Sex Therapists in Paoli, PA

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Roni Cibischino
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd, CST
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Paoli, PA 19301  (Online Only)
I am an active member in several professional organizations and have served in various chair positions for: AASECT, SSSS, PAMFT and Widener University's annual Careers in Sexuality Conference.
When working with clients, I strive to tailor each session to meet my clients where they are, and serve their needs as best suited for them. I work with clients to navigate their way through various issues such as: intimacy, gender identity, sexual dysfunction and function, variations in sexual expression, trauma, communication, codependency and anxiety. I specialize in treating pelvic floor dysfunctions.
I am an active member in several professional organizations and have served in various chair positions for: AASECT, SSSS, PAMFT and Widener University's annual Careers in Sexuality Conference.
When working with clients, I strive to tailor each session to meet my clients where they are, and serve their needs as best suited for them. I work with clients to navigate their way through various issues such as: intimacy, gender identity, sexual dysfunction and function, variations in sexual expression, trauma, communication, codependency and anxiety. I specialize in treating pelvic floor dysfunctions.
(267) 820-9028 View (267) 820-9028
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Jasmine Richardson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301  (Online Only)
I have specialty training in sex and relationship therapy and more specific concerns: sexual shame, impulsive/compulsive sexual behavior, unhealthy sexual behavior and skills that promote healthy sexual pleasure.
If you’re seeking a safe and supportive environment where you can open-up and be your authentic self, look no further. I use a variety of therapy techniques such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused and Motivational interviewing to help clients explore their concerns in life. With my unique clinical experience, I empower clients to find the internal strength they need to create personal change and develop a healthier sense of self. My professional training and experience qualify me to work with general mental health concerns such as: anxiety, depression, self-esteem and other emotional challenges.
I have specialty training in sex and relationship therapy and more specific concerns: sexual shame, impulsive/compulsive sexual behavior, unhealthy sexual behavior and skills that promote healthy sexual pleasure.
If you’re seeking a safe and supportive environment where you can open-up and be your authentic self, look no further. I use a variety of therapy techniques such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused and Motivational interviewing to help clients explore their concerns in life. With my unique clinical experience, I empower clients to find the internal strength they need to create personal change and develop a healthier sense of self. My professional training and experience qualify me to work with general mental health concerns such as: anxiety, depression, self-esteem and other emotional challenges.
(267) 209-6604 View (267) 209-6604
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Matthew Weldon Gelber
MS
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301
As a certified Master’s Level psychotherapist with over 19 years experience and “face of therapy and counseling” 2024 Main Line Today Magazine, I’m able to offer experience and understanding that gets to the heart of the issue for my clients.Are you unhappy, stressed or depressed at home? At Work? At School? Do you find yourself yet again in another relationship doomed for failure? Is Intimacy or trust or sex lacking in your relationship? I am a compassionate therapist who helps individuals, couples and families achieve favorable outcomes in different areas of their lives. My focus is specific to your needs and your goals.
As a certified Master’s Level psychotherapist with over 19 years experience and “face of therapy and counseling” 2024 Main Line Today Magazine, I’m able to offer experience and understanding that gets to the heart of the issue for my clients.Are you unhappy, stressed or depressed at home? At Work? At School? Do you find yourself yet again in another relationship doomed for failure? Is Intimacy or trust or sex lacking in your relationship? I am a compassionate therapist who helps individuals, couples and families achieve favorable outcomes in different areas of their lives. My focus is specific to your needs and your goals.
(610) 915-8047 View (610) 915-8047
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Natalie Zemaitis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Paoli, PA 19301
I encourage clients to explore their attitudes and beliefs that impede ( sexual) intimacy and relationship satisfaction.
Making the decision to seek the support of a therapist is a very personal process and often occurs when one wants to change an aspect of life. I work collaboratively with clients to build a trusting and compassionate therapeutic alliance, interweaving my training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Image Transformation Therapy (ImTT) with my background in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to make the counseling experience educational and empowering.
I encourage clients to explore their attitudes and beliefs that impede ( sexual) intimacy and relationship satisfaction.
Making the decision to seek the support of a therapist is a very personal process and often occurs when one wants to change an aspect of life. I work collaboratively with clients to build a trusting and compassionate therapeutic alliance, interweaving my training in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Image Transformation Therapy (ImTT) with my background in Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to make the counseling experience educational and empowering.
