Couples Counseling Therapists in North Dallas, Dallas, TX
Lydia Shen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
She is also passionate about couples' work.
Feels like summer just slipped away. Anyone? Are you tired of feeling anxious, angry or depressed, but cannot help feeling that way? You've watched so many self-help videos, tried to change your perspective, think positively, but wondering why it's not helping? Are you feeling stuck in your relationships but don't know what to do? Are you wondering why you & your partner seem to always ending up hurting each other despite how much you actually desire to connect deep down, or even wonder what's the point to stay together if it's so mundane or painful? The Restoring Place is for you!
She is also passionate about couples' work.
Feels like summer just slipped away. Anyone? Are you tired of feeling anxious, angry or depressed, but cannot help feeling that way? You've watched so many self-help videos, tried to change your perspective, think positively, but wondering why it's not helping? Are you feeling stuck in your relationships but don't know what to do? Are you wondering why you & your partner seem to always ending up hurting each other despite how much you actually desire to connect deep down, or even wonder what's the point to stay together if it's so mundane or painful? The Restoring Place is for you!
I provide a supportive, safe, and respectful relationship to help clients reach clearly specified goals.
I treat high-functioning clients experiencing emotional or physical stress, due to problems in work; relationships (boundaries, assertiveness, anger management); life transitions; or life changes related to loss (such as death, disability/illness, or divorce). My stress model includes strategies for effective problem-solving, rational thinking, effective coping, and stress resilience. I also see couples motivated to either improve their current relationship or prepare for a future together. I use an active interactional style to provide support, insight, and practical strategies for coping with life's challenges.
I provide a supportive, safe, and respectful relationship to help clients reach clearly specified goals.
I treat high-functioning clients experiencing emotional or physical stress, due to problems in work; relationships (boundaries, assertiveness, anger management); life transitions; or life changes related to loss (such as death, disability/illness, or divorce). My stress model includes strategies for effective problem-solving, rational thinking, effective coping, and stress resilience. I also see couples motivated to either improve their current relationship or prepare for a future together. I use an active interactional style to provide support, insight, and practical strategies for coping with life's challenges.
Stephanie Swales
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75225 (Online Only)
I provide psychotherapy and psychoanalysis to individuals and couples as well as supervision to other clinicians.
As a psychologist and Lacanian psychoanalyst, I believe that psychotherapy works best when you feel free to express and explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences-including the ones that feel difficult to put into words. Words have the power both to hurt and to heal. I am trained to listen and intervene in a way that can have many benefits, including relief from suffering and substantive, lasting changes such as personal growth, increased relationship satisfaction and life fulfillment, and an improved ability to work and succeed. I provide a comfortable, professional environment in which I aim to help you meet your goals.
I provide psychotherapy and psychoanalysis to individuals and couples as well as supervision to other clinicians.
As a psychologist and Lacanian psychoanalyst, I believe that psychotherapy works best when you feel free to express and explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences-including the ones that feel difficult to put into words. Words have the power both to hurt and to heal. I am trained to listen and intervene in a way that can have many benefits, including relief from suffering and substantive, lasting changes such as personal growth, increased relationship satisfaction and life fulfillment, and an improved ability to work and succeed. I provide a comfortable, professional environment in which I aim to help you meet your goals.
Monica Urbaniak
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with those impacted by painful life events, individuals, couples & families, as well as professionals.
No one gets to adulthood without living through painful experiences. You may be feeling the effects of a single traumatic incident (sexual victimization, a tragic natural disaster, or the sudden loss of a dear one), or you may be struggling with the weight of years of hurtful events. The term "trauma" seems like a buzzword these days, but for some of us, trauma has deeply influenced our lives. When we experience suffering, we can feel like it becomes our identity. But it doesn't have to be that way. Healing from trauma -- single incident or multiple events -- is possible.
I specialize in working with those impacted by painful life events, individuals, couples & families, as well as professionals.
No one gets to adulthood without living through painful experiences. You may be feeling the effects of a single traumatic incident (sexual victimization, a tragic natural disaster, or the sudden loss of a dear one), or you may be struggling with the weight of years of hurtful events. The term "trauma" seems like a buzzword these days, but for some of us, trauma has deeply influenced our lives. When we experience suffering, we can feel like it becomes our identity. But it doesn't have to be that way. Healing from trauma -- single incident or multiple events -- is possible.
