Infidelity Therapists in Orange County, VA

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Seasons Counseling, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Locust Grove, VA 22508
Greetings! I am Anne Luckinbill, LPC. Seasons Counseling has a team of caring therapists who are skilled at assessing and diagnosing mental health concerns based on current struggles and your historical information. Your concerns about behavior, emotion, personality, and relationships will be treated using Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, and other therapeutic approaches. Trauma concerns will be addressed with an understanding that trauma impacts daily function and interactions. Likewise, early relationships and attachment patterns impact our current relationships. We serve children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples.
Greetings! I am Anne Luckinbill, LPC. Seasons Counseling has a team of caring therapists who are skilled at assessing and diagnosing mental health concerns based on current struggles and your historical information. Your concerns about behavior, emotion, personality, and relationships will be treated using Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, and other therapeutic approaches. Trauma concerns will be addressed with an understanding that trauma impacts daily function and interactions. Likewise, early relationships and attachment patterns impact our current relationships. We serve children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples.
(540) 274-1010 View (540) 274-1010
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Monarch Journey Counseling Services LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, COSTP, RPT-S, CSAC, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Orange, VA 22960
Monarch Journey Counseling LLC is located at 146 Byrd Street Orange, Va. Hours are by appointment. We look forward to meeting you!
Monarch Journey Counseling LLC is located at 146 Byrd Street Orange, Va. Hours are by appointment. We look forward to meeting you!
(540) 360-1739 View (540) 360-1739
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April Dalby
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Eheart, VA 22923
There is no greater joy than assisting clients in finding their strengths and ways to use their strengths to overcome life obstacles by creating a new narrative.
There is no greater joy than assisting clients in finding their strengths and ways to use their strengths to overcome life obstacles by creating a new narrative.
(804) 889-2396 View (804) 889-2396
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Shannon Paige
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Unionville, VA 22567
Finding someone to share your experiences with, whom you can trust is an important step in your journey. I believe challenging times and experiences offer you the greatest potential to create the life you have wanted and dreamt of. While reaching out for help is often the first and most difficult steps to initiating change in our lives and moving toward wholeness, I am so glad that you are here!
Finding someone to share your experiences with, whom you can trust is an important step in your journey. I believe challenging times and experiences offer you the greatest potential to create the life you have wanted and dreamt of. While reaching out for help is often the first and most difficult steps to initiating change in our lives and moving toward wholeness, I am so glad that you are here!
(571) 536-7065 View (571) 536-7065
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Tabitha Taylor
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Orange, VA 22960  (Online Only)
At Roots to Petals Wellness, I work with individuals who are healing from challenges related to trauma, anxiety, depression, sexual disorders, and LGBTQ-related concerns. I also focus on the first responder population, corrections personnel, and returning citizens who experience unique stresses. Additionally, I concentrate on people of color and minority populations who may feel unseen in mainstream mental health services.
At Roots to Petals Wellness, I work with individuals who are healing from challenges related to trauma, anxiety, depression, sexual disorders, and LGBTQ-related concerns. I also focus on the first responder population, corrections personnel, and returning citizens who experience unique stresses. Additionally, I concentrate on people of color and minority populations who may feel unseen in mainstream mental health services.
(804) 445-8138 View (804) 445-8138

Online Therapists

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Nancy Elie Kirk
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfax, VA 22030
Many of my clients are seeking therapy for intimacy disorders, infidelity and addictions to pornography, sex, alcohol and other addictions.
People come to therapy for a variety of reasons. Those suffering from addictions, compulsions, anxiety, and relationship problems often seek help when they are acting in ways that they don’t want to act or thinking in ways that don’t support their best interests. I am a Certified Sex Addictions Therapist and Couples Counselor in northern Virginia accepting Anthem BCBS. Whether you are experiencing a crisis or are seeking better life balance and a new perspective, you may wish to work with a specialist. I offer warmth, curiosity and an ability to focus on objectives with clients seeking real solutions.
Many of my clients are seeking therapy for intimacy disorders, infidelity and addictions to pornography, sex, alcohol and other addictions.
