Relationship Issues Therapists in Lacey, WA

Maybe you have an unexplained fear or sadness and you do not know why? Maybe you do know why, but that hasn’t helped you. Maybe you feel stressed and overwhelmed in your relationship(s) (wife, husband, partner, son, daughter, friend, or coworker). Maybe someone you loved has broken it off with you. Maybe someone dear to you, has died. Maybe someone has hurt you. I know, I have had such experiences. They are part of our life. What you, I, and anyone else must do, is learn, to live with it. This is where I, can come in. Let's, you and I, turn this (or these) hardship(s) into a page of your life story and not the whole story.

HELPING PEOPLE DISCOVER NEW POSSIBILITIES! Do you want: Help overcoming challenges or issues your are facing? Help to experience more fulfilling and meaningful relationships? Help addressing anxiety, fear, depression or self esteem issues? Help with child mood /behavior problems? Help working through major life transitions? Help discovering your life passion, vision and goals? Help making a career change? I provide a supportive, non-judgmental, and confidential place where you can discover, learn and grow. We work together to explore issues and develop solutions to fit your needs so that you can experience a healthier and happier life.

When did life become a monotonous routine, leaving you emotionally drained and feeling unfulfilled? You long for deeper connections and meaningful relationships, but that’s overshadowed by disappointment or isolation. You’re repeating the same patterns, preventing yourself from experiencing what you deserve. As a parent, you feel like you’re always falling short. Making the smallest decision leaves you overwhelmed and second guessing yourself. Relationships can bring immense joy, but also have the ability to become so draining. They can cause an overwhelming amount of stress and make you question your own self-worth and judgment.

Have a relationship that's in trouble? Coping with a traumatic past? Overwhelmed by life changes? Struggling with depression, anxiety, or other emotional challenges? I have worked in the fields of psychology, education, and sociology for over 20 years. I've seen a lot in that time - from couples in crisis to veterans struggling with trauma to seniors facing grief, loss, and aging issues. I also have experience assisting youth and families involved with CPS, foster care, and the juvenile justice system.

I offer land-based therapy. This work entails an embodied experience of healing through a collaboration with nature and myself. I believe wholeheartedly that our wellness is interwoven with the health of our environment and remembering we are also nature. My office is outdoors, on land being stewarded to enhance the prairie ecosystem and support sustainable food practices. A typical session will include mindfulness practices to regulate the nervous system, activity that supports a relationship not just with self, but also connecting to land, typically through gardening and other land stewarding practices.

Healing and caring for ourselves is hard work. Sometimes painful, often fulfilling, occasionally tedious, it is a necessary part of being open to the experiences that life has to offer us. Therapy is one way to find support in healing from trauma, managing our health, and discovering and practicing new ways of caring for ourselves. As Audre Lorde wrote, "Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." This work is important, both individually and collectively, and I am here to help you with it.

I offer a general counseling practice focusing on using personal strengths to untie psychological knots.

I have been a practicing psychotherapist/counselor for over 30 years and have worked with the whole spectrum of life stressors and emotional troubles. I see people with anger and anxiety problems as well as grief and relationship issues. I establish an empathic connection with my clients which provides a safe basis from which we can explore your needs and determine what may be standing in the way of your on going growth and well being. I have studied somatic psychotherapy, gestalt therapy,cognitive behavioral therapy and deep feeling psychotherapy.

I currently have in person and telehealth availability. I believe our lives are constructed within the many relationship connections we experience throughout the lifespan; and this is what fuels my passion to work with individuals, couples, and families at all ages and stages of life. Whether you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, communication breakdowns, school/work difficulties, or family problems, I strive to support you in exploring what brings you to therapy in an empathetic way that focuses on your goals though connection and deeper understanding.

