Sex Therapists in Sharon Hill, PA

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Victoria Blazejewski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Sharon Hill, PA 19079
My ideal client is an individual or couple ready to do the work needed to achieve their goals and who desires a happy, healthy life. They may want to work through relationships or sexual problems due to my interest in couples and sex therapy.
My ideal client is an individual or couple ready to do the work needed to achieve their goals and who desires a happy, healthy life. They may want to work through relationships or sexual problems due to my interest in couples and sex therapy.
(484) 246-7978 View (484) 246-7978
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Elijah Jackson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sharon Hill, PA 19079
Are you trying to learn more about yourself and how you can best navigate your world? Are you exploring all parts of your identity and what makes you "you"? I have focused primarily on identity-related challenges, including Gender/ Sexuality exploration, Race/Ethnic identity concerns, Religious/Cultural trauma, and Sex/Intimacy issues. I also have experience helping clients navigate issues related to depression, anxiety, and ADHD/Neurodivergent disorders. I'm here to be a collaborative and warm therapist who isn't going to throw a therapy book at them but instead wants someone who sees them as human beings walking through life.
Are you trying to learn more about yourself and how you can best navigate your world? Are you exploring all parts of your identity and what makes you "you"? I have focused primarily on identity-related challenges, including Gender/ Sexuality exploration, Race/Ethnic identity concerns, Religious/Cultural trauma, and Sex/Intimacy issues. I also have experience helping clients navigate issues related to depression, anxiety, and ADHD/Neurodivergent disorders. I'm here to be a collaborative and warm therapist who isn't going to throw a therapy book at them but instead wants someone who sees them as human beings walking through life.
(484) 917-2662 View (484) 917-2662
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Amanda Malcolm
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Sharon Hill, PA 19079
My ideal client wants something better, has no idea what "better" is or looks like, and has no idea where to start. They are still determining if they are ready to start or commit to that change. What they need is a person and a space to figure it out. Deep down, they know where they are right now can be better, whether in relationships, emotions, daily habits, major life goals, or anything in-between. But, most importantly, they want a space where they can process and grow from that place and build a sustainable life.
My ideal client wants something better, has no idea what "better" is or looks like, and has no idea where to start. They are still determining if they are ready to start or commit to that change. What they need is a person and a space to figure it out. Deep down, they know where they are right now can be better, whether in relationships, emotions, daily habits, major life goals, or anything in-between. But, most importantly, they want a space where they can process and grow from that place and build a sustainable life.
(267) 309-2636 View (267) 309-2636
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Andrew Dyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Sharon Hill, PA 19079
Are you experiencing depression/anxiety, career issues, substance use issues, relationship issues, and familial issues? Your needs may include identifying and implementing new ways of coping, exploring career options, finding a treatment facility, or acquiring new insights regarding your spouse/family member. A client would work with me to address areas in their life that are contributing to stressors.
Are you experiencing depression/anxiety, career issues, substance use issues, relationship issues, and familial issues? Your needs may include identifying and implementing new ways of coping, exploring career options, finding a treatment facility, or acquiring new insights regarding your spouse/family member. A client would work with me to address areas in their life that are contributing to stressors.
(484) 559-6421 View (484) 559-6421

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Kimberly Flemke
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19125
Some of my specialties include: Infidelity, Couple Therapy, Sex Therapy, Trauma, EMDR & Tapping, Communication Issues, and Conflict-Resolution.
I believe that we are all souls having a human experience. In that experience, we often discover parts of ourselves that are in need of deeper healing. I have special techniques I use with clients, such as EMDR & Tapping, that produce extremely FAST results in achieving change. I view intimate relationships as Sacred Contracts. I believe those contracts are full of opportunities for individuals to learn how to heal their personal triggers in order to emotionally & spiritually evolve. I firmly believe that therapy should be a transformational process, helping clients manifest the life & relationship their soul longs to experience!
Some of my specialties include: Infidelity, Couple Therapy, Sex Therapy, Trauma, EMDR & Tapping, Communication Issues, and Conflict-Resolution.