People come to therapy for a variety of reasons. Those suffering from addictions, compulsions, anxiety, and relationship problems often seek help when they are acting in ways that they don’t want to act or thinking in ways that don’t support their best interests. I am a Certified Sex Addictions Therapist and Couples Counselor in northern Virginia accepting Anthem BCBS. Whether you are experiencing a crisis or are seeking better life balance and a new perspective, you may wish to work with a specialist. I offer warmth, curiosity and an ability to focus on objectives with clients seeking real solutions.
(571) 665-4011 View (571) 665-4011
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Nan Tilbury
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT, CDWF
Verified Verified
Reston, VA 20190
Porn. Escorts. Massage parlors. Online sexual behaviors. Compulsive sexual behavior is ruining your life. Your behavior does not define you; I know how to help you out of this mess. I have both the training and skills to help you with out of control sexual behavior and the betrayal trauma they have caused your partner. It's hard to talk about sexual issues, but I am both used to and comfortable with discussing these topics. My therapeutic style is direct, funny and warm, and I am described as empathetic in my work. Your work with me will be both confidential and respectful.
Porn. Escorts. Massage parlors. Online sexual behaviors. Compulsive sexual behavior is ruining your life. Your behavior does not define you; I know how to help you out of this mess. I have both the training and skills to help you with out of control sexual behavior and the betrayal trauma they have caused your partner. It's hard to talk about sexual issues, but I am both used to and comfortable with discussing these topics. My therapeutic style is direct, funny and warm, and I am described as empathetic in my work. Your work with me will be both confidential and respectful.
(913) 937-0195 View (913) 937-0195
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Madison Tincha
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LGPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationships or partners? Are you stuck in the same patterns and stories? I believe I can help you. I work with adult individuals and couples struggling with various relationship issues including the early stages of dating, maintaining secure relationships, attachment trauma/issues, anxiety, and self-esteem. Additionally, I am passionate about integrative couples and sex therapy. I provide support in areas such as infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, sexual trauma, and sexual disorders. I hope to foster a sex-positive environment that is free of judgment.
Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationships or partners? Are you stuck in the same patterns and stories? I believe I can help you. I work with adult individuals and couples struggling with various relationship issues including the early stages of dating, maintaining secure relationships, attachment trauma/issues, anxiety, and self-esteem. Additionally, I am passionate about integrative couples and sex therapy. I provide support in areas such as infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, sexual trauma, and sexual disorders. I hope to foster a sex-positive environment that is free of judgment.
(571) 470-5460 View (571) 470-5460
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Odyssey Counseling LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Midlothian, VA 23113  (Online Only)
I have experience in helping clients with abuse, trauma, couples & relationships, affairs, family conflicts, motivation, self-esteem, depression, and intergenerational, and higher ed issues.
I have been in the helping field for over 30 years. I have experience in clinical practice as well as being a university professor. My belief is that life is not a straight line nor sequential. However, with the right support, you can find solutions and contentment. I will facilitate and empower you on your journey. While I firmly believe in discussing the origin of the issues, I am also practical and do believe in solutions. As such, together we implement tools while continuing to explore the issues deeper. Finally, the "fit" between the therapist and client is clinically crucial. I am happy to meet for a consultation.
I have experience in helping clients with abuse, trauma, couples & relationships, affairs, family conflicts, motivation, self-esteem, depression, and intergenerational, and higher ed issues.
I have been in the helping field for over 30 years. I have experience in clinical practice as well as being a university professor. My belief is that life is not a straight line nor sequential. However, with the right support, you can find solutions and contentment. I will facilitate and empower you on your journey. While I firmly believe in discussing the origin of the issues, I am also practical and do believe in solutions. As such, together we implement tools while continuing to explore the issues deeper. Finally, the "fit" between the therapist and client is clinically crucial. I am happy to meet for a consultation.
(804) 635-3933 View (804) 635-3933
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Light Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Lynchburg, VA 24502
At Light Counseling, our team of professionally trained and compassionate clinicians are here to help you overcome life’s challenges with evidence-based practices and a distinctly Christian approach. Our professionals specialize in helping with many of the following issues: ADD/ADHD, Adolescence Adjustments, Alcohol Abuse and Addictions, Anger Management, Anxiety, Attachment Disorders, Child Abuse/Victim Support, Childhood Behavioral Problems, Compulsions, Depression, Drug Abuse and Addiction, Family Issues, Grief and Loss, Infidelity, Marital Stress, Men’s Issues, Obsession, Panic Attacks, Parenting and Step-Parenting Concerns, Phobias, Pornography, Post Traumatic Stress Issues, and more.
