Infidelity Therapists in Bothell, WA
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I am an IITAP Certified Partner Trauma Therapist Candidate providing expertise in work with partner betrayal trauma.
Are there parts of life that are coming apart? I offer therapy that supports your journey toward wholeness. My specialty is in treating individuals and couples grappling with betrayal trauma, infidelity, and sex addiction. I approach the work with specialized training and genuine empathy. Additionally, I partner with clients to find a path forward through relationship issues, life transition, sexual abuse, religious trauma, anxiety, and depression. I’m deeply committed to hold your story with compassionate curiosity and collaborate with you to navigate the journey towards resiliency as well as a sense of healing and wholeness.
I am an IITAP Certified Partner Trauma Therapist Candidate providing expertise in work with partner betrayal trauma.
Are there parts of life that are coming apart? I offer therapy that supports your journey toward wholeness. My specialty is in treating individuals and couples grappling with betrayal trauma, infidelity, and sex addiction. I approach the work with specialized training and genuine empathy. Additionally, I partner with clients to find a path forward through relationship issues, life transition, sexual abuse, religious trauma, anxiety, and depression. I’m deeply committed to hold your story with compassionate curiosity and collaborate with you to navigate the journey towards resiliency as well as a sense of healing and wholeness.
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Michelle A. Lechnyr
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CDC®
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98012 (Online Only)
My goal is to equip you with effective strategies for shifting your thought patterns, easing anxious thoughts, and overcoming depression.. I specialize in addressing a range of issues including anxiety, depression, postpartum depression, divorce, infidelity, life transitions, and complex trauma. My therapeutic approach encompasses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and EMDR. As a certified divorce coach, I provide guidance to help you navigate relationship challenges and make informed decisions.Additionally, I offer support to individuals grappling with a cancer diagnosis. Gottman trained: Bringing Baby Home Educator.
My goal is to equip you with effective strategies for shifting your thought patterns, easing anxious thoughts, and overcoming depression.. I specialize in addressing a range of issues including anxiety, depression, postpartum depression, divorce, infidelity, life transitions, and complex trauma. My therapeutic approach encompasses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and EMDR. As a certified divorce coach, I provide guidance to help you navigate relationship challenges and make informed decisions.Additionally, I offer support to individuals grappling with a cancer diagnosis. Gottman trained: Bringing Baby Home Educator.
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, conflict, infidelity, financial)? Are you longing for the closeness you once felt in your relationship? As a solution oriented, client centered, and Level 3 trained Gottman Couples Method therapist, Dr.
For Individuals: Are you feeling overwhelmed, preoccupied or emotional for no reason? Are you struggling in your relationships or experiencing divorce? Dr. Ellen McMahon can help you meet life's challenges as you explore how past experiences, thought patterns, and family systems influence your internal beliefs and relationships in the here and now. She provides a compassionate, safe environment for you to share your stories and she utilizes multiple therapy interventions that promote healing, growth, and healthy relationships depending on your unique needs.
, conflict, infidelity, financial)? Are you longing for the closeness you once felt in your relationship? As a solution oriented, client centered, and Level 3 trained Gottman Couples Method therapist, Dr.
For Individuals: Are you feeling overwhelmed, preoccupied or emotional for no reason? Are you struggling in your relationships or experiencing divorce? Dr. Ellen McMahon can help you meet life's challenges as you explore how past experiences, thought patterns, and family systems influence your internal beliefs and relationships in the here and now. She provides a compassionate, safe environment for you to share your stories and she utilizes multiple therapy interventions that promote healing, growth, and healthy relationships depending on your unique needs.
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My clients include adults aged 18 and older, who are experiencing anxiety, depression, life changes, relationship issues, infidelity, difficult family dynamics, neurodiversity, stress management, depleted resources, grief and loss, and difficulties with self-worth and self-esteem who want to make positive shifts and grow toward their best selves.
Donna Allen, LMFT As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with adult individuals and couples, in a holistic and systems-oriented way. Together we'll explore the elements of your life that are stressors as well as supports and use that information to help you achieve your goals.
My clients include adults aged 18 and older, who are experiencing anxiety, depression, life changes, relationship issues, infidelity, difficult family dynamics, neurodiversity, stress management, depleted resources, grief and loss, and difficulties with self-worth and self-esteem who want to make positive shifts and grow toward their best selves.
