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Paula J Hamm
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Winchester, VA 22602  (Online Only)
Running, running, running to where do I ask? Running away from painful feelings is often a compromised solution to painful feelings. Pain and Suffering is the portal to emotional maturity. No one is spared suffering but it is how we choose to make meaning out of loss that makes the difference between thriving or a life of bitterness and defeat. Intentional committment to understanding your unique narrative is the task I can help you with. Together we will identify the patterns of behavior, and intense emotional feelings that dysregulate your emotions. Please visit and contact me through my website; PaulaJHamm.com and send request
Running, running, running to where do I ask? Running away from painful feelings is often a compromised solution to painful feelings. Pain and Suffering is the portal to emotional maturity. No one is spared suffering but it is how we choose to make meaning out of loss that makes the difference between thriving or a life of bitterness and defeat. Intentional committment to understanding your unique narrative is the task I can help you with. Together we will identify the patterns of behavior, and intense emotional feelings that dysregulate your emotions. Please visit and contact me through my website; PaulaJHamm.com and send request
(703) 457-8940 View (703) 457-8940
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Rachel Cerretani
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Winchester, VA 22601  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself overthinking? Are you a people pleaser who feels their needs are unimportant? Maybe you are having a hard time processing a traumatic event. This can be exhausting and may be impacting your current relationships, job functioning, or daily mood. I understand that sometimes it can be difficult to trust and be vulnerable with others. My goal in our work together is that you can be yourself, while feeling supported and cared for.
Do you find yourself overthinking? Are you a people pleaser who feels their needs are unimportant? Maybe you are having a hard time processing a traumatic event. This can be exhausting and may be impacting your current relationships, job functioning, or daily mood. I understand that sometimes it can be difficult to trust and be vulnerable with others. My goal in our work together is that you can be yourself, while feeling supported and cared for.
(540) 384-4435 View (540) 384-4435
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Nell Kushlak
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winchester, VA 22601
Not accepting new clients
Are you experiencing difficulty understanding your feelings or needs, or coping with life changes or stressors? Are you struggling to recognize or set boundaries in relationships? Are you concerned that you may be suffering from depression, anxiety, trauma or bipolar disorder? Are you a parent concerned about your child or adolescent's behaviors or mood or wish to develop a new relationship with your child? Are you finding yourself in dissatisfying patterns at work, in relationships or in your lifestyle? Do you struggle with mood, thoughts or behaviors and wish to break the cycle?
Are you experiencing difficulty understanding your feelings or needs, or coping with life changes or stressors? Are you struggling to recognize or set boundaries in relationships? Are you concerned that you may be suffering from depression, anxiety, trauma or bipolar disorder? Are you a parent concerned about your child or adolescent's behaviors or mood or wish to develop a new relationship with your child? Are you finding yourself in dissatisfying patterns at work, in relationships or in your lifestyle? Do you struggle with mood, thoughts or behaviors and wish to break the cycle?
(540) 486-2643 View (540) 486-2643

Online Therapists

Photo of Jason Kent, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Jason Kent
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22911
Whether it's trauma, family dysfunction, or attachment-based struggles, those resources become hidden or lost.
I offer individual therapy for adults and adolescents, with a primary focus and expertise on those who are currently struggling with anxiety, addiction, depression, grief, and trauma. I also provide couples counseling. Other areas of expertise include family conflict, difficult life transitions, career/vocational issues, and challenges unique to men during this season.
Whether it's trauma, family dysfunction, or attachment-based struggles, those resources become hidden or lost.
I offer individual therapy for adults and adolescents, with a primary focus and expertise on those who are currently struggling with anxiety, addiction, depression, grief, and trauma. I also provide couples counseling. Other areas of expertise include family conflict, difficult life transitions, career/vocational issues, and challenges unique to men during this season.
