Couples Counseling Therapists in Charlottesville, VA

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Thomas Cooke
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22903
While working with couples, I honor the unique context of each partner as well as the developmental stage of the relationship.
I provide couple counseling both in person and online. The majority of my clients are ready to continue to grow, both as individuals and in their relationships, but are finding that old patterns might be getting in the way. My goal as a clinician is to balance emotional validation and safety with action-oriented approaches.
While working with couples, I honor the unique context of each partner as well as the developmental stage of the relationship.
I provide couple counseling both in person and online. The majority of my clients are ready to continue to grow, both as individuals and in their relationships, but are finding that old patterns might be getting in the way. My goal as a clinician is to balance emotional validation and safety with action-oriented approaches.
(434) 280-3104 View (434) 280-3104
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Wright Group Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LSATP
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22903  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am accepting new clients. Whether you’re considering therapy for the first time or returning, finding a provider that you can connect with and develop trust with is important. I work with adolescents, adults and couples to address a range of concerns (e.g. anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, life transitions, relationships, and addictions). I help clients develop greater self-understanding and better relate in relationships.
Welcome! I am accepting new clients. Whether you’re considering therapy for the first time or returning, finding a provider that you can connect with and develop trust with is important. I work with adolescents, adults and couples to address a range of concerns (e.g. anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, life transitions, relationships, and addictions). I help clients develop greater self-understanding and better relate in relationships.
(434) 201-7641 View (434) 201-7641
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Amanda Winecoff
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MBA
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902  (Online Only)
I offer individualized EMDR, DBT,CBT and person centered therapy for individuals and couples and structured family therapy for parenting and family issues.
I believe we all just want to do, feel and be a little better every day. I use an approach based in kindness, compassion, mindfulness and strength to help you find a way to be better everyday in your life and your relationships. I will help you explore emotional lability, past trauma, feeling stuck, and lack of hope for a better future. Grief, fear and feeling overwhelmed often stops us from being the best we can be. If you want to move towards a better you, I can offer some help
I offer individualized EMDR, DBT,CBT and person centered therapy for individuals and couples and structured family therapy for parenting and family issues.
I believe we all just want to do, feel and be a little better every day. I use an approach based in kindness, compassion, mindfulness and strength to help you find a way to be better everyday in your life and your relationships. I will help you explore emotional lability, past trauma, feeling stuck, and lack of hope for a better future. Grief, fear and feeling overwhelmed often stops us from being the best we can be. If you want to move towards a better you, I can offer some help
(434) 372-9654 View (434) 372-9654
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Strength & Ease Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Our team at Strength & Ease Psychotherapy offers couple therapy for folks living in Virginia and DC. Couples come to us with unresolved relationship conflicts, needing reconnection and healing, or support with a breach of trust or longstanding resentment. They may also be seeking help with infertility, birth loss or trauma, postpartum depression or anxiety, parenting issues, grief, or complicated childhood experiences that impact their current relationship. We work together to close the gaps of disconnection, repair the ruptures between you, and create more vulnerability, trust, and emotional and physical intimacy.
Our team at Strength & Ease Psychotherapy offers couple therapy for folks living in Virginia and DC. Couples come to us with unresolved relationship conflicts, needing reconnection and healing, or support with a breach of trust or longstanding resentment. They may also be seeking help with infertility, birth loss or trauma, postpartum depression or anxiety, parenting issues, grief, or complicated childhood experiences that impact their current relationship. We work together to close the gaps of disconnection, repair the ruptures between you, and create more vulnerability, trust, and emotional and physical intimacy.
(434) 262-4015 View (434) 262-4015
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Katelyn Dolieslager
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902  (Online Only)
I work with individuals of all backgrounds, from young children to adults, couples, and everyone in between.
I'm Katie, I earned my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from James Madison University & Eastern Mennonite University respectively. My aim is to create a space where clients feel deeply seen, heard, valued & understood, fostering transformation and healing. I primarily utilize Attachment Theory, examining how interpersonal relationships shape individuals' lives from early childhood to adulthood. I firmly believe in everyone's inherent value, worth, and purpose & I employ play therapy, art therapy, nature immersion & the creation of safe spaces.
I work with individuals of all backgrounds, from young children to adults, couples, and everyone in between.
I'm Katie, I earned my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from James Madison University & Eastern Mennonite University respectively. My aim is to create a space where clients feel deeply seen, heard, valued & understood, fostering transformation and healing. I primarily utilize Attachment Theory, examining how interpersonal relationships shape individuals' lives from early childhood to adulthood. I firmly believe in everyone's inherent value, worth, and purpose & I employ play therapy, art therapy, nature immersion & the creation of safe spaces.
