Sex Therapists in Newport Beach, CA
Emelina Bellé
Marriage & Family Therapist, PHD(c), LMFT, CST, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I have professional training from the California School of Professional Psychology (CSPP), Harvard Medical School, Gottman Institute, Modern Sex Therapy Institute, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), and the Association of Partners of Trauma and Sex Addicts Specialists (APSATS).
As a global leader in mental health recovery in human rights, dignity, and trauma, I understand that every relationship is unique. I offer a comprehensive range of expertise and support. I am a Couples Relationship Specialist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and Certified Partner Betrayal Trauma Specialist and Early Recovery Couples Empathy. My approach is inclusive, safe, and non-judgmental, dedicated to fostering healing and post-traumatic growth, focusing on Safety and Stabilization, • Repairing Ruptures, • Reestablishing Trust, • Healing Betrayal Trauma, • Improving Communication, • Managing Conflict.
I have professional training from the California School of Professional Psychology (CSPP), Harvard Medical School, Gottman Institute, Modern Sex Therapy Institute, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), and the Association of Partners of Trauma and Sex Addicts Specialists (APSATS).
As a global leader in mental health recovery in human rights, dignity, and trauma, I understand that every relationship is unique. I offer a comprehensive range of expertise and support. I am a Couples Relationship Specialist, Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and Certified Partner Betrayal Trauma Specialist and Early Recovery Couples Empathy. My approach is inclusive, safe, and non-judgmental, dedicated to fostering healing and post-traumatic growth, focusing on Safety and Stabilization, • Repairing Ruptures, • Reestablishing Trust, • Healing Betrayal Trauma, • Improving Communication, • Managing Conflict.
Lynda Smith - Teletherapy Only
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, CSAT, EMDR, CHT, Coach
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660 (Online Only)
I'm also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Board Certified Sex Therapist with an emphasis on 1) empowering betrayed partners, 2) utilizing a non-12 step approach to sexual addiction/trauma/porn recovery & 3) relational & intimacy problems.
Do you have past trauma, anxiety, depression, intimacy issues, sex/porn addiction, or relationship problems that need to be resolved? Discover how my integrative and holistic approach to therapy heals the whole person. I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families restore their lives and relationships. With empathy and understanding, I will work with you to help you realize your greatest potential so you can live in the present and focus on an amazing and successful future!
I'm also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Board Certified Sex Therapist with an emphasis on 1) empowering betrayed partners, 2) utilizing a non-12 step approach to sexual addiction/trauma/porn recovery & 3) relational & intimacy problems.
Do you have past trauma, anxiety, depression, intimacy issues, sex/porn addiction, or relationship problems that need to be resolved? Discover how my integrative and holistic approach to therapy heals the whole person. I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families restore their lives and relationships. With empathy and understanding, I will work with you to help you realize your greatest potential so you can live in the present and focus on an amazing and successful future!
Coralie McEachron
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92663 (Online Only)
; completed a post-graduate year-long program for Sex Therapy; and also am studying dance/movement therapy (DMT) to help folks get to re-connect with their bodies and inner wisdom.
I believe that we can get stuck in the mire of hopelessness when we feel overwhelmed, or when our circumstances are more than we can handle. If you struggle with navigating your emotions, finding meaning/purpose, overcoming difficult or painful circumstances of the past (flashbacks, avoidance, fear, triggers) or even the present (arguments, emotional angst, numbness, irritation, anxiety, worry, hypervigilance), I want to support you. I specialize in anxiety; depression; eating disorders; relational issues; sex therapy and education, as well as helping folks work through general/sexual trauma using somatic or body-centered methods.
; completed a post-graduate year-long program for Sex Therapy; and also am studying dance/movement therapy (DMT) to help folks get to re-connect with their bodies and inner wisdom.
I believe that we can get stuck in the mire of hopelessness when we feel overwhelmed, or when our circumstances are more than we can handle. If you struggle with navigating your emotions, finding meaning/purpose, overcoming difficult or painful circumstances of the past (flashbacks, avoidance, fear, triggers) or even the present (arguments, emotional angst, numbness, irritation, anxiety, worry, hypervigilance), I want to support you. I specialize in anxiety; depression; eating disorders; relational issues; sex therapy and education, as well as helping folks work through general/sexual trauma using somatic or body-centered methods.
