Couples Counseling Therapists in Lancaster, PA

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Gregg Hammond
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CCBT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, or a stressful moment of change, I look forward to sharing these awe-inspiring moments with you on your path to discover balance, strength, peace, and awareness within you and in your life.
My most enjoyable times in therapy are the moments when a person realizes they have it within them to recognize a change to be made, the skills to do it, and feels successful. To experience that life changing moment with them is awe-inspiring. Some call this an "A-ha moment," "light bulb going off," or an "epiphany." Instead, I call this the moment when a person switches the channel of their inner voice from: self-blaming, hyper-critical, guilt driven, and fear-mongering to one that is: self-compassionate, self-forgiving, self-empowering, self-accepting, and value-driven.
Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, or a stressful moment of change, I look forward to sharing these awe-inspiring moments with you on your path to discover balance, strength, peace, and awareness within you and in your life.
My most enjoyable times in therapy are the moments when a person realizes they have it within them to recognize a change to be made, the skills to do it, and feels successful. To experience that life changing moment with them is awe-inspiring. Some call this an "A-ha moment," "light bulb going off," or an "epiphany." Instead, I call this the moment when a person switches the channel of their inner voice from: self-blaming, hyper-critical, guilt driven, and fear-mongering to one that is: self-compassionate, self-forgiving, self-empowering, self-accepting, and value-driven.
(717) 470-8298 View (717) 470-8298
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Erika Snitzer
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
Life can be challenging. I help adolescents and adults manage life transitions, interpersonal relationships, self-esteem, grief/loss, and the process of making meaning at every life stage. I am open to working with individuals and couples. I can help adolescents navigate the challenges of the teen years, guide adults through parenting and relationship concerns, or help older adults to thrive in an ever-changing landscape. I can help you navigate new feelings, identity concerns, ADHD, parenting issues, relationship concerns, issues of aging, grief and loss, or adjustment to illness, caregiving, or lifestyle changes.
Life can be challenging. I help adolescents and adults manage life transitions, interpersonal relationships, self-esteem, grief/loss, and the process of making meaning at every life stage. I am open to working with individuals and couples. I can help adolescents navigate the challenges of the teen years, guide adults through parenting and relationship concerns, or help older adults to thrive in an ever-changing landscape. I can help you navigate new feelings, identity concerns, ADHD, parenting issues, relationship concerns, issues of aging, grief and loss, or adjustment to illness, caregiving, or lifestyle changes.
(717) 748-4569 View (717) 748-4569
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Stefanie Scarborough
Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
Accepting New Clients. Hello! I am a licensed counselor with over 20 years of experience, in a variety of settings, in the counseling profession. I pride myself on quickly building client rapport to be able to get therapeutic work started right away. My approaches emphasis client centered, solution focused counseling with cognitive behavior therapy techniques. I have experience working with children, adolescents, young adults and couples ranging in age from 15 to 50 years old. I have worked with families and specialize in working with individuals with anxiety, depression, grief & loss, career uncertainty, and relationship issues.
Accepting New Clients. Hello! I am a licensed counselor with over 20 years of experience, in a variety of settings, in the counseling profession. I pride myself on quickly building client rapport to be able to get therapeutic work started right away. My approaches emphasis client centered, solution focused counseling with cognitive behavior therapy techniques. I have experience working with children, adolescents, young adults and couples ranging in age from 15 to 50 years old. I have worked with families and specialize in working with individuals with anxiety, depression, grief & loss, career uncertainty, and relationship issues.
(717) 282-9235 View (717) 282-9235
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Carol Lynn Geiger
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
Helping individuals, couples, and families successfully manage their challenges and develop strong, positive relationships is the main focus of my practice. I believe in using a variety of approaches and tailoring these to my client's needs to produce the changes and growth my client is seeking.
Helping individuals, couples, and families successfully manage their challenges and develop strong, positive relationships is the main focus of my practice. I believe in using a variety of approaches and tailoring these to my client's needs to produce the changes and growth my client is seeking.
(717) 915-5713 View (717) 915-5713
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Stephanie Novotny Kegel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CAADC, CCCS
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
Waitlist for new clients
Although I have extensive training in evidenced-based practices, I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a vital first step in the collaborative process.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social worker who also is certified in addiction care with over 20 years of experience working in both the inpatient and outpatient settings out in the community and within large healthcare systems. I work with individuals, couples and families across the lifespan and with a board spectrum of needs and concerns. I have a special interest in Trauma Therapy and Addiction issues, as well as co-occurring disorders.
Although I have extensive training in evidenced-based practices, I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a vital first step in the collaborative process.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social worker who also is certified in addiction care with over 20 years of experience working in both the inpatient and outpatient settings out in the community and within large healthcare systems. I work with individuals, couples and families across the lifespan and with a board spectrum of needs and concerns. I have a special interest in Trauma Therapy and Addiction issues, as well as co-occurring disorders.
