Reality Therapy in Boerne, TX

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Mary Toups
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
Hello, I’m Mary Toups. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas with over 23 years of clinical experience. I specialize in the treatment of trauma, depression and anxiety. I utilize Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Reality Therapy, and Brief Solution focused therapy.
Hello, I’m Mary Toups. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas with over 23 years of clinical experience. I specialize in the treatment of trauma, depression and anxiety. I utilize Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Reality Therapy, and Brief Solution focused therapy.
(512) 648-4938 View (512) 648-4938
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Mike Maddry
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MAC, LPC-A
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
I employ reality therapy and choice theory within the goals that each client brings into the therapy process.
My ideal client understands that they need a seasoned and perceptive counselor to walk with them in their issues which usually stem from challenging relationships. These could include processing anxiety, depression, marital issues, loss & grief, aging, sexual dysfunction or addiction, life transitions, and navigating the challenges from adolescence all the way through to senior adulthood. My clients are seeking help with today and hope for tomorrow. I work with church hurt issues both for church professionals as well as participants. My hope is to see clients flourish when they feel stuck, and to live life to the fullest!
I employ reality therapy and choice theory within the goals that each client brings into the therapy process.
My ideal client understands that they need a seasoned and perceptive counselor to walk with them in their issues which usually stem from challenging relationships. These could include processing anxiety, depression, marital issues, loss & grief, aging, sexual dysfunction or addiction, life transitions, and navigating the challenges from adolescence all the way through to senior adulthood. My clients are seeking help with today and hope for tomorrow. I work with church hurt issues both for church professionals as well as participants. My hope is to see clients flourish when they feel stuck, and to live life to the fullest!
(830) 293-3167 View (830) 293-3167
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Paul Stephenson with Genesis Counseling Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Paul has over 10 years of experience walking with couples and individuals through some of the hardest seasons of life. He has a Bachelor's Degree from Texas A&M University and a Master's Degree from University of Texas at San Antonio. Paul believes that his first priority is to hear his clients. He has a wealth of experience helping people walk through challenging seasons and difficult circumstances, but Paul views each of those people is first and foremost an individual with unique life experiences. Whether it's anxiety or grief/loss, he feels each of us responds differently based on what we've encountered in our own life story.
Paul has over 10 years of experience walking with couples and individuals through some of the hardest seasons of life. He has a Bachelor's Degree from Texas A&M University and a Master's Degree from University of Texas at San Antonio. Paul believes that his first priority is to hear his clients. He has a wealth of experience helping people walk through challenging seasons and difficult circumstances, but Paul views each of those people is first and foremost an individual with unique life experiences. Whether it's anxiety or grief/loss, he feels each of us responds differently based on what we've encountered in our own life story.
(830) 563-4863 View (830) 563-4863
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Denise M. Filer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
If you have come to the realization you are emotionally and mentally blocked; then it is time for a change. If those behavior patterns and thoughts have gotten in the way of you experiencing the deeper meaning of life and enjoyment let me facilitate your growth so that you can transform your life and live to the fullest. I Specialize in: • Depression • Grief • Addiction • Sexual Abuse • LGBTQ •PTSD • Personality Disorders •Co-occurring diseases •and Trauma .
If you have come to the realization you are emotionally and mentally blocked; then it is time for a change. If those behavior patterns and thoughts have gotten in the way of you experiencing the deeper meaning of life and enjoyment let me facilitate your growth so that you can transform your life and live to the fullest. I Specialize in: • Depression • Grief • Addiction • Sexual Abuse • LGBTQ •PTSD • Personality Disorders •Co-occurring diseases •and Trauma .
(830) 254-5603 View (830) 254-5603
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Erika Rose Unberhagen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCDC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
My experience as a 14-year law enforcement officer led to my understanding of the unique and often complex issues that arise from serving communities and country, including addiction and trauma. I use evidence-based practices with a unique and holistic approach to healing and understand the culture and language associated with veteran and first responder communities. Drawing upon my Native American roots, I incorporate indigenous techniques when appropriate for the client.
My experience as a 14-year law enforcement officer led to my understanding of the unique and often complex issues that arise from serving communities and country, including addiction and trauma. I use evidence-based practices with a unique and holistic approach to healing and understand the culture and language associated with veteran and first responder communities. Drawing upon my Native American roots, I incorporate indigenous techniques when appropriate for the client.
(830) 271-2923 View (830) 271-2923
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Michael Richter
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with problems associated with trauma or addiction? Addiction and trauma are difficult to navigate for anyone. As a therapist, I meet you where you are and come alongside you to help you develop new insight, bring about change, and find hope for your future. Reach out, and let's begin to navigate this journey together. I have been in practice since 2022. I am trauma and EMDR-trained and have a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health from Liberty University.
Are you struggling with problems associated with trauma or addiction? Addiction and trauma are difficult to navigate for anyone. As a therapist, I meet you where you are and come alongside you to help you develop new insight, bring about change, and find hope for your future. Reach out, and let's begin to navigate this journey together. I have been in practice since 2022. I am trauma and EMDR-trained and have a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health from Liberty University.
(830) 465-3765 View (830) 465-3765
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Lone Star Counseling Solutions - Brook Zemel, PhD
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPCS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Career counseling is my specialty, not a side-line area of counseling. As a licensed professional counselor, I can guide you to employ purposeful action to get your "dream job". Additionally, I served as a top level executive within a large organization, having hired, interviewed and developed hundreds of employees. I know what it takes to get hired. I received leadership/organizational development training from some of the country's finest CEO's and HR professionals. I can work with you comprehensively, since I am highly trained in resume and cover letter writing, interview scripting, LinkedIn and job search techniques.
Career counseling is my specialty, not a side-line area of counseling. As a licensed professional counselor, I can guide you to employ purposeful action to get your "dream job". Additionally, I served as a top level executive within a large organization, having hired, interviewed and developed hundreds of employees. I know what it takes to get hired. I received leadership/organizational development training from some of the country's finest CEO's and HR professionals. I can work with you comprehensively, since I am highly trained in resume and cover letter writing, interview scripting, LinkedIn and job search techniques.
(281) 602-3455 View (281) 602-3455
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Mind In Harmony, Integrative Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Whether you are going through a difficult life transition, and or having relationship problems; dealing with them alone can be challenging. There might have been a time in your life when you knew how to cope, yet you feel stuck about what to do? We're born intrinsically resourceful and resilient, yet life circumstances can change how we feel about ourselves or even cope? Whether experiencing feelings of doubt, fear, I hope I can help you find your way back. The process of counseling is the bringing of new awareness on what is keeping us from reaching our full potential, & towards creating new meanings, & possibilibities.
Whether you are going through a difficult life transition, and or having relationship problems; dealing with them alone can be challenging. There might have been a time in your life when you knew how to cope, yet you feel stuck about what to do? We're born intrinsically resourceful and resilient, yet life circumstances can change how we feel about ourselves or even cope? Whether experiencing feelings of doubt, fear, I hope I can help you find your way back. The process of counseling is the bringing of new awareness on what is keeping us from reaching our full potential, & towards creating new meanings, & possibilibities.
(830) 376-7002 View (830) 376-7002
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Justin Wolff
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCDC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
Note: During the CoronaVirus Crisis, I am offering online/telehealth sessions. Visit my website for details! I work with kids, adolescents, and adults, leading them to their "A-ha" moments. I make difficult concepts simple using humor, story-telling & analogies. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to address the thoughts, feelings, beliefs and actions which may be obstacles to getting where you would like to be. I also rely heavily on Positive Psychology, which uses a strength-based approach (rather than a focus on problems). When working with Traumatic events, I use Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
Note: During the CoronaVirus Crisis, I am offering online/telehealth sessions. Visit my website for details! I work with kids, adolescents, and adults, leading them to their "A-ha" moments. I make difficult concepts simple using humor, story-telling & analogies. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to address the thoughts, feelings, beliefs and actions which may be obstacles to getting where you would like to be. I also rely heavily on Positive Psychology, which uses a strength-based approach (rather than a focus on problems). When working with Traumatic events, I use Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
(210) 598-5105 View (210) 598-5105
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Shantell Jo Olson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC, NCC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
We are not meant to go through life alone. We all need help along the way. I am here to walk along side you and provide experienced guidance as you continue to heal and grow.
We are not meant to go through life alone. We all need help along the way. I am here to walk along side you and provide experienced guidance as you continue to heal and grow.
(830) 227-7544 View (830) 227-7544
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Christina Ashby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, CFRC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
ACCELERATED RESOLUTION THERAPY Therapist… If you've decided to seek help and you're entrusting a therapist with your most personal concerns, it is vitally important that the fit be right. Hope and relief come sooner when you find a therapist you feel comfortable with and has the experience you need. I have been in the ministry of helping individuals, families and couples most of my adult life. I balance the concerns you have while also ministering. I strive to meet people where they are, help them understand their strengths, and aid in the empowerment of taking charge of and developing their lives.
ACCELERATED RESOLUTION THERAPY Therapist… If you've decided to seek help and you're entrusting a therapist with your most personal concerns, it is vitally important that the fit be right. Hope and relief come sooner when you find a therapist you feel comfortable with and has the experience you need. I have been in the ministry of helping individuals, families and couples most of my adult life. I balance the concerns you have while also ministering. I strive to meet people where they are, help them understand their strengths, and aid in the empowerment of taking charge of and developing their lives.
(210) 361-3455 View (210) 361-3455
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Antony Ashby
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
My desire is to provide my clients a clear perspective, free from the clutter that is likely clouding judgment, understanding, or perspective. Together we can navigate the issues and concerns and create a solution that is fitting for each client. Our solutions will ultimately be Specific to your needs - Measurable as your journey improves - Attainable as you gain more confidence - Realistic as you determine your strengths and weaknesses - Time sensitive as you regain your independence (SMART). These motivational factors will be key to my focus and your recovery in any aspect of your life.
My desire is to provide my clients a clear perspective, free from the clutter that is likely clouding judgment, understanding, or perspective. Together we can navigate the issues and concerns and create a solution that is fitting for each client. Our solutions will ultimately be Specific to your needs - Measurable as your journey improves - Attainable as you gain more confidence - Realistic as you determine your strengths and weaknesses - Time sensitive as you regain your independence (SMART). These motivational factors will be key to my focus and your recovery in any aspect of your life.
(210) 981-3248 View (210) 981-3248
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Dana Shepard Cardwell
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC, EMDR, Reiki
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Some people will throw rocks on your path, it depends on what you make with them, a wall or a bridge? Allow me to assist you in building a path to bliss and happiness. I can help you unlock your unique treasures whether you are a student, adult, or grandparent. I've worked with male/females from anxiety issues to suicidal ideations. I enjoy working with individuals of all walks of life who have had to face unique challenges. I, also, offer spiritual and life coaching retreats in Cozumel. I enjoy working with teens, women, young couples, military/law enforcement and LGBTQ individuals. Find my books on Amazon.
Some people will throw rocks on your path, it depends on what you make with them, a wall or a bridge? Allow me to assist you in building a path to bliss and happiness. I can help you unlock your unique treasures whether you are a student, adult, or grandparent. I've worked with male/females from anxiety issues to suicidal ideations. I enjoy working with individuals of all walks of life who have had to face unique challenges. I, also, offer spiritual and life coaching retreats in Cozumel. I enjoy working with teens, women, young couples, military/law enforcement and LGBTQ individuals. Find my books on Amazon.
(830) 224-2702 View (830) 224-2702
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Dr. Bianca Hall
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
(254) 454-4142 View (254) 454-4142
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Mind Right Sport Psychology
Counselor, EdD
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
We offer mental skill training for athletes of all levels, professionals looking for an edge, weekend warriors, and anyone who wants to build a strong mental game. Skills like mental toughness, anxiety and emotion management around performance, focus, routine, visualization, and goal setting are all trainable. We take a cognitive behavioral approach, combined with sport and performance psychology principles, Self-Determination Theory, and Positive Psychology, to build a high-performance mindset. You will learn to consistently perform at the high end of your abilities and manage obstacles, slumps, or distractions when they arise.
We offer mental skill training for athletes of all levels, professionals looking for an edge, weekend warriors, and anyone who wants to build a strong mental game. Skills like mental toughness, anxiety and emotion management around performance, focus, routine, visualization, and goal setting are all trainable. We take a cognitive behavioral approach, combined with sport and performance psychology principles, Self-Determination Theory, and Positive Psychology, to build a high-performance mindset. You will learn to consistently perform at the high end of your abilities and manage obstacles, slumps, or distractions when they arise.
(210) 943-9341 View (210) 943-9341
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Dixie White
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78015
