Gottman Method Therapists in Nashville, TN
Valerie Martin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, RYT-500
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37205
I also offer Gottman Method couples therapy and sex therapy.
You're tired of always feeling overwhelmed, on autopilot, or stuck in your head with anxiety and insecurities. Self-defeating beliefs and patterns are seriously getting in the way of your goals, work, or relationships. And maybe you also struggle with food, body image, or past events / traumas that make you wonder if you'll ever feel okay in your own skin. Did I just just describe you? Let's talk. I'm not a passive therapist— I roll up my sleeves and give you tangible strategies to deal more effectively in the moment with difficult experiences, thoughts, and feelings.
I also offer Gottman Method couples therapy and sex therapy.
You're tired of always feeling overwhelmed, on autopilot, or stuck in your head with anxiety and insecurities. Self-defeating beliefs and patterns are seriously getting in the way of your goals, work, or relationships. And maybe you also struggle with food, body image, or past events / traumas that make you wonder if you'll ever feel okay in your own skin. Did I just just describe you? Let's talk. I'm not a passive therapist— I roll up my sleeves and give you tangible strategies to deal more effectively in the moment with difficult experiences, thoughts, and feelings.
My work with couples is informed by The Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Hello and a heartfelt welcome. I offer compassionate care to adults and couples, specializing in the journey of becoming and being a parent. Whether you’re considering parenthood, trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum, or raising a child, I provide effective support and guidance. I also enjoy working with clients to address a variety of other concerns, including relationships, anxiety, depression, military life, transitions, and general life stressors. My goal is to create a therapeutic experience that is approachable, collaborative, and affirming.
My work with couples is informed by The Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Hello and a heartfelt welcome. I offer compassionate care to adults and couples, specializing in the journey of becoming and being a parent. Whether you’re considering parenthood, trying to conceive, pregnant, postpartum, or raising a child, I provide effective support and guidance. I also enjoy working with clients to address a variety of other concerns, including relationships, anxiety, depression, military life, transitions, and general life stressors. My goal is to create a therapeutic experience that is approachable, collaborative, and affirming.
I prefer holistic (whole-person), client centered approaches in order to help clients effectively identify problem areas and create steps to resolve issues and I frequently pull from the Gottman method and from Brainspotting.
I love helping clients make sense of their hidden stories and experiences. Often, these create chaos, make us unsure, and throw us off balance. I believe that everyone needs a comfortable place to rediscover balance and wholeness through unraveling their stories. While I see a variety of clients, I love pre-marital therapy, married couples struggling with intimacy, as well as singles and women who have experienced sexual trauma. I also have experience with Homeschool culture and the struggles and wins of the music industry. I offer flexible office hours including Saturdays.
I prefer holistic (whole-person), client centered approaches in order to help clients effectively identify problem areas and create steps to resolve issues and I frequently pull from the Gottman method and from Brainspotting.
I love helping clients make sense of their hidden stories and experiences. Often, these create chaos, make us unsure, and throw us off balance. I believe that everyone needs a comfortable place to rediscover balance and wholeness through unraveling their stories. While I see a variety of clients, I love pre-marital therapy, married couples struggling with intimacy, as well as singles and women who have experienced sexual trauma. I also have experience with Homeschool culture and the struggles and wins of the music industry. I offer flexible office hours including Saturdays.
With couples, I use the Gottman method to support you and your partner's ability to re-connect, communicate, and resolve conflict in a healthier way.
If you tell yourself: “I can’t keep living like this,” we'll be a good fit. I specialize in individuals, couples, and families who've been impacted by suicidal thoughts and related concerns, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, and identity-related stress (gender, sexual orientation, ethnic/racial). These people are cycle-breakers who want to change old family patterns; stonecatchers who try to protect others from mistreatment because they know how it feels; or those who are simply tired of feeling “just ok.” Ultimately I blend the nerdy science of psychology with humility and humor to support you in building a more meaningful life.
With couples, I use the Gottman method to support you and your partner's ability to re-connect, communicate, and resolve conflict in a healthier way.
If you tell yourself: “I can’t keep living like this,” we'll be a good fit. I specialize in individuals, couples, and families who've been impacted by suicidal thoughts and related concerns, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, and identity-related stress (gender, sexual orientation, ethnic/racial). These people are cycle-breakers who want to change old family patterns; stonecatchers who try to protect others from mistreatment because they know how it feels; or those who are simply tired of feeling “just ok.” Ultimately I blend the nerdy science of psychology with humility and humor to support you in building a more meaningful life.