(434) 722-3494 View (434) 722-3494
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Isabel B Kirk
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, EMDR, IFS, AEDP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
If you are facing a crisis or difficult time, are tired of being in pain, not find what you want or need, don't know what to do with your partner, child, boss...situation, or simply want to improve your life, contact me. I will help you change your life! I work with depression & anxiety, trauma, relationships therapy (dating, marriage & couples counseling, intimacy problems), eating disorders & body image and healthy eating, maternity and postpartum, parenting and attachment, and grief due to break-ups, perinatal loss, and divorce. I am also devoted to the field of positive psychology and support people during common life transitions.
If you are facing a crisis or difficult time, are tired of being in pain, not find what you want or need, don't know what to do with your partner, child, boss...situation, or simply want to improve your life, contact me. I will help you change your life! I work with depression & anxiety, trauma, relationships therapy (dating, marriage & couples counseling, intimacy problems), eating disorders & body image and healthy eating, maternity and postpartum, parenting and attachment, and grief due to break-ups, perinatal loss, and divorce. I am also devoted to the field of positive psychology and support people during common life transitions.
(703) 468-8650 View (703) 468-8650
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Shelley Faulkner
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I highly value trust and connection in order for humans to heal. I bring my authentic self and transparency into session in order to give clients the ability to be fully themselves. My goal is to help ease psychological suffering brought on by trauma and other negative life circumstances and then make sense of the overwhelming emotions/responses. It is through compassion and connection that corrective emotional experiences can occur. I believe that our ability to both experience and understand our Self and others is a key component in building secure (emotionally safe) relationships.
I highly value trust and connection in order for humans to heal. I bring my authentic self and transparency into session in order to give clients the ability to be fully themselves. My goal is to help ease psychological suffering brought on by trauma and other negative life circumstances and then make sense of the overwhelming emotions/responses. It is through compassion and connection that corrective emotional experiences can occur. I believe that our ability to both experience and understand our Self and others is a key component in building secure (emotionally safe) relationships.
(434) 505-8653 View (434) 505-8653
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Ryan Napolitano
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
I'm experienced in both modern and historical approaches; psychodynamic, attachment-based, internal family systems, addiction, and psychosynthesis.
When we feel stuck in our lives, for weeks, or years, it can take a toll on us in ways we may not see. Time passes and we don't feel any further in our life. We're left feeling exhausted and alone in our pain. My name is Ryan, and I provide therapy for people who are looking to break free. Whether it's poor relationships, anxiety, depression, substance or process addictions, trauma, or a desire to deepen their connection with others, I help my clients find strength, flexibility, and compassion, returning themselves to the feeling of being whole.
I'm experienced in both modern and historical approaches; psychodynamic, attachment-based, internal family systems, addiction, and psychosynthesis.
When we feel stuck in our lives, for weeks, or years, it can take a toll on us in ways we may not see. Time passes and we don't feel any further in our life. We're left feeling exhausted and alone in our pain. My name is Ryan, and I provide therapy for people who are looking to break free. Whether it's poor relationships, anxiety, depression, substance or process addictions, trauma, or a desire to deepen their connection with others, I help my clients find strength, flexibility, and compassion, returning themselves to the feeling of being whole.
(571) 297-1834 View (571) 297-1834
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Kathleen M Simpson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
With 25+ years experience providing psychotherapy to individuals and couples, I enjoy knowing and helping EACH client. Call/email me if you are struggling with anxiety/depression, low self-esteem, relationship/marital problems or everyday stress. My approach comes from training in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-based Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness. I enjoy working with individuals on problems of everyday living. The couples I see are stuck in negative cycles, or have experienced infidelity. I attend professional conferences/workshops regularly, and frequently collaborate with other professionals.
With 25+ years experience providing psychotherapy to individuals and couples, I enjoy knowing and helping EACH client. Call/email me if you are struggling with anxiety/depression, low self-esteem, relationship/marital problems or everyday stress. My approach comes from training in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Attachment-based Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness. I enjoy working with individuals on problems of everyday living. The couples I see are stuck in negative cycles, or have experienced infidelity. I attend professional conferences/workshops regularly, and frequently collaborate with other professionals.
