Emotionally Focused Therapists in Lake Stevens, WA

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Jennifer Goldsmith
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA, MA, MEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
My aim is to provide you with a warm and welcoming space for exploration, healing, and growth. I prioritize building a sound therapeutic relationship while supporting you in making the changes you want for your life including addressing depression and anxiety, overcoming shame, mending and building relationships, and helping you attune to your inherent wisdom and strengths. I provide individual (including teens), couple, and sex therapy. I incorporate Attachment Theory, Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), and Gottman Couples Therapy, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
My aim is to provide you with a warm and welcoming space for exploration, healing, and growth. I prioritize building a sound therapeutic relationship while supporting you in making the changes you want for your life including addressing depression and anxiety, overcoming shame, mending and building relationships, and helping you attune to your inherent wisdom and strengths. I provide individual (including teens), couple, and sex therapy. I incorporate Attachment Theory, Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT), and Gottman Couples Therapy, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
(509) 316-2543 View (509) 316-2543
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Dara Foti
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Sex Therapy, with additional training in trauma.
Life is messy and sometimes we get stuck in repetitive patterns that leave us disconnected from ourselves and others. I am here to help you get unstuck so that you can live life with more ease and authenticity. I offer a warm and honest approach that helps you examine and shift your habitual ways of being to promote growth and connection. Whether you are feeling overwhelmed, experiencing a life transition, or having relationship distress, I am here with curiosity and an open heart to begin the process of healing. I am easy-going and approachable and help you access your inner wiser self.
I have training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Sex Therapy, with additional training in trauma.
Life is messy and sometimes we get stuck in repetitive patterns that leave us disconnected from ourselves and others. I am here to help you get unstuck so that you can live life with more ease and authenticity. I offer a warm and honest approach that helps you examine and shift your habitual ways of being to promote growth and connection. Whether you are feeling overwhelmed, experiencing a life transition, or having relationship distress, I am here with curiosity and an open heart to begin the process of healing. I am easy-going and approachable and help you access your inner wiser self.
(206) 800-7628 View (206) 800-7628
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Kelli Lovins
Mental Health Counselor License, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
I work with teens (16 and up), young adults, adults, and couples to help them navigate the challenges life throws at them. Whether it's relationships, insecurities, past experiences, work stress, or the challenges of the day-to-day living, I believe you have the strengths within yourself to overcome those challenges. My role in the therapeutic relationship is to help you build those strengths. In my work with couples, I primarily use EFT and attachment based interventions to help partners repair attachment injuries and create a safe and secure bond with one another.
I work with teens (16 and up), young adults, adults, and couples to help them navigate the challenges life throws at them. Whether it's relationships, insecurities, past experiences, work stress, or the challenges of the day-to-day living, I believe you have the strengths within yourself to overcome those challenges. My role in the therapeutic relationship is to help you build those strengths. In my work with couples, I primarily use EFT and attachment based interventions to help partners repair attachment injuries and create a safe and secure bond with one another.
(425) 610-7221 View (425) 610-7221
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Amanda Hofman
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
If you’re struggling with feeling anxious or depressed, trying to heal from traumatic events, facing difficult life transitions, or longing to create healthy relationships you’re not alone and I would love to help you navigate these difficult issues. Feeling overwhelmed, confused, and uncertain of how to move forward can lead us to believe that change or healing is too hard, or even impossible. By fostering a therapeutic relationship built on acceptance, warmth, non-judgment, and empathy I aim to provide a safe space for exploring and untangling what’s at the root of these and other challenging issues.
If you’re struggling with feeling anxious or depressed, trying to heal from traumatic events, facing difficult life transitions, or longing to create healthy relationships you’re not alone and I would love to help you navigate these difficult issues. Feeling overwhelmed, confused, and uncertain of how to move forward can lead us to believe that change or healing is too hard, or even impossible. By fostering a therapeutic relationship built on acceptance, warmth, non-judgment, and empathy I aim to provide a safe space for exploring and untangling what’s at the root of these and other challenging issues.
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Erik Bohlin
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, MAC
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
It is tough times right now! People are struggling. I am here to give you the tools to feel better and to heal whatever you are going through. I help people with recovery from addiction anxiety, depression and difficult relationships. Having a strength-based approach where we focus on wellness rather than problems will help you stop repeating vicious cycles. I work with anxiety, OCD, depression, addiction (alcohol, sexual, drug, spending, overeating, and work. I also work with chronic pain issues from a place of helping people express emotion. I do both in person and teleconferencing counseling.