I believe that we are all souls having a human experience. In that experience, we often discover parts of ourselves that are in need of deeper healing. I have special techniques I use with clients, such as EMDR & Tapping, that produce extremely FAST results in achieving change. I view intimate relationships as Sacred Contracts. I believe those contracts are full of opportunities for individuals to learn how to heal their personal triggers in order to emotionally & spiritually evolve. I firmly believe that therapy should be a transformational process, helping clients manifest the life & relationship their soul longs to experience!
(215) 240-6716 View (215) 240-6716
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Seneka LaBonde
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Media, PA 19063  (Online Only)
Together, we will create a safe space to explore and grow in your sexual and emotional relationships.
Sexuality is a complex, personal, and social experience. Many of us were raised with secrecy, silence, and shame. This often results in unsatisfactory or unhealthy sexual and emotional relationships. Many people today are struggling with sexuality and sex with their partners. We often don't know how to communicate about our wants, needs, desires, and boundaries. We may feel lonely, isolated, or misunderstood. There may be resentment or hurt in your relationships. Let's work together to heal the wounds and have a healthier, happier sexual life.
Together, we will create a safe space to explore and grow in your sexual and emotional relationships.
Sexuality is a complex, personal, and social experience. Many of us were raised with secrecy, silence, and shame. This often results in unsatisfactory or unhealthy sexual and emotional relationships. Many people today are struggling with sexuality and sex with their partners. We often don't know how to communicate about our wants, needs, desires, and boundaries. We may feel lonely, isolated, or misunderstood. There may be resentment or hurt in your relationships. Let's work together to heal the wounds and have a healthier, happier sexual life.
(484) 451-7358 View (484) 451-7358
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Erinn Hoel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CAADC, MEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102  (Online Only)
I help women who are stressed about low sex drive discover new ways to slow down, focus on themselves, and increase confidence so they can boost desire and connection.
You’re exhausted and feel lost with sex because you’re never in the mood but feel SO guilty about this and worry there's something wrong with you. You want to WANT to have sex but it's like there's some disconnect between your mind and body. You feel like you’re the problem in your relationship but don’t know how to fix your sex drive because you’re a people-pleasure so it’s really hard for you to think about yourself (and even identify your needs). You feel like you’re seeking help in the wrong places because you’re going in circles which is overwhelming, feels like a constant weight, and is making you feel broken.
I help women who are stressed about low sex drive discover new ways to slow down, focus on themselves, and increase confidence so they can boost desire and connection.
You’re exhausted and feel lost with sex because you’re never in the mood but feel SO guilty about this and worry there's something wrong with you. You want to WANT to have sex but it's like there's some disconnect between your mind and body. You feel like you’re the problem in your relationship but don’t know how to fix your sex drive because you’re a people-pleasure so it’s really hard for you to think about yourself (and even identify your needs). You feel like you’re seeking help in the wrong places because you’re going in circles which is overwhelming, feels like a constant weight, and is making you feel broken.
(267) 263-7516 View (267) 263-7516
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Robert Heasley
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Swarthmore, PA 19081
I have taught extensively at the university level in the area of sexuality, gender, counseling and related areas.
I work with individuals and couples to create positive changes in their lives. This includes those struggling in areas such as self-esteem, intimacy, addressing emotional needs, healing from past hurts/trauma, a history of neglect or abuse, or challenges regarding gender and sexuality. I work with couples, straight/lesbian/gay, who are working on their relationship, whether as a result of an affair, or realizing differences that keep them from being close. My research focuses on men and the effects of expectations on men’s lives. Pursuing therapy represents a longing to heal. My work is about supporting that process.
I have taught extensively at the university level in the area of sexuality, gender, counseling and related areas.
I work with individuals and couples to create positive changes in their lives. This includes those struggling in areas such as self-esteem, intimacy, addressing emotional needs, healing from past hurts/trauma, a history of neglect or abuse, or challenges regarding gender and sexuality. I work with couples, straight/lesbian/gay, who are working on their relationship, whether as a result of an affair, or realizing differences that keep them from being close. My research focuses on men and the effects of expectations on men’s lives. Pursuing therapy represents a longing to heal. My work is about supporting that process.
(484) 406-4186 View (484) 406-4186
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Damon Constantinides
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19107
Waitlist for new clients
As a trained clinical social worker and sex therapist I'm skilled at working with relationship and sexuality related concerns including coming out, same- sex relationships, sexual orientation, and gender identity.