(434) 478-4973 View (434) 478-4973
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Jennifer Grover
LPC Intern
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22903
My experiences as an educator taught me the power of the therapeutic relationship to create an environment for growing and healing, recognizing resilience, and building skills that we carry forward on our journeys.
Emerging knowledge of mindfulness and neurobiology inform my emotion-focused style of counseling. I approach clients not as diagnoses but as people experiencing disconnection from others and self, who have within them the desire and capability for change. I believe that healing occurs within the safety of a warm therapeutic relationship, in which we make space for compassionately exploring our emotions and meaning-making.
My experiences as an educator taught me the power of the therapeutic relationship to create an environment for growing and healing, recognizing resilience, and building skills that we carry forward on our journeys.
Emerging knowledge of mindfulness and neurobiology inform my emotion-focused style of counseling. I approach clients not as diagnoses but as people experiencing disconnection from others and self, who have within them the desire and capability for change. I believe that healing occurs within the safety of a warm therapeutic relationship, in which we make space for compassionately exploring our emotions and meaning-making.
(434) 608-5834 View (434) 608-5834
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Lara Harrison
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I'm passionate about helping individuals, couples and families heal and experience deeper, more meaningful connections. My work as a counselor has spanned over a decade and through a variety of settings including community-based counseling, outpatient level services, residential care, and crisis support. I have particular interest in working with issues related to foster care and culturally-based trauma. I also have many years experience treating mood-disorders in adolescents.
I'm passionate about helping individuals, couples and families heal and experience deeper, more meaningful connections. My work as a counselor has spanned over a decade and through a variety of settings including community-based counseling, outpatient level services, residential care, and crisis support. I have particular interest in working with issues related to foster care and culturally-based trauma. I also have many years experience treating mood-disorders in adolescents.
(757) 378-0724 View (757) 378-0724
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Karen Ann Durland-Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I also have experience and training in providing therapy to couples and individuals around issues of grief and loss, trauma, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and asperger's syndrome.
I provide therapy from the belief that therapy is a collaborative journey in which, together, we identify what gets in the way of life goals. Then we create a vision along with a plan to go from where you are to where you want to be in their life. I have participated in extensive training as a family and couples therapist with over 10 years of practice experience. Families in which one member exhibits the symptoms of ADHD, ADD, oppositional and defiant behaviors, impulsive and violent behaviors, post traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, and learning disabilities work well with me.
I also have experience and training in providing therapy to couples and individuals around issues of grief and loss, trauma, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and asperger's syndrome.
I provide therapy from the belief that therapy is a collaborative journey in which, together, we identify what gets in the way of life goals. Then we create a vision along with a plan to go from where you are to where you want to be in their life. I have participated in extensive training as a family and couples therapist with over 10 years of practice experience. Families in which one member exhibits the symptoms of ADHD, ADD, oppositional and defiant behaviors, impulsive and violent behaviors, post traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, and learning disabilities work well with me.
(434) 264-5117 View (434) 264-5117
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Susan Dendtler
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, -MHSP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I specialize in couples (including non-monogamous) and individuals who want to strengthen their relationships with self and others. The skills we will practice in therapy are not about fixing you. You are not broken, even though you may feel that way. Our work together will be about honing the innate resources you already have inside of you and fostering a greater sense of connection and safety. I take a holistic perspective including, but not limited to, how trauma, gender, minority status, ethnicity, socioeconomic position, and religious upbringings affect us.
I specialize in couples (including non-monogamous) and individuals who want to strengthen their relationships with self and others. The skills we will practice in therapy are not about fixing you. You are not broken, even though you may feel that way. Our work together will be about honing the innate resources you already have inside of you and fostering a greater sense of connection and safety. I take a holistic perspective including, but not limited to, how trauma, gender, minority status, ethnicity, socioeconomic position, and religious upbringings affect us.
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Eliza Segell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Your problems may be specific - a challenging relationship, sexual concerns, upsetting memories, or problem behaviors. Or your struggles may be less tangible - feeling lost, detached, or stuck. In my practice, I offer adult and couples therapy for a range of concerns. I specialize in treating sexual dysfunctions, trauma-related issues, relationship concerns, and problem behaviors. I also provide gender & sexual identity affirming care. I deeply enjoy helping individuals feel a greater sense of self-efficacy, confidence, and clarity in their lives.