Donna Allen, LMFT As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with adult individuals and couples, in a holistic and systems-oriented way. Together we'll explore the elements of your life that are stressors as well as supports and use that information to help you achieve your goals.
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Liz Hunter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98011 (Online Only)
Are you in a struggling relationship? Are you and your partner fighting a lot about the same things and nothing seems to get resolved, or are neither of you bringing up important issues? Maybe your partner seems ready to leave the relationship while you want to keep it going. I can support you and your partner towards a healthier relationship by examining and shifting your difficult patterns of interaction towards patterns of connection and increased happiness. I also offer Discernment Counseling for those couples experiencing divorce ambivalence.
Are you in a struggling relationship? Are you and your partner fighting a lot about the same things and nothing seems to get resolved, or are neither of you bringing up important issues? Maybe your partner seems ready to leave the relationship while you want to keep it going. I can support you and your partner towards a healthier relationship by examining and shifting your difficult patterns of interaction towards patterns of connection and increased happiness. I also offer Discernment Counseling for those couples experiencing divorce ambivalence.
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I am a psychotherapist specializing in complex trauma, disordered eating, emotional eating, anxiety, PTSD, depression, and addictions. I work with the intuitive, mental, emotional, spiritual and physical aspects of each individual. We will rewire the neural-pathways in your brain so new behaviors and experience of life come naturally. You are meant to be the fullest expression of your truest self and together we will uncover your true essence so you can thrive, instead of only survive. I also incorporate amino acid therapy for mood and addiction recovery.
I am a psychotherapist specializing in complex trauma, disordered eating, emotional eating, anxiety, PTSD, depression, and addictions. I work with the intuitive, mental, emotional, spiritual and physical aspects of each individual. We will rewire the neural-pathways in your brain so new behaviors and experience of life come naturally. You are meant to be the fullest expression of your truest self and together we will uncover your true essence so you can thrive, instead of only survive. I also incorporate amino acid therapy for mood and addiction recovery.
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Dr. Nancy Crowley
Mental Health Counselor, PsyD, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98021
For clients who are trying to break unhealthy cycles in their lives, I offer a place of safety, a place of acceptance, and a place where you can discover your strengths, embrace your weaknesses, find healing, and learn how to be brave again. You will earn the tools that will help you heal in your daily life. You can learn how to grieve, develop resilience, and begin to build a creative and healthy life.
For clients who are trying to break unhealthy cycles in their lives, I offer a place of safety, a place of acceptance, and a place where you can discover your strengths, embrace your weaknesses, find healing, and learn how to be brave again. You will earn the tools that will help you heal in your daily life. You can learn how to grieve, develop resilience, and begin to build a creative and healthy life.
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"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." (Victor Frankel) I am a licensed mental health counselor with his PsyD from Argosy University. My training includes providing co-occurring disorder therapy meaning the simultaneous treatment of addiction and other psychiatric disorder. I treat individuals with and without addictions and specialize in the treatment of adolescents and adults with trauma, depression and anxiety disorders. Currently I am only accepting teletherapy clients.
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." (Victor Frankel) I am a licensed mental health counselor with his PsyD from Argosy University. My training includes providing co-occurring disorder therapy meaning the simultaneous treatment of addiction and other psychiatric disorder. I treat individuals with and without addictions and specialize in the treatment of adolescents and adults with trauma, depression and anxiety disorders. Currently I am only accepting teletherapy clients.
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I m a licensed mental health counselor in Washington state. I have openings for individuals to work with me remotely in an accepting and safe environment. It is my passion to help others reach their goals and overcome obstacles in a healthy way to become the best version of themselves. We will achieve this collaboratively by evaluating your strengths and challenges.
I m a licensed mental health counselor in Washington state. I have openings for individuals to work with me remotely in an accepting and safe environment. It is my passion to help others reach their goals and overcome obstacles in a healthy way to become the best version of themselves. We will achieve this collaboratively by evaluating your strengths and challenges.
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Provides assistance to multi-cultural groups for stress management, self-exploring, Asian immigrant cross-cultural adaption and other mental health issues. Mandarin and on-line session available.
Provides assistance to multi-cultural groups for stress management, self-exploring, Asian immigrant cross-cultural adaption and other mental health issues. Mandarin and on-line session available.