(717) 371-7128 View (717) 371-7128
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Curtis Wilson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
I also have a passion for the LGBTQ community and a desire to walk with any individuals or couples who are processing their own sexuality or sexual or gender identity.
Finding a Therapist can be Hard! Let's make it easier. Are you ready to reclaim your confidence and embrace a new way of viewing life? Are you feeling the impact of past trauma and the desire to unpack the baggage and move forward in freedom in your relationships? Let's collaborate together and find healthy ways to live and embrace life and freedom. Taking the first step to seek help is sometimes hard, but the lasting impact of that decision is worth that risk. Taking the time to focus on yourself, your relationships, and your future is never a wasted investment. I'm here to support you. www.curtiswilsoncounseling.com
I also have a passion for the LGBTQ community and a desire to walk with any individuals or couples who are processing their own sexuality or sexual or gender identity.
Finding a Therapist can be Hard! Let's make it easier. Are you ready to reclaim your confidence and embrace a new way of viewing life? Are you feeling the impact of past trauma and the desire to unpack the baggage and move forward in freedom in your relationships? Let's collaborate together and find healthy ways to live and embrace life and freedom. Taking the first step to seek help is sometimes hard, but the lasting impact of that decision is worth that risk. Taking the time to focus on yourself, your relationships, and your future is never a wasted investment. I'm here to support you. www.curtiswilsoncounseling.com
(223) 204-9468 View (223) 204-9468
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Focused Serenity Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
Inner and relationship peace, everyone hopes to be heard, cared for, and have purpose to their day and life. Sometimes we lose these things along the way and we don't know how to get them, maybe we never had them. We can feel lonely even when we're in a relationship, or unsure of what to do and ultimately do nothing instead, constantly battling regret, guilt, shame, sadness, and anger. You may be one of those folks to has felt that way, who has wanted to make something different happen in their life but couldn't figure out how to make that happen.
Inner and relationship peace, everyone hopes to be heard, cared for, and have purpose to their day and life. Sometimes we lose these things along the way and we don't know how to get them, maybe we never had them. We can feel lonely even when we're in a relationship, or unsure of what to do and ultimately do nothing instead, constantly battling regret, guilt, shame, sadness, and anger. You may be one of those folks to has felt that way, who has wanted to make something different happen in their life but couldn't figure out how to make that happen.
(717) 928-8256 View (717) 928-8256
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Jeff Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
With over 20 years of mental health experience and 14 years practicing therapy, I have learned to specialize in relationship/couples therapy and work as well as individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and other life and circumstantial issues. If you are looking to repair, strengthen, regain connection, improve intimacy, or generally work on your relationships or your mental health I can help you find that path. My experience has also led me to work with trauma in a systemic and experiential way and utilize EMDR, mindfulness and trauma informed interventions.
With over 20 years of mental health experience and 14 years practicing therapy, I have learned to specialize in relationship/couples therapy and work as well as individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and other life and circumstantial issues. If you are looking to repair, strengthen, regain connection, improve intimacy, or generally work on your relationships or your mental health I can help you find that path. My experience has also led me to work with trauma in a systemic and experiential way and utilize EMDR, mindfulness and trauma informed interventions.
(223) 218-2455 View (223) 218-2455
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Crystal Horninger
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17602  (Online Only)
My areas of speciality are treating anxiety, depression, LGBTQ+ issues, trauma, relationship difficulties, and stress from major life transitions.
Counseling is a space where you can explore, process, heal and grow. By being vulnerable we can allow ourselves the space to reflect on who we are now and where we have come from. I believe that we deserve a space where we can feel safe, comfortable and free from judgement. In this space, we can take out some of the boxes that are stored away and discover how we can let go of what no longer serves us while creating new ways of being and relating to ourselves, others, and the world around us .
My areas of speciality are treating anxiety, depression, LGBTQ+ issues, trauma, relationship difficulties, and stress from major life transitions.
Counseling is a space where you can explore, process, heal and grow. By being vulnerable we can allow ourselves the space to reflect on who we are now and where we have come from. I believe that we deserve a space where we can feel safe, comfortable and free from judgement. In this space, we can take out some of the boxes that are stored away and discover how we can let go of what no longer serves us while creating new ways of being and relating to ourselves, others, and the world around us .
(215) 261-5175 View (215) 261-5175
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Jennifer Downey
Psychologist, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
Jennifer believes that a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship is the foundation for all healing.
Jennifer Downey M.S. a Pa. Licensed Psychologist has been treating adolescents, adults and their families at Psychological Associates of Lancaster for forty years. She graduated from Susquehanna University with a B.A. in Psychology and then Millersville University with a M.S. in Psychology. After schooling Jennifer worked in the areas of child welfare, juvenile justice, addiction treatment and mental health.
