tools to reach your goals.
C & C Therapy LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MEd, MFT-IT
Verified Verified
Milwaukee, WI 53222 (Online Only)
I'm currently a Marriage and Family Therapist I-T.
They don't understand you, and you're doing your best. I'm here to help you with strategies to communicate and heal from the pain.
I'm currently a Marriage and Family Therapist I-T.
They don't understand you, and you're doing your best. I'm here to help you with strategies to communicate and heal from the pain.
David C Low
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSE, MA, LPC, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53217
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) specifically trained to provide couples counseling, family therapy and mediation.
Are you concerned that your relationship is drifting apart and you can't seem to get back that romantic love, friendship, closeness, emotional connection, comfort, support, and intimacy? Do you feel stuck again and again in similar misunderstanding and hurtful arguments, not being able to resolve your differences? Have your efforts to solve your relationship problems left you feeling so resentful, checked out, disheartened, disappointed and worn down and you are realizing that you are tired of feeling so alone and don't want to keep living like this? If you answered, “yes” to any of the above, I would like to help.
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) specifically trained to provide couples counseling, family therapy and mediation.
Are you concerned that your relationship is drifting apart and you can't seem to get back that romantic love, friendship, closeness, emotional connection, comfort, support, and intimacy? Do you feel stuck again and again in similar misunderstanding and hurtful arguments, not being able to resolve your differences? Have your efforts to solve your relationship problems left you feeling so resentful, checked out, disheartened, disappointed and worn down and you are realizing that you are tired of feeling so alone and don't want to keep living like this? If you answered, “yes” to any of the above, I would like to help.
Kimberly Genger Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wauwatosa, WI 53226 (Online Only)
If the problems in your life/ marriage feel hopeless have no fear.
As the state's only certified Christian Sex Therapist, I bring an important perspective to people struggling with sexual issues no matter where you live in WI. As a Marriage and Family therapist I can also help clients heal and deal with issues that are effecting the marriage or intimacy - whether communication or sexual desire. For individuals suffering from Sexual Trauma and Sex Addictions I have found the use of the highly experiential model, Internal Family Systems - to be extremely helpful and deeply impactful for healing.
If the problems in your life/ marriage feel hopeless have no fear.
As the state's only certified Christian Sex Therapist, I bring an important perspective to people struggling with sexual issues no matter where you live in WI. As a Marriage and Family therapist I can also help clients heal and deal with issues that are effecting the marriage or intimacy - whether communication or sexual desire. For individuals suffering from Sexual Trauma and Sex Addictions I have found the use of the highly experiential model, Internal Family Systems - to be extremely helpful and deeply impactful for healing.
The clinic’s experienced staff includes psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, psychologists, clinical social workers, professional counselors, marriage & family therapists, and psychoanalysts.
Overwhelmed during a challenging time? We at the Lighthouse Clinic, realize that even the strongest of us can be under an extra burden of anxiety and fear. Uncertainty and apprehension can take over. Talking to a therapist about your concerns can lessen the feelings of distress at this time of high-anxiety. Our new Child Psychiatrist, Child Therapists and Adult Therapists also has immediate openings for medication management. Please contact us for an appointment.
The clinic’s experienced staff includes psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, psychologists, clinical social workers, professional counselors, marriage & family therapists, and psychoanalysts.
Overwhelmed during a challenging time? We at the Lighthouse Clinic, realize that even the strongest of us can be under an extra burden of anxiety and fear. Uncertainty and apprehension can take over. Talking to a therapist about your concerns can lessen the feelings of distress at this time of high-anxiety. Our new Child Psychiatrist, Child Therapists and Adult Therapists also has immediate openings for medication management. Please contact us for an appointment.
My name is Kimberley Welk and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing telehealth services from Green Bay, WI. I work with adults (primarily women) and couples and specialize in relationship issues and trauma using a combination of Gottman, DBT, and Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and a combination of CBT, DBT, Polyvagal, and EMDR when working with trauma. My approach to therapy varies based on the client I work with. I feel it is important to get to know my client(s) and then use a combination of techniques to help them meet their goal.
My name is Kimberley Welk and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing telehealth services from Green Bay, WI. I work with adults (primarily women) and couples and specialize in relationship issues and trauma using a combination of Gottman, DBT, and Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and a combination of CBT, DBT, Polyvagal, and EMDR when working with trauma. My approach to therapy varies based on the client I work with. I feel it is important to get to know my client(s) and then use a combination of techniques to help them meet their goal.
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Marriage Counseling Therapists
How does marriage counseling work?
Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.
How long does marriage counseling typically last?
Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.
Is marriage counseling effective?
Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.
Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.