Relationship Issues Therapists in Spring, TX
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Mirna Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Spring, TX 77373 (Online Only)
I view counseling as a tool; therefore, the therapy is an active and collaborative relationship between the client and the therapist.
Mirna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy. She has experience working with couples, families, teens, and children. She uses family systemic approaches, and EMDR to offer a personalized approach to each client. She also has experience working with individuals that have experienced trauma-related events such as domestic violence or sexual assault. With compassion and understanding, she will join you in your unique journey.
I view counseling as a tool; therefore, the therapy is an active and collaborative relationship between the client and the therapist.
Mirna is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy. She has experience working with couples, families, teens, and children. She uses family systemic approaches, and EMDR to offer a personalized approach to each client. She also has experience working with individuals that have experienced trauma-related events such as domestic violence or sexual assault. With compassion and understanding, she will join you in your unique journey.
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Douglas K Lormand
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, MEd, LPC, AASECT
Verified Verified
Spring, TX 77379
Many psychological problems are tied to relationship struggles - sex and money are two of the biggest struggles implicated in these cases either as cause, consequence, or something in between. These struggles are emotionally moving manifestations of the human need for connection and the deep pain felt when this connection is damaged or severed. I help individuals and couples seek relationship-deepening events, become more fluent in the language of others, and understand that satisfying relationships are contingent on the ability to relate to the people you value in your life.
Many psychological problems are tied to relationship struggles - sex and money are two of the biggest struggles implicated in these cases either as cause, consequence, or something in between. These struggles are emotionally moving manifestations of the human need for connection and the deep pain felt when this connection is damaged or severed. I help individuals and couples seek relationship-deepening events, become more fluent in the language of others, and understand that satisfying relationships are contingent on the ability to relate to the people you value in your life.
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Looking for a helping hand? I work with children, adolescents and adults in an individual, family or group setting. My specialties include anxiety, perfectionism, self-harm, couples counseling, divorce, relational problems, women’s issues, teen and young adult concerns, sudden life changes/adjustment issues, low self-esteem, trauma, and family/peer relationship issues. I offer a safe, comfortable and confidential space for our work together. My goal is to help families and individuals to create lasting positive change through an accessible, trusting therapeutic relationship. I hope you'll visit my website at bewelloftexas.com.
Looking for a helping hand? I work with children, adolescents and adults in an individual, family or group setting. My specialties include anxiety, perfectionism, self-harm, couples counseling, divorce, relational problems, women’s issues, teen and young adult concerns, sudden life changes/adjustment issues, low self-esteem, trauma, and family/peer relationship issues. I offer a safe, comfortable and confidential space for our work together. My goal is to help families and individuals to create lasting positive change through an accessible, trusting therapeutic relationship. I hope you'll visit my website at bewelloftexas.com.
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If you or your child are struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger issues, low energy, attention problems or sleeplessness, you may be experiencing the responses of a nervous system that has become overly sensitized and reactive. Most people who enter therapy with these presenting problems are eager to experience some relief from these symptoms, and to be able to have more choice about their responses to life’s stressors. They also wish to be able to live their best lives-to experience joy, contentment and fulfillment.
If you or your child are struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger issues, low energy, attention problems or sleeplessness, you may be experiencing the responses of a nervous system that has become overly sensitized and reactive. Most people who enter therapy with these presenting problems are eager to experience some relief from these symptoms, and to be able to have more choice about their responses to life’s stressors. They also wish to be able to live their best lives-to experience joy, contentment and fulfillment.
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In the heart of every therapeutic journey lies the transformative power of genuine human connection. As a dedicated therapist, I believe that healing begins when individuals are seen, heard, and understood within the context of a trusting and compassionate relationship. I now have multiple years of experience working with adults, adolescents, and couples who struggle with PTSD, ADHD, anxiety, depression, and addictions. One of the greatest privileges of this work has been witnessing the reconnection that occurs while working with couples who are navigating difficult periods in their relationship.
In the heart of every therapeutic journey lies the transformative power of genuine human connection. As a dedicated therapist, I believe that healing begins when individuals are seen, heard, and understood within the context of a trusting and compassionate relationship. I now have multiple years of experience working with adults, adolescents, and couples who struggle with PTSD, ADHD, anxiety, depression, and addictions. One of the greatest privileges of this work has been witnessing the reconnection that occurs while working with couples who are navigating difficult periods in their relationship.