At Light Counseling, our team of professionally trained and compassionate clinicians are here to help you overcome life’s challenges with evidence-based practices and a distinctly Christian approach. Our professionals specialize in helping with many of the following issues: ADD/ADHD, Adolescence Adjustments, Alcohol Abuse and Addictions, Anger Management, Anxiety, Attachment Disorders, Child Abuse/Victim Support, Childhood Behavioral Problems, Compulsions, Depression, Drug Abuse and Addiction, Family Issues, Grief and Loss, Infidelity, Marital Stress, Men’s Issues, Obsession, Panic Attacks, Parenting and Step-Parenting Concerns, Phobias, Pornography, Post Traumatic Stress Issues, and more.
(434) 425-7702 View (434) 425-7702
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Odyssey Counseling LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23225  (Online Only)
I have experience in helping clients with abuse, trauma, couples & relationships, affairs, family conflicts, motivation, self-esteem, depression, and intergenerational, and higher ed issues.
I have been in the helping field for over 30 years. I have experience in clinical practice as well as being a university professor. My belief is that life is not a straight line nor sequential. However, with the right support, you can find solutions and contentment. I will facilitate and empower you on your journey. While I firmly believe in discussing the origin of the issues, I am also practical and do believe in solutions. As such, together we implement tools while continuing to explore the issues deeper. Finally, the "fit" between the therapist and client is clinically crucial. I am happy to meet for a consultation.
I have experience in helping clients with abuse, trauma, couples & relationships, affairs, family conflicts, motivation, self-esteem, depression, and intergenerational, and higher ed issues.
I have been in the helping field for over 30 years. I have experience in clinical practice as well as being a university professor. My belief is that life is not a straight line nor sequential. However, with the right support, you can find solutions and contentment. I will facilitate and empower you on your journey. While I firmly believe in discussing the origin of the issues, I am also practical and do believe in solutions. As such, together we implement tools while continuing to explore the issues deeper. Finally, the "fit" between the therapist and client is clinically crucial. I am happy to meet for a consultation.
(240) 201-2080 View (240) 201-2080
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Lisa B. Xantus
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Woodbridge, VA 22192
My expertise lies in the areas of trauma, anxiety, betrayal, and relationship issues.
Life's journey is a complex and beautiful tapestry woven with moments of joy, resilience, and transformation. I am Lisa Xantus, a therapist with extensive experience in the counseling profession. I am honored to guide you on a path of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing. With a career dedicated to assisting individuals and couples in their pursuit of emotional health and personal growth, my mission is to create a safe, nurturing space where your experiences are not only acknowledged but celebrated. Here, your stories are valued, and your potential is boundless.
My expertise lies in the areas of trauma, anxiety, betrayal, and relationship issues.
Life's journey is a complex and beautiful tapestry woven with moments of joy, resilience, and transformation. I am Lisa Xantus, a therapist with extensive experience in the counseling profession. I am honored to guide you on a path of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing. With a career dedicated to assisting individuals and couples in their pursuit of emotional health and personal growth, my mission is to create a safe, nurturing space where your experiences are not only acknowledged but celebrated. Here, your stories are valued, and your potential is boundless.
(571) 380-7636 View (571) 380-7636
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Jessica MacNair
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
18 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
As an LPC with two decades of experience, I feel honored to be able to work with many different clients during what is often a vulnerable time. I bring empathy and compassion to therapy sessions, which may focus on trauma, postpartum mood disorders, eating disorders, infertility and addictions. I work with grief & loss, including pregnancy and child loss. I specialize in navigating relationship crises, infidelity and narcissistic abuse. I am an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist who is passionate about working with marginalized people. I am the founder of Falls Church Wellness Center (established 2013), a mental & physical health facility.