It is tough times right now! People are struggling. I am here to give you the tools to feel better and to heal whatever you are going through. I help people with recovery from addiction anxiety, depression and difficult relationships. Having a strength-based approach where we focus on wellness rather than problems will help you stop repeating vicious cycles. I work with anxiety, OCD, depression, addiction (alcohol, sexual, drug, spending, overeating, and work. I also work with chronic pain issues from a place of helping people express emotion. I do both in person and teleconferencing counseling.
(425) 224-6725 View (425) 224-6725
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Tatiana Bowers
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MHP, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
Life can be messy and difficult. It is hard to rise up from difficulties and reach your true potential. My clients feel heard, understood and supported while acquiring skills and knowledge to create the changes in their live that makes them happy and successful. Hoping things will change with time is probably not going to happen. You are precious and matter. I truly believe that people are meant to live exordinary lives. Let me help you reach your potential. Embrace Hope Counseling is a Video Telehealth Therapy Practice which gives clients the ability to have sessions without wasting time getting to an office.
Life can be messy and difficult. It is hard to rise up from difficulties and reach your true potential. My clients feel heard, understood and supported while acquiring skills and knowledge to create the changes in their live that makes them happy and successful. Hoping things will change with time is probably not going to happen. You are precious and matter. I truly believe that people are meant to live exordinary lives. Let me help you reach your potential. Embrace Hope Counseling is a Video Telehealth Therapy Practice which gives clients the ability to have sessions without wasting time getting to an office.
(425) 689-7589 View (425) 689-7589
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Ara Elizabeth Christensen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Waitlist for new clients
Do you experience emotions you just can’t think your way out of?! Do you struggle to believe in yourself? Do you wonder if you’re really seen by those you love? How nice would it be to find relief from bothersome emotions, have belief in self, and feel like you belong? I’m here to explore these possibilities with you.
Do you experience emotions you just can’t think your way out of?! Do you struggle to believe in yourself? Do you wonder if you’re really seen by those you love? How nice would it be to find relief from bothersome emotions, have belief in self, and feel like you belong? I’m here to explore these possibilities with you.
(425) 474-3992 View (425) 474-3992
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Christopher Edward
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, SPP, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
You may be lacking confidence, uncertain of what your next steps are, or are suffering with some form of anxiety or depression. Here you can learn about how to accept the past hurts, be intentional with the present moment, and prepare for the future. Come lost leave feeling seen, heard, and known. I seek to put you first, seeking out to meet your needs by mindful reflecting, strength building, positive relationships and constructive feedback, working together to unlock your full potential.
You may be lacking confidence, uncertain of what your next steps are, or are suffering with some form of anxiety or depression. Here you can learn about how to accept the past hurts, be intentional with the present moment, and prepare for the future. Come lost leave feeling seen, heard, and known. I seek to put you first, seeking out to meet your needs by mindful reflecting, strength building, positive relationships and constructive feedback, working together to unlock your full potential.
(425) 368-9367 View (425) 368-9367
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Rebekah Callahan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Are the challenges you’re facing in relationships impacting your mental health? Are you feeling stuck in a relationship with a partner, spouse, family or friend and uncertain how to proceed? Do you desire stronger, healthier relationships? I believe Mental health struggles don't define a person but are signals that it is time to look deeper in order to discover the root causes of the problems you are experiencing. When you feel supported through therapy, it will help you to make the changes you want in order to create more fulfilling relationships and the life you want to have.
Are the challenges you’re facing in relationships impacting your mental health? Are you feeling stuck in a relationship with a partner, spouse, family or friend and uncertain how to proceed? Do you desire stronger, healthier relationships? I believe Mental health struggles don't define a person but are signals that it is time to look deeper in order to discover the root causes of the problems you are experiencing. When you feel supported through therapy, it will help you to make the changes you want in order to create more fulfilling relationships and the life you want to have.
(206) 408-2512 View (206) 408-2512
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Solstice Healing
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
I work primarily with adult individuals but am open to working with couples and families on an as needed basis. My clients have a history of trauma, often PTSD, and are currently experiencing issues of depression and anxiety. I specifically enjoy working with women who are experiencing Peri-Partum Depression and have a history of trauma.
I work primarily with adult individuals but am open to working with couples and families on an as needed basis. My clients have a history of trauma, often PTSD, and are currently experiencing issues of depression and anxiety. I specifically enjoy working with women who are experiencing Peri-Partum Depression and have a history of trauma.