These are uncertain times. Therapy can be an anchor as we all weather the unpredictable circumstances of our lives and the world around us. It can be a place to grow, heal, or make changes in your live that feel difficult. I work with clients who need help managing anxiety, are feeling sad or confused, or are going through a hard time. I see my job as sitting next to you, seeing the world through your eyes, and helping you come up with the plan that's right for you. I come from a relational and social justice perspective and bring tools from narrative therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and mindfulness based stress reduction.
As a trained clinical social worker and sex therapist I'm skilled at working with relationship and sexuality related concerns including coming out, same- sex relationships, sexual orientation, and gender identity.
These are uncertain times. Therapy can be an anchor as we all weather the unpredictable circumstances of our lives and the world around us. It can be a place to grow, heal, or make changes in your live that feel difficult. I work with clients who need help managing anxiety, are feeling sad or confused, or are going through a hard time. I see my job as sitting next to you, seeing the world through your eyes, and helping you come up with the plan that's right for you. I come from a relational and social justice perspective and bring tools from narrative therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, and mindfulness based stress reduction.
(215) 273-3601 View (215) 273-3601
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Emily Wilson
Psychologist, PsyD, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Havertown, PA 19083  (Online Only)
My areas of speciality are in working with women in life transitions, with individuals who identify as LGBTQIA+, and with individuals experiencing issues around sexuality and relationship functioning.
I believe that we have all had experiences that shape our sense of the world and impact our relationships with others. My approach to therapy involves exploring how past experiences impact the present and helping my clients use those insights to make active and healthy changes around their sense of self and in their relationships.
My areas of speciality are in working with women in life transitions, with individuals who identify as LGBTQIA+, and with individuals experiencing issues around sexuality and relationship functioning.
I believe that we have all had experiences that shape our sense of the world and impact our relationships with others. My approach to therapy involves exploring how past experiences impact the present and helping my clients use those insights to make active and healthy changes around their sense of self and in their relationships.
(717) 470-8085 View (717) 470-8085
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Hannah Kliger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
Wynnewood, PA 19096
I concentrate on helping patients explore and enrich emotional and sexual intimacy, improve their communication skills, and address conflicts in relationships.
I am committed to working with individuals, couples, and family members to better comprehend their inner lives, enrich their connections with others, and feel more satisfied in their personal relationships as well as in workplace settings. My approach is influenced by my teaching and scholarship for over 25 years in understanding communication processes in relationships. I am licensed as a clinical social worker and a marriage and family therapist, and I am also an AASECT-certified sex therapist.
I concentrate on helping patients explore and enrich emotional and sexual intimacy, improve their communication skills, and address conflicts in relationships.
I am committed to working with individuals, couples, and family members to better comprehend their inner lives, enrich their connections with others, and feel more satisfied in their personal relationships as well as in workplace settings. My approach is influenced by my teaching and scholarship for over 25 years in understanding communication processes in relationships. I am licensed as a clinical social worker and a marriage and family therapist, and I am also an AASECT-certified sex therapist.
(610) 616-5818 View (610) 616-5818
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Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, ACS, CCSOT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Media, PA 19065
Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality is a private, sex-positive, outpatient psychology practice located in Media, PA.
Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality provides safe, confidential, sex-positive psychotherapy helping adolescents, adults, and couples navigate their sexuality concerns. Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality believes that sex, if it is healthy and explicitly consensual, is positive. Sexual health is an essential part of overall well-being. Many experience sexual challenges at some point in their life yet they hesitate to reach out for help. We understand. Our confidential, sex-positive approach helps resolve concerns and reduce barriers to living a sexually fulfilled life. In addition, we provide forensic psychological services.
Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality is a private, sex-positive, outpatient psychology practice located in Media, PA.
Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality provides safe, confidential, sex-positive psychotherapy helping adolescents, adults, and couples navigate their sexuality concerns. Rosetree Center for Healthy Sexuality believes that sex, if it is healthy and explicitly consensual, is positive. Sexual health is an essential part of overall well-being. Many experience sexual challenges at some point in their life yet they hesitate to reach out for help. We understand. Our confidential, sex-positive approach helps resolve concerns and reduce barriers to living a sexually fulfilled life. In addition, we provide forensic psychological services.