As an LPC with two decades of experience, I feel honored to be able to work with many different clients during what is often a vulnerable time. I bring empathy and compassion to therapy sessions, which may focus on trauma, postpartum mood disorders, eating disorders, infertility and addictions. I work with grief & loss, including pregnancy and child loss. I specialize in navigating relationship crises, infidelity and narcissistic abuse. I am an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist who is passionate about working with marginalized people. I am the founder of Falls Church Wellness Center (established 2013), a mental & physical health facility.
(571) 449-2731 View (571) 449-2731
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Tanyka Abbott
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C, LCSW, CPLC
Verified Verified
Dumfries, VA 22025  (Online Only)
Sexual abuse and infidelity thrive on secrecy & shame.
Are you secretly dealing with the pain of sexual trauma? Is it causing problems in your relationship or keeping you from relationship? Do you use work, accomplishments, ministry or even relationships to avoid or mask the pain? Has the discovery of infidelity left you riding an emotional roller coaster you can't stop? You're confused, angry, scared, and in pain, uncertain of how or if the pain will end. You want off of the roller coaster. You need answers not only regarding how this could happen, but about what's next. You are not alone. There is help and healing is possible. You can regain control of your emotions and your life.
Sexual abuse and infidelity thrive on secrecy & shame.
Are you secretly dealing with the pain of sexual trauma? Is it causing problems in your relationship or keeping you from relationship? Do you use work, accomplishments, ministry or even relationships to avoid or mask the pain? Has the discovery of infidelity left you riding an emotional roller coaster you can't stop? You're confused, angry, scared, and in pain, uncertain of how or if the pain will end. You want off of the roller coaster. You need answers not only regarding how this could happen, but about what's next. You are not alone. There is help and healing is possible. You can regain control of your emotions and your life.
(804) 312-5930 View (804) 312-5930
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Olga A Haines
Resident in Counseling, MA, CCATP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
I also offer 90 minute couples sessions where we address such concerns as infidelity, marital conflict, intimacy issues, premarital counseling.
I provide my clients with a safe, judgement-free environment so they feel supported from the first point of contact throughout our therapeutic relationship. I value individual differences in each of my clients and provide space for them to be who they are. Being unedited and open with oneself is essential for understanding the sources of anxiety, depression, relationship issues and many other concerns. I have a wide array of clinical experience as I work with adolescents and adults. Some of specialties are: depression, relationship issues, women issues, narcissistic abuse, crisis, grief, trauma, life transitions.
I also offer 90 minute couples sessions where we address such concerns as infidelity, marital conflict, intimacy issues, premarital counseling.
I provide my clients with a safe, judgement-free environment so they feel supported from the first point of contact throughout our therapeutic relationship. I value individual differences in each of my clients and provide space for them to be who they are. Being unedited and open with oneself is essential for understanding the sources of anxiety, depression, relationship issues and many other concerns. I have a wide array of clinical experience as I work with adolescents and adults. Some of specialties are: depression, relationship issues, women issues, narcissistic abuse, crisis, grief, trauma, life transitions.
(571) 487-8213 View (571) 487-8213
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Janine Murphy-Neilson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Herndon, VA 20170
Emotional or physical affairs can lead to crisis in relationships.
Do you long for the days when you and your partner seemed happy and not every conversation left you feeling angry, sad, or misunderstood? Do you feel like you are banging your head against a wall having the same old fight? It can be very painful when the relationship you care the most about is not working or is causing you pain. I am certified in EFT, Emotionally Focused Therapy. Many therapists say they work with couples but when your relationship is struggling you deserve to work with someone who has experience and training with a solid, well researched approach that provides a plan to help you.
Emotional or physical affairs can lead to crisis in relationships.
Do you long for the days when you and your partner seemed happy and not every conversation left you feeling angry, sad, or misunderstood? Do you feel like you are banging your head against a wall having the same old fight? It can be very painful when the relationship you care the most about is not working or is causing you pain. I am certified in EFT, Emotionally Focused Therapy. Many therapists say they work with couples but when your relationship is struggling you deserve to work with someone who has experience and training with a solid, well researched approach that provides a plan to help you.
(703) 596-4205 View (703) 596-4205
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Elizabeth Stevens
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Herndon, VA 20170
I work with all couples and relationships as has special interests helping couples recover from infidelity and helping couples caught in high conflict or communication breakdowns.