(215) 874-0963 View (215) 874-0963
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William Morgan
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301
As a psychologist, counselor, and evaluator, I look at sessions as a collaborative process. Together we work towards making the changes my clients desire so that they experience more contentment, peace, satisfaction and success. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, an evidence-based approach that helps people learn skills that last a lifetime. I am a licensed psychologist with over twenty years experience as a counselor, therapist, and diagnostician, and am active in training therapists.
As a psychologist, counselor, and evaluator, I look at sessions as a collaborative process. Together we work towards making the changes my clients desire so that they experience more contentment, peace, satisfaction and success. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, an evidence-based approach that helps people learn skills that last a lifetime. I am a licensed psychologist with over twenty years experience as a counselor, therapist, and diagnostician, and am active in training therapists.
(610) 644-8182 View (610) 644-8182
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Qatana Samanen
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301
I am extremely solution-focused in the work I do. Clients come focused on the challenges they're facing. They're experts on their problems. My job is to help you identify and work toward the solutions. You become an expert on what you can do to make your life better. As you make these changes, you enjoy life more and experience greater confidence, self-esteem and well-being. With 40+ years of clinical experience, I've developed the skill and expertise to work comfortably and effectively with a wide variety of problems, such as anxiety, depression, low self esteem, stress and relationship issues. Let's explore how I can help you!
I am extremely solution-focused in the work I do. Clients come focused on the challenges they're facing. They're experts on their problems. My job is to help you identify and work toward the solutions. You become an expert on what you can do to make your life better. As you make these changes, you enjoy life more and experience greater confidence, self-esteem and well-being. With 40+ years of clinical experience, I've developed the skill and expertise to work comfortably and effectively with a wide variety of problems, such as anxiety, depression, low self esteem, stress and relationship issues. Let's explore how I can help you!
(484) 257-9858 View (484) 257-9858
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Sonya Thompsen Halsey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Paoli, PA 19301
You deserve to be happy. Therapy doesn't have to painful. I want to find out about you and help you find the solutions that work for you. Life is too short to be in bad relationships, or to let trauma control us or to be anxious and angry all the time. I want you to be free of emotional pain, able to deal with life on life's terms, and to find meaning and purpose in your family, friendships, work, spirituality and all other life's areas. During my 24 years as a therapist I have helped individuals, couples and families find healing and understanding.
You deserve to be happy. Therapy doesn't have to painful. I want to find out about you and help you find the solutions that work for you. Life is too short to be in bad relationships, or to let trauma control us or to be anxious and angry all the time. I want you to be free of emotional pain, able to deal with life on life's terms, and to find meaning and purpose in your family, friendships, work, spirituality and all other life's areas. During my 24 years as a therapist I have helped individuals, couples and families find healing and understanding.
(610) 854-9923 View (610) 854-9923
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William Morgan
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301
As a psychologist, counselor, and evaluator, I look at sessions as a collaborative process. Together we work towards making the changes my clients desire so that they experience more contentment, peace, satisfaction and success. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, an evidence-based approach that helps people learn skills that last a lifetime. I am a licensed psychologist with over twenty years experience as a counselor, therapist, and diagnostician, and am active in training therapists.
As a psychologist, counselor, and evaluator, I look at sessions as a collaborative process. Together we work towards making the changes my clients desire so that they experience more contentment, peace, satisfaction and success. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, an evidence-based approach that helps people learn skills that last a lifetime. I am a licensed psychologist with over twenty years experience as a counselor, therapist, and diagnostician, and am active in training therapists.
(610) 644-8182 View (610) 644-8182
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John J. Novielli
Psychologist, MS
Verified Verified
Paoli, PA 19301
Have the life you want, not the one you live. Develop with your partner the relationship you always desired and stop living the one that keeps you stuck. I am a Clinical Psychologist with over thirty years of experience specializing in marital and family relationships and in dismantling the black holes that minimize our lives. Whatever your marital or family situation, my experience allows me to help you develop a plan of change (one or two sessions), and then implement this plan. I serve as your Psychologist and Coaching guide from the start.