Your problems may be specific - a challenging relationship, sexual concerns, upsetting memories, or problem behaviors. Or your struggles may be less tangible - feeling lost, detached, or stuck. In my practice, I offer adult and couples therapy for a range of concerns. I specialize in treating sexual dysfunctions, trauma-related issues, relationship concerns, and problem behaviors. I also provide gender & sexual identity affirming care. I deeply enjoy helping individuals feel a greater sense of self-efficacy, confidence, and clarity in their lives.
(434) 201-4934 View (434) 201-4934
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Andrea Hawkes
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22911
Marriage and Family Therapist (Resident), Couples/Throuples/Polyamory relationship counselor. Whether it is an immediate crisis or digging deep into old issues, I am happy to be on your team. Whether you seek help with parenting your children or reparenting yourself, I am here to help you down the path toward your more satisfied and peaceful self. I have a huge passion for enhancing relationship evolution, exploring how childhood development influences adult behaviors, and finding the golden nuggets hidden in our discomfort. I also offer integrative therapy for people who use psychedelics.
Marriage and Family Therapist (Resident), Couples/Throuples/Polyamory relationship counselor. Whether it is an immediate crisis or digging deep into old issues, I am happy to be on your team. Whether you seek help with parenting your children or reparenting yourself, I am here to help you down the path toward your more satisfied and peaceful self. I have a huge passion for enhancing relationship evolution, exploring how childhood development influences adult behaviors, and finding the golden nuggets hidden in our discomfort. I also offer integrative therapy for people who use psychedelics.
(434) 201-7963 View (434) 201-7963
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Ashley Patrican
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I believe that therapy is about the journey towards self-discovery and joining that person on a quest to seek out the answers they already have within themselves. The ideal client is a person who is open to learning, determined to self-improve and committed to the therapeutic relationship. My experiences with mental health range from: autism, mood disorders, postpartum depression, lyme disease, suicide ideation, gender identity concerns,personality disorders, chronic pain, trauma, behavioral management, social skills training, parent training, psychosis to substance use.
I believe that therapy is about the journey towards self-discovery and joining that person on a quest to seek out the answers they already have within themselves. The ideal client is a person who is open to learning, determined to self-improve and committed to the therapeutic relationship. My experiences with mental health range from: autism, mood disorders, postpartum depression, lyme disease, suicide ideation, gender identity concerns,personality disorders, chronic pain, trauma, behavioral management, social skills training, parent training, psychosis to substance use.
(434) 331-3751 View (434) 331-3751
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Allison Splaun
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Finding a therapist who you feel comfortable with and supported by is key to any successful therapy. I work to develop a strong, trusting relationship with every client and design a treatment that is tailored to your needs. I enjoy working with a wide range of people struggling with many different issues, including relationship problems, anxiety, depression, grief, reactions to trauma, and child and adolescent problems, among other difficulties.
Finding a therapist who you feel comfortable with and supported by is key to any successful therapy. I work to develop a strong, trusting relationship with every client and design a treatment that is tailored to your needs. I enjoy working with a wide range of people struggling with many different issues, including relationship problems, anxiety, depression, grief, reactions to trauma, and child and adolescent problems, among other difficulties.
(434) 270-8235 View (434) 270-8235
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Sean Flannery
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22901
I enjoy working with clients ages 16+ who are struggling with relationship distress, trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and a variety of other issues. My areas of special interest are couple therapy, acceptance-based therapy (ACT), and assessment. I provide psychological testing/assessment for clients ages 6 and up. This includes psychoeducational assessment for accommodations at school.
I enjoy working with clients ages 16+ who are struggling with relationship distress, trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and a variety of other issues. My areas of special interest are couple therapy, acceptance-based therapy (ACT), and assessment. I provide psychological testing/assessment for clients ages 6 and up. This includes psychoeducational assessment for accommodations at school.
(434) 216-0165 View (434) 216-0165
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Chapin Faulconer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22903
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and National Certified Counselor specializing in individual, couples and family therapy. Also, I am a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator (CDWF) based on the research of Dr. Brené Brown. My treatment approach is to provide support with insight and feedback to help clients address current challenges and long-standing issues. With sensitivity and compassion, I draw from different styles and techniques to incorporate what is most helpful for each individual. Together with each client, I work to build on strengths and achieve life goals.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and National Certified Counselor specializing in individual, couples and family therapy. Also, I am a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator (CDWF) based on the research of Dr. Brené Brown. My treatment approach is to provide support with insight and feedback to help clients address current challenges and long-standing issues. With sensitivity and compassion, I draw from different styles and techniques to incorporate what is most helpful for each individual. Together with each client, I work to build on strengths and achieve life goals.
