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Renae Marler
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CMHS
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201
We all want to feel better & have thriving relationships, but our life experiences have a direct impact on that. Whether you're an individual with unresolved trauma, a first responder whose job is affecting their personal life, or a couple struggling to communicate or with infidelity, for example. Conflict & residual trauma can cause a loss of connection over time with those we love. And trauma left untreated can cause heightened reactions, like anger or fear, or the opposite - emotional detachment. You may notice feeling sad or irritable, have nightmares, or struggle with trust. The effects are different for each person.
We all want to feel better & have thriving relationships, but our life experiences have a direct impact on that. Whether you're an individual with unresolved trauma, a first responder whose job is affecting their personal life, or a couple struggling to communicate or with infidelity, for example. Conflict & residual trauma can cause a loss of connection over time with those we love. And trauma left untreated can cause heightened reactions, like anger or fear, or the opposite - emotional detachment. You may notice feeling sad or irritable, have nightmares, or struggle with trust. The effects are different for each person.
(509) 792-3289 View (509) 792-3289
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Don L Campbell
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CSTIP
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99212
I’m here to help with: Intimacy Struggles, Desire Discrepancy, Affairs, Communication Skills & Relational Exercises, Emotional Regulation in Vulnerable Conversations, Relational Contracts, Creating Meaning, Mutual Development of Expectations/Wants/Needs, & Creating Better Sex in Your Relationship.
Hi, I’m Don Campbell, a Couples and Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP). Looking for someone that will help with intimacy and relational struggles? Wanting to find solutions for conflicts surrounding your sex life? Are you trying to heal your relationship or yourself after an affair? Or maybe you are struggling on your own about sexual desire or concerns about sex and intimacy in general?
I’m here to help with: Intimacy Struggles, Desire Discrepancy, Affairs, Communication Skills & Relational Exercises, Emotional Regulation in Vulnerable Conversations, Relational Contracts, Creating Meaning, Mutual Development of Expectations/Wants/Needs, & Creating Better Sex in Your Relationship.
Hi, I’m Don Campbell, a Couples and Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP). Looking for someone that will help with intimacy and relational struggles? Wanting to find solutions for conflicts surrounding your sex life? Are you trying to heal your relationship or yourself after an affair? Or maybe you are struggling on your own about sexual desire or concerns about sex and intimacy in general?
(509) 646-7322 View (509) 646-7322
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Nathan Henry Berghorst
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99202
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed by the Idaho Department of Occupational Licensing. I have been in private practice since 2012. My passion is the restoration of the marriage relationship, even when it may seem that all is lost (especially as it relates to infidelity and trust). I am well-versed in the treatment of most mental health issues (especially depression and anxiety). I also am now providing EMDR therapy.
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed by the Idaho Department of Occupational Licensing. I have been in private practice since 2012. My passion is the restoration of the marriage relationship, even when it may seem that all is lost (especially as it relates to infidelity and trust). I am well-versed in the treatment of most mental health issues (especially depression and anxiety). I also am now providing EMDR therapy.
(208) 268-6759 View (208) 268-6759
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Monique Chhabra
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99201  (Online Only)
I prioritize providing a safe and healing space for you to process through the depths of life’s challenges and stressors. I believe therapy is a collaborative process where we work together to explore and unpack the challenges that are keeping you from experiencing a deeper sense of well-being, emotional health and fulfillment. Some of my specialty areas include helping individual through various life transitions, marital/relationship issues and/or infidelity, self esteem/self worth, family dynamics, grief/loss, emotional literacy and regulation, communication skills, people pleasing and the parenthood vs. childfree transition.
I prioritize providing a safe and healing space for you to process through the depths of life’s challenges and stressors. I believe therapy is a collaborative process where we work together to explore and unpack the challenges that are keeping you from experiencing a deeper sense of well-being, emotional health and fulfillment. Some of my specialty areas include helping individual through various life transitions, marital/relationship issues and/or infidelity, self esteem/self worth, family dynamics, grief/loss, emotional literacy and regulation, communication skills, people pleasing and the parenthood vs. childfree transition.
(206) 488-0831 View (206) 488-0831
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Heidi Halsey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99201  (Online Only)
Experience includes- individuals, teens, adults, couples & families in areas such as marriage, divorce, blending families, substance abuse, affairs, grief, depression, anxiety, communication, issues arising from various family stage transitions, childhood issues, abuse, suicidality, work and extended family issues, PTSD, ADHD & Deafness.
ONLY TELE THERAPY - sessions open this week. Teletherapy sessions for people 25 and older - in Washington State. Register & schedule, 24 hours a day at www.heidihalsey.com. Appointments Tuesday - Thursday & Saturday this week and Monday & Friday after the first appointment. I am not a therapist who says "uh huh", "uh-huh" and "I'll see you next week". I will ask questions to find the root of what you want to change or understand. I make suggestions & teach skills as a respectful professional while maintaining your confidentiality. My website www.heidihalsey.com has a lot of information about how I work and what insurances I accept.
Experience includes- individuals, teens, adults, couples & families in areas such as marriage, divorce, blending families, substance abuse, affairs, grief, depression, anxiety, communication, issues arising from various family stage transitions, childhood issues, abuse, suicidality, work and extended family issues, PTSD, ADHD & Deafness.
ONLY TELE THERAPY - sessions open this week. Teletherapy sessions for people 25 and older - in Washington State. Register & schedule, 24 hours a day at www.heidihalsey.com. Appointments Tuesday - Thursday & Saturday this week and Monday & Friday after the first appointment. I am not a therapist who says "uh huh", "uh-huh" and "I'll see you next week". I will ask questions to find the root of what you want to change or understand. I make suggestions & teach skills as a respectful professional while maintaining your confidentiality. My website www.heidihalsey.com has a lot of information about how I work and what insurances I accept.
(253) 214-9934 View (253) 214-9934
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Anna Sandell
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99218
Waitlist for new clients
My heart is for those struggling in their relationships. At our core, we as humans are built with a craving for connection. However, just because the need is innate doesn't mean it is easy - in fact experiencing relationships that heal and last can be the exact opposite. You may be in a season where your relationships feel stuck, hopeless, hurtful, and frustrating. The way towards peace and revitalization can seem distant if not impossible. I see you and want to join you in your journey towards meaningful and authentic connection. Whichever relationship it may be, with the self, your family, or a partner, it is time for restoration.
My heart is for those struggling in their relationships. At our core, we as humans are built with a craving for connection. However, just because the need is innate doesn't mean it is easy - in fact experiencing relationships that heal and last can be the exact opposite. You may be in a season where your relationships feel stuck, hopeless, hurtful, and frustrating. The way towards peace and revitalization can seem distant if not impossible. I see you and want to join you in your journey towards meaningful and authentic connection. Whichever relationship it may be, with the self, your family, or a partner, it is time for restoration.
(509) 778-5262 View (509) 778-5262
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Taneisha Lybbert
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99202
It is my utmost aspiration to meet each wonderfully unique client with the support and genuineness that is so essential to an effective therapeutic alliance. I believe that we all have the strength to overcome and endure but, at times, need an open heart and ear to bear witness to our trials and understand our emotions. My approach to therapy is providing a safe, nonjudgmental space where each client can work alongside me to develop effective skills and strategies that will result in positive life changes.
It is my utmost aspiration to meet each wonderfully unique client with the support and genuineness that is so essential to an effective therapeutic alliance. I believe that we all have the strength to overcome and endure but, at times, need an open heart and ear to bear witness to our trials and understand our emotions. My approach to therapy is providing a safe, nonjudgmental space where each client can work alongside me to develop effective skills and strategies that will result in positive life changes.
(509) 418-4484 View (509) 418-4484
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Maegan McClanahan
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99203  (Online Only)
We all seek help for different reasons. I see my job as a therapist to help guide you towards the life you wish to live. To do this, together we will develop a personalized treatment plan to help you realign with your values and progress towards your goals, whether this is in the context of relationships, new transitions, or difficult periods of time. I work with a wide variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, adjustment disorders, PTSD, attachment issues, marital conflict, and many more.