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Anna Weinrank Psy D.
Counselor, PsyD, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98011 (Online Only)
I am most skilled at working through trauma and helping clients understand why they have the issues they do. I can help you identify the real source of your issues, so you can begin to transform your life.
I am most skilled at working through trauma and helping clients understand why they have the issues they do. I can help you identify the real source of your issues, so you can begin to transform your life.
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Terry MacDonald
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98011 (Online Only)
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Therapy is about you – your successes and strengths, your stumbles and hurts, your needs and goals. Pain has a way of making us feel isolated and alone. It can tear us up on the inside while hiding from others on the outside. We often believe that we are feeling pain because we are not doing something right, so we think that if we just “try harder” or “do better” then we can make the hurt go away. Often, our pain is like a warning light on the dashboard of our car. It’s trying to tell us something important that, if ignored, could be dangerous and impair our ability to function well - or at all.
Therapy is about you – your successes and strengths, your stumbles and hurts, your needs and goals. Pain has a way of making us feel isolated and alone. It can tear us up on the inside while hiding from others on the outside. We often believe that we are feeling pain because we are not doing something right, so we think that if we just “try harder” or “do better” then we can make the hurt go away. Often, our pain is like a warning light on the dashboard of our car. It’s trying to tell us something important that, if ignored, could be dangerous and impair our ability to function well - or at all.
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Hello and Welcome! Are you dealing with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, a big life transition, relationship distress, and/or pressure to behave in ways that don’t feel authentic or healthy for you? Do you feel eager to gain insight and learn how to relate to yourself, others, and your life in ways that feel nourishing? Are you longing for a warm, calm, compassionate, creative, and collaborative space in which to explore these things? If you answered yes to any of these questions, I would love to hear from you!
Hello and Welcome! Are you dealing with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, a big life transition, relationship distress, and/or pressure to behave in ways that don’t feel authentic or healthy for you? Do you feel eager to gain insight and learn how to relate to yourself, others, and your life in ways that feel nourishing? Are you longing for a warm, calm, compassionate, creative, and collaborative space in which to explore these things? If you answered yes to any of these questions, I would love to hear from you!
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Life can be messy, painful and complex. Therapy emerges as a sacred space in which we can navigate the intricate layers of life, fostering reconnection and a deeper self-understanding. Embracing a psychodynamic approach, my commitment is to accompany you on a transformative journey of self-exploration. Together, we will encourage a curious exploration of your identity and shedding light on patterns that may no longer serve you. My specialties are working with clients who are grappling with trauma, perfectionism, grief, anxiety, depression and addiction.
Life can be messy, painful and complex. Therapy emerges as a sacred space in which we can navigate the intricate layers of life, fostering reconnection and a deeper self-understanding. Embracing a psychodynamic approach, my commitment is to accompany you on a transformative journey of self-exploration. Together, we will encourage a curious exploration of your identity and shedding light on patterns that may no longer serve you. My specialties are working with clients who are grappling with trauma, perfectionism, grief, anxiety, depression and addiction.
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You're seeking relief and meaningful transformation. On the outside, you may appear to have everything under control, but deep down, you're overwhelmed, and feeling stuck. Perhaps, you yearn to connect but find it hard to trust others, and anxious about their perceptions of you. You may feel burnt out and exhausted from constantly prioritizing everyone else's needs over your own. Society, family, relationships, or past trauma may make you feel unsafe and doubtful. If you resonate with these and ready to get support, I'd love to help you navigate through these challenges, find inner peace, greater self-love and become more resilient.
You're seeking relief and meaningful transformation. On the outside, you may appear to have everything under control, but deep down, you're overwhelmed, and feeling stuck. Perhaps, you yearn to connect but find it hard to trust others, and anxious about their perceptions of you. You may feel burnt out and exhausted from constantly prioritizing everyone else's needs over your own. Society, family, relationships, or past trauma may make you feel unsafe and doubtful. If you resonate with these and ready to get support, I'd love to help you navigate through these challenges, find inner peace, greater self-love and become more resilient.
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Mary Deggelman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PPS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bothell, WA 98021
I am licensed in both the states of CA. and WA. My goal is to facilitate the process of innate healing and self-discovery for individuals and families seeking to improve their overall quality of life. I am a firm believer that obstacles may be turned into opportunities. Through both curious questioning and active listening, together we may illuminate your strengths and opportunity areas of growth. My objective is that after our first session, you will feel that we have a pathway for a desired solution. I have worked with ages ranging from 5 to 85 years young. I treat each individual, couple, or family with respect and warmth.