Colleen Conklin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, MHSP
Verified Verified
Nashville, TN 37205
I take an individualized, holistic approach and use EMDR, ACT, DBT, Brainspotting, Gottman Method, somatic therapy, and experiential techniques based on your needs.
Whether you’re navigating trauma, a complicated relationship with food/body image, sexual challenges, creative blocks, neurodivergence, or the stress of working in the creative/entertainment/music industries, I’m here to support you in building a life you can truly enjoy and thrive in, not just survive. As the wife of a touring sound engineer, I'm passionate about supporting touring professionals and the unique challenges that industry brings. I am also a former dancer and love supporting dancers in navigating the complexities of the dance world, especially the ballet world.
I take an individualized, holistic approach and use EMDR, ACT, DBT, Brainspotting, Gottman Method, somatic therapy, and experiential techniques based on your needs.
Whether you’re navigating trauma, a complicated relationship with food/body image, sexual challenges, creative blocks, neurodivergence, or the stress of working in the creative/entertainment/music industries, I’m here to support you in building a life you can truly enjoy and thrive in, not just survive. As the wife of a touring sound engineer, I'm passionate about supporting touring professionals and the unique challenges that industry brings. I am also a former dancer and love supporting dancers in navigating the complexities of the dance world, especially the ballet world.
Adam McCravy
Licensed Professional Counselor, Ed S, LPC, MHSP, (TEMP)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37203
I'm also passionate about working with couples, and am Level 1 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
As a therapist, my approach to counseling is relational, collaborative, and hopeful. Regardless of the challenge that you are facing, I deeply believe that you already have in you everything you need to overcome it. Nothing is missing. You have what it takes. But sometimes there are obstacles standing in the way. My role as a therapist is to help remove the obstacles so that you can access the inner strength and ability that you already possess. It takes courage to say that something isn't working or that you want more or better from your life. It's my privilege as a therapist to join people as they do just that.
I'm also passionate about working with couples, and am Level 1 trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
As a therapist, my approach to counseling is relational, collaborative, and hopeful. Regardless of the challenge that you are facing, I deeply believe that you already have in you everything you need to overcome it. Nothing is missing. You have what it takes. But sometimes there are obstacles standing in the way. My role as a therapist is to help remove the obstacles so that you can access the inner strength and ability that you already possess. It takes courage to say that something isn't working or that you want more or better from your life. It's my privilege as a therapist to join people as they do just that.
Tim Hollar
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPCMHSP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37203
I use the Gottman method with couples to help with connection, compromise and positive interactions.
When things feel off or when you are not going in a direction that feels authentic you can feel or see it. I approach therapy through a lens of strength, the strength to be vulnerable, to take ownership of your story, and to learning about yourself to act out your values with integrity. My experience as a therapist has shown me any change can evoke grief, and that acceptance when things cannot or will not change can be hard too. Individual therapy can provide support for grief, depression, isolation, and anxiety. Couples therapy can strengthen connection and dreams in your relationship. You don’t need to be alone in your journey.
I use the Gottman method with couples to help with connection, compromise and positive interactions.
When things feel off or when you are not going in a direction that feels authentic you can feel or see it. I approach therapy through a lens of strength, the strength to be vulnerable, to take ownership of your story, and to learning about yourself to act out your values with integrity. My experience as a therapist has shown me any change can evoke grief, and that acceptance when things cannot or will not change can be hard too. Individual therapy can provide support for grief, depression, isolation, and anxiety. Couples therapy can strengthen connection and dreams in your relationship. You don’t need to be alone in your journey.
I’m Prepare/Enrich Certified and trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (L1), both leading approaches in couples therapy.
Hi! I’m Hannah, a Pre-Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Music City. If you’re feeling stuck in your relationship, whether it’s due to communication struggles, infidelity, or the challenges of balancing work and home life- you’re not alone. As a dedicated couples therapist, I’m here to help you and your partner navigate these hurdles and rediscover the joy and connection that originally drew you together. I specialize in helping couples address conflict, enhance communication, and cultivate deeper emotional connections.
I’m Prepare/Enrich Certified and trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (L1), both leading approaches in couples therapy.