We all seek help for different reasons. I see my job as a therapist to help guide you towards the life you wish to live. To do this, together we will develop a personalized treatment plan to help you realign with your values and progress towards your goals, whether this is in the context of relationships, new transitions, or difficult periods of time. I work with a wide variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, adjustment disorders, PTSD, attachment issues, marital conflict, and many more.
(509) 265-6016 View (509) 265-6016
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Conner Schilling
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99218
Welcome! My name is Conner. I am passionate about stories, life being the greatest of them all. Sometimes along the way you feel stuck, trapped in a world that feels exhausting, confusing, even unbearable. These feelings may be new to you, whereby you find yourself in uncharted territory at a critical moment in time, unsure of what to do. Or perhaps you have found yourself in this position previously, wondering why these feelings keep resurfacing. The best part about this story of life is that what happens next has yet to be written.
Welcome! My name is Conner. I am passionate about stories, life being the greatest of them all. Sometimes along the way you feel stuck, trapped in a world that feels exhausting, confusing, even unbearable. These feelings may be new to you, whereby you find yourself in uncharted territory at a critical moment in time, unsure of what to do. Or perhaps you have found yourself in this position previously, wondering why these feelings keep resurfacing. The best part about this story of life is that what happens next has yet to be written.
(509) 246-6235 View (509) 246-6235
Photo of Sara Garcia, MA, LMFTA, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Sara Garcia
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99202
If you’re feeling overwhelmed & anxious about the present, stuck or fearful of the future, or lost in grieving the past, you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. Your grief, pain, sorrows, and disappointments are worthy of care and attention. I am passionate about walking alongside individuals and couples navigating life's challenges & I'm particularly passionate about helping couples experience secure bonding that lasts a lifetime. I absolutely love helping couples understand and transform their emotional responses, creating deeper connections and secure attachments, without either person having to sacrifice who they are.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed & anxious about the present, stuck or fearful of the future, or lost in grieving the past, you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. Your grief, pain, sorrows, and disappointments are worthy of care and attention. I am passionate about walking alongside individuals and couples navigating life's challenges & I'm particularly passionate about helping couples experience secure bonding that lasts a lifetime. I absolutely love helping couples understand and transform their emotional responses, creating deeper connections and secure attachments, without either person having to sacrifice who they are.
(509) 550-0412 View (509) 550-0412
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Jaeden Roberts Healing Arts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CHT
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome to Jaeden Roberts Counseling & Alternative Therapies. I work with adults and children, providing individual & family sessions, as well as teaching classes. My approach is holistic, and I see my role as helping clients cultivate their natural strengths and capacities for healing, gain skills/tools to address problematic dynamics and stressors, and address and resolve past trauma. I believe wholeheartedly in the connection between body and mind, and I work to ensure that healing takes place at all levels. All services are strictly confidential, of course. Some sessions available online (via Facetime or email), based on your needs/preference.
Welcome to Jaeden Roberts Counseling & Alternative Therapies. I work with adults and children, providing individual & family sessions, as well as teaching classes. My approach is holistic, and I see my role as helping clients cultivate their natural strengths and capacities for healing, gain skills/tools to address problematic dynamics and stressors, and address and resolve past trauma. I believe wholeheartedly in the connection between body and mind, and I work to ensure that healing takes place at all levels. All services are strictly confidential, of course. Some sessions available online (via Facetime or email), based on your needs/preference.
(509) 215-2670 View (509) 215-2670
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Dr. Evelyn Mosley Mental Health Associates, PLLC
MHCI, RMFTI, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201  (Online Only)
Dr. Evelyn Mosley-Brooks founded Dr. Evelyn Mosley Mental Health Associates, PLLC. The telehealth practice specializes in providing services to teenagers and adults for Trauma, Grief, Anxiety, Depression, Family Trauma, ADHD, Autism, Substance Abuse, LGBTQ-friendly, and PTSD. The practice offers various therapeutic modalities to address areas of concern, such as depression, anxiety, grief work, midlife crisis, postpartum challenges, and other related issues. The practice is equipped with the latest technology to deliver reliable and effective mental health services.