(703) 957-7568 View (703) 957-7568
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Tawana Butler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22033  (Online Only)
The mind is the most powerful resource of the body. It is also, unfortunately, the least managed. It keeps a record of experiences and dictates emotions to us based on those experiences. What we think, feel, and believe impacts how we interact and perform. Often, more than we know. What I do is help facilitate mind and body realignment for the achievement of optimal performance in school, at work, and in personal lives. With an eclectic and flexible approach, I integrate mindfulness, motivational interviewing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and different holistic approaches to address your overall well-being.
The mind is the most powerful resource of the body. It is also, unfortunately, the least managed. It keeps a record of experiences and dictates emotions to us based on those experiences. What we think, feel, and believe impacts how we interact and perform. Often, more than we know. What I do is help facilitate mind and body realignment for the achievement of optimal performance in school, at work, and in personal lives. With an eclectic and flexible approach, I integrate mindfulness, motivational interviewing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and different holistic approaches to address your overall well-being.
(703) 260-8650 View (703) 260-8650
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Kiersten Farrell
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LSATP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Arlington, VA 22201  (Online Only)
Your present circumstances don’t determine where you go; they merely determine where you start. You have already taken such a huge step by researching therapists today. Welcome to my profile! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Substance Abuse Treatment Practitioner. I have worked in college, hospital, and outpatient settings with kids, teens, adults, couples and parents. I have extensive experience with substance use and abuse patterns, trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD and behavioral struggles, relationship issues and narcissistic abuse, sports related stress, and major life transitions.
Your present circumstances don’t determine where you go; they merely determine where you start. You have already taken such a huge step by researching therapists today. Welcome to my profile! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Substance Abuse Treatment Practitioner. I have worked in college, hospital, and outpatient settings with kids, teens, adults, couples and parents. I have extensive experience with substance use and abuse patterns, trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD and behavioral struggles, relationship issues and narcissistic abuse, sports related stress, and major life transitions.
(571) 554-5056 View (571) 554-5056
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Amy (Campbell) Columbus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Culpeper, VA 22701
Waitlist for new clients
As a person centered and trauma focused therapist, I enjoy helping others who are in need of peace, recovery, and healing. I have experience working with children, adolescents, and adults struggling with eating disorders, body image, depression, grief, anxiety, mood disorders, and other co-occurring issues in multiple levels of care through a trauma lens. I have a background as a school social worker, medical social worker in which I bring tremendous experience in working with complex family situations, multidisciplinary teams, and through a lens of growth and change towards recovery and strength.
As a person centered and trauma focused therapist, I enjoy helping others who are in need of peace, recovery, and healing. I have experience working with children, adolescents, and adults struggling with eating disorders, body image, depression, grief, anxiety, mood disorders, and other co-occurring issues in multiple levels of care through a trauma lens. I have a background as a school social worker, medical social worker in which I bring tremendous experience in working with complex family situations, multidisciplinary teams, and through a lens of growth and change towards recovery and strength.
(434) 236-8608 View (434) 236-8608
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Dan Savage
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Stone Ridge, VA 20105
I have been an athlete my whole life and played baseball in college. Understanding the stress and pressure to perform, I specialize in working with student athletes who are struggling emotionally on and off the field. I enjoy using sports, exercise, and the outdoors to help clients identify and express their feelings, improve communication, and identify healthier ways to cope. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, excessive stress, or difficulties at home or school, you are not alone and I am here to offer genuine support.
I have been an athlete my whole life and played baseball in college. Understanding the stress and pressure to perform, I specialize in working with student athletes who are struggling emotionally on and off the field. I enjoy using sports, exercise, and the outdoors to help clients identify and express their feelings, improve communication, and identify healthier ways to cope. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, excessive stress, or difficulties at home or school, you are not alone and I am here to offer genuine support.