I have spent several years with couples and individuals utilizing a variety of clinical approaches and has studied Gottman and Emotionally Focused therapy models.
I work with all couples and relationships as has special interests helping couples recover from infidelity and helping couples caught in high conflict or communication breakdowns.
I have spent several years with couples and individuals utilizing a variety of clinical approaches and has studied Gottman and Emotionally Focused therapy models.
(571) 998-1815 View (571) 998-1815
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Susie Hanna
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT, CCBRT-C
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22030
As an EFT and a CCBRT trained therapist, I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with issues such as communication, betrayal/ infidelity, and sexual addiction.
Do you find that your pornography or sexual addiction is consuming your life? Is your partner's sexual compulsions damaging your relationship and sense of self? I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and a Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist (CCBRT). I specialize in working with individuals struggling with problematic sexual behavior, their partners and the coupleship. I can help those struggling with porn/sexual addiction, and help guide them towards overcoming these addictions. I also support Partners of sex/porn addicts by empowering and guiding them through the betrayal trauma.
As an EFT and a CCBRT trained therapist, I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with issues such as communication, betrayal/ infidelity, and sexual addiction.
Do you find that your pornography or sexual addiction is consuming your life? Is your partner's sexual compulsions damaging your relationship and sense of self? I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and a Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist (CCBRT). I specialize in working with individuals struggling with problematic sexual behavior, their partners and the coupleship. I can help those struggling with porn/sexual addiction, and help guide them towards overcoming these addictions. I also support Partners of sex/porn addicts by empowering and guiding them through the betrayal trauma.
(571) 500-5674 View (571) 500-5674
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Adam C. Prestegord
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, LCSW-C, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22305
I will work with you to address concerns related to sexual and gender identities, coming out, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, dating, infidelity, desire discrepancies, and performance anxiety.
Sex, identity, and relationships can be integral parts of our lives. However, shame, miscommunication, and other life stress might prevent us from having the connections we want. Although these frustrations may seem insurmountable at times, change is possible. Looking for a therapist is a positive first step. Whether you are looking to gain personal insight, develop coping strategies, or improve your relationships and sexual functioning, we can work together to achieve your goals. I work with individuals and couples. I am licensed in VA, DC, and MD and certified as a sex therapist by AASECT.
I will work with you to address concerns related to sexual and gender identities, coming out, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, dating, infidelity, desire discrepancies, and performance anxiety.
Sex, identity, and relationships can be integral parts of our lives. However, shame, miscommunication, and other life stress might prevent us from having the connections we want. Although these frustrations may seem insurmountable at times, change is possible. Looking for a therapist is a positive first step. Whether you are looking to gain personal insight, develop coping strategies, or improve your relationships and sexual functioning, we can work together to achieve your goals. I work with individuals and couples. I am licensed in VA, DC, and MD and certified as a sex therapist by AASECT.
(571) 200-5235 View (571) 200-5235
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Hope Beth Bagley
Psychologist, PhD, CP, LPC
Verified Verified
I specialize in Neuropsychology, hypnosis, imago therapy, infidelity, affairs, sex therapy, and have accommodations for ADHD Testing.
I'm a Licensed Neuropsychologist who serves Charlottesville and the surrounding counties in Virginia. I have made it my life’s mission to help patients diagnose and better understand illness that affect brain function and behavior. I offer a safe setting to gain an understanding and solutions related to the issues and goals in one's life. I offer comprehensive cognitive assessments, personalized therapy, and innovative remote patient testing solutions. In a creative journey, we can find solutions to move forward in the areas of your life where you would like to move forward.
I specialize in Neuropsychology, hypnosis, imago therapy, infidelity, affairs, sex therapy, and have accommodations for ADHD Testing.
I'm a Licensed Neuropsychologist who serves Charlottesville and the surrounding counties in Virginia. I have made it my life’s mission to help patients diagnose and better understand illness that affect brain function and behavior. I offer a safe setting to gain an understanding and solutions related to the issues and goals in one's life. I offer comprehensive cognitive assessments, personalized therapy, and innovative remote patient testing solutions. In a creative journey, we can find solutions to move forward in the areas of your life where you would like to move forward.
(434) 595-3466 View (434) 595-3466

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.