Hello, I'm Dr. Maria Darcy, Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist. I have recently relocated my practice to Newport Beach and Irvine California. I have worked with individuals and couples in the United States and Europe for the past 15+ years. My therapeutic approach is integrative with a strong emphasis on relational factors. Ultimately I tailor my approach to each individual client and their situation.
I incorporate a multicultural understanding into my approach by paying attention to social and cultural factors (e.g., gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation etc.) that impact individuals' experiences and their choices.
Hello, I'm Dr. Maria Darcy, Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist. I have recently relocated my practice to Newport Beach and Irvine California. I have worked with individuals and couples in the United States and Europe for the past 15+ years. My therapeutic approach is integrative with a strong emphasis on relational factors. Ultimately I tailor my approach to each individual client and their situation.
I incorporate a multicultural understanding into my approach by paying attention to social and cultural factors (e.g., gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation etc.) that impact individuals' experiences and their choices.
My approach is a mixture of many different types of therapy, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Mentalization Based Treatment, Centered Therapy, and Sex Therapy.
I work mainly with adults and late adolescents, individually, in couples and in groups. The areas I specialize in are sexual issues (individuals or couples), adults molested as children, emotional intimacy, communication, anxiety, depression, self-awareness, and deep and lasting character change. In my 45 years of practicing counseling and psychotherapy I've worked with a wide variety of people of different ethnic backgrounds, sexual orientations, religions, and those with physical challenges. I find it immensely rewarding to work with people who are actively seeking to resolve problems through increased self-awareness.
My approach is a mixture of many different types of therapy, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Mentalization Based Treatment, Centered Therapy, and Sex Therapy.
I work mainly with adults and late adolescents, individually, in couples and in groups. The areas I specialize in are sexual issues (individuals or couples), adults molested as children, emotional intimacy, communication, anxiety, depression, self-awareness, and deep and lasting character change. In my 45 years of practicing counseling and psychotherapy I've worked with a wide variety of people of different ethnic backgrounds, sexual orientations, religions, and those with physical challenges. I find it immensely rewarding to work with people who are actively seeking to resolve problems through increased self-awareness.
Clients that typically find it rewarding to work with me are people who find themselves tired of trying to "fit" themselves into small spaces that do not truly honor the complexity of who they are spiritually, culturally, or with their sexuality. They want to start living more fully and authentically, and want to free themselves of old relationships and limiting beliefs that keep them stuck in old cycles of habit, obligation, and resentment. They make small changes and build insight over time so they can live more fully, authentically, and intentionally as their embodied selves.
Clients that typically find it rewarding to work with me are people who find themselves tired of trying to "fit" themselves into small spaces that do not truly honor the complexity of who they are spiritually, culturally, or with their sexuality. They want to start living more fully and authentically, and want to free themselves of old relationships and limiting beliefs that keep them stuck in old cycles of habit, obligation, and resentment. They make small changes and build insight over time so they can live more fully, authentically, and intentionally as their embodied selves.
Lauren Consul - Sex And Relationship Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, JD
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660 (Online Only)
I am trauma informed & affirming of non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+, sex work, kink, and BDSM.
If you're facing challenges around sex, infidelity, non-monogamy, or feeling disconnected in your relationship, you're not alone. Perhaps you're constantly clashing over mismatched sex drives, or your body isn’t responding how you’d like during intimacy. Maybe you’re curious about exploring new dynamics or opening your relationship, but don’t know where to start. You might even be reeling from the pain of infidelity, unsure if healing is possible (it is). I’m here to guide you through these struggles. You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration or pain—things can change, and I can help you get there.
I am trauma informed & affirming of non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+, sex work, kink, and BDSM.
If you're facing challenges around sex, infidelity, non-monogamy, or feeling disconnected in your relationship, you're not alone. Perhaps you're constantly clashing over mismatched sex drives, or your body isn’t responding how you’d like during intimacy. Maybe you’re curious about exploring new dynamics or opening your relationship, but don’t know where to start. You might even be reeling from the pain of infidelity, unsure if healing is possible (it is). I’m here to guide you through these struggles. You don’t have to stay stuck in frustration or pain—things can change, and I can help you get there.
With 20 years experience, I am dedicated to providing genuine, compassionate and effective care to my clients specializing in: healthy relationships, couples therapy, sex therapy, life transitions, identity, self-esteem, stress management/anxiety, and mindfulness. My belief is that therapy is one of many possible paths to self growth. I see my role as a therapist to advocate for my clients, empowering them to make healthy changes and choices by providing support and different perspectives. Witnessing my clients transcend life challenges is always inspiring and an honor.
With 20 years experience, I am dedicated to providing genuine, compassionate and effective care to my clients specializing in: healthy relationships, couples therapy, sex therapy, life transitions, identity, self-esteem, stress management/anxiety, and mindfulness. My belief is that therapy is one of many possible paths to self growth. I see my role as a therapist to advocate for my clients, empowering them to make healthy changes and choices by providing support and different perspectives. Witnessing my clients transcend life challenges is always inspiring and an honor.
Pillow Talk Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, she/her
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92657 (Online Only)
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and Sex Therapy through American Association of Couples and Sex Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming), Sex Therapy (physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and Sex Therapy through American Association of Couples and Sex Therapy, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming), Sex Therapy (physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.
Patricia Contreras
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I am an AASECT certified Sex Therapist.
Are you up late again tonight thinking about this? Is your sex life making you feel lonely, sad or disconnected from your partner? Would you like to increase your communication and pleasure? Are you missing that intimacy and sexual connection? Perhaps you are trying to figure out why your relationships aren't working or distressed over sex/porn. I want to help you get beyond betrayals, anxiety, and past traumas that may be hindering your relationships and intimacy. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma and I can help. Sex talk can be uncomfortable, I provide a non-judgmental place to explore these sensitive issues with you.
I am an AASECT certified Sex Therapist.
Are you up late again tonight thinking about this? Is your sex life making you feel lonely, sad or disconnected from your partner? Would you like to increase your communication and pleasure? Are you missing that intimacy and sexual connection? Perhaps you are trying to figure out why your relationships aren't working or distressed over sex/porn. I want to help you get beyond betrayals, anxiety, and past traumas that may be hindering your relationships and intimacy. I specialize in sex therapy and trauma and I can help. Sex talk can be uncomfortable, I provide a non-judgmental place to explore these sensitive issues with you.
Robyn Buresh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I am experienced working with individuals and couples in the areas of relationships, sexual health, and gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity.
Looking for a sex-positive therapist? I offer an open and accepting space in which you can be, or discover, your most authentic self. If you are struggling with issues of identity, have been harmed by messages about your body or sex, or are living with the aftermath of a traumatic event, I am here to offer my training and expertise to help you move from a place of pain and hardship into a place of peace and connection, both with me and with yourself. Therapy is more than just a place for talking. This is a place to experience safety and being seen. Allow me to join you on your journey of deeper introspection and self awareness.
I am experienced working with individuals and couples in the areas of relationships, sexual health, and gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity.
Looking for a sex-positive therapist? I offer an open and accepting space in which you can be, or discover, your most authentic self. If you are struggling with issues of identity, have been harmed by messages about your body or sex, or are living with the aftermath of a traumatic event, I am here to offer my training and expertise to help you move from a place of pain and hardship into a place of peace and connection, both with me and with yourself. Therapy is more than just a place for talking. This is a place to experience safety and being seen. Allow me to join you on your journey of deeper introspection and self awareness.
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As a dedicated sex therapist specializing in couples' intimacy and relationship dynamics, I am committed to helping you and your partner navigate your unique journey towards a more fulfilling and satisfying connection.
Welcome, my name is Riley. Let's talk about relationships and sexual wellness. I provide a wholistic approach in navigating a path of confidence and joy with individuals and couples. I provide guidance with relationships and under that umbrella includes: sexual health & functioning along with emotional & physical intimacy. When in the therapy room, you can expect an empathetic, attuned and hope filled human being.
As a dedicated sex therapist specializing in couples' intimacy and relationship dynamics, I am committed to helping you and your partner navigate your unique journey towards a more fulfilling and satisfying connection.
Welcome, my name is Riley. Let's talk about relationships and sexual wellness. I provide a wholistic approach in navigating a path of confidence and joy with individuals and couples. I provide guidance with relationships and under that umbrella includes: sexual health & functioning along with emotional & physical intimacy. When in the therapy room, you can expect an empathetic, attuned and hope filled human being.