(571) 496-8727 View (571) 496-8727
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Meredith Adams
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC, NBCCH
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22030
Life's journey is filled with challenges, and how we navigate these challenges can profoundly impact our well-being. Are you feeling overwhelmed, unable to decide where to start, or anxious with what's on your plate? As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I have the experience and background to support you in managing and overcoming these obstacles, together. In our sessions, we will work together to explore your existing strengths and equip you with new tools to address the issues weighing you down. You are not alone in this.
Life's journey is filled with challenges, and how we navigate these challenges can profoundly impact our well-being. Are you feeling overwhelmed, unable to decide where to start, or anxious with what's on your plate? As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I have the experience and background to support you in managing and overcoming these obstacles, together. In our sessions, we will work together to explore your existing strengths and equip you with new tools to address the issues weighing you down. You are not alone in this.
(804) 294-4456 View (804) 294-4456
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Sydney Smedley
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22044
Through person-centered and psychoanalytic approaches, my goal is to explore with you how your past experiences may be impacting your current life challenges. Through our work together, I hope to contribute to resolving unfinished conflict while strengthening your innate tools and resources.
Through person-centered and psychoanalytic approaches, my goal is to explore with you how your past experiences may be impacting your current life challenges. Through our work together, I hope to contribute to resolving unfinished conflict while strengthening your innate tools and resources.
(571) 290-2404 View (571) 290-2404
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Tammy Christman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, MA
Verified Verified
Vienna, VA 22180  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Tammy is a client-centered and emotion-focused counseling professional welcoming older children, teens and adults with transition concerns, life changes, eating disorders, mood disorders, problems with self-esteem and other maladaptive coping skills. Through therapy, Tammy helps clients identify their strengths and empowers them to regulate negative thoughts and behaviors. Thoughts, feelings and behaviors are all intertwined, which is why she will work with you to understand their origination change your thinking. Managing thoughts, emotions and behaviors is the key to important positive change.
Tammy is a client-centered and emotion-focused counseling professional welcoming older children, teens and adults with transition concerns, life changes, eating disorders, mood disorders, problems with self-esteem and other maladaptive coping skills. Through therapy, Tammy helps clients identify their strengths and empowers them to regulate negative thoughts and behaviors. Thoughts, feelings and behaviors are all intertwined, which is why she will work with you to understand their origination change your thinking. Managing thoughts, emotions and behaviors is the key to important positive change.
(571) 200-4516 View (571) 200-4516
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Kasey Reichard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
McLean, VA 22101  (Online Only)
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult experience. So please take advantage of reaching out and scheduling a FREE 15-minute consult to learn more, and talk to me directly. In the meantime, a little about me...I enjoy working with clients from various backgrounds, but I do have some specialty areas that I work with consistently, and that I have received additional training for. Primarily, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Perinatal Mental Health. I frequently work with clients who are struggling to manage shame and anxiety, as well as the tough feelings that come with what they feel they "should" or "shouldn't" be doing.
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult experience. So please take advantage of reaching out and scheduling a FREE 15-minute consult to learn more, and talk to me directly. In the meantime, a little about me...I enjoy working with clients from various backgrounds, but I do have some specialty areas that I work with consistently, and that I have received additional training for. Primarily, Emotionally Focused Therapy and Perinatal Mental Health. I frequently work with clients who are struggling to manage shame and anxiety, as well as the tough feelings that come with what they feel they "should" or "shouldn't" be doing.
(571) 517-9124 View (571) 517-9124
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Jillian Freedman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
As your therapist I aim to guide you on your journey towards self-growth and self-improvement. Through collaboration, psycho-education, and the application of several interventions including EMDR catered to your current needs I hope to alleviate any pain or stress you may be feeling on a daily basis. Through effective problem-solving and coping strategies, one can also begin to work through any internal or external conflict they are experiencing that may be impacting any personal or interpersonal relationships. I am a huge believer in holistic wellness and that it is important to look at the whole person not just a single part.