(610) 638-6738 View (610) 638-6738
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Chris Fariello
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MA, LMFT, CST, CSTS
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational & Sex Therapy (PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of sexuality concerns.
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational & Sex Therapy (PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of sexuality concerns.
(267) 217-3987 View (267) 217-3987
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Elisa M. Taylor
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Verified Verified
Newtown Square, PA 19073
Sex can be an enjoyable part of life and relationships, but sometimes individuals/ couples struggle with discrepancies in desire or issues with sexual function, pain, or orgasm.
Are you feeling disconnected or lonely in your relationship? Are you struggling to talk or feel heard by your partner? Do you miss the sexual relationship you used to have or are you struggling to create the sexual relationship you want? All couples go through challenges, but sometimes you end up feeling unseen or there is so much hurt/distrust. I work with couples and individuals to repair, reconnect, and rebuild the relationship by exploring relationship patterns from the families you grew up in, understanding how those patterns impact you individually and in the relationship, and helping you communicate on a deeper level.
Sex can be an enjoyable part of life and relationships, but sometimes individuals/ couples struggle with discrepancies in desire or issues with sexual function, pain, or orgasm.
Are you feeling disconnected or lonely in your relationship? Are you struggling to talk or feel heard by your partner? Do you miss the sexual relationship you used to have or are you struggling to create the sexual relationship you want? All couples go through challenges, but sometimes you end up feeling unseen or there is so much hurt/distrust. I work with couples and individuals to repair, reconnect, and rebuild the relationship by exploring relationship patterns from the families you grew up in, understanding how those patterns impact you individually and in the relationship, and helping you communicate on a deeper level.
(484) 494-2926 View (484) 494-2926
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Briana Ochuida
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LPC-1
Verified Verified
Media, PA 19063  (Online Only)
I am also sex and body positive.
I believe the connection between therapist and client is critical for success. I am direct and authentic with my clients and provide a safe space with no judgement. I am here to support your journey and foster positive change and personal growth.
I am also sex and body positive.
I believe the connection between therapist and client is critical for success. I am direct and authentic with my clients and provide a safe space with no judgement. I am here to support your journey and foster positive change and personal growth.
(610) 580-0099 View (610) 580-0099
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Erica Hochanadel
LSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19103
Hello! My name is Erica Hochanadel (she/her/hers). To build a trusting and authentic therapeutic relationship, I feel it is helpful to share more about myself and how I orient in the world. I am a queer, non monogamous, cisgender, able bodied, parent, white human sexuality professional. I enjoy binge reading fantasy books, being outdoors, doing hot yoga, babbling with my baby, and spending time with loved ones. I specialize in working with clients regarding their sexuality and relationships. A unique clinical niche of mine is working with clients at the intersection of queerness, neurodiversity, and ethical nonmonogamy.
Hello! My name is Erica Hochanadel (she/her/hers). To build a trusting and authentic therapeutic relationship, I feel it is helpful to share more about myself and how I orient in the world. I am a queer, non monogamous, cisgender, able bodied, parent, white human sexuality professional. I enjoy binge reading fantasy books, being outdoors, doing hot yoga, babbling with my baby, and spending time with loved ones. I specialize in working with clients regarding their sexuality and relationships. A unique clinical niche of mine is working with clients at the intersection of queerness, neurodiversity, and ethical nonmonogamy.
(484) 549-9264 View (484) 549-9264
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Bridget Horan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19107
Welcome! As a trauma and sex therapist, I am particularly interested in helping people get curious about how the body/bodymind is impacted by life’s experiences. I encourage clients to use therapy as a testing ground for new modes of thinking and being. I center clients who have experienced or live with trauma, chronic illness, family of origin concerns, and community-based violence, as well as people who want to explore identity areas such as gender, sexuality and disability. I welcome clients who experience sexual pain to reach out. At this time, I am also looking for clients who are interested in Prolonged Exposure for PTSD.
