Emotionally Focused Therapists in Spokane Valley, WA

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Ben Mandel
Counselor, MC61310
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99212
Counseling is a wonderful step toward desired change, and it can also be a bit daunting at first. That's why I take time to form the therapeutic relationship at a pace that is comfortable for you. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and other various presenting problems. I am especially passionate about helping clients with relationship issues. We often engage in patterns that leave us feeling isolated or frustrated in our relationships. Learning new ways to tune into ourselves and our partner can help ease feelings of distress and improve connectedness.
Counseling is a wonderful step toward desired change, and it can also be a bit daunting at first. That's why I take time to form the therapeutic relationship at a pace that is comfortable for you. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and other various presenting problems. I am especially passionate about helping clients with relationship issues. We often engage in patterns that leave us feeling isolated or frustrated in our relationships. Learning new ways to tune into ourselves and our partner can help ease feelings of distress and improve connectedness.
(509) 204-9782 View (509) 204-9782
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Mariann “Annie” Kinkle
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
I integrate techniques from several counseling modalities including Attachment theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Theory, Bowenian Family Therapy, Structural Family Therapy, Person-Centered Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
Welcome to my profile. I currently work with individuals struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, PTSD, emotional regulation, trauma, grief, low self-worth and life transition issues. I am skilled in working with individuals, couples, or families where there is a history of childhood trauma or attachment injuries that are negatively impacting functioning. I work with couples to manage communication and conflict and help improve relationship bonds. I help families develop healthy boundaries, reduce stress and conflict, increase empathy, and improve interactions between family members.
I integrate techniques from several counseling modalities including Attachment theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Theory, Bowenian Family Therapy, Structural Family Therapy, Person-Centered Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
Welcome to my profile. I currently work with individuals struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, PTSD, emotional regulation, trauma, grief, low self-worth and life transition issues. I am skilled in working with individuals, couples, or families where there is a history of childhood trauma or attachment injuries that are negatively impacting functioning. I work with couples to manage communication and conflict and help improve relationship bonds. I help families develop healthy boundaries, reduce stress and conflict, increase empathy, and improve interactions between family members.
(509) 341-0723 View (509) 341-0723
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Mikayla Logue
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99212
I integrate a multitude of modalities including ACT, Narrative, and EFT that will best help you reach your goals.
Life can be beautiful, challenging, inspiring, overwhelming, everything in between. Through life’s challenges, I believe there are opportunities for growth and healing through self-compassion, flexibility, and courage. As a counselor, I strive to step in and walk with you, wherever you are in your journey. Just as life is unique to the individual, the counseling journey is also personal to you. believe through exploring past patterns and creating flexibility to lean into the discomfort. Together we can dismantle disenfranchising stories and replace them with new and empowering stories that are aligned with your personal values.
I integrate a multitude of modalities including ACT, Narrative, and EFT that will best help you reach your goals.
Life can be beautiful, challenging, inspiring, overwhelming, everything in between. Through life’s challenges, I believe there are opportunities for growth and healing through self-compassion, flexibility, and courage. As a counselor, I strive to step in and walk with you, wherever you are in your journey. Just as life is unique to the individual, the counseling journey is also personal to you. believe through exploring past patterns and creating flexibility to lean into the discomfort. Together we can dismantle disenfranchising stories and replace them with new and empowering stories that are aligned with your personal values.
(509) 286-2310 x07 View (509) 286-2310 x07
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Jordyn Claire Kuttner
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate; drawing from various therapeutic models like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma Focused-CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and using elements from DBT, CPT, Play-Therapy, and IFS, I tailor our sessions to your unique needs. I have experience working with individuals who have anxiety, depression, sexual assault/childhood sexual assault survivors, and complex PTSD. Gottman Institute Level 2 Certified therapist and I'm trained in Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) core skills. Furthermore, my ongoing training in EMDR.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate; drawing from various therapeutic models like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma Focused-CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and using elements from DBT, CPT, Play-Therapy, and IFS, I tailor our sessions to your unique needs. I have experience working with individuals who have anxiety, depression, sexual assault/childhood sexual assault survivors, and complex PTSD. Gottman Institute Level 2 Certified therapist and I'm trained in Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) core skills. Furthermore, my ongoing training in EMDR.
(509) 236-8247 View (509) 236-8247
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Whitney Baker
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
In our sessions, we'll explore these challenges together, using approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) that is specifically designed to address the roots of emotional distress and relational difficulties.
If you're finding yourself here, perhaps you're navigating through a period of anxiety, facing the echoes of past traumas, or you're in the midst of life changes that feel overwhelmingly complex. You might be someone who values deep, meaningful relationships, yet finds yourself struggling with creating or maintaining these connections, whether with a partner, family members, or within your circle of friends. If these words resonate with you, know that you're not alone in these experiences.