I am waitlisting new clients. Are you a couple struggling with communication and/or sexuality and intimacy? Are you an individual that has issues with sexuality and needs a non-judgmental and safe place to grow? I bring together research-based therapeutics, in-depth education, intuition & personal experience. I specialize in Couples: general counseling, sexless marriage, mismatched desire, new parents, infidelity, spiritual shame; Women: unable to orgasm, low or no desire, painful intercourse, past abuse, menopause; Men: Erectile Disfunction, out of control sexuality, abuse, low or no desire, pornography addiction; Cancer Patients

Not accepting new clients at this time. My therapeutic approach is strength-based, client-centered, and integrative with the belief that we have the innate ability to heal, grow, and seek greater meaning in life. I see each individual as unique, whole, and inherently good. I believe therapy is an interactive relationship between you and me. My approach prioritizes authenticity, trust, and empathy as the foundation for effective therapy. Our first step is defining what brought you to pursue counseling. Then, we will look at the the difficulties you are facing and collaborate on a plan that is specific and unique for your situation.

In therapy, I prioritize creating a space where clients can embrace the breadth of human emotions with compassion and respect. I view clients as the experts of their own lives and strive to foster a non-judgmental atmosphere that encourages genuine expression and creativity. My focus lies in supporting individuals and couples who are grappling with PTSD, mood disorders, anxiety, parenting challenges, and relationship issues. As a family systems therapist, I explore how external systems (such as culture and family of origin) impact us, alongside our internal attachment patterns and meaning making processes.

Are negative thoughts and feelings overwhelming you each day? Do you want a partner to help you through this tough transition in your life? Are you ready to turn over a new leaf with a greater lease on life? I’ll be there. Reach-out to me. I am committed to addressing all of your unique needs with respect and dignity. The therapeutic process is a collaboration driven by you. I take a supportive, multicultural, holistic approach towards healing and recovery. I encourage your independence, stability, learning, and goals in therapy. Now offering supervision to mental health professionals pursuing licensure.

Are you experiencing feelings of overwhelm, isolation, or a lack of motivation? Is your relationship or marriage going through a rough patch, leaving you unsure of how to fix it? Do you find simple daily tasks becoming more challenging? If so, know that you're not alone. In a world where life's demands are ever-increasing and unexpected changes are frequent, many individuals are experiencing anxiety, depression, and a sense of disconnection. If you're seeking a non-judgmental space with consistent support, practical tools, and lots of room to process your emotions and experiences, therapy could be a beneficial option for you.

Good therapy is based on a good therapeutic relationship. There are no "right" answers; only answers that are right for you. Together, we can focus on how you see the world and how the world sees you, improve communication, and identify self-needs, rediscover your unique gifts and role in life, and create and maintain healthy boundaries.

There are a variety of therapeutic techniques I use to bring relief to current life issues, help resolve early life patterns and help clients create a new way of being in life and feeling they are now in control of themselves and their choices. There is a release in these techniques that normal "talk" therapy is not able to provide. This journey is about self discovery and self mastery. Those that wish to address a specific issue or symptom in their life can do so and those who want to embark on the larger path of personal transformation are also served by this work.

We have the inner wisdom needed to reach our highest potential. I work with the whole person, body, mind, spirit, in the context of individual experience, family, and community. Clients may withdraw or use substances as a response to trauma, experiencing addiction, depression or anxiety, as a coping mechanism. Clients are the experts of their own experience, and I facilitate the process of change to meet their needs more effectively. Through collaborative work with varied theoretical approaches, I meet clients where they are, develop goals and work through the process of small steps to make changes that shift the outcomes.

I view my role as a therapist to support and assist individuals in making changes in their lives. This is done through learning about the individual, providing education and introducing skills to create the changes that the individual is wanting. Working together we will identify the obstacles and patterns that have interfered with the wanted changes. My style is to use structured set of tools from the evidence based methods so that individuals can meet their therapy goals.

I am a retired Army veteran and a mother of 5 children in various developmental stages ranging from ages 9yrs-25yrs. I offer a partnership working with clients to meet their needs. I have experience with individuals and groups working to overcome symptoms of PTSD, substance use disorders, depression, grief, sexual trauma, abuse, anxiety, stress, and relationship challenges. The ultimate goal is to support clients on their journey to meet or exceed their goals and offer the best quality of care. Taking time to TALK can offer innovative ideas, breakthroughs, and strength in communication.