As a LPC, I bring years of experience and a deep commitment to empowering my clients. With 20+ years of experience supporting individuals, I have cultivated a unique approach that blends empathy, humor, and directness to create a supportive therapeutic environment. Through a collaborative process, we work closely to explore your strengths, challenges, values, and aspirations. My goal is to help clients embrace their innate power to determine their own fulfillment. Whether navigating life transitions, managing stress, or addressing deeper emotional wounds, I am dedicated to supporting you every step of the way.
As a LPC, I bring years of experience and a deep commitment to empowering my clients. With 20+ years of experience supporting individuals, I have cultivated a unique approach that blends empathy, humor, and directness to create a supportive therapeutic environment. Through a collaborative process, we work closely to explore your strengths, challenges, values, and aspirations. My goal is to help clients embrace their innate power to determine their own fulfillment. Whether navigating life transitions, managing stress, or addressing deeper emotional wounds, I am dedicated to supporting you every step of the way.
(210) 864-1814 View (210) 864-1814
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Thoughtful Therapy, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78015
I deal with a myriad of issues including depression, anxiety, OCD, bi-polar disorders, personality disorders, grief counseling, career guidance, motivation, current and/or past trauma, college experiences, brain injuries, and familial issues like parenting and relationships. I find working with all ages, ethnicities, religions, and special populations fulfilling. I thoroughly enjoy helping other people better themselves. My counseling style is encouraging and humanistic, meaning it focuses on you. I focus on what is real and what is important to you. I provide judgment-free sessions where you can feel safe.
I deal with a myriad of issues including depression, anxiety, OCD, bi-polar disorders, personality disorders, grief counseling, career guidance, motivation, current and/or past trauma, college experiences, brain injuries, and familial issues like parenting and relationships. I find working with all ages, ethnicities, religions, and special populations fulfilling. I thoroughly enjoy helping other people better themselves. My counseling style is encouraging and humanistic, meaning it focuses on you. I focus on what is real and what is important to you. I provide judgment-free sessions where you can feel safe.
(210) 981-3953 View (210) 981-3953
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Johnna W
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LSOTP
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
I have provided therapy to a wide variety of clients including children, teens, adults, individuals with serious mental illness, and those who have been incarcerated. I have worked in private practice, the prison, and state hospital setting. I really love working with a diverse range people.
I have provided therapy to a wide variety of clients including children, teens, adults, individuals with serious mental illness, and those who have been incarcerated. I have worked in private practice, the prison, and state hospital setting. I really love working with a diverse range people.
(830) 745-6372 View (830) 745-6372
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Wild Courage Counseling, PLLC.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCDC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Howdy and welcome to Wild Courage Counseling. My name is Mandy Randall. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC), and trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), an evidenced based therapy used in treating PTSD, trauma, depression, anxiety, and other distressing life events. I specialize in working with adult women struggling with distressing life events, such as trauma, anxiety, depression, suicidality, self-harm, chronic pain, care giving duties, and neurodiverse differences.
Howdy and welcome to Wild Courage Counseling. My name is Mandy Randall. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC), and trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), an evidenced based therapy used in treating PTSD, trauma, depression, anxiety, and other distressing life events. I specialize in working with adult women struggling with distressing life events, such as trauma, anxiety, depression, suicidality, self-harm, chronic pain, care giving duties, and neurodiverse differences.
(210) 610-1754 View (210) 610-1754
Sam Warren
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
(830) 402-6064 View (830) 402-6064
Reality Therapy

Is reality therapy evidence-based?

Reality therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioral or acceptance and commitment therapies. However, some research does indicate that reality therapy might be helpful for people with addiction, and may be effective in treating social anxiety in young people.

How long does reality therapy last?

Reality therapy is less structured when compared with psychoanalysis, for example. Reality therapy is more open-ended and may not be limited to a set number of sessions. It is common for clients to be in therapy for a year or longer and to see their therapist one to two times a week, though the exact schedule and timeline may vary depending on a client’s challenges and progress. Individuals can also practice the principles of reality therapy long after treatment has ended.

Does reality therapy work?

Reality therapy can help a person manage concerns such as eating disorders, addiction, substance use, anxiety, phobias, and relationship difficulties. This type of therapy encourages a person to be accountable for their behaviors. This therapy may offer benefits that are hard to measure. Reality therapy can be useful in one-on-one therapy or in group sessions. This method may be used with children, families, and adults.

What are the limitations of reality therapy?

This therapy is person-centered or client-centered, and the therapist focuses on choices made by the individual in the present day. The therapist privileges the individual’s perspective over others. This format may feel frustrating for individuals seeking a more structured approach; certainly, no one therapy type will work for every client.