Have the life you want, not the one you live. Develop with your partner the relationship you always desired and stop living the one that keeps you stuck. I am a Clinical Psychologist with over thirty years of experience specializing in marital and family relationships and in dismantling the black holes that minimize our lives. Whatever your marital or family situation, my experience allows me to help you develop a plan of change (one or two sessions), and then implement this plan. I serve as your Psychologist and Coaching guide from the start.
(484) 962-0938 View (484) 962-0938

More Therapists Nearby

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Elisa M. Taylor
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Verified Verified
West Chester, PA 19380
Sex can be an enjoyable part of life and relationships, but sometimes individuals/ couples struggle with discrepancies in desire or issues with sexual function, pain, or orgasm.
Are you feeling disconnected or lonely in your relationship? Are you struggling to talk or feel heard by your partner? Do you miss the sexual relationship you used to have or are you struggling to create the sexual relationship you want? All couples go through challenges, but sometimes you end up feeling unseen or there is so much hurt/distrust. I work with couples and individuals to repair, reconnect, and rebuild the relationship by exploring relationship patterns from the families you grew up in, understanding how those patterns impact you individually and in the relationship, and helping you communicate on a deeper level.
Sex can be an enjoyable part of life and relationships, but sometimes individuals/ couples struggle with discrepancies in desire or issues with sexual function, pain, or orgasm.
Are you feeling disconnected or lonely in your relationship? Are you struggling to talk or feel heard by your partner? Do you miss the sexual relationship you used to have or are you struggling to create the sexual relationship you want? All couples go through challenges, but sometimes you end up feeling unseen or there is so much hurt/distrust. I work with couples and individuals to repair, reconnect, and rebuild the relationship by exploring relationship patterns from the families you grew up in, understanding how those patterns impact you individually and in the relationship, and helping you communicate on a deeper level.
(484) 494-2926 View (484) 494-2926
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Sexual Wellness PA, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Chester Springs, PA 19425  (Online Only)
I enjoy collaborating with folks who are erotically marginalized, and approach my work with a sex-positive, strengths-based, trauma-informed, harm reduction, kink and poly-affirming, intersectional, anti-racist, feminist, LGBTQ friendly lens.
Hi there! I'm so glad you're here! Most of us have been taught not to talk about sex and our bodies, and many of us have been taught to be ashamed of our bodies and what we think about, fantasize about, and do sexually.  I believe that everyone is a sexual being, and that sexual expression is a healthy part of all of our lives.  I enjoy working with folks on issues of desire, desire differences in relationships, healing from sexual trauma, sexual behavior that feels out of control, sexual self-esteem and body image, kinky and poly experiences, gender-related concerns and communication within relationships.
I enjoy collaborating with folks who are erotically marginalized, and approach my work with a sex-positive, strengths-based, trauma-informed, harm reduction, kink and poly-affirming, intersectional, anti-racist, feminist, LGBTQ friendly lens.
Hi there! I'm so glad you're here! Most of us have been taught not to talk about sex and our bodies, and many of us have been taught to be ashamed of our bodies and what we think about, fantasize about, and do sexually.  I believe that everyone is a sexual being, and that sexual expression is a healthy part of all of our lives.  I enjoy working with folks on issues of desire, desire differences in relationships, healing from sexual trauma, sexual behavior that feels out of control, sexual self-esteem and body image, kinky and poly experiences, gender-related concerns and communication within relationships.
(814) 787-3134 View (814) 787-3134
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Kerstin Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MDiv, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Exton, PA 19341
EMDR is a trauma treatment method that is helpful in treating a variety of issues, such as depression, chronic pain, performance-anxiety, and sexual dysfunction.
I specialize in anger-management, sex-therapy, Emdr, depression, and anxiety. I support men and women to rediscover their self-confidence and help clients to get in touch with a positive sense of self that enhances life quality and performance. In addition I specialize in couples therapy, where I support couples to hear and understand each other in a more empathic way. My focus is to create an emotionally safe environment that allows for sharing, without repetition of destructive patterns in session. I guide couples to feel compassion which leads partners to rediscover love, hope, and optimism for the future.
EMDR is a trauma treatment method that is helpful in treating a variety of issues, such as depression, chronic pain, performance-anxiety, and sexual dysfunction.