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Mark D Cochran
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, AACC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77373 (Online Only)
Your relationship is worth fighting for, but it shouldn't be something that you fight over. Though finances, sex, politics, and spiritual faith can be common issues that people argue over, there are many more things that challenge relationships, and I've had the benefit and pleasure to help many people in diverse relational difficulties. You are not alone, quite literally every adult has faced difficulty within relationships. Whether there has been infidelity, loss of trust, abusive tendencies, lost connections, lack of relational congruency or cohesion, poor communication, family problems, commitment issues, or irresponsibility.
Your relationship is worth fighting for, but it shouldn't be something that you fight over. Though finances, sex, politics, and spiritual faith can be common issues that people argue over, there are many more things that challenge relationships, and I've had the benefit and pleasure to help many people in diverse relational difficulties. You are not alone, quite literally every adult has faced difficulty within relationships. Whether there has been infidelity, loss of trust, abusive tendencies, lost connections, lack of relational congruency or cohesion, poor communication, family problems, commitment issues, or irresponsibility.
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Restorative Counseling Services
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77379 (Online Only)
Depression ​​ Anxiety ​ Trauma ​ Female-specific concerns ​ Parenting ​ Coping skills ​ Relationship issues ​ Family Conflict.
I have been providing therapeutic services since 2005, and as a wife, mother, grandmother, entrepreneur, and counselor, I understand the many hats a person wears to manage life. I understand the challenges that occur when you attempt to balance your life as things are happening. I am always humbled when clients entrust me to join them on their journey to healing, and I never take that trust for granted. During our sessions, we will work together to identify and address the issues that are causing you distress or impacting your life in negative ways.
Depression ​​ Anxiety ​ Trauma ​ Female-specific concerns ​ Parenting ​ Coping skills ​ Relationship issues ​ Family Conflict.
I have been providing therapeutic services since 2005, and as a wife, mother, grandmother, entrepreneur, and counselor, I understand the many hats a person wears to manage life. I understand the challenges that occur when you attempt to balance your life as things are happening. I am always humbled when clients entrust me to join them on their journey to healing, and I never take that trust for granted. During our sessions, we will work together to identify and address the issues that are causing you distress or impacting your life in negative ways.
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Galina K Thomas
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77379
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Do you struggle in your relationship, have problems communicating, fighting all the time and feel disconnected and disheartened? I want you to know - help is available and most relationships can be saved. If you are willing to do the work, change will happen. Sometimes deeper work is needed but other times just a few little changes can lead to a big shift. Life can be a struggle, but you don't need to suffer. Let me help you.
Do you struggle in your relationship, have problems communicating, fighting all the time and feel disconnected and disheartened? I want you to know - help is available and most relationships can be saved. If you are willing to do the work, change will happen. Sometimes deeper work is needed but other times just a few little changes can lead to a big shift. Life can be a struggle, but you don't need to suffer. Let me help you.
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Life is complicated! Simply viewing my profile indicates you are seeking to grow in important areas of your life. Whether you are curious about improving relationships, expanding your work-life, or you are experiencing some uncomfortable, even painful emotions and anxiety, together we can explore new possibilities. I invite you to come in first and simply meet with me to see if it feels like a good "fit," a necessary and important aspect of a beneficial working relationship. Let's roll-up our sleeves and work together!
Life is complicated! Simply viewing my profile indicates you are seeking to grow in important areas of your life. Whether you are curious about improving relationships, expanding your work-life, or you are experiencing some uncomfortable, even painful emotions and anxiety, together we can explore new possibilities. I invite you to come in first and simply meet with me to see if it feels like a good "fit," a necessary and important aspect of a beneficial working relationship. Let's roll-up our sleeves and work together!
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I work with relationship Issues of all types.
Help for when Relationships Hurt! I bring Experience on the Cutting Edge. I'm a therapist with over 40 years of experience! If you're worried that would make me old-fashioned - you should know that I teach in Marriage & Family Therapy training programs, and always focus on up-to-date, "cutting edge" methods. The one word I would use to describe my approach is "collaborative." This means treatment individually tailored to you and your situation (no cookie-cutter approaches!). Because of that, I primarily offer "strengths-based" approaches that focus primarily on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
I work with relationship Issues of all types.
Help for when Relationships Hurt! I bring Experience on the Cutting Edge. I'm a therapist with over 40 years of experience! If you're worried that would make me old-fashioned - you should know that I teach in Marriage & Family Therapy training programs, and always focus on up-to-date, "cutting edge" methods. The one word I would use to describe my approach is "collaborative." This means treatment individually tailored to you and your situation (no cookie-cutter approaches!). Because of that, I primarily offer "strengths-based" approaches that focus primarily on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
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Treatment for ADULTS and TEENS struggling with some of the effects of TRAUMA like RELATIONSHIP DIFFICULTIES, DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, ANGER MANAGEMENT, and ADDICTION. Ultimately, people come to me in pain or they bring someone to me in pain. Understanding that your pain, your reactions, and your responses to it make sense is a key to finding relief from suffering. If you or someone you love received something unexpected from their life experience and struggle with a "I don't even know where to start." or a "what now?", I am here for you.