In our sessions, we'll explore these challenges together, using approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) that is specifically designed to address the roots of emotional distress and relational difficulties.
If you're finding yourself here, perhaps you're navigating through a period of anxiety, facing the echoes of past traumas, or you're in the midst of life changes that feel overwhelmingly complex. You might be someone who values deep, meaningful relationships, yet finds yourself struggling with creating or maintaining these connections, whether with a partner, family members, or within your circle of friends. If these words resonate with you, know that you're not alone in these experiences.
(208) 408-8961 View (208) 408-8961
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Casidhe Agrella
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99206  (Online Only)
Among these are neuroscience, mindfulness, CBT, DBT, multicultural therapy, EFT, and Gottman's couple's therapy.
Life can be stressful at times! I believe that everyone could use some extra help and support at some point in their lives. You have a safe place to discuss your unique troubles, challenges, and goals with me. Get support in making the changes you desire! Work on achieving your goals and improving your quality of life all around.
Among these are neuroscience, mindfulness, CBT, DBT, multicultural therapy, EFT, and Gottman's couple's therapy.
Life can be stressful at times! I believe that everyone could use some extra help and support at some point in their lives. You have a safe place to discuss your unique troubles, challenges, and goals with me. Get support in making the changes you desire! Work on achieving your goals and improving your quality of life all around.
(509) 739-3594 View (509) 739-3594
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Justin Tillery
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LMFT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
Waitlist for new clients
Having completed training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, I specialize in helping couples identify and overcome their pattern of disconnection by cultivating a secure emotional bond.
Do you feel disconnected? Do you feel a wall between you and a loved one? Do you feel like you are going around and around in circles but never moving forward? When clients come to see me they often feel hurt, numb, confused, frustrated, lost, or alone. I help clients identify the negative patterns they get caught in, connect with themselves and those they care about most, and support them in finding new solutions to old problems.
Having completed training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, I specialize in helping couples identify and overcome their pattern of disconnection by cultivating a secure emotional bond.
Do you feel disconnected? Do you feel a wall between you and a loved one? Do you feel like you are going around and around in circles but never moving forward? When clients come to see me they often feel hurt, numb, confused, frustrated, lost, or alone. I help clients identify the negative patterns they get caught in, connect with themselves and those they care about most, and support them in finding new solutions to old problems.
(509) 397-7636 View (509) 397-7636
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Michael Chessar Counseling Service
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LMFT, NCC
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
My practice is evidence based emphasizing modalities including; Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Terapy and Psycho-Dynamic therapy specifically tailored to YOUR needs and goals.
You deserve to live a full enriching life. Here you have the opportunity to be heard in a safe confidential setting. Here you can gain confidence, effectiveness and self expression in relationships and area's of life important to you, Don't let anxiety, depression or the past stop you. I enjoy and appreciate working with Individuals, Couples and Families on their journey. I invite you to try a FREE TELEPHONE CONSULTATION.
My practice is evidence based emphasizing modalities including; Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Terapy and Psycho-Dynamic therapy specifically tailored to YOUR needs and goals.
You deserve to live a full enriching life. Here you have the opportunity to be heard in a safe confidential setting. Here you can gain confidence, effectiveness and self expression in relationships and area's of life important to you, Don't let anxiety, depression or the past stop you. I enjoy and appreciate working with Individuals, Couples and Families on their journey. I invite you to try a FREE TELEPHONE CONSULTATION.
(509) 774-3994 View (509) 774-3994
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Kristin Rawlins
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
I have training in Emotionally Focused therapy, the Gottman method and Circle of Security Parenting.
As human beings, we want healthy and happy relationships. These are vital to our emotional and mental well-being. We want to be our honest, authentic selves and trust that others will be there for us. However, despite our best efforts, things can get in the way. Our emotions, our past, anxiety and depression all affect how we interact with people we care about. Counseling allows for you to sit with someone who has no judgement toward you and your circumstances. I am simply here to help.
I have training in Emotionally Focused therapy, the Gottman method and Circle of Security Parenting.
As human beings, we want healthy and happy relationships. These are vital to our emotional and mental well-being. We want to be our honest, authentic selves and trust that others will be there for us. However, despite our best efforts, things can get in the way. Our emotions, our past, anxiety and depression all affect how we interact with people we care about. Counseling allows for you to sit with someone who has no judgement toward you and your circumstances. I am simply here to help.
(509) 818-0312 View (509) 818-0312
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Vanessa Lee Richardson
Pre-Licensed Professional, BS, MS
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
Hi and welcome! My name is Vanessa Richardson, I am a therapist who brings compassion and sincerity to the therapeutic process. To reach me it is best to text the office line and someone will get back to you ASAP. My professional background includes working with couples, individuals, families, special education population, extensive experience in working with families building upon their natural support along with individuals and couples from all different walks of life. I gained my experience in the clinical field working in a high-school setting, and community mental health outreach program.