(425) 584-5966 View (425) 584-5966
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Ashley Bryan
Counselor, MS, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
As a therapist, you can expect me to truly work with you to learn who you are, what your story is, and how we can best push you forward to living your fullest life through empowerment and choice. I believe in the unique individualism of each client that sits in front of me and my goal is always to move along a path that is realistic and beneficial to who you are. I understand that mental health struggles can be challenging and the task of "improving" or "working on things" can be daunting during those times. This is why I want to meet you where you are at - to create real, long term and sustainable change and growth in your life.
As a therapist, you can expect me to truly work with you to learn who you are, what your story is, and how we can best push you forward to living your fullest life through empowerment and choice. I believe in the unique individualism of each client that sits in front of me and my goal is always to move along a path that is realistic and beneficial to who you are. I understand that mental health struggles can be challenging and the task of "improving" or "working on things" can be daunting during those times. This is why I want to meet you where you are at - to create real, long term and sustainable change and growth in your life.
(425) 671-9614 View (425) 671-9614
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Natalie Colton-Grenfell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFTA, CYT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
I believe that healing begins with connection; to yourself, your story, and to meaningful relationships. Therapy is, at its heart, an honest, human relationship and that’s what I want to offer as a clinician. I approach therapy as an open exploration of your full self. This means that you get to safely bring your unedited, unrefined self into the room, including your gender identity, sexual orientation, race, relational structure, and every other element of your identity mosaic. I have special interest in the intersection of sexuality, trauma, and religion. Wherever it is, I am here to meet you where you’re at.
I believe that healing begins with connection; to yourself, your story, and to meaningful relationships. Therapy is, at its heart, an honest, human relationship and that’s what I want to offer as a clinician. I approach therapy as an open exploration of your full self. This means that you get to safely bring your unedited, unrefined self into the room, including your gender identity, sexual orientation, race, relational structure, and every other element of your identity mosaic. I have special interest in the intersection of sexuality, trauma, and religion. Wherever it is, I am here to meet you where you’re at.
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Bridget Haughin
Counselor, LMHCA, CMHS
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
Welcome to Victory Counseling! Are you or someone you know seeking support and guidance through life's challenges? I'm Bridget Haughin, a licensed therapist (LMHCA) specializing in adolescent, couples, and adult therapy, with expertise in crisis intervention, Christian counseling, and evidence-based modalities. At my practice, I believe in the power of collaboration and client empowerment. I work closely with each individual, couple, or family to create a safe and supportive space where your voice is heard and your choices are respected. Together, we'll explore your unique strengths and challenges, working towards healing and
Welcome to Victory Counseling! Are you or someone you know seeking support and guidance through life's challenges? I'm Bridget Haughin, a licensed therapist (LMHCA) specializing in adolescent, couples, and adult therapy, with expertise in crisis intervention, Christian counseling, and evidence-based modalities. At my practice, I believe in the power of collaboration and client empowerment. I work closely with each individual, couple, or family to create a safe and supportive space where your voice is heard and your choices are respected. Together, we'll explore your unique strengths and challenges, working towards healing and
(360) 208-1269 View (360) 208-1269
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Shannon Dickerson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
Please Note: I am able to provide virtual session, which allow me the ability to serve the entire states of Arizona, Washington, Nevada and New Mexico. In New Mexico and Nevada I am only able to take Aetna, Cigna and private pay
Please Note: I am able to provide virtual session, which allow me the ability to serve the entire states of Arizona, Washington, Nevada and New Mexico. In New Mexico and Nevada I am only able to take Aetna, Cigna and private pay
(480) 508-8938 View (480) 508-8938
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Brianne Rokey
Counselor, EdS, NCSP, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
I help teens and young adults manage anxiety, depression, & trauma. I understand how difficult it is to ask for help, let alone admit when you need it. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions and learn to harness your strengths, overcome challenges, and move forward. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I utilize strategies that work for each specific client so that you can feel safe to explore and express in a way that feels best for you. I want you to be emboldened to be the best version of yourself.
I help teens and young adults manage anxiety, depression, & trauma. I understand how difficult it is to ask for help, let alone admit when you need it. I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and encouraging space to work through emotions and learn to harness your strengths, overcome challenges, and move forward. My job as a therapist is to help you identify and access your internal strength and power to accomplish your goals. I utilize strategies that work for each specific client so that you can feel safe to explore and express in a way that feels best for you. I want you to be emboldened to be the best version of yourself.