Hi! I’m Hannah, a Pre-Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Music City. If you’re feeling stuck in your relationship, whether it’s due to communication struggles, infidelity, or the challenges of balancing work and home life- you’re not alone. As a dedicated couples therapist, I’m here to help you and your partner navigate these hurdles and rediscover the joy and connection that originally drew you together. I specialize in helping couples address conflict, enhance communication, and cultivate deeper emotional connections.
Alyssa Birmingham
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37212
I utilize the Gottman method and EFT for couples.
There is something beautiful about becoming the most authentic version of yourself. My passion lies in helping individuals and couples work to uncover what is keeping them stuck and develop a more fulfilling life. Through therapy, we will develop a relationship where you feel heard, understood, and respected while working to recognize and change the unhelpful thoughts, behaviors, and patterns in your life that are no longer serving you. Our sessions will feel like a conversation, where I will offer a fresh perspective and tangible ways to achieve your therapy goals.
I utilize the Gottman method and EFT for couples.
There is something beautiful about becoming the most authentic version of yourself. My passion lies in helping individuals and couples work to uncover what is keeping them stuck and develop a more fulfilling life. Through therapy, we will develop a relationship where you feel heard, understood, and respected while working to recognize and change the unhelpful thoughts, behaviors, and patterns in your life that are no longer serving you. Our sessions will feel like a conversation, where I will offer a fresh perspective and tangible ways to achieve your therapy goals.
By combining evidence-based approaches like Bowenian Systems Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Restoration Therapy, and the Gottman Method, we can collaboratively identify what isn't working and create a personalized path towards well-being and fulfillment.
“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen," - Brené Brown. Finding the courage to show up for yourself can be overwhelming. Life's unexpected twists and turns often disrupt our plans, leaving us feeling lost. Therapy offers a path to rediscover your strength and empowerment. By delving deep into underlying issues like trauma or unhealthy attachments, we can overcome obstacles and create lasting change.
By combining evidence-based approaches like Bowenian Systems Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Restoration Therapy, and the Gottman Method, we can collaboratively identify what isn't working and create a personalized path towards well-being and fulfillment.
“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen," - Brené Brown. Finding the courage to show up for yourself can be overwhelming. Life's unexpected twists and turns often disrupt our plans, leaving us feeling lost. Therapy offers a path to rediscover your strength and empowerment. By delving deep into underlying issues like trauma or unhealthy attachments, we can overcome obstacles and create lasting change.
Every individual is worthy of healing and peace, and my favorite part about working with clients is working with them as they find the courage to live out this belief. Journeys of healing are sometimes scary, so using a holistic and collaborative approach, I strive to create a space that is nonjudgmental, safe, and peaceful as I aid clients in their work. My approach to therapy includes a combination of evidence-based practices including Restoration therapy and Internal Family Systems therapy, as well as Gottman Method interventions, common factors, and the expressive arts.
Every individual is worthy of healing and peace, and my favorite part about working with clients is working with them as they find the courage to live out this belief. Journeys of healing are sometimes scary, so using a holistic and collaborative approach, I strive to create a space that is nonjudgmental, safe, and peaceful as I aid clients in their work. My approach to therapy includes a combination of evidence-based practices including Restoration therapy and Internal Family Systems therapy, as well as Gottman Method interventions, common factors, and the expressive arts.
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Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37203
I'm trained in EMDR and have completed Level 3 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, an approach based upon over 30 years of research.
I am honored to join my clients on their unique journeys, offering a safe holding environment to facilitate connection, healing, and growth. I favor a client-centered and integrative approach, providing empathy and unconditional positive regard as clients navigate a variety of concerns. I am passionate in my commitment to walk alongside clients as they develop the skills to foster more authentic and meaningful connections with both self and others.
I'm trained in EMDR and have completed Level 3 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, an approach based upon over 30 years of research.
I am honored to join my clients on their unique journeys, offering a safe holding environment to facilitate connection, healing, and growth. I favor a client-centered and integrative approach, providing empathy and unconditional positive regard as clients navigate a variety of concerns. I am passionate in my commitment to walk alongside clients as they develop the skills to foster more authentic and meaningful connections with both self and others.
Corey S. Springer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CNEP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37212 (Online Only)
I've also completed Gottman Method for Couples Therapy Level 1 and 2 and PSI's Advanced Perinatal Mental Health training.