Treatment for ADULTS and TEENS struggling with some of the effects of TRAUMA like RELATIONSHIP DIFFICULTIES, DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, ANGER MANAGEMENT, and ADDICTION. Ultimately, people come to me in pain or they bring someone to me in pain. Understanding that your pain, your reactions, and your responses to it make sense is a key to finding relief from suffering. If you or someone you love received something unexpected from their life experience and struggle with a "I don't even know where to start." or a "what now?", I am here for you.
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My therapy style is open, accepting, genuine and supportive. I employ a range of modalities including positive psychology, solution focused, person-centered, cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic therapies. I tailor my approach to each client's individual needs. I believe that everyone is capable of growth and healing. I am here to support and empower you, and hold a safe space. The therapeutic relationship is an important part of the therapeutic process. Whether I'm right for you or not, I'm happy to communicate more about my style or refer you to someone who better fits your needs.
My therapy style is open, accepting, genuine and supportive. I employ a range of modalities including positive psychology, solution focused, person-centered, cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic therapies. I tailor my approach to each client's individual needs. I believe that everyone is capable of growth and healing. I am here to support and empower you, and hold a safe space. The therapeutic relationship is an important part of the therapeutic process. Whether I'm right for you or not, I'm happy to communicate more about my style or refer you to someone who better fits your needs.
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Bridgett S Quarles
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSMFT, LMFT-S, CTMH
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77388 (Online Only)
I am most passionate about helping strengthen couples as the foundation for the family and helping adult clients flourish through Christ-centered couple's and mental health therapy to achieve their God-given purpose. Particularly important for couples therapy is understanding that your relationship is the client; and I am passionate about strengthening the client. I will listen carefully with compassion, allowing each individual a voice and I WILL NOT take sides. I'm on the side of your relationship and here to help each person take ownership of it, draw upon its inner resources and rediscover its goals and purpose.
I am most passionate about helping strengthen couples as the foundation for the family and helping adult clients flourish through Christ-centered couple's and mental health therapy to achieve their God-given purpose. Particularly important for couples therapy is understanding that your relationship is the client; and I am passionate about strengthening the client. I will listen carefully with compassion, allowing each individual a voice and I WILL NOT take sides. I'm on the side of your relationship and here to help each person take ownership of it, draw upon its inner resources and rediscover its goals and purpose.
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Dena Hutton
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77379
I collaborate with you to treat issues related trauma, relationship conflict, anxiety, depression, loss/life transitions and family of origin issues.
Do you find yourself repeating patterns in your life and/or relationships? Do you feel stuck or powerless to change? Are you in the midst of a huge life transition or is your relationship in crisis? I can help. I believe deeply that change is possible for anyone, and it begins with a safe and accepting environment to explore the barriers to happiness. My approach to therapy is warm, direct, non-threatening and empowering, with a focus on identifying patterns, negative beliefs and/or obstacles that prevent you from reaching your goals. You can heal wounds, release resentment, find your voice, and live life more fully.
I collaborate with you to treat issues related trauma, relationship conflict, anxiety, depression, loss/life transitions and family of origin issues.
Do you find yourself repeating patterns in your life and/or relationships? Do you feel stuck or powerless to change? Are you in the midst of a huge life transition or is your relationship in crisis? I can help. I believe deeply that change is possible for anyone, and it begins with a safe and accepting environment to explore the barriers to happiness. My approach to therapy is warm, direct, non-threatening and empowering, with a focus on identifying patterns, negative beliefs and/or obstacles that prevent you from reaching your goals. You can heal wounds, release resentment, find your voice, and live life more fully.
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I know you’re frustrated with your relationship and have worked hard at your marriage. You have a lot invested and deep down you still love your partner. But there’s some anger and hurt in the way. Let me help you clear a path through the disappointment and fear so you can reexperience the love you once had. I can help you reconnect with your partner with an approach that is engaging and empathetic. I understand that marriage can be tough, but therapy doesn’t necessarily have to be. Call me today, and let’s get the process started towards the strongest, most fulfilling relationship you’ve ever had.
