Couples Counseling Therapists in Oregon

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Kimberly Moorhead
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, PsyD, MFT-A
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97405
I use techniques from a variety of theories including The Gottman Method (typically for couples/relationships), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT).
Learning how to love, be loved, and give love to ourselves can often be challenging. We experience rejection, trauma, and misunderstanding from others. Learning how to process these experiences is a process we are rarely able to do alone. In addition to working with couples and relational units, I see adult individuals with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I enjoy supporting those working to understand experiences of queerness, gender non-conformity and neurodiversity.
I use techniques from a variety of theories including The Gottman Method (typically for couples/relationships), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT).
Learning how to love, be loved, and give love to ourselves can often be challenging. We experience rejection, trauma, and misunderstanding from others. Learning how to process these experiences is a process we are rarely able to do alone. In addition to working with couples and relational units, I see adult individuals with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression. I enjoy supporting those working to understand experiences of queerness, gender non-conformity and neurodiversity.
(541) 391-5367 View (541) 391-5367
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Joy Eilythia
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
Bend, OR 97701  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My masters in counseling is from Portland State University and I focused on sexuality, gender, relationship work and family systems.
Many of us have pre-verbal layers that come in as feelings of depression, restlessness and anxiety. Times of birth, death, relationship, and sexuality can usher in a greater understanding of these non-verbal aspects of ourselves. We will use a process of looking at the imagination, loose associations, and dream material to help integrate subconscious depths.
My masters in counseling is from Portland State University and I focused on sexuality, gender, relationship work and family systems.
Many of us have pre-verbal layers that come in as feelings of depression, restlessness and anxiety. Times of birth, death, relationship, and sexuality can usher in a greater understanding of these non-verbal aspects of ourselves. We will use a process of looking at the imagination, loose associations, and dream material to help integrate subconscious depths.
(458) 221-9848 View (458) 221-9848
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Shannon Mong
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97219  (Online Only)
I appreciate you taking the time to learn about me & consider working together. My goal is you gain understanding and compassion, implement new strategies and skills, improve relationships with yourself and others, and emerge with greater confidence to journey through future life events. Licensed as a clinical psychologist since 2006, I'm grateful to have accompanied adults, teens, older adults, and couples through many life experiences & feelings - including anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, parenting, aging, grief, trauma, substance use, and neurodivergence (attention deficit & autistic spectrum).
I appreciate you taking the time to learn about me & consider working together. My goal is you gain understanding and compassion, implement new strategies and skills, improve relationships with yourself and others, and emerge with greater confidence to journey through future life events. Licensed as a clinical psychologist since 2006, I'm grateful to have accompanied adults, teens, older adults, and couples through many life experiences & feelings - including anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, parenting, aging, grief, trauma, substance use, and neurodivergence (attention deficit & autistic spectrum).
(503) 389-5292 View (503) 389-5292
Natalie M Heidtmann
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MS, CADCI
Verified Verified
Bend, OR 97703
I work with couples who are experiencing interpersonal distress associated with negative cycles of communication and disconnection. I utilize Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy to help build insight into the attachment issues underlying each other's reactivity within the cycle. In addition, I address attachment trauma utilizing EMDR, Brainspotting and Internal Family Systems, helping to build understanding and compassion within the relationship.
I work with couples who are experiencing interpersonal distress associated with negative cycles of communication and disconnection. I utilize Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy to help build insight into the attachment issues underlying each other's reactivity within the cycle. In addition, I address attachment trauma utilizing EMDR, Brainspotting and Internal Family Systems, helping to build understanding and compassion within the relationship.
(458) 207-5534 View (458) 207-5534
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Pamela Gillet
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MAAT, MA
Not Verified Not Verified
Bend, OR 97702
Couples and Relationship issues, adolescent issues, coping with stress, anxiety, and depression, recovering from grief and loss, spiritual and faith issues are areas of expertise and focus.