I believe in emphasizing the development of a collaborative relationship between therapist and client, while fostering a safe, nonjudgmental environment that gives people the freedom to explore and understand their feelings and thoughts.
My goal is to help those suffering from emotional or relationship problems, self-defeating patterns of behavior, and recurring periods of uncertainty or self-doubt. I also specialize in the treatment of treatment-resistant depression, anxiety-related disorders, personality disorders, and PMDD. My approach to therapy involves understanding how difficult experiences from our past can affect the way we feel and behave in the present. Our past experiences are often the reason we sometimes struggle with the same emotional and relationship problems throughout life. It is only through understanding our past struggles can we expect to achieve a lasting and meaningful change in the present.
I believe in emphasizing the development of a collaborative relationship between therapist and client, while fostering a safe, nonjudgmental environment that gives people the freedom to explore and understand their feelings and thoughts.
My goal is to help those suffering from emotional or relationship problems, self-defeating patterns of behavior, and recurring periods of uncertainty or self-doubt. I also specialize in the treatment of treatment-resistant depression, anxiety-related disorders, personality disorders, and PMDD. My approach to therapy involves understanding how difficult experiences from our past can affect the way we feel and behave in the present. Our past experiences are often the reason we sometimes struggle with the same emotional and relationship problems throughout life. It is only through understanding our past struggles can we expect to achieve a lasting and meaningful change in the present.
Aimee Olivarez Warren
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75225 (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor who has enjoyed working with people of all ages for the past 10 + years. I have years of experience working with Law Enforcement agencies. I am truly passionate about working with couples (including polyamorous and ENM), women's issues, parenting, and life transitions. I enjoy and have experience using different therapies to individualize the needs and goals of my clients. I am passionate about mental health and believe in working with our mind, body, and spirit to help clients reach their goals. I am a body and sex-positive and LGBTQ ally.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor who has enjoyed working with people of all ages for the past 10 + years. I have years of experience working with Law Enforcement agencies. I am truly passionate about working with couples (including polyamorous and ENM), women's issues, parenting, and life transitions. I enjoy and have experience using different therapies to individualize the needs and goals of my clients. I am passionate about mental health and believe in working with our mind, body, and spirit to help clients reach their goals. I am a body and sex-positive and LGBTQ ally.
Alexavery R. Hawkins
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230 (Online Only)
As part of the LGBTQIA+ community, you deserve a provider who fully welcomes and affirms your identities, values, and lived experiences. Whether you are coming to therapy to explore gender, sexuality, or neurodiversity, work through relationship stressors or body image/eating issues, or heal from the pains of religious-based trauma, you will be seen, heard, and deeply valued in this space. In this collaborative process, we’ll work together to identify your goals and strengths to tailor your care in a client-focused way. From the start, I hope to meet you where you are at and ultimately, inspire personal growth and restoration.
As part of the LGBTQIA+ community, you deserve a provider who fully welcomes and affirms your identities, values, and lived experiences. Whether you are coming to therapy to explore gender, sexuality, or neurodiversity, work through relationship stressors or body image/eating issues, or heal from the pains of religious-based trauma, you will be seen, heard, and deeply valued in this space. In this collaborative process, we’ll work together to identify your goals and strengths to tailor your care in a client-focused way. From the start, I hope to meet you where you are at and ultimately, inspire personal growth and restoration.
Lauren Jordan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75243
A Certified Sex Therapist, I offer sexual and relationship solutions that work for you, including those that aren't about sex. I help you learn who you are, what you want, and how to communicate. I work with all sexual difficulties and dysfunctions, including low libido; desire discrepancies; erection, ejaculation, and orgasm difficulties; sexual pain; vaginismus; out of control sexual behavior, and fetishes. I work with married and unmarried couples and singles, as well as with straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, and poly people. I will make suggestions and give you homework assignments to help you reach your goal.
A Certified Sex Therapist, I offer sexual and relationship solutions that work for you, including those that aren't about sex. I help you learn who you are, what you want, and how to communicate. I work with all sexual difficulties and dysfunctions, including low libido; desire discrepancies; erection, ejaculation, and orgasm difficulties; sexual pain; vaginismus; out of control sexual behavior, and fetishes. I work with married and unmarried couples and singles, as well as with straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, BDSM, and poly people. I will make suggestions and give you homework assignments to help you reach your goal.