Have you ever felt stuck, cycling through the same conflicts with your partner, or overwhelmed by the challenges of early parenthood? Have you struggled to support your partner while navigating grief around a pregnancy loss, infertility, or a parent's death? As someone who's walked through many of these experiences personally, I get how overwhelming and lonely it can be. Research shows that having the right support can be a key factor in navigating life’s hardest seasons, and I’m here to walk with you as you find your way through.
I've also completed Gottman Method for Couples Therapy Level 1 and 2 and PSI's Advanced Perinatal Mental Health training.
Have you ever felt stuck, cycling through the same conflicts with your partner, or overwhelmed by the challenges of early parenthood? Have you struggled to support your partner while navigating grief around a pregnancy loss, infertility, or a parent's death? As someone who's walked through many of these experiences personally, I get how overwhelming and lonely it can be. Research shows that having the right support can be a key factor in navigating life’s hardest seasons, and I’m here to walk with you as you find your way through.
Khelsea Walker
Licensed Professional Counselor, Mhc, LPC
Verified Verified
Nashville, TN 37201 (Online Only)
EFT, Gottman method for couples therapy and other approaches.
New to therapy or seeking to start again? With over 10 years in counseling services I can help you start your journey today. There is a safe space for you here, whether your narrative is searching for personal growth, or insight into life circumstances, having a safe environment that is reflective and guided by professional support helps you regain control. As a licensed clinician my goal is to help you understand negative feelings, repressed emotions, and resolve internal psychological conflicts...
EFT, Gottman method for couples therapy and other approaches.
New to therapy or seeking to start again? With over 10 years in counseling services I can help you start your journey today. There is a safe space for you here, whether your narrative is searching for personal growth, or insight into life circumstances, having a safe environment that is reflective and guided by professional support helps you regain control. As a licensed clinician my goal is to help you understand negative feelings, repressed emotions, and resolve internal psychological conflicts...
Steve Riser
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MHSP, MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37220
I specialize in working with couples and have been trained in The Gottman Method and Prepare and Enrich Premarital inventory.
I enjoy working with clients seeking to grow emotionally, spiritually and relationally. I believe therapy is an opportunity to journey deeper areas of self awareness and a greater understanding of who we have been created to be. I am relational in my approach to counseling. I believe that we have been broken in relationships and that we are therefore healed in the context of relationships. I have had many clients who have had success and experienced transformation throughout the counseling process. Evening and weekend appointments available. Contact me via phone, email, or text. New clients can register at therapyappointment.com
I specialize in working with couples and have been trained in The Gottman Method and Prepare and Enrich Premarital inventory.
I enjoy working with clients seeking to grow emotionally, spiritually and relationally. I believe therapy is an opportunity to journey deeper areas of self awareness and a greater understanding of who we have been created to be. I am relational in my approach to counseling. I believe that we have been broken in relationships and that we are therefore healed in the context of relationships. I have had many clients who have had success and experienced transformation throughout the counseling process. Evening and weekend appointments available. Contact me via phone, email, or text. New clients can register at therapyappointment.com
Carol Omos Crawley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37205 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I draw on a variety of modalities including EMDR, DBT, Schema Therapy, Trauma-Informed Therapy, Attachment Theory, The Gottman Method, Integrative Christian Counseling and mindfulness practices to create a customized treatment plan that is both effective and empowering.
My focus is working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, first responders, and couples looking to recover from infidelity. I see individuals as well as couples and if appropriate, will alternate seeing a couple together and then separately for individual sessions. I use an integrative approach that combines evidence-based practices with a personalized, holistic perspective. Whether you are struggling with infidelity, trauma, anxiety, depression, or other challenges, I am here to provide a compassionate and non-judgmental space where you can explore your experiences and develop the skills and tools you need to achieve your goals.
I draw on a variety of modalities including EMDR, DBT, Schema Therapy, Trauma-Informed Therapy, Attachment Theory, The Gottman Method, Integrative Christian Counseling and mindfulness practices to create a customized treatment plan that is both effective and empowering.