Sarah Cabiness - Inclusive Care Unmasked
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92662
Sex Therapy - Processing your feelings, behaviors and experiences surrounding intimacy, sex, and trauma though compassionate care.
Sometimes therapy can feel a little too formal, I value candid communication, please come as you are. Whether it’s grieving a loss, sharing a trauma, opening up about intimacy, or breaking relational cycles, they’re part of your life and you deserve to share how you’ve experienced them. You are multifaceted and unique, I want to ensure your therapy experience is too. I am a social justice oriented, culturally competent, trauma-informed therapist who curates personalized care by utilizing a collaborative and directive approach. All of who you are is invited.
Sex Therapy - Processing your feelings, behaviors and experiences surrounding intimacy, sex, and trauma though compassionate care.
Sometimes therapy can feel a little too formal, I value candid communication, please come as you are. Whether it’s grieving a loss, sharing a trauma, opening up about intimacy, or breaking relational cycles, they’re part of your life and you deserve to share how you’ve experienced them. You are multifaceted and unique, I want to ensure your therapy experience is too. I am a social justice oriented, culturally competent, trauma-informed therapist who curates personalized care by utilizing a collaborative and directive approach. All of who you are is invited.
Jessica Pourhassanian
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92657
I believe that every individual is unique and has the ability to transform their lives with the right care and support. I provide a sex-positive, culturally humble, non-judgmental approach to helping people with sexual needs, desires and expressions. I enjoy working with individuals, couples and polycules as well as adolescents, young adults and mature clients with various life transitions. My goal is to support every client in discovering and expressing their most authentic self to the world.
I believe that every individual is unique and has the ability to transform their lives with the right care and support. I provide a sex-positive, culturally humble, non-judgmental approach to helping people with sexual needs, desires and expressions. I enjoy working with individuals, couples and polycules as well as adolescents, young adults and mature clients with various life transitions. My goal is to support every client in discovering and expressing their most authentic self to the world.
Talking about sex is difficult, and seeking help can be a vulnerable experience.
Many people experience challenges in their sexual and relationship life and might be feeling alone or ashamed. Maybe you are struggling with intercourse, desire, arousal, pleasure, pain, performance anxiety, or shame around sex. Or maybe you've been disconnected from your partner, feel stuck in your conflict patterns, or are going through transitions or difficulties in your relationship. Everyone deserves a healthy and fulfilling intimate life. No matter your age or relationship stage, you can create a more meaningful and positive connection with yourself and your partner.
Talking about sex is difficult, and seeking help can be a vulnerable experience.
Many people experience challenges in their sexual and relationship life and might be feeling alone or ashamed. Maybe you are struggling with intercourse, desire, arousal, pleasure, pain, performance anxiety, or shame around sex. Or maybe you've been disconnected from your partner, feel stuck in your conflict patterns, or are going through transitions or difficulties in your relationship. Everyone deserves a healthy and fulfilling intimate life. No matter your age or relationship stage, you can create a more meaningful and positive connection with yourself and your partner.
Dr. Shannon Chavez
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, LCP, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92661
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California and a Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Sexologist with a certification in the Diagnosis and Treatment of Sexual Disorders.
Do you have a sexual issue that is holding you back from experiencing your full sexual potential? Let's work together to improve your sexual health and overcome sexual concerns. Sex begins in the brain, our biggest sexual organ. Our work together will explore your thoughts, beliefs, and values around sexuality. Together we will break down the stigmas around sex and create a personalized plan to improve sexual functioning that can include therapy, coaching, and sex education. My practice focuses on sexual health and pleasure enhancement as a path to improving overall health and wellness.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California and a Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Sexologist with a certification in the Diagnosis and Treatment of Sexual Disorders.
Do you have a sexual issue that is holding you back from experiencing your full sexual potential? Let's work together to improve your sexual health and overcome sexual concerns. Sex begins in the brain, our biggest sexual organ. Our work together will explore your thoughts, beliefs, and values around sexuality. Together we will break down the stigmas around sex and create a personalized plan to improve sexual functioning that can include therapy, coaching, and sex education. My practice focuses on sexual health and pleasure enhancement as a path to improving overall health and wellness.