Michael Ashenfelter
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75240
My passion is to work with individuals and families struggling with physical and emotional health issues including but not limited to: male/ couples' fertility issues, heart conditions, obesity, diabetes, pain, addictions, depression, and anxiety.
Many of the physical ailments we experience can be linked to our emotional health and well-being. My hope for you, through behavioral health counseling/coaching, is to develop and implement the necessary skills to reach both physical and emotional wellness.
My passion is to work with individuals and families struggling with physical and emotional health issues including but not limited to: male/ couples' fertility issues, heart conditions, obesity, diabetes, pain, addictions, depression, and anxiety.
Many of the physical ailments we experience can be linked to our emotional health and well-being. My hope for you, through behavioral health counseling/coaching, is to develop and implement the necessary skills to reach both physical and emotional wellness.
Christopher Washington
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate , MS, LPC-A, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75243
Buried and unmet needs surface when dealing with issues of anxiety or depression in individuals and most surely in conflict resolutions amongst couples and families.
Life can seem a series of barriers and obstacles that present difficulties in allowing us to be our full and authentic self. How we think and what we believe, whether true or not, often drive our perceptions towards actions. Gaps can exist in our own self-image and what we tell ourselves. Sometimes the gap is based on past experiences and labels others may have placed on us. I believe that bridging these gaps in understanding can be transformative and freeing. However, the steps to seek assistance in exploring how we are affected by these deeply held beliefs can be a tough one.
Buried and unmet needs surface when dealing with issues of anxiety or depression in individuals and most surely in conflict resolutions amongst couples and families.
Life can seem a series of barriers and obstacles that present difficulties in allowing us to be our full and authentic self. How we think and what we believe, whether true or not, often drive our perceptions towards actions. Gaps can exist in our own self-image and what we tell ourselves. Sometimes the gap is based on past experiences and labels others may have placed on us. I believe that bridging these gaps in understanding can be transformative and freeing. However, the steps to seek assistance in exploring how we are affected by these deeply held beliefs can be a tough one.
Rebekah Poynor
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, ATR, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75243
With over seven years of practice in in-patient rehabs, nonprofits, international work, and private practice, I specialize in treating adults, teens, and families suffering from a range of emotional disorders to include depression, anxiety, trauma-based disorders, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, addiction, mood disorders, and family conflict.
My clients would describe me as compassionate, creative, and understanding. For therapy to work, it’s important the client truly feels heard trusts the process. I believe in empowering my clients through evidenced based approaches like Art Therapy, Attachment Theory, Somatic Experiencing, Person-Centered Therapy. My clients and I form genuine relationships and respect for each other, which yields really great results. I take a holistic, trauma informed approach in my work. I enjoy using the creative process alongside clients as they create fulfilling lives. I strongly believe that clients have the answers to their own healing.
With over seven years of practice in in-patient rehabs, nonprofits, international work, and private practice, I specialize in treating adults, teens, and families suffering from a range of emotional disorders to include depression, anxiety, trauma-based disorders, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, addiction, mood disorders, and family conflict.
My clients would describe me as compassionate, creative, and understanding. For therapy to work, it’s important the client truly feels heard trusts the process. I believe in empowering my clients through evidenced based approaches like Art Therapy, Attachment Theory, Somatic Experiencing, Person-Centered Therapy. My clients and I form genuine relationships and respect for each other, which yields really great results. I take a holistic, trauma informed approach in my work. I enjoy using the creative process alongside clients as they create fulfilling lives. I strongly believe that clients have the answers to their own healing.
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Stephanie Burchell
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, PCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
Dr Burchell is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in TX and CT, a Board Certified Professional Counselor and has worked extensively with couples and individuals for over 10 years.
Are you looking to achieve real and lasting change in your personal life? Would you like to get the most out of your relationship - even save your marriage - but remain stuck in a cycle of conflict? Extensively trained and experienced in couples' work, my approach aims to repair attachment bonds; deepen intimacy; improve communication; and sets a course for authentic personal growth. Certified in Emotion-Focused Therapy, this empirically validated model is designed to significantly reduce distress and anxiety, resolve conflict, restore communication, repair emotional injuries, and deepen attachment bonds.
Dr Burchell is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in TX and CT, a Board Certified Professional Counselor and has worked extensively with couples and individuals for over 10 years.