Calling for help can be intimidating. Hopefully I can make your first contact a safe experience. Our initial session is geared to getting to know each other, to hear your story, what prompted you to seek therapy, and talk about your goals. By the end of this session we should have a good idea if we will work well together. If not, I will be happy to give you referrals. Psychotherapy is the intentional process of seeking change, a move towards healing. It is to that end that we can work together to achieve your goals as I offer my experience and training.
Couples and Relationship issues, adolescent issues, coping with stress, anxiety, and depression, recovering from grief and loss, spiritual and faith issues are areas of expertise and focus.
Calling for help can be intimidating. Hopefully I can make your first contact a safe experience. Our initial session is geared to getting to know each other, to hear your story, what prompted you to seek therapy, and talk about your goals. By the end of this session we should have a good idea if we will work well together. If not, I will be happy to give you referrals. Psychotherapy is the intentional process of seeking change, a move towards healing. It is to that end that we can work together to achieve your goals as I offer my experience and training.
(541) 210-5547 View (541) 210-5547
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Mary J DiOrio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97205  (Online Only)
Modalities I draw from include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples and Individual Therapy and Radically Open Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.
I am currently accepting new clients. Helping people achieve a higher quality life with more joy never gets old. Working with full spectrum eating disorders, ranging from people who are grappling with bulimia, anorexia, binge eating, compulsive/emotional eating, to orthorexia. I address body image concerns by helping clients gain insight in order to develop effective coping mechanisms. My practice includes working with clients experiencing anxiety, depression, difficult life transitions, feeling "stuck" or seeking a higher quality of life, social phobias, and obsessive compulsive issues.
Modalities I draw from include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally Focused Couples and Individual Therapy and Radically Open Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.
I am currently accepting new clients. Helping people achieve a higher quality life with more joy never gets old. Working with full spectrum eating disorders, ranging from people who are grappling with bulimia, anorexia, binge eating, compulsive/emotional eating, to orthorexia. I address body image concerns by helping clients gain insight in order to develop effective coping mechanisms. My practice includes working with clients experiencing anxiety, depression, difficult life transitions, feeling "stuck" or seeking a higher quality of life, social phobias, and obsessive compulsive issues.
(971) 832-9986 View (971) 832-9986
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Nadejda Razi - Robertson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97296  (Online Only)
I believe in the transformative power of the therapeutic relationship and view it as a collaboration between therapist and client.
Not taking new clients until September! Short-term, solution-focused coaching and psychotherapy. After nearly 20 years of providing therapeutic services in a wide range of settings, my clients have taught me that transformation and change can happen...even in a single-session! I love working with people who are striving to actualize their vision for fulfillment in all aspects of their lives. Our work together will likely include both levity and depth, will offer you tools for re-alignment and reconnection with your "authentic self," & will support the change you are looking for in your precious life!
I believe in the transformative power of the therapeutic relationship and view it as a collaboration between therapist and client.
Not taking new clients until September! Short-term, solution-focused coaching and psychotherapy. After nearly 20 years of providing therapeutic services in a wide range of settings, my clients have taught me that transformation and change can happen...even in a single-session! I love working with people who are striving to actualize their vision for fulfillment in all aspects of their lives. Our work together will likely include both levity and depth, will offer you tools for re-alignment and reconnection with your "authentic self," & will support the change you are looking for in your precious life!
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Tom Kelley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97219
I see individuals, couples and families who are seeking support for things they feel are not going well in their lives. From the Family Systems perspective, any number of issues can be looked at together. My work is centered around interpersonal relationships and how we interact with each other, our selves and our communities. Relationship dynamics are constantly in and out of balance. Managing these relationships is key in helping develop healthy ways of dealing with life issues. The work we do together should feel helpful and focused on your goals.
I see individuals, couples and families who are seeking support for things they feel are not going well in their lives. From the Family Systems perspective, any number of issues can be looked at together. My work is centered around interpersonal relationships and how we interact with each other, our selves and our communities. Relationship dynamics are constantly in and out of balance. Managing these relationships is key in helping develop healthy ways of dealing with life issues. The work we do together should feel helpful and focused on your goals.