Hi and welcome! My name is Vanessa Richardson, I am a therapist who brings compassion and sincerity to the therapeutic process. To reach me it is best to text the office line and someone will get back to you ASAP. My professional background includes working with couples, individuals, families, special education population, extensive experience in working with families building upon their natural support along with individuals and couples from all different walks of life. I gained my experience in the clinical field working in a high-school setting, and community mental health outreach program.
(509) 790-3852 View (509) 790-3852
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John Stifter
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
I am certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Circle of Security Core Sensitivities and Parenting, and Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy for individuals and families.
I am not your conventional psychotherapist. My journey into the world of mental health is uniquely shaped by my background as a ski journalist and lived experiences of grief, loss, tragedy, and trauma. Driven by a desire to bridge my passion for storytelling with holistic healing, I use my sincere interest in the human experience in the therapy setting to treat adults, couples, and families living with shame, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma, addiction, and life transitions and questions. As the Sufi poet Rumi once wrote, “The cure for pain is in the pain.”
I am certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Circle of Security Core Sensitivities and Parenting, and Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy for individuals and families.
I am not your conventional psychotherapist. My journey into the world of mental health is uniquely shaped by my background as a ski journalist and lived experiences of grief, loss, tragedy, and trauma. Driven by a desire to bridge my passion for storytelling with holistic healing, I use my sincere interest in the human experience in the therapy setting to treat adults, couples, and families living with shame, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, trauma, addiction, and life transitions and questions. As the Sufi poet Rumi once wrote, “The cure for pain is in the pain.”
(509) 761-6396 View (509) 761-6396
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Gracie Klontz
Counselor, MA, LMHCA, NBCC
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
It is a great privilege to be entrusted with the sacred work of helping individuals navigate life's issues. The therapeutic relationship is unlike any relationship. In this space, you are unconditionally valued and empathically listened to with your best interests in mind- free from hidden agendas, discrimination, or personal gain. In this safe environment, we collaboratively work toward your personalized goals and develop compassionate curiosity toward the pieces of your story, which help us gain insight into past and current functioning. I would be honored to help you on this journey.
It is a great privilege to be entrusted with the sacred work of helping individuals navigate life's issues. The therapeutic relationship is unlike any relationship. In this space, you are unconditionally valued and empathically listened to with your best interests in mind- free from hidden agendas, discrimination, or personal gain. In this safe environment, we collaboratively work toward your personalized goals and develop compassionate curiosity toward the pieces of your story, which help us gain insight into past and current functioning. I would be honored to help you on this journey.
(509) 486-7962 View (509) 486-7962
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Refresh Therapy, Inc - Spokane Valley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LMHC, LICSW, LMFTA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99216
We are a group of dynamic therapists, in multiple Washington state locations. Our goal was to create a place for you to settle in and tell your story. Everybody has one, and we want to hear yours. Counseling is a process that encourages you to examine your choices, your thoughts, your dreams, your barriers and your pain in an effort to create the positive change you are seeking in your life. We believe that successful counseling is a collaborative experience between you and your therapist; that finding the right fit is vital to that success.
We are a group of dynamic therapists, in multiple Washington state locations. Our goal was to create a place for you to settle in and tell your story. Everybody has one, and we want to hear yours. Counseling is a process that encourages you to examine your choices, your thoughts, your dreams, your barriers and your pain in an effort to create the positive change you are seeking in your life. We believe that successful counseling is a collaborative experience between you and your therapist; that finding the right fit is vital to that success.
(509) 260-2776 View (509) 260-2776
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Lisa F Parker
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, SUDP, CDWF
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
If you are struggling with substance use, relationship issues, consequences of choices or just need an outside perspective on a situation, I want to help you find your way toward a happier, healthier life! I believe that every person has the ability to improve their lives. I feel honored to be able to walk beside you as you discover the answer to your struggles.
If you are struggling with substance use, relationship issues, consequences of choices or just need an outside perspective on a situation, I want to help you find your way toward a happier, healthier life! I believe that every person has the ability to improve their lives. I feel honored to be able to walk beside you as you discover the answer to your struggles.
(509) 240-8715 View (509) 240-8715
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Rhonda DelCarlo
Counselor, MA, LMHC, SUDP
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99212  (Online Only)
Have you ever felt misunderstood? Have you tried to create relationships that are supportive and don't know why it's not working? Do you have dreams you want to tap into, but are afraid to step outside your comfort zone? As a therapist, I strive to empower individuals to find and develop their authentic path. I want to work with you to find the obstacles in your way so we can work together to help you achieve your goals. I strive to help you create a balance between work and play, to assist with coping skills and self-soothing techniques and help you create self-care for your busy life.