I specialize in anger-management, sex-therapy, Emdr, depression, and anxiety. I support men and women to rediscover their self-confidence and help clients to get in touch with a positive sense of self that enhances life quality and performance. In addition I specialize in couples therapy, where I support couples to hear and understand each other in a more empathic way. My focus is to create an emotionally safe environment that allows for sharing, without repetition of destructive patterns in session. I guide couples to feel compassion which leads partners to rediscover love, hope, and optimism for the future.
(484) 851-9260 View (484) 851-9260
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Chris Fariello
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MA, LMFT, CST, CSTS
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Media, PA 19063
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational & Sex Therapy (PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of sexuality concerns.
I am the Founder and Director of the Philadelphia Institute for Individual, Relational & Sex Therapy (PhIIRST).
I am an active therapist. I design treatment plans and utilize strategies that are appropriate for both the issues and the personalities of my clients. I work with individuals in the context of their life and couples seeking to repair, improve or strengthen their relationship. My areas of specialty include intimacy, conflict, anger issues and the breadth of sexuality concerns.
(267) 217-3987 View (267) 217-3987
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Anastasia Katchan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chester Springs, PA 19425  (Online Only)
I look forward to joining you on your path to sexual well-being and healing.
Life can be challenging. Stress, anxiety, depression and relationship problems can affect a quality of your life. You might feel overwhelmed and unsure what to do. I help clients to learn about themselves, heal from negative life experiences, learn coping skills and have an exciting and satisfying sex life. I work with clients who have lack of sexual desire, difficulties with reaching an orgasm, pain during sex and erectile difficulties. I am a certified clinical trauma professional, and an AASECT certified sex therapist.
I look forward to joining you on your path to sexual well-being and healing.
Life can be challenging. Stress, anxiety, depression and relationship problems can affect a quality of your life. You might feel overwhelmed and unsure what to do. I help clients to learn about themselves, heal from negative life experiences, learn coping skills and have an exciting and satisfying sex life. I work with clients who have lack of sexual desire, difficulties with reaching an orgasm, pain during sex and erectile difficulties. I am a certified clinical trauma professional, and an AASECT certified sex therapist.
(610) 439-9825 View (610) 439-9825
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Dr. Tom Murray Sex And Relationship Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, SexTher, LMFT
Verified Verified
Chester Springs, PA 19425  (Online Only)
With my brief-oriented approach, backed by the science of what works in sex therapy and couples counseling, you'll gain clarity, break old patterns, tackle mind-chatter, and experience satisfying sex and intimacy.
Should I stay or should I go? A huge question that's weighed on you. It keeps you up at night, stressing you out. Life would be so much easier if your relationship wasn't so hard. You wish you could communicate better; feel understood. But, damn, your shit and their shit get in the way. Not to mention the pressures of career, aging parents, or demanding children. It all gets thrown in the mix, leaving you exhausted, distracted, and disenchanted by the status quo. You want things to change (better sex, intimacy, connection); you're finally ready to take charge of your life in a new and meaningful way. You've come to the right place!
With my brief-oriented approach, backed by the science of what works in sex therapy and couples counseling, you'll gain clarity, break old patterns, tackle mind-chatter, and experience satisfying sex and intimacy.
Should I stay or should I go? A huge question that's weighed on you. It keeps you up at night, stressing you out. Life would be so much easier if your relationship wasn't so hard. You wish you could communicate better; feel understood. But, damn, your shit and their shit get in the way. Not to mention the pressures of career, aging parents, or demanding children. It all gets thrown in the mix, leaving you exhausted, distracted, and disenchanted by the status quo. You want things to change (better sex, intimacy, connection); you're finally ready to take charge of your life in a new and meaningful way. You've come to the right place!
(412) 385-4862 View (412) 385-4862
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Kathryn Ewers LMFT, CST
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Malvern, PA 19355  (Online Only)
I will guide you through your healing journey while offering support, insight, & knowledge on relationships, sex & intimacy, healing, & trauma.