(503) 406-4283 View (503) 406-4283
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Debbie Bensching
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW, MSWAC, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97205
Waitlist for new clients
I guide the process of working through problems to enhance performance in activities of daily living in work, relationships, recreation & professional settings. Problem areas include difficulties with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, anger, grief & loss, women's issues, habit disorders, addictions recovery: drugs, alcohol, food; ACOA, family members affected by addiction, trauma: post-traumatic stress, rape, abuse (physical, emotional, sexual), dissociative disorders, relationships: marriage / domestic partner, parent-child, divorce/ separation, parenting. Also work with difficulties with sleep, relaxation, or underperforming.
I guide the process of working through problems to enhance performance in activities of daily living in work, relationships, recreation & professional settings. Problem areas include difficulties with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, anger, grief & loss, women's issues, habit disorders, addictions recovery: drugs, alcohol, food; ACOA, family members affected by addiction, trauma: post-traumatic stress, rape, abuse (physical, emotional, sexual), dissociative disorders, relationships: marriage / domestic partner, parent-child, divorce/ separation, parenting. Also work with difficulties with sleep, relaxation, or underperforming.
(503) 406-3624 View (503) 406-3624
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Neupathway (Chris Gorski)
Professional Counselor Associate, PCA, BS, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Grants Pass, OR 97527
Chris’s dedication to a supportive therapeutic relationship helps clients achieve their goals and transform their lives.
Chris Gorski, B.S., M.A., PCA, YT, MT is a seasoned therapist with nearly 30 years of experience in the Counseling and Wellness field. He holds a Bachelor of Science in Counseling and Human Services from California State University, Fullerton, and a CACREP-accredited Master of Arts from the University of the Cumberlands. Registered with the Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists, Chris specializes in couples' therapy, helping partners navigate their relationships with compassion and understanding.
Chris’s dedication to a supportive therapeutic relationship helps clients achieve their goals and transform their lives.
Chris Gorski, B.S., M.A., PCA, YT, MT is a seasoned therapist with nearly 30 years of experience in the Counseling and Wellness field. He holds a Bachelor of Science in Counseling and Human Services from California State University, Fullerton, and a CACREP-accredited Master of Arts from the University of the Cumberlands. Registered with the Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists, Chris specializes in couples' therapy, helping partners navigate their relationships with compassion and understanding.
(541) 351-7204 View (541) 351-7204
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Laurel Becker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
I am currently accepting new clients! I work with teens, adults, and couples. I believe that counseling can provide a safe place to explore ourselves and our world in new and positive ways. The struggles of life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to journey through these challenges with allows for hope and growth, ultimately building a roadmap toward a more content and fulfilling life. It is an honor to be a part of each client's personal journey of restoration and freedom.
I am currently accepting new clients! I work with teens, adults, and couples. I believe that counseling can provide a safe place to explore ourselves and our world in new and positive ways. The struggles of life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to journey through these challenges with allows for hope and growth, ultimately building a roadmap toward a more content and fulfilling life. It is an honor to be a part of each client's personal journey of restoration and freedom.
(458) 235-4741 View (458) 235-4741
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Kasandra Kennedy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lexington, OR 97839
I believe in a holistic approach that includes the mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing of a person. In providing a client centered approach, this allows the individual the safety and confidence to build a trusting and collaborative therapeutic relationship with me. I believe this helps the individual to engage freely in treatment while setting their own goals and allowing additional growth to take place.
I believe in a holistic approach that includes the mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing of a person. In providing a client centered approach, this allows the individual the safety and confidence to build a trusting and collaborative therapeutic relationship with me. I believe this helps the individual to engage freely in treatment while setting their own goals and allowing additional growth to take place.
(541) 802-4161 View (541) 802-4161
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Ally Simone
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, T2066
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97219  (Online Only)
I work with adult individuals and relationships. Many of my clients are focused on healing from trauma, disrupting harmful patterns like people pleasing and codependency, and creating healthy relationships. I am committed to equity and inclusion, both personally and professionally and my goal is always that my clients feel seen and supported in all aspects of their identity. I am LGBTQIA+, and gender affirming, sex/kink positive and welcome all relationship configurations including CNM/Polyamory. I recognize and value all types of diversity including ethnicity, race, size, gender, sexual orientation, class, religion, and abilities.
