Relationship Issues Therapists in Downtown, Charlotte, NC

Dating, trouble with boundaries, sexual trauma, relationship trauma, codependency, childhood trauma, relationship conflict, and more may lead to feeling as though it is difficult to have fulfilling relationships with ourselves and others. Or, maybe you are experiencing a general sense of anxiety, and it feels difficult to live in the moment. My priority is to offer an empowering, trauma-focused safe space where you can heal and cultivate healthy relationships with yourself and others.

Maybe you've been listening to podcasts, been in masterclasses, and reading self-help books thinking about your emotions so much that you haven't been feeling them. Or maybe you feel as though you are experiencing your emotions "too much." Either way, if you could do this by yourself (whatever the "this" is for you), you would have done it by now! It takes strength and courage to start therapy, and I applaud you for exploring your options. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, I offer resilience informed therapy for emotional wellness, mental health, and trauma recovery.

As an experienced therapist I lead with compassion and curiosity to help You, the client discover your innate wisdom and inner resources to understand, manage, and resolve internal or external conflict. This may affecting you relationship to self, your personal or work relationships, or causing you ; anxiety, depression, insecurities, addictive behaviors, or maladaptive patterns that get in the way of your fullest life...and true self. I hold a safe, supportive space and engage in the process of self discovery along with you and the parts of you that want to achieve greater internal freedom.

You are here because you have been noticing less connection between you and your partner. You just haven't been getting along lately, and, if possible, you want to save the relationship. There has been so much Anger, Pain, Hurt, and Frustration that you are almost ready to give up. But, you still want to see if the love is still there although the relationship has been through so many changes. You want to have less arguments and more connection. I will teach you and your partner skills that will make your relationship shift from Toxic to Healthy.

“I can get you unstuck” Sometimes people just get stuck. This might be because of a difficult life circumstance, a change in a relationship, or balancing life demands. I became a therapist because I know how important it is to make sure people are heard and validated. I want you to know that however you feel or whatever you are feeling is allowed and valid. You are doing everything you can to cope, but I am here to help you cope even better.

As a relationship and sex therapist specializing in women's sexual health, my ideal client is a woman seeking to heal and thrive. She may face challenges such as past sexual trauma, intimacy issues, low libido, or menopause concerns. She needs a safe, empathetic space to explore her feelings and experiences. Her goals are to reclaim her sexual autonomy, improve her relationships, and cultivate self-love. She wants to rediscover joy and confidence in her sexuality, understanding that this journey is vital for her overall well-being and personal empowerment. I also work with men with similar challenges.

"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."-Harriet Beecher Stowe. I encourage you in the healing process as you discover your innate strengths and develop them. My extensive training in relationship and various modes of individual therapy prepare me to work with individuals, couples, and families. With an emphasis on interpersonal relationships and their impact on thinking, emotions and behavior, I address the whole person emphasizing the ever-changing life cycle.

I earned my masters in counseling from the University of New Orleans in 1987. I earned my masters in social work from the University of South Carolina in 1994. I have worked for over 12 years as a clinical therapist/professional counselor. My clinical and counseling experiences have been in a variety of settings to include private practice, mental health agencies, foster care, department of social services and community outreach. I have had the opportunity to work with children 11+, teens and adults. I believe that therapy has the ability to promote hope, growth and change.

As a psychologist, I work collaboratively with individuals ages 18+ to help them explore what has led to current life difficulties and to work toward the changes they desire. I am a generalist in that I work with many different presenting issues from relationship difficulties to anxiety and depression. However, I have developed particular interest in working with trauma, adult survivors of childhood abuse, cancer issues, spiritual concerns, and with people with intuitive and empathic gifts. I take an integrative approach to my work drawing heavily on interpersonal, psychodynamic, and mindfulness -based cognitive therapy models.

You may be struggling within your relationships, with unhelpful thoughts, or feelings that seem overwhelming. I support teens and adults that may be experiencing anxiety, stress, depression, relationship conflicts, recovery from a narcissistic relationship (whether from a significant other, friendship, or family member), recovery from trauma, codependency, issues with boundaries, supporting deeply feeling people, and more. If you find yourself lost and confused, feeling distressed or struggling to hold big emotions, consider reaching out to me.

We're all on a journey and I'm honored to help you make sense of it. I work with adults navigating the challenges of life and death, of being human. I see individuals for various issues and welcome you to contact me for an initial conversation. I enjoy working with couples, because relationships can be so challenging. I use assessments, the Gottman Method, and attachment theory to help build relationship satisfaction and intimacy. Some couples only need coaching, some need more. But we live in difficult times, and we all need someone we can talk to, someone who will walk beside us on this journey, offering comfort and support.

Managing relationships can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be that way. For more than 15 years, I've been helping people with their relationships, specifically those that may cause negative emotions such as anxiety and depression. I focus on helping those dealing with unhealthy or challenging relationships. Communication is critical, and I can help people improve it. I also assist professionals who struggle with finding harmony between work and personal life, busy moms who may feel overwhelmed, and anyone who needs to learn the importance of self-nurturing.

I truly believe that all of us have the tools and potential to face life's challenges, adversities, and pains. Relationship issues, divorce as well as life and professional changes may bring anxiety, stress, and depression. For over 20 years I have been working with individuals, couples, and families. I will create a warm, safe, and confidential environment for you and I will be a passionate listener to your story. Together we will find your own ability to live a better life with yourself and with others. I am trained to use Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to treat trauma and difficult issues.

Are you looking to work through challenges in your relationship? Would you like to enhance your relationship, prepare for marriage or prevent divorce? The cycle in marriage and relationships can cause us to lose hope and believe that being truly happy and fulfilled may not exist. This is not true. I am here to journey with you and your spouse/fiancé to understand where you are in the relationship cycle and what could potentially be preventing you from experiencing joy, peace, connection and unconditional love.

Licensed professional counselor supervisor offering individual and group supervision. People question how to find harmony in their life of obstacles and constant change. I am here to provide support in enhancing skills that brings balance to many areas of living. Gaining insight of what matters most to you, building skills, and connecting patterns that create better understanding of yourself and others can increase success. Skill enhancement to include communication, bonding, relationship, anger, and stress management is provided. With all of my clients, I strive to identify interventions and methods that match their needs while empowering them to make change.

I have worked for several decades with individuals, couple's and families who have struggled with personal, relational, marital and family issues. I guess that qualifies me as a "seasoned" therapist. Among the many issues that clients have brought to their work with me are acute and chronic anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationship issues and longing for personal growth. I have extensive experience in dealing with marital and couple's problems. As a survivor or child loss, I have particular expertise is working with bereaved parents.

Are you looking to solve a personal or relationship problem, to manage depression or anxiety, or to heal the hurt of a loss? My practical, and positive approach has helped hundreds of people like you. I have 30 years of social work experience and a calm, gentle personality that will put you at ease.

I believe that you are the expert of your own life & my role as your therapist is to be a fellow companion on your journey towards emotional growth. Your desired outcomes will be achieved by creating long term solutions that uniquely fit your needs within the safety and trust of our therapeutic relationship. By creating a safe and trusting environment, I welcome the opportunity to support your treatment needs.

Welcome. I am committed to helping you understand and process the reasons for your current distress and then begin a process of healing and transformation. Life's currents can be calm and beautiful, and have waves that gently rock us, but occasionally storms blow in, with strong winds and rough waters. How we negotiate life's changing currents depends on our navigation skills and also our internal state and external supports.If you are feeling thrown by life's stormy weather and not sure what to do to right your ship, consider a compassionate, therapeutic consultation with me.