Are you looking to achieve real and lasting change in your personal life? Would you like to get the most out of your relationship - even save your marriage - but remain stuck in a cycle of conflict? Extensively trained and experienced in couples' work, my approach aims to repair attachment bonds; deepen intimacy; improve communication; and sets a course for authentic personal growth. Certified in Emotion-Focused Therapy, this empirically validated model is designed to significantly reduce distress and anxiety, resolve conflict, restore communication, repair emotional injuries, and deepen attachment bonds.
Sandra Oswald
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75243
I use a Gottman approach to working with couples.
With 14 years of experience in therapy, I truly enjoy my job. I am compassionate about helping others establish a strong foundation so they can effectively cope with current struggles as well as struggles they’ll be approached with in the future. My clients would describe me as compassionate, easy to talk to, and very understanding. I'm sensitive to the unique experiences of each individual and believe connection, trust, and understanding are essential to the therapeutic process. I value getting goals accomplished and making progress during each session.
I use a Gottman approach to working with couples.
With 14 years of experience in therapy, I truly enjoy my job. I am compassionate about helping others establish a strong foundation so they can effectively cope with current struggles as well as struggles they’ll be approached with in the future. My clients would describe me as compassionate, easy to talk to, and very understanding. I'm sensitive to the unique experiences of each individual and believe connection, trust, and understanding are essential to the therapeutic process. I value getting goals accomplished and making progress during each session.
Making the decision on which therapist to work with is based on many factors. Perhaps the most important factor is finding someone you are comfortable with so they can be of help. My goal in working with clients is to start by establishing a nonjudgmental, yet honest, relationship that is supportive enough to explore topics and gain insight into issues most relevant to them. I have experience working with clients from all backgrounds with a variety of difficulties, including relationship issues, life transitions, depression, identity struggles, anxiety, and grief.
Making the decision on which therapist to work with is based on many factors. Perhaps the most important factor is finding someone you are comfortable with so they can be of help. My goal in working with clients is to start by establishing a nonjudgmental, yet honest, relationship that is supportive enough to explore topics and gain insight into issues most relevant to them. I have experience working with clients from all backgrounds with a variety of difficulties, including relationship issues, life transitions, depression, identity struggles, anxiety, and grief.
Amy S. Gragert
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S, PA
Verified Verified
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
I see couples/families and individually as needed.
My ideal client is one primarily motivated for change. I'm not an "ah huh, mmmm, I see" therapist. I am very active in sessions so my client wants honest, direct feedback and education on issues and new skills for more success. I am also patient, seasoned and aware that fear and habits make change hard, so I offer significant support and positive encouragement. My therapy involves Cognitive/Behavioral techniques meaning: understanding you "head chatter" and skills to decrease or make more positive (often driven by anxiety), and changing or creating "actions" that increase positive results and confidence.
I see couples/families and individually as needed.
My ideal client is one primarily motivated for change. I'm not an "ah huh, mmmm, I see" therapist. I am very active in sessions so my client wants honest, direct feedback and education on issues and new skills for more success. I am also patient, seasoned and aware that fear and habits make change hard, so I offer significant support and positive encouragement. My therapy involves Cognitive/Behavioral techniques meaning: understanding you "head chatter" and skills to decrease or make more positive (often driven by anxiety), and changing or creating "actions" that increase positive results and confidence.
Dr. Dewone Bennett
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
I have extensive training and certifications as a Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (TF-CBT), EMDR, and Gottman Methods for couples.
Are you simply looking for someone to talk to who will give you honest, straightforward feedback without feeling judged? Please don't look any further. I provide therapy to individuals, families, and groups, as well as workshops, education, parenting, mentoring, and consultation. I accept everyone regardless of race, sex, income, religion, or sexual orientation. If you commit to change, I am committed to helping you identify the skills necessary for the fundamental changes you desire. I will help you improve your communication problems, confidence, and assertiveness and build on your strengths to handle difficult times better.
I have extensive training and certifications as a Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (TF-CBT), EMDR, and Gottman Methods for couples.
Are you simply looking for someone to talk to who will give you honest, straightforward feedback without feeling judged? Please don't look any further. I provide therapy to individuals, families, and groups, as well as workshops, education, parenting, mentoring, and consultation. I accept everyone regardless of race, sex, income, religion, or sexual orientation. If you commit to change, I am committed to helping you identify the skills necessary for the fundamental changes you desire. I will help you improve your communication problems, confidence, and assertiveness and build on your strengths to handle difficult times better.
