Codependency Therapists in Yorktown, Arlington, VA

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Kim Arellano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207  (Online Only)
I also have special training to uniquely serve individuals and/or spouses affected by Adult ADHD; couples on the brink of divorce; parents of young adults failing to launch; couples with previous attempts at therapy; relationship therapy with only one person; codependency; adults recovering from narcissistic abuse; divorce or death of a loved one.
I enjoy helping adults 25+ who are feeling stuck to find their way forward. In individual therapy, I help adults dealing with psychological distress, relationship trauma, anxiety, and/or depression stemming from issues in family of origin, marriage, immediate family, and workplace. In couples therapy, I help you forge a rewarding & resilient relationship by cultivating the right change. I am trauma-responsive and neurodivergence-informed in all that I do. On a personal note, I’ve been married 26 years, raised 3 young adults, and had a prior career. From this, I draw great empathy, compassion, & encouragement for my clients.
I also have special training to uniquely serve individuals and/or spouses affected by Adult ADHD; couples on the brink of divorce; parents of young adults failing to launch; couples with previous attempts at therapy; relationship therapy with only one person; codependency; adults recovering from narcissistic abuse; divorce or death of a loved one.
I enjoy helping adults 25+ who are feeling stuck to find their way forward. In individual therapy, I help adults dealing with psychological distress, relationship trauma, anxiety, and/or depression stemming from issues in family of origin, marriage, immediate family, and workplace. In couples therapy, I help you forge a rewarding & resilient relationship by cultivating the right change. I am trauma-responsive and neurodivergence-informed in all that I do. On a personal note, I’ve been married 26 years, raised 3 young adults, and had a prior career. From this, I draw great empathy, compassion, & encouragement for my clients.
(571) 339-3103 View (571) 339-3103
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Susan M Pan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT, CDWF, CPTT
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), a Certified Daring Way Facilitator (CDWF), a Certified Partner & Trauma Therapist (CPTT) , and an experienced Alcohol and Drug Counselor. I have been in practice since 1986. Through psychotherapy, I help clients identify and use these resources to grow and change. I specialize in empowering people to resolve issues such as: addictions, co-dependency, anxiety, depression, family discord, couples conflict, parenting struggles and post divorce relationships.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), a Certified Daring Way Facilitator (CDWF), a Certified Partner & Trauma Therapist (CPTT) , and an experienced Alcohol and Drug Counselor. I have been in practice since 1986. Through psychotherapy, I help clients identify and use these resources to grow and change. I specialize in empowering people to resolve issues such as: addictions, co-dependency, anxiety, depression, family discord, couples conflict, parenting struggles and post divorce relationships.
(540) 227-0917 View (540) 227-0917
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Christina Triantafillou
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Do you feel like you’re running yourself ragged trying to make everyone else happy? Like you don’t know who you are outside of others’ expectations? I work with people who are struggling with identity in different ways. Some feel like their identity was lost to abuse or to a bigger personality in the house. Others are recovering from losing who they are because of a traumatic experience that seemed to change them forever. Still others do not feel like their true identity is within the body they were born in.
Do you feel like you’re running yourself ragged trying to make everyone else happy? Like you don’t know who you are outside of others’ expectations? I work with people who are struggling with identity in different ways. Some feel like their identity was lost to abuse or to a bigger personality in the house. Others are recovering from losing who they are because of a traumatic experience that seemed to change them forever. Still others do not feel like their true identity is within the body they were born in.
(757) 379-8816 View (757) 379-8816
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Paige Monborne Taylor
Counselor, LMHC, MEd, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207  (Online Only)
Whether you are struggling daily, are in a period of transition, or you are wanting to deepen your personal awareness and insight, I offer a non-judgmental and creative space to work toward your goals. In our work together, we will develop and strengthen your functional and emotional tools, to help you move out of survival mode and into the life you want to be living. We’ll identify your needs, work to understand what is causing suffering and blocking you from your ideal life, and redefine your relationships to yourself, others, and your environment, helping move through painful emotions to create emotional peace and freedom.
Whether you are struggling daily, are in a period of transition, or you are wanting to deepen your personal awareness and insight, I offer a non-judgmental and creative space to work toward your goals. In our work together, we will develop and strengthen your functional and emotional tools, to help you move out of survival mode and into the life you want to be living. We’ll identify your needs, work to understand what is causing suffering and blocking you from your ideal life, and redefine your relationships to yourself, others, and your environment, helping move through painful emotions to create emotional peace and freedom.
(646) 933-0826 View (646) 933-0826
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Cheryl Dwyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Hello!!! My name is Cheryl Dwyer. After working in the field of substance abuse & mental health counseling for over 30 years in a program setting, it feels right to explore other avenues of being a helper. I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) and a certified substance abuse counselor (CSAC). The thing that draws me in to counseling is the resiliency of the human spirit. It keeps me inspired. Our ability to grow, evolve, recreate and reinvent ourselves, is an exciting part of our existence. The lessons learned in the journey, is where it all happens. I consider it a privilege to to be a part of one's journey.