I work with adult individuals and relationships. Many of my clients are focused on healing from trauma, disrupting harmful patterns like people pleasing and codependency, and creating healthy relationships. I am committed to equity and inclusion, both personally and professionally and my goal is always that my clients feel seen and supported in all aspects of their identity. I am LGBTQIA+, and gender affirming, sex/kink positive and welcome all relationship configurations including CNM/Polyamory. I recognize and value all types of diversity including ethnicity, race, size, gender, sexual orientation, class, religion, and abilities.
(503) 212-9970 View (503) 212-9970
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Melisa DeMeyer
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Bend, OR 97701
Waitlist for new clients
My passion is working with couples and families.
I work from a systems-based perspective, viewing individuals as relational beings who are situated within an interpersonal and political context. I strive to empower clients, couples, and families to define their own meaning of health and wellness, and will work with you to reach this optimum state of health. Please note, email is the best way to reach me!
My passion is working with couples and families.
I work from a systems-based perspective, viewing individuals as relational beings who are situated within an interpersonal and political context. I strive to empower clients, couples, and families to define their own meaning of health and wellness, and will work with you to reach this optimum state of health. Please note, email is the best way to reach me!
(458) 203-6817 View (458) 203-6817
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Suzann Robins
MA, CHT
Verified Verified
Coos Bay, OR 97420
Relationship issues arise from different aspects of our lives at home and at work. Are you a couple wanting to clarify your relationship? Or a single person longing for more connection? Do you work with difficult people or have trouble relating to those who think differently? The first step is increased self-knowledge. Disagreements may stem from loss of trust, unbalanced time commitments, or communication upsets. When personality dynamics are considered, we find resolution. Do you struggle with intimacy issues or sexual problems? We can work toward long term results using an effective mind/body/spiritual/emotional approach.
Relationship issues arise from different aspects of our lives at home and at work. Are you a couple wanting to clarify your relationship? Or a single person longing for more connection? Do you work with difficult people or have trouble relating to those who think differently? The first step is increased self-knowledge. Disagreements may stem from loss of trust, unbalanced time commitments, or communication upsets. When personality dynamics are considered, we find resolution. Do you struggle with intimacy issues or sexual problems? We can work toward long term results using an effective mind/body/spiritual/emotional approach.
(458) 217-8750 View (458) 217-8750
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Stark Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97232
I also apply Imago, a couples therapy method that is centered on improving listening and dialogue-based communication.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples whose challenges with interpersonal relationships are due to anxiety, depression, and/or past traumatic events. My clients with the best outcomes are willing to engage in deep dialogues, complete "homework" between sessions, and are comfortable with a "hands-on approach” in therapy. I am a good fit for people struggling with social anxiety, depression, religious trauma, life transitions, procrastination, or relationship issues. I enjoy working with LGBTQIA + community and can help people questioning gender identity and heteronormativity.
I also apply Imago, a couples therapy method that is centered on improving listening and dialogue-based communication.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples whose challenges with interpersonal relationships are due to anxiety, depression, and/or past traumatic events. My clients with the best outcomes are willing to engage in deep dialogues, complete "homework" between sessions, and are comfortable with a "hands-on approach” in therapy. I am a good fit for people struggling with social anxiety, depression, religious trauma, life transitions, procrastination, or relationship issues. I enjoy working with LGBTQIA + community and can help people questioning gender identity and heteronormativity.
(503) 461-8894 View (503) 461-8894
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Monica Provence
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97218  (Online Only)
I work with individuals, couples and families on topics including sexual and gender identity, coming out, non-traditional relationships and families, polyamory and negotiating open relationships, BDSM and D/s relationships.
I am honored to build an affirmative practice that brings in-depth, contemporary, relational psychotherapy to my community. I hope to build therapeutic relationships that encourage my clients to process and fully experience emotions, move through depression and anxiety, and re-frame negative thoughts and patterns with a deeper understanding of their origins. Together, we engage bravely (and playfully) with unexamined thoughts, feelings and experiences!