As your therapist I aim to guide you on your journey towards self-growth and self-improvement. Through collaboration, psycho-education, and the application of several interventions including EMDR catered to your current needs I hope to alleviate any pain or stress you may be feeling on a daily basis. Through effective problem-solving and coping strategies, one can also begin to work through any internal or external conflict they are experiencing that may be impacting any personal or interpersonal relationships. I am a huge believer in holistic wellness and that it is important to look at the whole person not just a single part.
(703) 783-3566 View (703) 783-3566
Deitra Chisley-Fant
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LCPC-S, LPC-AS
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by stress, neglecting your own well-being, dealing with work issues, navigating toxic relationships, managing the chaos of parenting, grieving loss, and facing challenges related to gender identity, social class, and race? Look no further than Connect to Care Counseling Services, offers a safe and supportive environment for our clients to explore their concerns and work towards personal growth through psychotherapy.Our approach is focused on empowerment and self-discovery, helping individuals emerge. We service Virginia, Louisiana, DC, and Maryland clients. At this time, there is no waitlist.
Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by stress, neglecting your own well-being, dealing with work issues, navigating toxic relationships, managing the chaos of parenting, grieving loss, and facing challenges related to gender identity, social class, and race? Look no further than Connect to Care Counseling Services, offers a safe and supportive environment for our clients to explore their concerns and work towards personal growth through psychotherapy.Our approach is focused on empowerment and self-discovery, helping individuals emerge. We service Virginia, Louisiana, DC, and Maryland clients. At this time, there is no waitlist.
(571) 380-7811 x1 View (571) 380-7811 x1
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Drake Delaplane
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, PPS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reston, VA 20190
Are you feeling confused, anxious, hopeless, hurt, abused, out of control, struggling with sleep issues, or lonely? Do you notice that you are not able to move through life with ease, becoming irritable, tired, or stuck in a cycle of despair? Sometimes life presents us with feelings or situations that seem overwhelming leading you to desire someone who honestly "gets" you, who will help you feel understood, and who will provide clearcut answers. My therapy provides a safe experience to explore all that life throws your way and can help you get to know your inner world and feelings, providing quick focus and precise solutions.
Are you feeling confused, anxious, hopeless, hurt, abused, out of control, struggling with sleep issues, or lonely? Do you notice that you are not able to move through life with ease, becoming irritable, tired, or stuck in a cycle of despair? Sometimes life presents us with feelings or situations that seem overwhelming leading you to desire someone who honestly "gets" you, who will help you feel understood, and who will provide clearcut answers. My therapy provides a safe experience to explore all that life throws your way and can help you get to know your inner world and feelings, providing quick focus and precise solutions.
(916) 758-9539 View (916) 758-9539
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Elizabeth Mahaney, South Tampa Therapy & Mediation
Counselor, LMHC, Q Suprv, NCC, MFT, PhD
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Arlington, VA 22201
Looking for a Gottman, solution-focused, strength-base and agile approach to marriage & family therapy, NVC & individual counseling in Tampa? You have found a great place to start creating a more self-aware, intentional, and happier life. We will: 1. Assess and attune to your unique situation, needs and the needs of loved ones 2. Agree to collaborate and develop a plan together to create specific intentions, goals and measurable outcomes 3. Accountability helps make the changes last! I'll give you the tools you need to understand what changes need to be made, avoid relapse & continue to create changes that you DO want to see happen
Looking for a Gottman, solution-focused, strength-base and agile approach to marriage & family therapy, NVC & individual counseling in Tampa? You have found a great place to start creating a more self-aware, intentional, and happier life. We will: 1. Assess and attune to your unique situation, needs and the needs of loved ones 2. Agree to collaborate and develop a plan together to create specific intentions, goals and measurable outcomes 3. Accountability helps make the changes last! I'll give you the tools you need to understand what changes need to be made, avoid relapse & continue to create changes that you DO want to see happen
(813) 438-4867 View (813) 438-4867
Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.