Jennifer believes that a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship is the foundation for all healing.
Jennifer Downey M.S. a Pa. Licensed Psychologist has been treating adolescents, adults and their families at Psychological Associates of Lancaster for forty years. She graduated from Susquehanna University with a B.A. in Psychology and then Millersville University with a M.S. in Psychology. After schooling Jennifer worked in the areas of child welfare, juvenile justice, addiction treatment and mental health.
(717) 255-8214 View (717) 255-8214
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Meghan Onderdonk (Evenings In Person Available)
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MT-BC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
I believe the most important part of counseling is the therapeutic relationship.
Maybe you’ve noticed that making a change in your life is a difficult. Many people struggle to find their footing in the world at one point or another – this can be a large source of anxiety, depression, behavioral issues, and stress. I want you to feel at ease to be your most authentic self, and to feel genuinely safe and comfortable as we explore your concerns together. Above all else, I prioritize warmth, comfort, and compassion at the core of the work we do. I promise to tell you honestly and compassionately what you need to hear, even when it might be difficult to face right now.
I believe the most important part of counseling is the therapeutic relationship.
Maybe you’ve noticed that making a change in your life is a difficult. Many people struggle to find their footing in the world at one point or another – this can be a large source of anxiety, depression, behavioral issues, and stress. I want you to feel at ease to be your most authentic self, and to feel genuinely safe and comfortable as we explore your concerns together. Above all else, I prioritize warmth, comfort, and compassion at the core of the work we do. I promise to tell you honestly and compassionately what you need to hear, even when it might be difficult to face right now.
(610) 385-3155 View (610) 385-3155
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Sarah Kelly
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and help couples to uncover each other’s strengths and reinvest in shared commitment.
Hi, I’m Sarah! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a passion to help people find self-understanding and build meaningful connections within their relationships. I specialize in working with adolescents and young adults and most commonly treat adjustment issues, relational distress, anxiety, depression, and grief & loss. I value creativity, collaboration, and connection within the counseling relationship. I strive to help my clients value their own wants, needs, and feelings and communicate those needs openly.
I have completed Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and help couples to uncover each other’s strengths and reinvest in shared commitment.
Hi, I’m Sarah! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a passion to help people find self-understanding and build meaningful connections within their relationships. I specialize in working with adolescents and young adults and most commonly treat adjustment issues, relational distress, anxiety, depression, and grief & loss. I value creativity, collaboration, and connection within the counseling relationship. I strive to help my clients value their own wants, needs, and feelings and communicate those needs openly.
(223) 218-4878 View (223) 218-4878
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Leanne Abugov-Schaller
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, grief or a loss of a sense of yourself that effects your day-to-day life, relationships, ability to function, or career? Do you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost trying to get through daily activities? Now more than ever, people are feeling anxious, overwhelmed or uncertain about overcoming a difficult relationship, working through a loss, and finding their place in life. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, grief or a loss of a sense of yourself that effects your day-to-day life, relationships, ability to function, or career? Do you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost trying to get through daily activities? Now more than ever, people are feeling anxious, overwhelmed or uncertain about overcoming a difficult relationship, working through a loss, and finding their place in life. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body.
(717) 993-1963 View (717) 993-1963
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Dr. Dawnielle D. Simmons
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
This includes areas such as: race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, and gender identity development; socio-political reformative justice; ADHD concerns, relationship issues; anxiety and depression.
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
This includes areas such as: race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, and gender identity development; socio-political reformative justice; ADHD concerns, relationship issues; anxiety and depression.
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
(717) 229-0124 View (717) 229-0124
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Katherina Kapur Accepting New Clients
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
In addition, I am also work with couples as they navigate relationship challenges.
Are you struggling with emotions, trauma, or persistent negative thoughts? Is your child struggling with their behaviors, emotions or school? Are your relationships in trouble, or need a "tune up?" You have come to the right place. Hi! My name is Katie Kapur, and I am here to help you acheive your goals, improve your relationships and increase life satisfaction. I care about my clients, and value the time I spend with each and every person I have the pleasure of working with.
In addition, I am also work with couples as they navigate relationship challenges.
Are you struggling with emotions, trauma, or persistent negative thoughts? Is your child struggling with their behaviors, emotions or school? Are your relationships in trouble, or need a "tune up?" You have come to the right place. Hi! My name is Katie Kapur, and I am here to help you acheive your goals, improve your relationships and increase life satisfaction. I care about my clients, and value the time I spend with each and every person I have the pleasure of working with.
(717) 973-6870 View (717) 973-6870
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Laura Feeser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
I specialize in treating OCD, anxiety, depression, panic disorders, LGBTQ+ issues, trauma (including religious/cult trauma), relationship conflict, family issues, grief, work/school stress, and difficult life transitions.
