Infidelity Therapists in Philomath, OR

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Lori Kloss
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Philomath, OR 97370
Does a safe and equitable space to explore your authentic needs, gain clarity, and feel more empowered in your life and relationships feel important at this time? Are you seeking a helper who works collaboratively and respectfully with you to best understand the needs and parts of your authentic self, and who supports you towards making lasting and meaningful change?
Does a safe and equitable space to explore your authentic needs, gain clarity, and feel more empowered in your life and relationships feel important at this time? Are you seeking a helper who works collaboratively and respectfully with you to best understand the needs and parts of your authentic self, and who supports you towards making lasting and meaningful change?
(541) 248-2534 View (541) 248-2534
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Michael Boucher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Philomath, OR 97370
Not accepting new clients
Individual, Group, Family, and Couples Therapy provided for Adults and Adolescents. Clinical Supervision provided. I am accepting new clients for Group Therapy and Clinical Supervision only. Psychotherapy is a process and opportunity for everyone to grow. Developing a trusting and open relationship with your therapist is important. My experience and training allow me to provide in-depth assessments, understanding, and treatment. I offer the opportunity to explore oneself, while I help guide through the barriers that may keep one stuck in unhealthy or unwanted patterns.
Individual, Group, Family, and Couples Therapy provided for Adults and Adolescents. Clinical Supervision provided. I am accepting new clients for Group Therapy and Clinical Supervision only. Psychotherapy is a process and opportunity for everyone to grow. Developing a trusting and open relationship with your therapist is important. My experience and training allow me to provide in-depth assessments, understanding, and treatment. I offer the opportunity to explore oneself, while I help guide through the barriers that may keep one stuck in unhealthy or unwanted patterns.
(541) 897-7151 View (541) 897-7151
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Melissa Chamberlin
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Philomath, OR 97370
I AM Accepting NEW - CLIENTS. I use an Integrated Holistic Mind-Body Approach: Neurocounseling, Positive Psychology, Somatic Psychotherapy, Neurotherapy bio-feedback, CBT, etc. I work with clients to develop individualized treatment action plans to resolve difficulties, address challenges, & focus on achieving goals. I specialize in Anxiety / Stress / Trauma; Relationship Dynamics & Communication Skills; Life & Career Direction; Transition Management; Depression; Grief & Loss. I assist in gaining knowledge & answers, forming new behaviors, overcoming barriers, support healing & development, & in creating positive relationships.
I AM Accepting NEW - CLIENTS. I use an Integrated Holistic Mind-Body Approach: Neurocounseling, Positive Psychology, Somatic Psychotherapy, Neurotherapy bio-feedback, CBT, etc. I work with clients to develop individualized treatment action plans to resolve difficulties, address challenges, & focus on achieving goals. I specialize in Anxiety / Stress / Trauma; Relationship Dynamics & Communication Skills; Life & Career Direction; Transition Management; Depression; Grief & Loss. I assist in gaining knowledge & answers, forming new behaviors, overcoming barriers, support healing & development, & in creating positive relationships.
(541) 705-3175 View (541) 705-3175
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Sandra Garver
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Philomath, OR 97370
I believe that everyone is doing the best they can with their current knowledge, skills and perspectives. You can "Feel the Way You Want to Feel" following the Rational Living approach. I practice staying in the moment, strive to accept what presents itself and work toward solutions.
I believe that everyone is doing the best they can with their current knowledge, skills and perspectives. You can "Feel the Way You Want to Feel" following the Rational Living approach. I practice staying in the moment, strive to accept what presents itself and work toward solutions.
(541) 230-7931 View (541) 230-7931
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Laura M. Duncan
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Philomath, OR 97370
Not accepting new clients
Welcome! All of us come to a time in our lives where we want to talk to someone. In a safe place to process our thoughts and feelings, while using self-compassion and nonjudgment. To come to a deeper understanding of our behaviors, emotions, and ideas, or what the root may be. We then develop our sense of clarity and pleasures in life. We cooperatively define the direction of your counseling session and goals. We are all unique in our humanity, as our situations and experiences are all different yet the same. And at the beginning of each day, we can all conclude "I am enough".
Welcome! All of us come to a time in our lives where we want to talk to someone. In a safe place to process our thoughts and feelings, while using self-compassion and nonjudgment. To come to a deeper understanding of our behaviors, emotions, and ideas, or what the root may be. We then develop our sense of clarity and pleasures in life. We cooperatively define the direction of your counseling session and goals. We are all unique in our humanity, as our situations and experiences are all different yet the same. And at the beginning of each day, we can all conclude "I am enough".