Dr. Evelyn Mosley-Brooks founded Dr. Evelyn Mosley Mental Health Associates, PLLC. The telehealth practice specializes in providing services to teenagers and adults for Trauma, Grief, Anxiety, Depression, Family Trauma, ADHD, Autism, Substance Abuse, LGBTQ-friendly, and PTSD. The practice offers various therapeutic modalities to address areas of concern, such as depression, anxiety, grief work, midlife crisis, postpartum challenges, and other related issues. The practice is equipped with the latest technology to deliver reliable and effective mental health services.
(509) 350-4568 View (509) 350-4568
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Cassandra Nolan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99202
Hi, I’m Cassie. I specialize in working with adults and couples, focusing on anxiety, relational issues, interpersonal conflict, and stress management related to life adjustments. With a warm and collaborative approach, I prioritize building a strong therapeutic relationship based on trust and mutual respect. My therapeutic style is relaxed and gently direct, creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel heard and supported. I believe that my role as a therapist is not to “fix” you, but rather empower you by providing you with tools to identify alternative perspectives and restructure unhealthy patterns.
Hi, I’m Cassie. I specialize in working with adults and couples, focusing on anxiety, relational issues, interpersonal conflict, and stress management related to life adjustments. With a warm and collaborative approach, I prioritize building a strong therapeutic relationship based on trust and mutual respect. My therapeutic style is relaxed and gently direct, creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel heard and supported. I believe that my role as a therapist is not to “fix” you, but rather empower you by providing you with tools to identify alternative perspectives and restructure unhealthy patterns.
(509) 245-2748 View (509) 245-2748
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Linzi Cody
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201
I enjoy working with older adolescents and adults. I provide support and help with a variety of issues including; depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, work and school stress, relationship challenges, health and wellness, spirituality, and life transitions. I also enjoy and specialize in working with pregnant women and new parents. My role is to offer support during the adjustment of adding a new member to the family and all of the emotions that come with this major life event. I am experienced in the treatment of perinatal and post-partum mood complications that can arise during and after pregnancy.
I enjoy working with older adolescents and adults. I provide support and help with a variety of issues including; depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, work and school stress, relationship challenges, health and wellness, spirituality, and life transitions. I also enjoy and specialize in working with pregnant women and new parents. My role is to offer support during the adjustment of adding a new member to the family and all of the emotions that come with this major life event. I am experienced in the treatment of perinatal and post-partum mood complications that can arise during and after pregnancy.
(509) 321-4899 View (509) 321-4899
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Cathy Wines - Transformative Connections, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99203
Current availability: Wednesdays at 12 pm/noon and 1:30 pm. We can all benefit from a connection with another person who can help us navigate through life’s challenges. I believe that each one of us has an innate capacity to heal and grow. My therapeutic approach is non-judgmental, trauma-sensitive, and strengths-based. I promote a safe exploration of presenting concerns, past difficulties, and desired outcomes through a collaborative process individualized to each client. I have experience/training in helping others in a variety of areas – specializing in anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges.
Current availability: Wednesdays at 12 pm/noon and 1:30 pm. We can all benefit from a connection with another person who can help us navigate through life’s challenges. I believe that each one of us has an innate capacity to heal and grow. My therapeutic approach is non-judgmental, trauma-sensitive, and strengths-based. I promote a safe exploration of presenting concerns, past difficulties, and desired outcomes through a collaborative process individualized to each client. I have experience/training in helping others in a variety of areas – specializing in anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges.
(509) 341-0571 View (509) 341-0571
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Jessica Valdez
Pre-Licensed Professional, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201  (Online Only)
When our mind, body, and soul are aligned, we experience balance, which has a positive impact on our emotional and psychological well-being. I will support you in navigating thoughts and feelings that have harmed your personal life. My goal is to guide you in reaching your fullest potential and discovering the best version of yourself. Utilizing mindful techniques, I will assist you in shifting your thoughts from the past and future, and into the present moment. Working together, you will learn how to experience life in the here and now, and you will begin taking control of what matters the most, your life.