Hello!!! My name is Cheryl Dwyer. After working in the field of substance abuse & mental health counseling for over 30 years in a program setting, it feels right to explore other avenues of being a helper. I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC) and a certified substance abuse counselor (CSAC). The thing that draws me in to counseling is the resiliency of the human spirit. It keeps me inspired. Our ability to grow, evolve, recreate and reinvent ourselves, is an exciting part of our existence. The lessons learned in the journey, is where it all happens. I consider it a privilege to to be a part of one's journey.
(571) 497-4918 View (571) 497-4918
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Holly Willard
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
We are broken within relationships, and it's in relationships that we can also heal. If you want to feel happier in your marriage or with your partner but feel stuck fighting and disconnected, I invite you to come explore a new way to love yourself and each other. We all yearn to be seen, heard and understood. This often manifests itself in defensiveness and arguing with the people we care about most. My goal is to gently guide you and your partner to more friendship, empathy and love so you can experience the joy of deep connection. I work with couples and individuals. I look forward to hearing from you!
We are broken within relationships, and it's in relationships that we can also heal. If you want to feel happier in your marriage or with your partner but feel stuck fighting and disconnected, I invite you to come explore a new way to love yourself and each other. We all yearn to be seen, heard and understood. This often manifests itself in defensiveness and arguing with the people we care about most. My goal is to gently guide you and your partner to more friendship, empathy and love so you can experience the joy of deep connection. I work with couples and individuals. I look forward to hearing from you!
(571) 200-2412 View (571) 200-2412
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Melissa Futreal
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
I began helping others in 1990 as a Peer Counselor (Drug Exemption NCO) while on active duty in the Marine Corps. After earning degrees in Psychology and Social Work at UNCW/ECU, I obtained licensure to practice independently with the Virginia Board of Health Professionals in 2004. I am originally from the Hampton Roads area but have worked internationally with people from many different backgrounds. I have continued to support the military, as well as the community at large, for over 3 decades with evidence-based treatments for trauma (PTSD).
I began helping others in 1990 as a Peer Counselor (Drug Exemption NCO) while on active duty in the Marine Corps. After earning degrees in Psychology and Social Work at UNCW/ECU, I obtained licensure to practice independently with the Virginia Board of Health Professionals in 2004. I am originally from the Hampton Roads area but have worked internationally with people from many different backgrounds. I have continued to support the military, as well as the community at large, for over 3 decades with evidence-based treatments for trauma (PTSD).
(571) 506-7969 View (571) 506-7969
Patricia Collins
Counselor, MA, MS, RDN, LPC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Thank you for visiting! I create a space of safety and security so you can explore what is blocking your ability to enjoy and embrace your life. We work together to create or recreate new perspectives. If you are in a state of depression or anxiety or reliving past traumas, we can discover methods unique to your needs that help you move out of fear. Our goal is to help you reconnect with your best self, to be centered in self, feel empowered to make the best choice for your wellbeing.
Thank you for visiting! I create a space of safety and security so you can explore what is blocking your ability to enjoy and embrace your life. We work together to create or recreate new perspectives. If you are in a state of depression or anxiety or reliving past traumas, we can discover methods unique to your needs that help you move out of fear. Our goal is to help you reconnect with your best self, to be centered in self, feel empowered to make the best choice for your wellbeing.
(571) 200-1266 View (571) 200-1266
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Jillian Pelzer
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Hi! My name is Jillian Pelzer. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor for the state of VA. I take a person-centered approach to therapy, meaning you are the expert of your own life. I am simply here to help you organize your thoughts and judgment so that you can make positive decisions for your life. I have expertise in counseling clients with depression, parenting problems, suicidal ideation, adjustment disorders, substance use problems, and more. I am super laid back! This will be a no-stress, no-pressure situation. The time is yours to use how you'd like. I am always flexible with my clients.
Hi! My name is Jillian Pelzer. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor for the state of VA. I take a person-centered approach to therapy, meaning you are the expert of your own life. I am simply here to help you organize your thoughts and judgment so that you can make positive decisions for your life. I have expertise in counseling clients with depression, parenting problems, suicidal ideation, adjustment disorders, substance use problems, and more. I am super laid back! This will be a no-stress, no-pressure situation. The time is yours to use how you'd like. I am always flexible with my clients.
(757) 378-0997 View (757) 378-0997
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Mary Stewart
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, ATR-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Life can be challenging, overwhelming, and exhausting. It’s hard to find answers when you feel like everything around you is unraveling. My goal is to be a secure base while we work together to foster self-exploration, resilience, and restoration. As an art therapist, I believe that using art and metaphor can be a way to give voice to those experiences and emotions which remain unspoken. Together, we will work towards gaining comfort with uncomfortable feelings and situations, finding balance, and fostering resilience with life’s challenges.
Life can be challenging, overwhelming, and exhausting. It’s hard to find answers when you feel like everything around you is unraveling. My goal is to be a secure base while we work together to foster self-exploration, resilience, and restoration. As an art therapist, I believe that using art and metaphor can be a way to give voice to those experiences and emotions which remain unspoken. Together, we will work towards gaining comfort with uncomfortable feelings and situations, finding balance, and fostering resilience with life’s challenges.
(571) 410-2818 View (571) 410-2818
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Shauna Alonge
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , JD, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Life is a journey, and we sometimes lose our direction, get "stuck," and don't know where to turn. Feelings of hopelessness and shame often arise, and our coping skills fail us. Joy can fade from our lives, and some of us isolate as we question who we are and where we fit in. If we knew how to make positive changes, we would jump at the chance -- we can't just "snap out of it" as some might suggest. My approach to therapy and counseling builds on client strengths -- we all have them, and I can help you to identify them. Therapy opens doors to wellness allowing patients to not only 'get well' but also to explore life goals.
Life is a journey, and we sometimes lose our direction, get "stuck," and don't know where to turn. Feelings of hopelessness and shame often arise, and our coping skills fail us. Joy can fade from our lives, and some of us isolate as we question who we are and where we fit in. If we knew how to make positive changes, we would jump at the chance -- we can't just "snap out of it" as some might suggest. My approach to therapy and counseling builds on client strengths -- we all have them, and I can help you to identify them. Therapy opens doors to wellness allowing patients to not only 'get well' but also to explore life goals.
(571) 999-6945 View (571) 999-6945
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Kate Tedeschi
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, ATR-BC, LPC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Waitlist for new clients
Even the most resilient adults, teens and kids need support for the challenges life sends our way. During this time of uncertainty, I am here to partner with you as a collaborative support. My clients describe me as genuine and warm, while providing the opportunity for reflection and growth. You don't have to live with anxiety, depression or overwhelming trauma. You can thrive even in the most challenging of life transitions and relationship challenges, but you don't have to do it alone. You are taking the first step towards connecting back to your true and whole self.
Even the most resilient adults, teens and kids need support for the challenges life sends our way. During this time of uncertainty, I am here to partner with you as a collaborative support. My clients describe me as genuine and warm, while providing the opportunity for reflection and growth. You don't have to live with anxiety, depression or overwhelming trauma. You can thrive even in the most challenging of life transitions and relationship challenges, but you don't have to do it alone. You are taking the first step towards connecting back to your true and whole self.
(540) 202-1536 View (540) 202-1536
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Lauren Campbell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207  (Online Only)
Life can get really hard. When your past continues to affect your current life, it can make it feel even more difficult to keep pushing through. My goal as a therapist is to help you understand what happened, how it affected you, and how to start moving forward again towards the life that you want. I am trauma, identity, and existentially focused and offer an affirming, client-centered, collaborative approach. I am a licensed professional counselor and board-certified art therapist with training and experience working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, including those who may be questioning or transitioning within their gender identity.
Life can get really hard. When your past continues to affect your current life, it can make it feel even more difficult to keep pushing through. My goal as a therapist is to help you understand what happened, how it affected you, and how to start moving forward again towards the life that you want. I am trauma, identity, and existentially focused and offer an affirming, client-centered, collaborative approach. I am a licensed professional counselor and board-certified art therapist with training and experience working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, including those who may be questioning or transitioning within their gender identity.
(703) 870-2883 View (703) 870-2883
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Thomas F Lamp
Counselor, LPC, CADC, SAP, CSAT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
I believe that for every person is unique and treatment solutions should be tailored to meet these individual needs.I stress creating a comfortable-judgement free environment to maximize trust and comfort in the therapeutic relationship. Within the safety of a trusting and respectful therapeutic relationship lies the power to overcome the most seemingly overwhelming obstacles.
I believe that for every person is unique and treatment solutions should be tailored to meet these individual needs.I stress creating a comfortable-judgement free environment to maximize trust and comfort in the therapeutic relationship. Within the safety of a trusting and respectful therapeutic relationship lies the power to overcome the most seemingly overwhelming obstacles.
(703) 634-4956 View (703) 634-4956
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David Glass
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Looking for help is never easy. Especially in these stressful times and if you may well be meeting a new therapist on line rather than in person. Still, life problems can reach a crisis point when one knows they need to reach out for help. Whether or not you have been in therapy before, with the right help you can make real, positive changes in your feelings, your behavior and your relationships, bringing more satisfaction and joy into your life.