My focus is working with survivors of narcissistic abuse, first responders, and couples looking to recover from infidelity. I see individuals as well as couples and if appropriate, will alternate seeing a couple together and then separately for individual sessions. I use an integrative approach that combines evidence-based practices with a personalized, holistic perspective. Whether you are struggling with infidelity, trauma, anxiety, depression, or other challenges, I am here to provide a compassionate and non-judgmental space where you can explore your experiences and develop the skills and tools you need to achieve your goals.
Stuart Eldon Cook
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, MHSP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37221
I use Gottman Method and family systems interventions to help people thrive in their relationships.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. Anxiety exhausts, paralyzes, and overwhelms us. Depression leaves us feeling hopeless, worthless, and alone. ADHD can stifle our productivity while crushing our self-esteem. Addiction keeps us in bondage to that which will never truly satisfy. And marital and family relationships that were supposed to serve as secure bases can quickly become sources of tremendous pain and distress. You've tried to overcome these issues on your own but to no avail; you feel stuck and as though you've run out of options. But there is hope!
I use Gottman Method and family systems interventions to help people thrive in their relationships.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. Anxiety exhausts, paralyzes, and overwhelms us. Depression leaves us feeling hopeless, worthless, and alone. ADHD can stifle our productivity while crushing our self-esteem. Addiction keeps us in bondage to that which will never truly satisfy. And marital and family relationships that were supposed to serve as secure bases can quickly become sources of tremendous pain and distress. You've tried to overcome these issues on your own but to no avail; you feel stuck and as though you've run out of options. But there is hope!
I am a friendly, empathetic, and encouraging mental health professional who utilizes many skills and techniques to help clients achieve their goals. My clients are individuals (13+) and couples who are healing from their past, desiring something different in their current situation, or planning their future full of possibilities. I utilize some of the most effective therapy methods used today, including Brainspotting, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and Art Therapy. I also have specialized training in Anxiety, ADHD, Trauma, and Addiction/Recovery disorders.
I am a friendly, empathetic, and encouraging mental health professional who utilizes many skills and techniques to help clients achieve their goals. My clients are individuals (13+) and couples who are healing from their past, desiring something different in their current situation, or planning their future full of possibilities. I utilize some of the most effective therapy methods used today, including Brainspotting, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and Art Therapy. I also have specialized training in Anxiety, ADHD, Trauma, and Addiction/Recovery disorders.
Meredith Shirey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Nashville, TN 37203
I use a combination of EFT and Gottman Method for couples.
Whether wishing to reconnect with a partner, recover from infidelity, cope with a loss, or even find ways to amicably end a relationship; I can offer assistance and guidance in not only resolving the issues that brought you and your partner to therapy, but also to gain insight into how your own life experiences may impact the relationship. My hope is that my warm but direct approach to treatment will allow you and your partner to feel welcomed, understood, and safe to speak about the issues impacting your relationship. Please visit the website to learn more about my approach.
I use a combination of EFT and Gottman Method for couples.
Whether wishing to reconnect with a partner, recover from infidelity, cope with a loss, or even find ways to amicably end a relationship; I can offer assistance and guidance in not only resolving the issues that brought you and your partner to therapy, but also to gain insight into how your own life experiences may impact the relationship. My hope is that my warm but direct approach to treatment will allow you and your partner to feel welcomed, understood, and safe to speak about the issues impacting your relationship. Please visit the website to learn more about my approach.
Gottman Method Couples Therapy is an evidence-based method demonstrated to help couples with betrayal.
Has your world been shattered by a betrayal or substance abuse in your relationship? Are you feeling the loneliness of a relationship where long term gridlock and hurt have destroyed the warmth? I am a highly trained expert with decades of experience in helping couples at all stages of life recover the connection and emotional intimacy they crave, My specialty is all things relationship-whether single and dating, pre-marital, starting a family, empty nest or starting over. There is personal and science-based help available in a positive atmosphere. Discernment counseling is available to help couples carefully decide what's next.
Gottman Method Couples Therapy is an evidence-based method demonstrated to help couples with betrayal.
Has your world been shattered by a betrayal or substance abuse in your relationship? Are you feeling the loneliness of a relationship where long term gridlock and hurt have destroyed the warmth? I am a highly trained expert with decades of experience in helping couples at all stages of life recover the connection and emotional intimacy they crave, My specialty is all things relationship-whether single and dating, pre-marital, starting a family, empty nest or starting over. There is personal and science-based help available in a positive atmosphere. Discernment counseling is available to help couples carefully decide what's next.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.