I work with individuals, couples and families on topics including sexual and gender identity, coming out, non-traditional relationships and families, polyamory and negotiating open relationships, BDSM and D/s relationships.
I am honored to build an affirmative practice that brings in-depth, contemporary, relational psychotherapy to my community. I hope to build therapeutic relationships that encourage my clients to process and fully experience emotions, move through depression and anxiety, and re-frame negative thoughts and patterns with a deeper understanding of their origins. Together, we engage bravely (and playfully) with unexamined thoughts, feelings and experiences!
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Nathan Olson
Clinical Social Work Associate, CSWA, CADCIII, QMHP, MSW, CBIP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eagle Point, OR 97524  (Online Only)
As a therapist informed by resilience and trauma, I support individuals, couples, and families coping with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and life transitions with a client-centered approach. I believe in our potential to be better versions of ourselves and strive towards our ideal self. Together, we'll develop a meaningful and effective treatment plan to help you address unresolved issues and achieve happiness. My aim is to help you live the life you desire by enabling your transformation and fulfillment. It is my honor to join other humans on their journey to achieve wellbeing and identify their ideal self.
As a therapist informed by resilience and trauma, I support individuals, couples, and families coping with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, and life transitions with a client-centered approach. I believe in our potential to be better versions of ourselves and strive towards our ideal self. Together, we'll develop a meaningful and effective treatment plan to help you address unresolved issues and achieve happiness. My aim is to help you live the life you desire by enabling your transformation and fulfillment. It is my honor to join other humans on their journey to achieve wellbeing and identify their ideal self.
(541) 325-8446 View (541) 325-8446
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Emily Radcliffe
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97205  (Online Only)
I work with individuals, couples and families, and I currently take clients ages 14 and up.
Difficulty communicating with or feeling heard by your partner, parent, or child? Encountering a major transition? Want to set firmer boundaries, develop more self compassion, learn to manage anxiety, or process trauma? I can provide insight, reflection, and a compassionate and supportive space to explore your inner landscape and begin healing. I believe the tools you need to grow and thrive are already within you. You deserve an authentic therapeutic experience so you can discover and refine those tools. I strive to tailor your experience by offering a wide range of healing tools that feel genuine and actionable.
I work with individuals, couples and families, and I currently take clients ages 14 and up.
Difficulty communicating with or feeling heard by your partner, parent, or child? Encountering a major transition? Want to set firmer boundaries, develop more self compassion, learn to manage anxiety, or process trauma? I can provide insight, reflection, and a compassionate and supportive space to explore your inner landscape and begin healing. I believe the tools you need to grow and thrive are already within you. You deserve an authentic therapeutic experience so you can discover and refine those tools. I strive to tailor your experience by offering a wide range of healing tools that feel genuine and actionable.
(971) 247-3623 View (971) 247-3623
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Kimberly Stout
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Oswego, OR 97035  (Online Only)
I specialize in: anything prenatal, postpartum depression, couples, family therapy, teens, ADD, trauma, financial emotional/verbal abuse, complicated divorces involving court appearances, manipulation, controlling ex spouse, parenting children, women reinventing themselves.
Now Accepting New Telehealth Clients. Let me ask you a question. If you were to wake up in the morning living the life you truly want: What would that look like? Who would be in it? What would you be doing? What if I told you that creating that life and living that life is not only possible but attainable? l am your helper in helping you navigate towards those goals with concentrating on what is working in your life with the strengths you already possess.
I specialize in: anything prenatal, postpartum depression, couples, family therapy, teens, ADD, trauma, financial emotional/verbal abuse, complicated divorces involving court appearances, manipulation, controlling ex spouse, parenting children, women reinventing themselves.
Now Accepting New Telehealth Clients. Let me ask you a question. If you were to wake up in the morning living the life you truly want: What would that look like? Who would be in it? What would you be doing? What if I told you that creating that life and living that life is not only possible but attainable? l am your helper in helping you navigate towards those goals with concentrating on what is working in your life with the strengths you already possess.
(971) 626-4566 View (971) 626-4566
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.