Looking for help is never easy. Especially in these stressful times and if you may well be meeting a new therapist on line rather than in person. Still, life problems can reach a crisis point when one knows they need to reach out for help. Whether or not you have been in therapy before, with the right help you can make real, positive changes in your feelings, your behavior and your relationships, bringing more satisfaction and joy into your life.
(703) 957-7303 View (703) 957-7303
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Dana Lipsky
Psychologist, PsyD, LCP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Life can be overwhelming and sometimes we get "stuck" and need help navigating our way through tough obstacles. Therapy helps people identify, evaluate and solve problems effectively. We will work together to set goals, examine difficulties and find realistic solutions that provide relief and clarity. I utilize a warm interactive approach to treatment and incorporate empathy, honesty, and a sense of humor to create a comfortable environment. Because the way we think impacts the way we feel, individuals are taught skills to identify, challenge and modify negative thinking. In my work with couples, I provide strategies to improve communication, manage conflict and solidify trust.
Life can be overwhelming and sometimes we get "stuck" and need help navigating our way through tough obstacles. Therapy helps people identify, evaluate and solve problems effectively. We will work together to set goals, examine difficulties and find realistic solutions that provide relief and clarity. I utilize a warm interactive approach to treatment and incorporate empathy, honesty, and a sense of humor to create a comfortable environment. Because the way we think impacts the way we feel, individuals are taught skills to identify, challenge and modify negative thinking. In my work with couples, I provide strategies to improve communication, manage conflict and solidify trust.
(703) 831-6008 View (703) 831-6008
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Bethany Larson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
You are not the burdens you are facing in life. (Read that twice!) As a certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, I am passionate about helping individuals connect to their internal worlds to help them navigate their external circumstances with clarity, compassion, connection, and courage. Whether you are facing complex trauma, grief, infertility, relationship troubles, or major crises and transitions, I am here to join you on the healing journey. My goal is to help you not only cope meaningfully with outside hardships but also cultivate a greater sense of Self and resilience to get through future challenges as well.
You are not the burdens you are facing in life. (Read that twice!) As a certified Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, I am passionate about helping individuals connect to their internal worlds to help them navigate their external circumstances with clarity, compassion, connection, and courage. Whether you are facing complex trauma, grief, infertility, relationship troubles, or major crises and transitions, I am here to join you on the healing journey. My goal is to help you not only cope meaningfully with outside hardships but also cultivate a greater sense of Self and resilience to get through future challenges as well.
(571) 421-2495 View (571) 421-2495
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Gloria Carpenter
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Teletherapy Available! Difficulties coping with change, loss, or relationships? Is trauma preventing your progress? I am a Certified Gottman Therapist and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with training in relational therapy, grief, identity issues, infertility, sexual addictions & dysfunctions, and couple therapy to bring about success and promote active healing. This is especially effective for adults struggling with identity crises, anxiety & mood disorders, and co-dependent relationships. Moreover, other therapists and EMT personnel benefit from therapy with me.
Teletherapy Available! Difficulties coping with change, loss, or relationships? Is trauma preventing your progress? I am a Certified Gottman Therapist and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with training in relational therapy, grief, identity issues, infertility, sexual addictions & dysfunctions, and couple therapy to bring about success and promote active healing. This is especially effective for adults struggling with identity crises, anxiety & mood disorders, and co-dependent relationships. Moreover, other therapists and EMT personnel benefit from therapy with me.
(513) 278-2631 View (513) 278-2631
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Dodini Behavioral Health
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD, LCSW, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
Dodini Behavioral Health is a multidisciplinary private group practice for personal growth, healing, and development currently open to virtual and in person. We help individuals, couples, and families get beyond symptoms and into living the fullest version of their life and self. Our clinical providers are among the top in their fields and have a variety of areas of interest and expertise, and all are devoted to exceptionally good psychotherapy, therapeutic alliance, and continual education. We often work as a team and as co-therapists to give the absolute best in personalized and expert care for you and those you love.
Dodini Behavioral Health is a multidisciplinary private group practice for personal growth, healing, and development currently open to virtual and in person. We help individuals, couples, and families get beyond symptoms and into living the fullest version of their life and self. Our clinical providers are among the top in their fields and have a variety of areas of interest and expertise, and all are devoted to exceptionally good psychotherapy, therapeutic alliance, and continual education. We often work as a team and as co-therapists to give the absolute best in personalized and expert care for you and those you love.
(703) 844-9909 View (703) 844-9909
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Leslie K Rogers
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Yorktown, Arlington, VA 22207
We all have places where we struggle. We all have behaviors or emotions that limit us in living our most fulfilled and joyous life. Sometimes we need help making changes.
We all have places where we struggle. We all have behaviors or emotions that limit us in living our most fulfilled and joyous life. Sometimes we need help making changes.
(703) 372-9519 View (703) 372-9519
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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.