This is a difficult time for you, and it probably feels difficult in many ways. I am here to support you and your partner(s) deal with issues of intimacy, mismatched sexual desires, infidelity, communication issues, sexual shame, boundaries within the relationship, navigating social stigmas while in a lgbtqai or interracial partnership, & more. My desire is to provide a warm and comfortable space for folx who struggle to fit into the heteronormative and eurocentric box. If you are seeking support, directness, & empathy to help identify the individual experiences that inform your relationships, please reach out.
I will guide you through your healing journey while offering support, insight, & knowledge on relationships, sex & intimacy, healing, & trauma.
This is a difficult time for you, and it probably feels difficult in many ways. I am here to support you and your partner(s) deal with issues of intimacy, mismatched sexual desires, infidelity, communication issues, sexual shame, boundaries within the relationship, navigating social stigmas while in a lgbtqai or interracial partnership, & more. My desire is to provide a warm and comfortable space for folx who struggle to fit into the heteronormative and eurocentric box. If you are seeking support, directness, & empathy to help identify the individual experiences that inform your relationships, please reach out.
(878) 216-0282 View (878) 216-0282
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Tell Perry Williams
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
West Chester, PA 19380
As a therapist, I strive to collaborate in creating a space that nurtures and empowers clients on their journey to better mental health. I work with adults of any and all backgrounds, particularly LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC clients. I lead my sessions with trauma informed care, and I am specialized in grief, depression, anxiety, and sex therapy. Allow me to help you grow more confident, promote self-exploration, and assist you on your path to better mental health.
As a therapist, I strive to collaborate in creating a space that nurtures and empowers clients on their journey to better mental health. I work with adults of any and all backgrounds, particularly LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC clients. I lead my sessions with trauma informed care, and I am specialized in grief, depression, anxiety, and sex therapy. Allow me to help you grow more confident, promote self-exploration, and assist you on your path to better mental health.
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Victoria Blazejewski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
West Chester, PA 19380
My ideal client is an individual or couple ready to do the work needed to achieve their goals and who desires a happy, healthy life. They may want to work through relationships or sexual problems due to my interest in couples and sex therapy.
My ideal client is an individual or couple ready to do the work needed to achieve their goals and who desires a happy, healthy life. They may want to work through relationships or sexual problems due to my interest in couples and sex therapy.
(484) 271-0564 View (484) 271-0564
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Rachel Saccarelli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, CCTP, CSTS, EHM
Verified Verified
Exton, PA 19341
I have experience and expertise in various treatment modalities, including EMDR, Emotion-Focused Therapy, Human Sexuality Education, Sex Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing.
I specialize in dissociation and dissociative disorders, complex trauma, and attachment & developmental trauma, most notably in medical, sexual, and religious trauma and abuse. My other specialties include abuse, domestic violence, shame, grief, spirituality, and sexuality, including working with folks who have committed acts of sexual violence.
I have experience and expertise in various treatment modalities, including EMDR, Emotion-Focused Therapy, Human Sexuality Education, Sex Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing.
I specialize in dissociation and dissociative disorders, complex trauma, and attachment & developmental trauma, most notably in medical, sexual, and religious trauma and abuse. My other specialties include abuse, domestic violence, shame, grief, spirituality, and sexuality, including working with folks who have committed acts of sexual violence.
(484) 878-4323 View (484) 878-4323
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Jonathan Asayag
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
West Chester, PA 19380
Hi! I am Jonathan. I am a sex & relationship therapist who specializes in supporting people navigating various challenges including life transitions, parenting, fatherhood, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, sexuality, intimacy, & challenging toxic masculinity. I work with individuals and couples. I believe that a safe space is a brave space. I do my best in crafting safety, which allows for self-exploration and healing at your pace. Please know that you do not need to be going through a life challenge or be in distress to talk to a therapist. Therapy is a valuable form of self-care and I can aid in strengthening your self-care goals.
Hi! I am Jonathan. I am a sex & relationship therapist who specializes in supporting people navigating various challenges including life transitions, parenting, fatherhood, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, sexuality, intimacy, & challenging toxic masculinity. I work with individuals and couples. I believe that a safe space is a brave space. I do my best in crafting safety, which allows for self-exploration and healing at your pace. Please know that you do not need to be going through a life challenge or be in distress to talk to a therapist. Therapy is a valuable form of self-care and I can aid in strengthening your self-care goals.
(484) 334-8742 View (484) 334-8742
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.