When our mind, body, and soul are aligned, we experience balance, which has a positive impact on our emotional and psychological well-being. I will support you in navigating thoughts and feelings that have harmed your personal life. My goal is to guide you in reaching your fullest potential and discovering the best version of yourself. Utilizing mindful techniques, I will assist you in shifting your thoughts from the past and future, and into the present moment. Working together, you will learn how to experience life in the here and now, and you will begin taking control of what matters the most, your life.
(509) 834-7939 x9704 View (509) 834-7939 x9704
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Jessica M Evans
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99202
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families navigate the complexities of relationships and personal growth. My approach is grounded in empathy, active listening, and evidence-based therapeutic techniques designed to foster understanding, healing, and positive change, while including a faith-based perspective. I hold a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Whitworth University and am a member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT).
As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate, I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families navigate the complexities of relationships and personal growth. My approach is grounded in empathy, active listening, and evidence-based therapeutic techniques designed to foster understanding, healing, and positive change, while including a faith-based perspective. I hold a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Whitworth University and am a member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT).
(509) 286-2820 View (509) 286-2820
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Ward Robak
Psychologist, PhD, BCC
Verified Verified
Spokane, WA 99201
There is no substitute for tending to our personal and relational experiences; it is likely the reason you are reading this. Welcome! From my experience, when we desire a deeper engagement with life or significant problems arise, often something within us wants our attention. When we pay attention to our feelings and actions rather than focus on events or people, we frequently discover the "How" of creative change. Sometimes change means behaving in unfamiliar ways, adapting to limitations, or relating differently to our partner. Hence, my approach embraces the wisdom and direction that problems and desires provide within each person.
There is no substitute for tending to our personal and relational experiences; it is likely the reason you are reading this. Welcome! From my experience, when we desire a deeper engagement with life or significant problems arise, often something within us wants our attention. When we pay attention to our feelings and actions rather than focus on events or people, we frequently discover the "How" of creative change. Sometimes change means behaving in unfamiliar ways, adapting to limitations, or relating differently to our partner. Hence, my approach embraces the wisdom and direction that problems and desires provide within each person.
(509) 397-7708 View (509) 397-7708
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Ignacio Counseling, LLC
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99218
Everyone needs a safe place to express their thoughts, feelings, hopes and fears. Sometimes that means seeking out a professional. Someone who can listen, support, and assist in helping to overcome obstacles or reduce emotional pain. This is my ultimate goal for everyone with whom I work. I have been working in the field of counseling for 18 years and have experience working with a wide variety of individuals. Some need help adjusting to a life change. Others have experienced significant trauma or struggle with suicidal thoughts. Mostly, I am here to meet you where you are at and to help you reach your goals.
Everyone needs a safe place to express their thoughts, feelings, hopes and fears. Sometimes that means seeking out a professional. Someone who can listen, support, and assist in helping to overcome obstacles or reduce emotional pain. This is my ultimate goal for everyone with whom I work. I have been working in the field of counseling for 18 years and have experience working with a wide variety of individuals. Some need help adjusting to a life change. Others have experienced significant trauma or struggle with suicidal thoughts. Mostly, I am here to meet you where you are at and to help you reach your goals.
(509) 822-5812 View (509) 822-5812
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Aislinn Moira Noone
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Spokane, WA 99202
Sometimes life can feel like a rollercoaster that we somehow can’t seem to exit, don’t know how we got on it in the first place, and are then having to white knuckle it as best as possible. That is why I went into this field to not only learn tools to help others work through challenges, but also provide a space to feel safe, seen, and fully understood without judgement. My goal as a therapist is to walk alongside you, help you grow, and help curate security with yourself, your relationships, and feel more emotionally balanced.
Sometimes life can feel like a rollercoaster that we somehow can’t seem to exit, don’t know how we got on it in the first place, and are then having to white knuckle it as best as possible. That is why I went into this field to not only learn tools to help others work through challenges, but also provide a space to feel safe, seen, and fully understood without judgement. My goal as a therapist is to walk alongside you, help you grow, and help curate security with yourself, your relationships, and feel more emotionally balanced.
(509) 778-5508 View (509) 778-5508
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.