I am licensed in both the states of CA. and WA. My goal is to facilitate the process of innate healing and self-discovery for individuals and families seeking to improve their overall quality of life. I am a firm believer that obstacles may be turned into opportunities. Through both curious questioning and active listening, together we may illuminate your strengths and opportunity areas of growth. My objective is that after our first session, you will feel that we have a pathway for a desired solution. I have worked with ages ranging from 5 to 85 years young. I treat each individual, couple, or family with respect and warmth.
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Sometimes life goes exactly as planned and other times we face unexpected curveballs. This can result in grief, loss, depression, anxiety and more. When this happens, life can seem daunting and insurmountable but there is always hope. With a caring ear, guidance, & therapy methods that fit your situation, the challenges of life can be a catalyst for growth, healing, and joy! I consider it an honor to come alongside clients as they work on healing and overcoming their trials.
Sometimes life goes exactly as planned and other times we face unexpected curveballs. This can result in grief, loss, depression, anxiety and more. When this happens, life can seem daunting and insurmountable but there is always hope. With a caring ear, guidance, & therapy methods that fit your situation, the challenges of life can be a catalyst for growth, healing, and joy! I consider it an honor to come alongside clients as they work on healing and overcoming their trials.
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In my practice as a counselor, I believe that relationships are both formative and transformative. Most people find a connection between their relationships and the struggles they experience in their lives. Therefore, I approach counseling from an interpersonal perspective. In our sessions together, I will ask questions about your past and current relationships and their contribution to the issues that bring you to therapy. Where appropriate, I also incorporate cognitive-behavioral techniques in my practice. In addition to our time directly together, you may also be asked to complete homework between sessions in order to provide continuity between sessions.
In my practice as a counselor, I believe that relationships are both formative and transformative. Most people find a connection between their relationships and the struggles they experience in their lives. Therefore, I approach counseling from an interpersonal perspective. In our sessions together, I will ask questions about your past and current relationships and their contribution to the issues that bring you to therapy. Where appropriate, I also incorporate cognitive-behavioral techniques in my practice. In addition to our time directly together, you may also be asked to complete homework between sessions in order to provide continuity between sessions.
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We all want to be seen and understood and at the same time are afraid of what we and others will find. We don't trust ourselves or our decisions. We suffer from anxiety, depression, traumas and a myriad of other relational issues. In counseling we learn to understand ourselves and others by telling our stories well. As a greek philosopher once said, "An unexamined life isn't worth living". When we learn to examine ourselves with curiosity, compassion, and truth our life becomes clear hopeful and fullfilling.
We all want to be seen and understood and at the same time are afraid of what we and others will find. We don't trust ourselves or our decisions. We suffer from anxiety, depression, traumas and a myriad of other relational issues. In counseling we learn to understand ourselves and others by telling our stories well. As a greek philosopher once said, "An unexamined life isn't worth living". When we learn to examine ourselves with curiosity, compassion, and truth our life becomes clear hopeful and fullfilling.
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Jonathan has been providing assessment, diagnosis, treatment planning, and psychotherapy services to individuals and families for over 25 years. He has worked as a licensed psychologist or psychotherapist in Ohio, Michigan, the United Kingdom, and Washington. He has worked with clients of all ages and with a variety of mental health issues. However, he has had specialized training and experience working with clients dealing with personality disorders, eating disorders, resistant depression, and in managing clients in crisis. Additionally, he has extensive experience in areas including anxiety disorders, family/couples therapy, clients managing severe mental illness, and in working with adolescents. Learn More
Jonathan has been providing assessment, diagnosis, treatment planning, and psychotherapy services to individuals and families for over 25 years. He has worked as a licensed psychologist or psychotherapist in Ohio, Michigan, the United Kingdom, and Washington. He has worked with clients of all ages and with a variety of mental health issues. However, he has had specialized training and experience working with clients dealing with personality disorders, eating disorders, resistant depression, and in managing clients in crisis. Additionally, he has extensive experience in areas including anxiety disorders, family/couples therapy, clients managing severe mental illness, and in working with adolescents. Learn More
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.