I know you’re frustrated with your relationship and have worked hard at your marriage. You have a lot invested and deep down you still love your partner. But there’s some anger and hurt in the way. Let me help you clear a path through the disappointment and fear so you can reexperience the love you once had. I can help you reconnect with your partner with an approach that is engaging and empathetic. I understand that marriage can be tough, but therapy doesn’t necessarily have to be. Call me today, and let’s get the process started towards the strongest, most fulfilling relationship you’ve ever had.
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Lloyd Whieldon
Psychological Associate, MS, LPA, CCTP-II
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77389
If you are struggling with depression, infidelity, trauma or relationship difficulties, then I would like to help you with this. Perhaps you have started to lose hope in your future, feel disconnected from people or get no enjoyment out of life. Or maybe you are experiencing mood-swings, self-criticism or even a sense that your emotions have been turned off. You might feel that difficult experiences in childhood or those within an adult relationship have left you feeling traumatized and stuck. Or maybe you feel betrayed by a partner – through what they did or what they are not doing. It is possible to heal from these things.
If you are struggling with depression, infidelity, trauma or relationship difficulties, then I would like to help you with this. Perhaps you have started to lose hope in your future, feel disconnected from people or get no enjoyment out of life. Or maybe you are experiencing mood-swings, self-criticism or even a sense that your emotions have been turned off. You might feel that difficult experiences in childhood or those within an adult relationship have left you feeling traumatized and stuck. Or maybe you feel betrayed by a partner – through what they did or what they are not doing. It is possible to heal from these things.
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I also focus on Relationship Awareness and Healing.
Sisily Rainey is a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Houston, Texas where she works with all individuals across the life span. Her clients come from various backgrounds with a similar issue of feeling stagnate in life, relationships, career, with feelings of anxiety or depression. Sisily's approach involves an eclectic style. She utilizes CBT, DBT, Mindfulness, and Tarot Cards for a holistic approach to dive more into the subconscious.
I also focus on Relationship Awareness and Healing.
Sisily Rainey is a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Houston, Texas where she works with all individuals across the life span. Her clients come from various backgrounds with a similar issue of feeling stagnate in life, relationships, career, with feelings of anxiety or depression. Sisily's approach involves an eclectic style. She utilizes CBT, DBT, Mindfulness, and Tarot Cards for a holistic approach to dive more into the subconscious.
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As a mental health counselor, I have worked with various populations focusing on issues of anxiety, depression, and trauma. My passion stems from my own experience of watching others struggle with mental health issues. After a long career in the legal field, I made the transition to counseling to help others who may also be struggling. I am here to provide support to you as you work towards emotional and mental wellness by helping you build on your strengths and introducing new skills through a collaborative relationship.
As a mental health counselor, I have worked with various populations focusing on issues of anxiety, depression, and trauma. My passion stems from my own experience of watching others struggle with mental health issues. After a long career in the legal field, I made the transition to counseling to help others who may also be struggling. I am here to provide support to you as you work towards emotional and mental wellness by helping you build on your strengths and introducing new skills through a collaborative relationship.
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Dr. Mercedes J Moore
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spring, TX 77379
Therapy can be the boost your relationship and/or family needs to persevere in the adversity that comes in the form of infidelity, grief, difficulty communicating, poor work-life balance, lack of intimacy, and many more issues. There are times when life becomes difficult and it seems like it is always conflict and tough times. Therapy can provide tools and direction for regaining trust, restoring intimacy, problem-solving, healthy communication, and balance.
Therapy can be the boost your relationship and/or family needs to persevere in the adversity that comes in the form of infidelity, grief, difficulty communicating, poor work-life balance, lack of intimacy, and many more issues. There are times when life becomes difficult and it seems like it is always conflict and tough times. Therapy can provide tools and direction for regaining trust, restoring intimacy, problem-solving, healthy communication, and balance.
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I enjoyed working to treat anxiety, relationship issues, emerging adulthood/life stage transition issues, and men’s issues.
Are you having trouble engaging in your life? With your family or partner? Has transitioning to adulthood and leaving the nest become difficult? There is hope! Together we can work to make change happen. For those that may get called crazy or lazy, I am John Loh. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help them find their way to a life that is more meaningful and fulfilling.
I enjoyed working to treat anxiety, relationship issues, emerging adulthood/life stage transition issues, and men’s issues.
Are you having trouble engaging in your life? With your family or partner? Has transitioning to adulthood and leaving the nest become difficult? There is hope! Together we can work to make change happen. For those that may get called crazy or lazy, I am John Loh. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help them find their way to a life that is more meaningful and fulfilling.
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While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.