(434) 214-0909 View (434) 214-0909
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MacKenzie Dressing
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Hey there! I'm MacKenzie Dressing, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). Feel free to call me MacKenzie, Kenzie, or simply Mac, like my family does. With over 5 years in the mental health field, I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, communication issues, and relationship difficulties. I'm excited to assist you on your journey!
Hey there! I'm MacKenzie Dressing, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). Feel free to call me MacKenzie, Kenzie, or simply Mac, like my family does. With over 5 years in the mental health field, I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families facing challenges such as anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, communication issues, and relationship difficulties. I'm excited to assist you on your journey!
(434) 322-7391 View (434) 322-7391
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Brittany Sullivan
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22903
Hello! I am a Resident in Counseling under the supervision of Kathleen Van Allen, LPC dedicated to providing compassionate and effective therapy to individuals, couples, and families seeking support for a wide range of mental health concerns. With training in EMDR, IFS (parts work), and attachment therapy, I bring a holistic and integrative approach to our work together. My goal is to empower you to understand your inner world, heal from past wounds, and build stronger, healthier connections with yourself and others. I believe in the resilience of the human spirit and am dedicated to supporting you every step of the way.
Hello! I am a Resident in Counseling under the supervision of Kathleen Van Allen, LPC dedicated to providing compassionate and effective therapy to individuals, couples, and families seeking support for a wide range of mental health concerns. With training in EMDR, IFS (parts work), and attachment therapy, I bring a holistic and integrative approach to our work together. My goal is to empower you to understand your inner world, heal from past wounds, and build stronger, healthier connections with yourself and others. I believe in the resilience of the human spirit and am dedicated to supporting you every step of the way.
(540) 592-4782 View (540) 592-4782
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Jill Cartwright
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22903
My specialties include: Anxiety Disorders, Stress Management, Self-Esteem issues, Mood Disorders, Grief Issues, Anger Management, Behavioral issues, and Relationship and communication concerns.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who has been in the mental health private practice industry since 1998 and licensed since 2000. I provide psychotherapy to adults to help them achieve personal growth, balance, and wellness. I have spent much of my experience working with adolescents and adults. My approach to therapy is primarily cognitive-behavioral emphasizing solution-focused therapy. I include clients in the development of personalized treatment plans and will use a holistic approach, which means I may use different methods to help you meet your goals including reality therapy, family systems therapy and homework.
My specialties include: Anxiety Disorders, Stress Management, Self-Esteem issues, Mood Disorders, Grief Issues, Anger Management, Behavioral issues, and Relationship and communication concerns.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who has been in the mental health private practice industry since 1998 and licensed since 2000. I provide psychotherapy to adults to help them achieve personal growth, balance, and wellness. I have spent much of my experience working with adolescents and adults. My approach to therapy is primarily cognitive-behavioral emphasizing solution-focused therapy. I include clients in the development of personalized treatment plans and will use a holistic approach, which means I may use different methods to help you meet your goals including reality therapy, family systems therapy and homework.
(703) 291-0320 View (703) 291-0320
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Kathleen A Mitchum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22901
Accepting new clients & offering sliding scale! I have experience working with teens, young adults, and couples in NYC and Charlottesville, VA. My therapeutic style is warm, non-judgmental, and collaborative, emphasizing the importance of building a strong therapeutic alliance based on trust and mutual respect.
Accepting new clients & offering sliding scale! I have experience working with teens, young adults, and couples in NYC and Charlottesville, VA. My therapeutic style is warm, non-judgmental, and collaborative, emphasizing the importance of building a strong therapeutic alliance based on trust and mutual respect.
(434) 204-2594 View (434) 204-2594
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Sarah Nasser Larsen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22903
I provide a safe and supportive place to explore and heal the roots of my clients' struggles. I view counseling as a transformational process that enables clients to heal from past wounds and experiences in order to better connect with themselves, others, and God. Working from an attachment perspective, I enjoy helping my clients work through challenging personal and spiritual issues, life transitions, relationship difficulties, wounds from childhood, trauma and anxiety/stress. I believe that ultimately it is God's healing presence in the midst of this process that brings hope, freedom and restoration.
I provide a safe and supportive place to explore and heal the roots of my clients' struggles. I view counseling as a transformational process that enables clients to heal from past wounds and experiences in order to better connect with themselves, others, and God. Working from an attachment perspective, I enjoy helping my clients work through challenging personal and spiritual issues, life transitions, relationship difficulties, wounds from childhood, trauma and anxiety/stress. I believe that ultimately it is God's healing presence in the midst of this process that brings hope, freedom and restoration.
(949) 416-2256 View (949) 416-2256
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.