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Tom Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Brooklyn, NY 11225
Let's Connect (505) 295-5098
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Many clients are in search of deeper happiness and emotional resilience in their lives and relationships. Often, out of innocence, we look outside ourselves for fulfillment instead of inward, towards our own true hearts. For over 25 years I have worked with couples and individuals seeking a way out of isolation and emotional suffering towards greater joy. This is your time to be on the planet. If you struggle with self-defeating patterns and would like help shifting towards a more vibrant life, please call me for a free consultation.
I use a combination of insight, presence, compassion, and humor to work with clients who desire deeper joy in their lives. If you are experiencing marital strife, depression/anxiety, feelings of emptiness, anger, grief, or just plain feeling stressed out, we can work together to create the life you want to live.
If you are wondering if counseling is for you, or you would like to meet to see if it feels like a good fit, contact me for a free 15 minute tele-consultation.
Call or Email Tom Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (505) 295-5098
Let's Connect (505) 295-5098
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $120
- Couple Sessions $150
- Pay by Health Savings Account, Paypal
Insurance
- Out of Network
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Tom Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / LPC.0013088 Tom BenderLicense state differs from primary location state.
- In Practice for 28 Years
- Certificate from Relational Life Institute 2017
- Attended Naropa University, MA - Transpersonal Psychology, Graduated 1996
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Life Coaching
Expertise
- Affair Recovery Work
- Anger Management
- Anxiety
- Behavioral Issues
- Bisexual
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Dual Diagnosis
- Emotional Education
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- Life Transitions
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Thinking Disorders
- Trauma and PTSD
- Veterans
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Single Mother
Ethnicity
Hispanic and Latino ,
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Espanol
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Single Mother
Ethnicity
Hispanic and Latino ,
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Espanol
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Brainspotting
- Coaching
- Compassion Focused
- Eclectic
- Emotionally Focused
- Experiential Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Humanistic
- Imago
- Interpersonal
- Person-Centered
- Relational
- Relational Life Therapy (For Marriage and Couples)
- Strength-Based
- Transpersonal
Groups
Men's Relational Skills
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This is a weekly tele-group for men who want to improve their relational skills and learn to lead more with their hearts.
Expertise
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Age
Adults
Session Cost
$40-$50
Email Tom Bender about this group or call - (505) 295-5098
Location
Nearby Areas
Cities
Neighborhoods
Call for a free consultation now - (505) 295-5098
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Tom Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC