Gottman Method Therapists in Haverford, PA
![Photo of Marlo Hall - Marlo Hall, Psychotherapy, MS, Ed, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/4918e0d2-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/3/320x400.jpeg)
Marlo Hall, Psychotherapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, Ed, LPC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Haverford, PA 19041
Together, we will navigate through the frustrating, critical or painful patterns in your relationships. Especially the relationship you have with your self. People seek me out to learn how to nurture, connect, empathize and accept. Build the conflict resolution and validation skills that are powerful tools used to improve relationship dynamics. It simply does not need to be this hard, new ways to interact can elicit change. When emotional challenges create too great a struggle, therapy may help. We will discover positive and productive ways to successfully explore life and gain the wisdom to cope more effectively.
Together, we will navigate through the frustrating, critical or painful patterns in your relationships. Especially the relationship you have with your self. People seek me out to learn how to nurture, connect, empathize and accept. Build the conflict resolution and validation skills that are powerful tools used to improve relationship dynamics. It simply does not need to be this hard, new ways to interact can elicit change. When emotional challenges create too great a struggle, therapy may help. We will discover positive and productive ways to successfully explore life and gain the wisdom to cope more effectively.
![Photo of Emily Zubriski, MS, LAPC](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/65ae1532-367a-4239-8dbb-175e91b68e1c/1/320x400.jpeg)
Are you experiencing feelings of uncertainty, worry, loneliness, or distress? Do difficult past experiences impact the way you view yourself, others, or the world? Maybe you prioritize others' needs over your own or face challenges in your relationship? If any of this resonates, you're not alone, and I'm here to help. I provide a safe, supportive environment to heal emotional wounds and empower you to reclaim your life. Together, we can address past struggles that hinder your present, improving connections and breaking unhelpful patterns. Let’s work towards a more fulfilling, balanced life and stronger relationships.
Are you experiencing feelings of uncertainty, worry, loneliness, or distress? Do difficult past experiences impact the way you view yourself, others, or the world? Maybe you prioritize others' needs over your own or face challenges in your relationship? If any of this resonates, you're not alone, and I'm here to help. I provide a safe, supportive environment to heal emotional wounds and empower you to reclaim your life. Together, we can address past struggles that hinder your present, improving connections and breaking unhelpful patterns. Let’s work towards a more fulfilling, balanced life and stronger relationships.
![Photo of Kia Felicia Everett - Finding Your Way, LLC, DCC, MHS, MPSL, LPC, LBS, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/56bd2469-480e-433e-af62-b54dce816787/1/320x400.jpeg)
Finding Your Way, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, DCC, MHS, MPSL, LPC, LBS
Verified Verified
Haverford, PA 19041 (Online Only)
Is your life unmanageable? Are you suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result of a traumatic situation? Are you in a crisis? You have found your therapeutic solution. Finding Your Way, LLC is a Mental Health Urgent Care/ Mental Health Practice that will meet all of your immediate Mental Health needs. We are a well rounded comprehensive practice to move you to a place of Wellness.
Is your life unmanageable? Are you suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result of a traumatic situation? Are you in a crisis? You have found your therapeutic solution. Finding Your Way, LLC is a Mental Health Urgent Care/ Mental Health Practice that will meet all of your immediate Mental Health needs. We are a well rounded comprehensive practice to move you to a place of Wellness.
![Photo of Robert Schwarz, PsyD, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3b80eabc-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/4/320x400.jpeg)
With 35+ years of experience, my approach is to provide a safe environment and effective tools to help people meet their goals and find happiness. You are unique. Having different tools allows me to treat you in a customized manner. My work is focused active and results oriented. My credentials include: a clinical member of the AAMFT, approved consultant in clinical hypnosis, master practitioner of NLP, an advanced practitioner of two energy psychology approaches (EFT & TFT), Developed ACEP's EFT Training Program. Author of 2 books: Tools for Transforming Trauma; We're No Fun Anymore: Helping Couples Cultivate Joyful Relationships
With 35+ years of experience, my approach is to provide a safe environment and effective tools to help people meet their goals and find happiness. You are unique. Having different tools allows me to treat you in a customized manner. My work is focused active and results oriented. My credentials include: a clinical member of the AAMFT, approved consultant in clinical hypnosis, master practitioner of NLP, an advanced practitioner of two energy psychology approaches (EFT & TFT), Developed ACEP's EFT Training Program. Author of 2 books: Tools for Transforming Trauma; We're No Fun Anymore: Helping Couples Cultivate Joyful Relationships
![Photo of Dina H. Harth, PhD, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3b9dc6ab-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/5/320x400.jpeg)
Dr. Dina Harth provides psychological services to individuals, couples and families of all ages who are coping with issues across the lifespan. She uses an integrative approach, combining cognitive-behavioral principles with insight-oriented, as well as marital and family therapies. She provides individualized treatment based on the needs and style of each client.
Dr. Dina Harth provides psychological services to individuals, couples and families of all ages who are coping with issues across the lifespan. She uses an integrative approach, combining cognitive-behavioral principles with insight-oriented, as well as marital and family therapies. She provides individualized treatment based on the needs and style of each client.
![Photo of Rivki Nicole Nyer, M Ed, MFT, Pre-Licensed Professional](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/9a43fac4-52e9-4361-bb22-6cb55772a900/1/320x400.png)
Rivki Nicole Nyer
Pre-Licensed Professional, M Ed, MFT
Verified Verified
Haverford, PA 19041 (Online Only)
Welcome! I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families find healing and growth. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can comfortably explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Everyone has within them the capacity for self-healing and transformation. I work with individuals struggling with anxious thoughts, feelings of sadness and hopelessness, traumatic memories, and family conflicts. My approach is empathetic, creative, humorous, and collaborative. Therapy is a partnership; together, we will work towards your goals and understand your true self on a deeper level.
Welcome! I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families find healing and growth. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can comfortably explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Everyone has within them the capacity for self-healing and transformation. I work with individuals struggling with anxious thoughts, feelings of sadness and hopelessness, traumatic memories, and family conflicts. My approach is empathetic, creative, humorous, and collaborative. Therapy is a partnership; together, we will work towards your goals and understand your true self on a deeper level.
![Photo of Lydia (Fehintola) Lawson, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/29e0855d-7727-47b2-a361-779baa9763db/2/320x400.jpeg)
Lydia (Fehintola) Lawson is a Marriage and Family Therapist who creates a warm and calm environment so her clients can show up as their authentic selves. Seeking therapy is rarely an easy one, so whatever reason you are seeking therapy, Lydia cares about making sure you will feel seen, heard, and understood. By using a strengths-based approach it allows her clients to feel validated and that much more empowered to live and lead the lives they desire. Lydia believes healing is a journey and is passionate about meeting her clients where they are.
Lydia (Fehintola) Lawson is a Marriage and Family Therapist who creates a warm and calm environment so her clients can show up as their authentic selves. Seeking therapy is rarely an easy one, so whatever reason you are seeking therapy, Lydia cares about making sure you will feel seen, heard, and understood. By using a strengths-based approach it allows her clients to feel validated and that much more empowered to live and lead the lives they desire. Lydia believes healing is a journey and is passionate about meeting her clients where they are.
More Therapists Nearby
![Photo of Elvan Kama Kurtz, LMFT, MA, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/8ab3bbcf-2e8c-4afe-b366-0f757fd86f4b/1/320x400.jpeg)
Elvan Kama Kurtz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
I use evidence-based modalities such as The Gottman Method and EFT to foster deep emotional connections and improving communication.
You deserve a therapist who is not only well-educated but deeply committed to helping you! If you're an individual or couple struggling with relationship challenges like affair recovery, communication breakdowns, conflict resolution, or sexual concerns, I'm here to help. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I understand the complexities of these issues and am dedicated to guiding you toward healing and connection. For those preparing for marriage, I know how important it is to start on a strong foundation. I also offer premarital counseling tailored to your needs using proven methods to help you build a lasting partnership.
I use evidence-based modalities such as The Gottman Method and EFT to foster deep emotional connections and improving communication.
You deserve a therapist who is not only well-educated but deeply committed to helping you! If you're an individual or couple struggling with relationship challenges like affair recovery, communication breakdowns, conflict resolution, or sexual concerns, I'm here to help. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I understand the complexities of these issues and am dedicated to guiding you toward healing and connection. For those preparing for marriage, I know how important it is to start on a strong foundation. I also offer premarital counseling tailored to your needs using proven methods to help you build a lasting partnership.
![Photo of Teresa Thompson, LPC, ATR-BC, CBIS, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/804a8474-b612-472f-8b59-07a4319d7d48/2/320x400.jpeg)
Teresa Thompson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ATR-BC, CBIS
Verified Verified
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
I have completed Level 3 of Gottman Method training and use this as a primary approach when working with couples.
Are you feeling stuck? I help clients feel seen, understood and empowered to create change in their lives and relationships. I see my role in the therapeutic relationship as a catalyst to help increase awareness and trust to support freedom of expression, insight, and healing. In therapy sessions, I work in collaboration with individuals and couples to identify areas that are inhibiting quality of life and focus on building existing strengths and new skills. I believe that each individual is an expert in their own lives and has the strengths and potential to actualize the change they want to see.
I have completed Level 3 of Gottman Method training and use this as a primary approach when working with couples.
Are you feeling stuck? I help clients feel seen, understood and empowered to create change in their lives and relationships. I see my role in the therapeutic relationship as a catalyst to help increase awareness and trust to support freedom of expression, insight, and healing. In therapy sessions, I work in collaboration with individuals and couples to identify areas that are inhibiting quality of life and focus on building existing strengths and new skills. I believe that each individual is an expert in their own lives and has the strengths and potential to actualize the change they want to see.
![Photo of Jennifer Denholm, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/4cdbb9e7-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
I have expertise in individual, family and couples therapy, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic psychotherapy and Gottman Method couples therapy.
I believe that change happens within the context of a safe, trusting therapeutic relationship. Whether you're struggling with relationships, managing worries or navigating a life transition, therapy can help. I work to create a supportive, collaborative space to empower my clients to create positive change in their lives.
I have expertise in individual, family and couples therapy, including cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), psychodynamic psychotherapy and Gottman Method couples therapy.
I believe that change happens within the context of a safe, trusting therapeutic relationship. Whether you're struggling with relationships, managing worries or navigating a life transition, therapy can help. I work to create a supportive, collaborative space to empower my clients to create positive change in their lives.
![Photo of Kellie Jackson, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/629d8bbf-d0b1-42ac-be3b-727ebe1262b5/1/320x400.jpeg)
Kellie Jackson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
I specialize in evidence-based methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy.
Finding the right therapist can feel like a daunting task especially when you are overwhelmed, trying to manage a challenging relationship, or adjusting to life's twists and turns. I specialize in couples therapy, anxiety, depression, support with parenting, and perinatal mood disorders. I support clients experiencing life transitions such as grief, caring for aging parents, retirement, divorce, career changes, empty nest, and emotional trauma. I strive to provide a warm, collaborative space for my clients, while offering a direct approach to therapy.
I specialize in evidence-based methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy.
Finding the right therapist can feel like a daunting task especially when you are overwhelmed, trying to manage a challenging relationship, or adjusting to life's twists and turns. I specialize in couples therapy, anxiety, depression, support with parenting, and perinatal mood disorders. I support clients experiencing life transitions such as grief, caring for aging parents, retirement, divorce, career changes, empty nest, and emotional trauma. I strive to provide a warm, collaborative space for my clients, while offering a direct approach to therapy.
![Photo of Jenna Spitz, MSS, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/0c0f1a52-95a6-4dd0-8d4c-677a611b8730/4/320x400.jpeg)
Jenna Spitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSS, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010
I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness, Attachment, Somatics, and the Gottman Method.
First of all: you have the potential to thrive and feel supported. Your experiences and perspectives are huge assets going into therapy. I help my clients overcome fear and navigate conflict, uncertainty, change, and loss. My approach is creative, deeply compassionate, and rooted in relationship. With humor and warmth, I'll help you show up authentically for yourself, your loved ones, and your communities. Together, we’ll work through the complexities of your relationships, break unhelpful patterns, and heal the wounds that could be holding you back from finding personal growth and pleasure in your daily life.
I draw from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness, Attachment, Somatics, and the Gottman Method.
First of all: you have the potential to thrive and feel supported. Your experiences and perspectives are huge assets going into therapy. I help my clients overcome fear and navigate conflict, uncertainty, change, and loss. My approach is creative, deeply compassionate, and rooted in relationship. With humor and warmth, I'll help you show up authentically for yourself, your loved ones, and your communities. Together, we’ll work through the complexities of your relationships, break unhelpful patterns, and heal the wounds that could be holding you back from finding personal growth and pleasure in your daily life.
![Photo of Daniel Menely, LMHC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/682af688-fa9d-4608-b200-d2236fba98f9/2/320x400.jpeg)
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bryn Mawr, PA 19010 (Online Only)
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
For couples, I utilize The Gottman Method, assisting premarital and marital couples who are at decision points, dealing with repetitive conflict, and wanting to connect better.
As your therapist, I provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit there – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that are bothering you in your everyday life, be it challenges with relationships, work, or family. Whether our work is one-on-one, with you two as a couple, my clients gain valuable insights and practical tools to get unstuck and move forward. Imagine leaving each session feeling understood, empowered, and equipped to navigate life with confidence.
![Photo of Michael E Silverstein, PhD, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3de26b82-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
I am a licensed psychologist in Pennsylvania, have completed Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Training, and am certified by the American Psychological Association in the Treatment of Alcoholism & Other Substance Use Disorders.
I am a clinical psychologist with 30 years experience helping individuals and couples find relief from depression, anxiety, addiction, OCD and relationship problems. We will use evidence-based approaches that have been scientifically proven to work, developing coping skills and new habits that are easy to learn and apply to everyday life. I believe we are all experts in our own lives and often already possess answers to our problems without realizing it. I work collaboratively to help set specific achievable goals, avoid previously hurtful thoughts and behaviors, and overcome barriers to finding effective solutions.
I am a licensed psychologist in Pennsylvania, have completed Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy Training, and am certified by the American Psychological Association in the Treatment of Alcoholism & Other Substance Use Disorders.
I am a clinical psychologist with 30 years experience helping individuals and couples find relief from depression, anxiety, addiction, OCD and relationship problems. We will use evidence-based approaches that have been scientifically proven to work, developing coping skills and new habits that are easy to learn and apply to everyday life. I believe we are all experts in our own lives and often already possess answers to our problems without realizing it. I work collaboratively to help set specific achievable goals, avoid previously hurtful thoughts and behaviors, and overcome barriers to finding effective solutions.
![Photo of Meg Fromuth, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/a9a51451-ec77-471e-becc-a5ae86bdd24c/2/320x400.jpeg)
Meg Fromuth
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Villanova, PA 19085 (Online Only)
I strive to work with folks who do not feel like they fit the typical mold of society. So many of us have experienced othering or felt judgment for our unique qualities. It is a pleasure to aid folks in reframing those differences as strengths and assets. Whether a client feels different due to identity, or sexual orientation, or just thinks differently I hope to help these clients find a sense of peace within themselves.
I strive to work with folks who do not feel like they fit the typical mold of society. So many of us have experienced othering or felt judgment for our unique qualities. It is a pleasure to aid folks in reframing those differences as strengths and assets. Whether a client feels different due to identity, or sexual orientation, or just thinks differently I hope to help these clients find a sense of peace within themselves.
![Photo of Yaron W Pickens, MA, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/e010955b-4953-4b4e-91ae-8c469bafad63/3/320x400.jpeg)
I work with families and individuals to improve connection and communication. I work with you to cope with depression, anxiety and overwhelm. I help people to develop skills to hear and connect to one another in enriching ways. I also work with couples and individuals adjusting to major life changes. I work with individuals to develop skills for coping with anger, anxiety, boundaries, trauma, and stress. As your therapist I will work with you in creating and sustaining your relational and emotional health. I am now forming a Men's Support group to work in community to promote men's overall wellness contact for more info.
I work with families and individuals to improve connection and communication. I work with you to cope with depression, anxiety and overwhelm. I help people to develop skills to hear and connect to one another in enriching ways. I also work with couples and individuals adjusting to major life changes. I work with individuals to develop skills for coping with anger, anxiety, boundaries, trauma, and stress. As your therapist I will work with you in creating and sustaining your relational and emotional health. I am now forming a Men's Support group to work in community to promote men's overall wellness contact for more info.