(425) 382-8976 View (425) 382-8976
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Kate Sproul
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm Kate. I provide counseling to individuals and couples in the north Seattle area. My approach to therapy begins with relationship as I believe both harm and healing happen within the context of relationships. Perhaps you are tired of feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or depressed. Maybe you've experienced a significant loss that has shifted your roles and beliefs. You don't have to figure this out alone. My focus is to develop a trusting relationship with you and provide a safe environment where you can tell your story, feel accepted, and experience the wholeness and healing that comes out of that process.
Hi, I'm Kate. I provide counseling to individuals and couples in the north Seattle area. My approach to therapy begins with relationship as I believe both harm and healing happen within the context of relationships. Perhaps you are tired of feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or depressed. Maybe you've experienced a significant loss that has shifted your roles and beliefs. You don't have to figure this out alone. My focus is to develop a trusting relationship with you and provide a safe environment where you can tell your story, feel accepted, and experience the wholeness and healing that comes out of that process.
(425) 686-9977 View (425) 686-9977
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Fountaingate Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMHC, LMFT, LMT, HP
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, or burned out? Maybe you are stuck in an unsuccessful and unfulfilling place and you need tools and encouragement to set and achieve your goals. Fountaingate is ready to assist you in recognizing and managing the obstacles preventing you from walking in that place of confidence and security.
Do you feel overwhelmed, lost, or burned out? Maybe you are stuck in an unsuccessful and unfulfilling place and you need tools and encouragement to set and achieve your goals. Fountaingate is ready to assist you in recognizing and managing the obstacles preventing you from walking in that place of confidence and security.
(360) 854-3581 View (360) 854-3581
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Taj Brayboy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Social Worker and Social Work Clinical Associate. I have my Bachelor's of Arts in Psychology , which I obtained at Neumann University in Aston, Pa. I aquired my Masters of Social Work at Widener University in Chester ,Pa. I have experience working in a hospital setting dealing with issues from homelessness to safely discharging clients . I also have experience working in the Military Social Work setting where I helped clients with issues related to substance use and co-morbid diagnosis.
I am a Licensed Social Worker and Social Work Clinical Associate. I have my Bachelor's of Arts in Psychology , which I obtained at Neumann University in Aston, Pa. I aquired my Masters of Social Work at Widener University in Chester ,Pa. I have experience working in a hospital setting dealing with issues from homelessness to safely discharging clients . I also have experience working in the Military Social Work setting where I helped clients with issues related to substance use and co-morbid diagnosis.
(509) 635-3755 View (509) 635-3755
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CH Counseling Services- Lizzie Krawczak
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MFT , Intern
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
Immediate openings! Therapy is a space to expand self-knowledge and foster connectedness. As a therapist, I meet you where you are with acceptance, compassion, and curiosity. I seek to honor your experience as the expert of your life, and foster this knowing in a collaborative, strengths-based, and culturally aligned manner. Depending on your needs, I also incorporate psychoeducation and coping tools to support you in your growth. My training emphasizes relationships and examining how the facets of our lives interact as an avenue for insight and growth.
Immediate openings! Therapy is a space to expand self-knowledge and foster connectedness. As a therapist, I meet you where you are with acceptance, compassion, and curiosity. I seek to honor your experience as the expert of your life, and foster this knowing in a collaborative, strengths-based, and culturally aligned manner. Depending on your needs, I also incorporate psychoeducation and coping tools to support you in your growth. My training emphasizes relationships and examining how the facets of our lives interact as an avenue for insight and growth.
(360) 685-7136 View (360) 685-7136
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Reflections Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MHP
Verified Verified
Lake Stevens, WA 98258
The thing that is universal to why someone is seeking therapy is that they want a place to talk about thoughts, feelings and relationships without fear of being judged or of hurting someone's feelings. It is always an honor to be trusted to hear people’s thoughts, feelings and experiences. I do not believe it is my roll to tell someone how to do things, how to feel about things or how to think about things. I believe my role is to ask you questions, offer relevant information and skills but mostly listen to what you what. To do this, I use a variety of different techniques, skills and theories.
The thing that is universal to why someone is seeking therapy is that they want a place to talk about thoughts, feelings and relationships without fear of being judged or of hurting someone's feelings. It is always an honor to be trusted to hear people’s thoughts, feelings and experiences. I do not believe it is my roll to tell someone how to do things, how to feel about things or how to think about things. I believe my role is to ask you questions, offer relevant information and skills but mostly listen to what you what. To do this, I use a variety of different techniques, skills and theories.
(425) 264-8735 View (425) 264-8735
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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.