When life throws curveballs, we all need a little help. Whether you desire to build new skills to manage life, or desire to process difficult life experiences, I am here to provide authentic and open-minded support.
I specialize in treating OCD, anxiety, depression, panic disorders, LGBTQ+ issues, trauma (including religious/cult trauma), relationship conflict, family issues, grief, work/school stress, and difficult life transitions.
When life throws curveballs, we all need a little help. Whether you desire to build new skills to manage life, or desire to process difficult life experiences, I am here to provide authentic and open-minded support.
(717) 420-8329 View (717) 420-8329
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Sara Heinzman
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
I believe that everyone has a unique story, deserving an equally unique therapeutic experience that speaks to their story and prompts the change they desire most. I enjoy working with teens, emerging adults, and adults. I work with my clients addressing: ADHD, Anger Management, Anxiety, Behavioral Issues, Career Counseling, Chronic Illness, Learning Disabilities, Transitions, Obsessive-Compulsive, Parenting, Developing Coping and Social Skills, Pregnancy/Postpartum, Relationship Issues, School Issues, Self-Harm, Suicidal Thoughts, Self Esteem, Depression, Domestic Violence, Emotional Distress, and Grief and Loss.
I believe that everyone has a unique story, deserving an equally unique therapeutic experience that speaks to their story and prompts the change they desire most. I enjoy working with teens, emerging adults, and adults. I work with my clients addressing: ADHD, Anger Management, Anxiety, Behavioral Issues, Career Counseling, Chronic Illness, Learning Disabilities, Transitions, Obsessive-Compulsive, Parenting, Developing Coping and Social Skills, Pregnancy/Postpartum, Relationship Issues, School Issues, Self-Harm, Suicidal Thoughts, Self Esteem, Depression, Domestic Violence, Emotional Distress, and Grief and Loss.
(717) 837-5717 View (717) 837-5717
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Tonya L. Lane
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
, we seek to create a positive experience, a safe & accepting environment, & a strong therapeutic relationship that is built on the foundation of trust, authenticity, effort, & care.
Hi! My name is Tonya Lane, LPC at Life and Love Counseling, LLC. I work with children, adolescents, adults, & families, with a specific emphasis on helping preschool-aged & preadolescent children. My role often extends to the children's families & their circumstances that impact their lives; education, community, & legal matters. I will often communicate with outside agencies & schools to facilitate collaboration. My clinical focus includes ADHD, ODD, PTSD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression, Developmental Disorders, & Learning Disabilities, Academic Concerns, Time Management, Boundary-Setting, Parenting, Healthy Eating, Work/Life Balance.
, we seek to create a positive experience, a safe & accepting environment, & a strong therapeutic relationship that is built on the foundation of trust, authenticity, effort, & care.
Hi! My name is Tonya Lane, LPC at Life and Love Counseling, LLC. I work with children, adolescents, adults, & families, with a specific emphasis on helping preschool-aged & preadolescent children. My role often extends to the children's families & their circumstances that impact their lives; education, community, & legal matters. I will often communicate with outside agencies & schools to facilitate collaboration. My clinical focus includes ADHD, ODD, PTSD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression, Developmental Disorders, & Learning Disabilities, Academic Concerns, Time Management, Boundary-Setting, Parenting, Healthy Eating, Work/Life Balance.
(717) 553-0621 View (717) 553-0621
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Britany Miley Anderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
I specialize in working with adolescents, families, and couples. My training is largely systems focused and I prefer to focus on strengthening relationships as a tool to healing. I specialize in post-traumatic stress disorder, attachment difficulties, relationship issues, and grief/bereavement.
I specialize in working with adolescents, families, and couples. My training is largely systems focused and I prefer to focus on strengthening relationships as a tool to healing. I specialize in post-traumatic stress disorder, attachment difficulties, relationship issues, and grief/bereavement.
(717) 745-8301 View (717) 745-8301
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Dominic A Pasqualino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603
Hi there. I'm Dominic Welcome! I am a licensed clinical social worker in Pennsylvania with over 24 years of experience as a mental health therapist. I enjoy helping people get better at dealing with depression, anxiety, anger, trauma/abuse, relationship difficulties, and substance abuse. I really look forward to meeting with you. My approach to providing therapy involves applying Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution Focused Therapy (SFBT) interventions to help deal with mental health problems. I also specialize in Motivational Interviewing (MI).
Hi there. I'm Dominic Welcome! I am a licensed clinical social worker in Pennsylvania with over 24 years of experience as a mental health therapist. I enjoy helping people get better at dealing with depression, anxiety, anger, trauma/abuse, relationship difficulties, and substance abuse. I really look forward to meeting with you. My approach to providing therapy involves applying Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution Focused Therapy (SFBT) interventions to help deal with mental health problems. I also specialize in Motivational Interviewing (MI).
(717) 694-2963 View (717) 694-2963
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.