Welcome! As a trauma and sex therapist, I am particularly interested in helping people get curious about how the body/bodymind is impacted by life’s experiences. I encourage clients to use therapy as a testing ground for new modes of thinking and being. I center clients who have experienced or live with trauma, chronic illness, family of origin concerns, and community-based violence, as well as people who want to explore identity areas such as gender, sexuality and disability. I welcome clients who experience sexual pain to reach out. At this time, I am also looking for clients who are interested in Prolonged Exposure for PTSD.
(267) 732-1379 View (267) 732-1379
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Dr. Alishia Kalos
Psychologist, PsyD, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19109  (Online Only)
I am a doctoral licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist with specialized experience in addressing sexual and relational concerns such as intimacy, communication, desire, arousal, pain, kink, atypical sexual interests, and sexual behavior challenges as well as postpartum stress, cancer, major health-related changes, or chronic illness.
Therapy is an invaluable opportunity for individuals and couples to learn about themselves and the relationships that they want to cultivate. Whether you are thinking about working through a particular issue, hoping to gain clarity and focus in future decisions, or considering a short-term "check-up", I will work with you in a safe, non-judgmental space that cultivates compassion, healing, and growth. I believe in the power of building on each person/couple's strengths and discovering, through a collaborative approach, new ways to adapt and grow.
I am a doctoral licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist with specialized experience in addressing sexual and relational concerns such as intimacy, communication, desire, arousal, pain, kink, atypical sexual interests, and sexual behavior challenges as well as postpartum stress, cancer, major health-related changes, or chronic illness.
Therapy is an invaluable opportunity for individuals and couples to learn about themselves and the relationships that they want to cultivate. Whether you are thinking about working through a particular issue, hoping to gain clarity and focus in future decisions, or considering a short-term "check-up", I will work with you in a safe, non-judgmental space that cultivates compassion, healing, and growth. I believe in the power of building on each person/couple's strengths and discovering, through a collaborative approach, new ways to adapt and grow.
(267) 399-4002 View (267) 399-4002
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Genevieve Gellert, Lcsw LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19143  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I'm one of the only AASECT certified sex therapists (CST) in the country who accepts insurance to keep high quality care affordable.
Do you want to feel stronger, sexier, healthier, more confident, & more empowered? Are you ready to have a deeper, more meaningful relationship with yourself & others? If yes, let's talk. I help adults in getting through stress, securing meaningful relationships, & deepening self-awareness. I offer talk therapy by exploring general & sexual wellness through ACT, CBT, positive psychology, behavioral health consultancy, body politics, social history, queer theory, values coaching, & concrete solutions. My evidenced-based yet innovative style is conversational, collaborative, direct, educational, empathic, existential, & relational.
I'm one of the only AASECT certified sex therapists (CST) in the country who accepts insurance to keep high quality care affordable.
Do you want to feel stronger, sexier, healthier, more confident, & more empowered? Are you ready to have a deeper, more meaningful relationship with yourself & others? If yes, let's talk. I help adults in getting through stress, securing meaningful relationships, & deepening self-awareness. I offer talk therapy by exploring general & sexual wellness through ACT, CBT, positive psychology, behavioral health consultancy, body politics, social history, queer theory, values coaching, & concrete solutions. My evidenced-based yet innovative style is conversational, collaborative, direct, educational, empathic, existential, & relational.
(201) 992-6804 View (201) 992-6804
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Anna Stewart
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103
Anna Stewart is a graduate of Thomas Jefferson University’s Couple and Family Therapy Program with a concentration in sex therapy. She is a systemically-oriented therapist who has experience working with individuals, couples, and families. She specializes in distressed couples with one or both individuals experiencing diagnoses such as depression, and anxiety. She has a background in sex education and enjoys working with teens and young adults navigating their social and romantic relationships. She also specializes in clients that are working in the food and beverage service industry, a population she is well-acquainted with.
Anna Stewart is a graduate of Thomas Jefferson University’s Couple and Family Therapy Program with a concentration in sex therapy. She is a systemically-oriented therapist who has experience working with individuals, couples, and families. She specializes in distressed couples with one or both individuals experiencing diagnoses such as depression, and anxiety. She has a background in sex education and enjoys working with teens and young adults navigating their social and romantic relationships. She also specializes in clients that are working in the food and beverage service industry, a population she is well-acquainted with.
(301) 691-4193 View (301) 691-4193

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.