![Photo of Allisha Minor-Gaines - Minor Inspirations LLC, MFT, Pre-Licensed Professional](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/99310e28-9221-42de-8f93-41084c4ab759/2/320x400.jpeg)
I am your inspirational face behind Minor Inspirations LLC where my 20 years of experience in providing therapeutic services can help you make the changes necessary for growth, mental stability, and stronger relationships. I recognize that everyone has their own stories to share and deserves services that will tailor to their individual experiences. Allow me to be your listening ear while pushing you to reach your goals. Allow me the opportunity to help you make even just a minor difference to open the doors for greater awareness and larger changes to present themselves for life long stability and stronger relationships.
I am your inspirational face behind Minor Inspirations LLC where my 20 years of experience in providing therapeutic services can help you make the changes necessary for growth, mental stability, and stronger relationships. I recognize that everyone has their own stories to share and deserves services that will tailor to their individual experiences. Allow me to be your listening ear while pushing you to reach your goals. Allow me the opportunity to help you make even just a minor difference to open the doors for greater awareness and larger changes to present themselves for life long stability and stronger relationships.
![Photo of Tracy Wood - Main Line Relationship Center, MEd, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/fb9b4db1-9404-48d5-8efc-02f1af9c9450/1/320x400.jpeg)
Main Line Relationship Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
Narberth, PA 19072
You want to see the "best" therapist, but with 2200 + of us in Montgomery County alone, how do you begin? For help narrowing the field, read "How do I find the best therapist for me?" by visiting my website. As a PA-licensed psychotherapist, I've been helping clients improve their lives for more than 20 years. Through insight and skills acquisition, my goal is to get you out of therapy and back to enjoying your life. Bring your concerns, goals, strengths and humor. We'll figure out the rest together.
You want to see the "best" therapist, but with 2200 + of us in Montgomery County alone, how do you begin? For help narrowing the field, read "How do I find the best therapist for me?" by visiting my website. As a PA-licensed psychotherapist, I've been helping clients improve their lives for more than 20 years. Through insight and skills acquisition, my goal is to get you out of therapy and back to enjoying your life. Bring your concerns, goals, strengths and humor. We'll figure out the rest together.
![Photo of Melisa O. Furman, LCSW, MA, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3f4da747-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Melisa O. Furman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ardmore, PA 19003 (Online Only)
Many find themselves at a point in their lives where external support is necessary to navigate life's challenges. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I am that support for my clients.I create a safe space for my clients to explore their deep feelings, develop a plan, learn healthy coping strategies and increase self-confidence. I am experienced in facilitating conversations around divorce and separation with children and teenagers. I specialize in behavioral change and healing inter-personal relationships. I work with many individuals, families and youth experiencing ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, Addiction and Post Traumatic Stress.
Many find themselves at a point in their lives where external support is necessary to navigate life's challenges. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I am that support for my clients.I create a safe space for my clients to explore their deep feelings, develop a plan, learn healthy coping strategies and increase self-confidence. I am experienced in facilitating conversations around divorce and separation with children and teenagers. I specialize in behavioral change and healing inter-personal relationships. I work with many individuals, families and youth experiencing ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, Addiction and Post Traumatic Stress.
![Photo of Richard S. Stern, PhD, Psychologist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3bdd49df-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
I specialize in care for children, teens, young adults, and families: 1) Building cooperation and openness in place of defiance and lying; 2) Cultivating self-control in place of tantrums and aggression; 3) Fostering contentment and self-confidence in place of sadness and worry; and 4) Developing genuine closeness in place of clinging and irritability. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience addressing core relational issues of protection, loyalty, authority, trust, fairness, and forgiveness. I help families heal from generational wounds and allow children develop appropriate individuation, using the secure base of a trusting parent-child relationship.
I specialize in care for children, teens, young adults, and families: 1) Building cooperation and openness in place of defiance and lying; 2) Cultivating self-control in place of tantrums and aggression; 3) Fostering contentment and self-confidence in place of sadness and worry; and 4) Developing genuine closeness in place of clinging and irritability. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience addressing core relational issues of protection, loyalty, authority, trust, fairness, and forgiveness. I help families heal from generational wounds and allow children develop appropriate individuation, using the secure base of a trusting parent-child relationship.
See more therapy options for Haverford
Nearby Gottman Method Therapists Searches for Haverford
- Ardmore
- Bala Cynwyd
- Bryn Mawr
- Conshohocken
- Gladwyne
- Havertown
- Merion Station
- Newtown Square
- Radnor
- Villanova
- Wayne
- Wynnewood
Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.