Clinkenbeard completed her residency at Pine Grove Behavioral Health and Addiction Services in Hattiesburg, Mississippi - one of the nation’s leading treatment centers for sex addiction and professionals in treatment facing addiction issues/problems at work.
Dr. Clinkenbeard is committed to helping those who have been impacted by addiction, especially sexual addiction, understand how they got to this place and find a path to growth and healing. She knows that many partners/spouses facing betrayal from infidelity or sexual addiction experiences unique pain and she desires to provide them a safe place to process their story and help them find hope. Dr. Clinkenbeard is here to help those struggling with general sexual health issues, life transitions, spirituality, grief, and impaired professionals.
Clinkenbeard completed her residency at Pine Grove Behavioral Health and Addiction Services in Hattiesburg, Mississippi - one of the nation’s leading treatment centers for sex addiction and professionals in treatment facing addiction issues/problems at work.
Dr. Clinkenbeard is committed to helping those who have been impacted by addiction, especially sexual addiction, understand how they got to this place and find a path to growth and healing. She knows that many partners/spouses facing betrayal from infidelity or sexual addiction experiences unique pain and she desires to provide them a safe place to process their story and help them find hope. Dr. Clinkenbeard is here to help those struggling with general sexual health issues, life transitions, spirituality, grief, and impaired professionals.
Some of the areas I treat are: addictions (love and sex) alcoholism, spouses of addicts, bereavement, stress management, self-destructive behaviors, divorce, career goals, etc.
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, marital or relationship issues, it is important to find a therapist with whom you feel safe and comfortable....a good fit for you. I have been in practice for over 20 years and my approach is to get to the problem, find the solution, and work collaboratively toward these goals. I welcome feedback, positive and negative!
Some of the areas I treat are: addictions (love and sex) alcoholism, spouses of addicts, bereavement, stress management, self-destructive behaviors, divorce, career goals, etc.
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, marital or relationship issues, it is important to find a therapist with whom you feel safe and comfortable....a good fit for you. I have been in practice for over 20 years and my approach is to get to the problem, find the solution, and work collaboratively toward these goals. I welcome feedback, positive and negative!
I am also sex work and LGBTQ aligned and have vast experience with clients in both areas.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationship issues? Do you want to have better relationships with your families and loved ones? Is your child struggling with school/family related issues such as test anxiety, bullying or stress from divorce? I can help! I believe that it's often necessary to challenge my clients and work within their pasts, to assist them in finding the root of their issues and not simply masking the symptoms. I develop highly personalized coping skills with my clients and create a warm, caring environment to assist them in engaging, in the sometimes uncomfortable processes of therapy.
I am also sex work and LGBTQ aligned and have vast experience with clients in both areas.
Struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationship issues? Do you want to have better relationships with your families and loved ones? Is your child struggling with school/family related issues such as test anxiety, bullying or stress from divorce? I can help! I believe that it's often necessary to challenge my clients and work within their pasts, to assist them in finding the root of their issues and not simply masking the symptoms. I develop highly personalized coping skills with my clients and create a warm, caring environment to assist them in engaging, in the sometimes uncomfortable processes of therapy.
Amber S. Sibbett - Emdr Certified
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport Beach, CA 92660
I specialize in emotional regulation, complex trauma, domestic violence, sexual trauma, sex therapy, victims of crime, and substance use issues.
I have a high success rate in my therapy work, with clients reporting that their negative symptoms are dramatically decreasing and their quality of life is increasing. I enjoy working with individuals and couples whether in person or via online (Telehealth). I use the Gottman method when working with couples and am certified in EMDR therapy which dramatically compliments most individual therapy sessions. I have completed my academic portion for my doctorate in Forensic Psychology and I’m currently working on my dissertation which should be completed this winter of 2024.
I specialize in emotional regulation, complex trauma, domestic violence, sexual trauma, sex therapy, victims of crime, and substance use issues.
I have a high success rate in my therapy work, with clients reporting that their negative symptoms are dramatically decreasing and their quality of life is increasing. I enjoy working with individuals and couples whether in person or via online (Telehealth). I use the Gottman method when working with couples and am certified in EMDR therapy which dramatically compliments most individual therapy sessions. I have completed my academic portion for my doctorate in Forensic Psychology and I’m currently working on my dissertation which should be completed this winter of 2024.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.