Have you ever felt misunderstood? Have you tried to create relationships that are supportive and don't know why it's not working? Do you have dreams you want to tap into, but are afraid to step outside your comfort zone? As a therapist, I strive to empower individuals to find and develop their authentic path. I want to work with you to find the obstacles in your way so we can work together to help you achieve your goals. I strive to help you create a balance between work and play, to assist with coping skills and self-soothing techniques and help you create self-care for your busy life.
(509) 587-1130 View (509) 587-1130
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Marilyn Marshall
Counselor, L, M, H, C
Verified Verified
Spokane Valley, WA 99212
I believe sometimes all we need is for someone to listen to us without judging to help find answers. In my office, the client is completely involved in determining the course of therapy. You can expect an initial session to be of gathering personal history, health history, and family of origin history. We will work together to see if we can begin to identify the problem and what you might want to do about the problem. We try to establish how we will know when this has been accomplished, how often to meet, as well as any arrangements for payment.
I believe sometimes all we need is for someone to listen to us without judging to help find answers. In my office, the client is completely involved in determining the course of therapy. You can expect an initial session to be of gathering personal history, health history, and family of origin history. We will work together to see if we can begin to identify the problem and what you might want to do about the problem. We try to establish how we will know when this has been accomplished, how often to meet, as well as any arrangements for payment.
(509) 731-4914 View (509) 731-4914
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Dr. Victoria Facciola Riverside Therapy Center
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, LCPC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99016
Now accepting new clients! I work with individuals who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions. Reaching out for help can be difficult sometimes! I want to honor that and I want to make your experience in therapy meaningful and purposeful in your life. We all experience mental health challenges throughout life and we are all deserving of help. I hope that you trust me with your life stories.
Now accepting new clients! I work with individuals who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions. Reaching out for help can be difficult sometimes! I want to honor that and I want to make your experience in therapy meaningful and purposeful in your life. We all experience mental health challenges throughout life and we are all deserving of help. I hope that you trust me with your life stories.
(509) 774-3449 View (509) 774-3449
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Justin Van Elsberg
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99206
Now accepting clients! I primarily work with teenagers and adults. Whether you have a history of complex trauma, specific concerns you want to address, or are not sure what you are looking for, I am honored to join. I strive to see things how my clients do, so that we can move forward with intention. This often means leaning into discomfort and as we move in the direction of your values. This also means considering the roles that we have taken on in our past and present relationships. Together we can work to process difficult emotions, develop flexibility to life’s challenges, and move in the direction of your life values.
Now accepting clients! I primarily work with teenagers and adults. Whether you have a history of complex trauma, specific concerns you want to address, or are not sure what you are looking for, I am honored to join. I strive to see things how my clients do, so that we can move forward with intention. This often means leaning into discomfort and as we move in the direction of your values. This also means considering the roles that we have taken on in our past and present relationships. Together we can work to process difficult emotions, develop flexibility to life’s challenges, and move in the direction of your life values.
(509) 285-9599 View (509) 285-9599
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Jan Vetter Counseling PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99037
If you feel fearful of who to share your struggles with - you are not alone in that fear. This is common, and unfortunately a barrier for many to take the first step and receive healing. I want to create a safe space for you, to share your story. I will help you identify the source of your pain, if that is not clear, and walk through the healing journey with you. There is always hope, and many directions to take to get healing and freedom. I've received much healing, through counseling and want to see others receive the same.
If you feel fearful of who to share your struggles with - you are not alone in that fear. This is common, and unfortunately a barrier for many to take the first step and receive healing. I want to create a safe space for you, to share your story. I will help you identify the source of your pain, if that is not clear, and walk through the healing journey with you. There is always hope, and many directions to take to get healing and freedom. I've received much healing, through counseling and want to see others receive the same.
(509) 260-8445 View (509) 260-8445
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Sarah Clode
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Spokane Valley, WA 99216  (Online Only)
Life is tricky... It's hard and messy and has no one right answer, especially now. Therapy is all about you figuring yourself out without judgment or expectations. Therapy with me, is a bit chaotic and messy too, like life. But trust me, the work is worth it. There is no one right way to "do" therapy or to be a client, but it is about you and what you're willing to bring to the table.
Life is tricky... It's hard and messy and has no one right answer, especially now. Therapy is all about you figuring yourself out without judgment or expectations. Therapy with me, is a bit chaotic and messy too, like life. But trust me, the work is worth it. There is no one right way to "do" therapy or to be a client, but it is about you and what you're willing to bring to the table.
(321) 340-2901 View (321) 340-2901
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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.