Sawyer Gibson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230
I am passionate about working with adolescents and adults ranging from issues of anxiety, depression, relationship issues, spirituality, and life transitions.
We can all struggle with forgetting our value, that our life and story have meaning and purpose. Whether it be your current life circumstances, broken relationships, or shame that has been weighing you down for far too long, you may have forgotten your own value. It is scary to feel hopeless, to question yourself, make sense of your story, and wonder "what's next for me?" It is daunting to release control over the unknown in whatever season you may be in. You don't have to face it all alone. I would love to journey with you.
I am passionate about working with adolescents and adults ranging from issues of anxiety, depression, relationship issues, spirituality, and life transitions.
We can all struggle with forgetting our value, that our life and story have meaning and purpose. Whether it be your current life circumstances, broken relationships, or shame that has been weighing you down for far too long, you may have forgotten your own value. It is scary to feel hopeless, to question yourself, make sense of your story, and wonder "what's next for me?" It is daunting to release control over the unknown in whatever season you may be in. You don't have to face it all alone. I would love to journey with you.
Marlene Williams
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75230 (Online Only)
Healing is a journey that is unique to each person’s individual lived experiences. Maybe you've experienced discrimination, trauma, or unhealthy relationship patterns that cause you to feel disconnected, unsure about yourself or life trajectory, or develop unhealthy coping mechanisms. Maybe you're feeling stuck or wondering if healing is even possible. In therapy I provide a safe open space that allows for growth, exploration, and healing tailored to your individual needs.
Healing is a journey that is unique to each person’s individual lived experiences. Maybe you've experienced discrimination, trauma, or unhealthy relationship patterns that cause you to feel disconnected, unsure about yourself or life trajectory, or develop unhealthy coping mechanisms. Maybe you're feeling stuck or wondering if healing is even possible. In therapy I provide a safe open space that allows for growth, exploration, and healing tailored to your individual needs.
Karlos K. Lyons
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
North Dallas, Dallas, TX 75243
My specialties are men’s issues, adolescence (ages 15- 18), couples therapy, BlPOC mental health, addictions and substance abuse, identity, anxiety, stress management, and faith-based counseling.
I believe in the beauty of a sound mind and mental clarity, knowing the way we live successfully correlates with how we think and feel. I also see the importance of the holistic approach to mental health. I recognize the connection between the physical, spiritual, and mental aspects of the human experience, and want to see my clients balance and succeed in each area for optimum wellness. Core to my belief is the truth that when we change our brains and mindsets, we change our lives. Each person has a specific purpose for living. I offer a non-judgmental environment where clients are able to express their thoughts and emotions.
My specialties are men’s issues, adolescence (ages 15- 18), couples therapy, BlPOC mental health, addictions and substance abuse, identity, anxiety, stress management, and faith-based counseling.
I believe in the beauty of a sound mind and mental clarity, knowing the way we live successfully correlates with how we think and feel. I also see the importance of the holistic approach to mental health. I recognize the connection between the physical, spiritual, and mental aspects of the human experience, and want to see my clients balance and succeed in each area for optimum wellness. Core to my belief is the truth that when we change our brains and mindsets, we change our lives. Each person has a specific purpose for living. I offer a non-judgmental environment where clients are able to express their thoughts and emotions.
I perceive my role not only as therapist but also as mentor, advocate, & partner in accomplishing their goals.
In these uncertain, anxious and troubled times, many people are experiencing high levels of stress, anxiety and depression. Many are experiencing increased social isolation and loneliness. Many are in need of a skilled, supportive therapist who can provide perspective and help them navigate their way. I can help. I offer strong specialty in treating anxiety and depression, trauma (PTSD), and relationship/sexual problems (gay & straight). I find it especially rewarding working with grieving clients, those suffering from chronic & terminal illness, men's issues, and helping men & women heal from emotional, physical & sexual abuse.
I perceive my role not only as therapist but also as mentor, advocate, & partner in accomplishing their goals.
In these uncertain, anxious and troubled times, many people are experiencing high levels of stress, anxiety and depression. Many are experiencing increased social isolation and loneliness. Many are in need of a skilled, supportive therapist who can provide perspective and help them navigate their way. I can help. I offer strong specialty in treating anxiety and depression, trauma (PTSD), and relationship/sexual problems (gay & straight). I find it especially rewarding working with grieving clients, those suffering from chronic & terminal illness, men's issues, and helping men & women heal from emotional, physical & sexual abuse.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.