(458) 213-4350 View (458) 213-4350

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Marena Hughes
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, QMHP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97330  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
My interests include helping couples and individuals work through infidelity, grief, medical problems, parenting challenges, and past trauma.
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families to co-create change. As a marriage and family therapist, I believe that problems are created and healed in relationships. Therefore, I strive to create a supportive space where connections can be explored and enhanced. I value counseling others with acceptance, authenticity, empathy, and good humor. I look forward to hearing your story and helping you take an active role in your own well-being!
My interests include helping couples and individuals work through infidelity, grief, medical problems, parenting challenges, and past trauma.
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families to co-create change. As a marriage and family therapist, I believe that problems are created and healed in relationships. Therefore, I strive to create a supportive space where connections can be explored and enhanced. I value counseling others with acceptance, authenticity, empathy, and good humor. I look forward to hearing your story and helping you take an active role in your own well-being!
(541) 329-1154 View (541) 329-1154
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Sherry Doggett
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97330
Not accepting new clients
Life is both beautiful and broken at times. You deserve to live full, free, and whole. So often we unintentionally get stuck in patterns we do not understand that affect our view of who we are and our relationships with the people we love the most. I believe we are wired for connection--both broken and restored in the context of relationships. Together we will work toward a healing story with new directions. I have special interests and experience in couples therapy, military family life, betrayal trauma, anxiety, grief, and spiritual hurts and questions.
Life is both beautiful and broken at times. You deserve to live full, free, and whole. So often we unintentionally get stuck in patterns we do not understand that affect our view of who we are and our relationships with the people we love the most. I believe we are wired for connection--both broken and restored in the context of relationships. Together we will work toward a healing story with new directions. I have special interests and experience in couples therapy, military family life, betrayal trauma, anxiety, grief, and spiritual hurts and questions.
(541) 283-0522 View (541) 283-0522
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, MFA
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97330
Couples who begin to work with me are often arguing over trivial matters, wondering why gridlock is happening now when it never used to. The same issues keep coming up, and processing it only leaves you feeling exhausted and isolated. Nothing changes and the conflict involves pointing fingers, bringing up past wrongs, and tearing each other down. Money-related fights may add strain, perhaps alongside issues involving alcohol, pornography, or betrayal. Intimacy is lacking, leaving you both feeling unloved. What if you had the tools to fix your relationship? A playbook for the hard times but also to have way more good times?
Couples who begin to work with me are often arguing over trivial matters, wondering why gridlock is happening now when it never used to. The same issues keep coming up, and processing it only leaves you feeling exhausted and isolated. Nothing changes and the conflict involves pointing fingers, bringing up past wrongs, and tearing each other down. Money-related fights may add strain, perhaps alongside issues involving alcohol, pornography, or betrayal. Intimacy is lacking, leaving you both feeling unloved. What if you had the tools to fix your relationship? A playbook for the hard times but also to have way more good times?
(541) 725-6709 View (541) 725-6709
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Julia Perretta
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97331  (Online Only)
I specialize in providing emotion focused therapy for couples who are interested in working on issues related to communication, trust, infidelity, connection, and intimacy. I also work with individuals who are looking to heal their relationship with food, body image, stress, anxiety, substance use, depression, and manage responses to complex trauma. I welcome folx of all types, including LGBTQI and poly/ENM identifying individuals and couples. People who work with me enjoy integrating mindfulness and humor into the therapeutic tableau.
I specialize in providing emotion focused therapy for couples who are interested in working on issues related to communication, trust, infidelity, connection, and intimacy. I also work with individuals who are looking to heal their relationship with food, body image, stress, anxiety, substance use, depression, and manage responses to complex trauma. I welcome folx of all types, including LGBTQI and poly/ENM identifying individuals and couples. People who work with me enjoy integrating mindfulness and humor into the therapeutic tableau.
(503) 213-6255 View (503) 213-6255
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Kay Brown
Professional Counselor Associate, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97331
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy working with couples to improve communication, increase trust, make decisions about their relationship, address infidelity, or forge a deeper connection.
I provide mental health therapy for individuals (18+) and couples who reside in Oregon. I offer a warm, supportive therapeutic relationship where we work together to address your hopes and fears. Through individual therapy, I will work with you to explore issues in your life that are limiting your ability to experience joy or reach your goals while guiding you towards recognizing and reconnecting with your whole self. Together, we can address what is going on in your life and your relationships so that you can find more peace, connectivity, and satisfaction.
I enjoy working with couples to improve communication, increase trust, make decisions about their relationship, address infidelity, or forge a deeper connection.
I provide mental health therapy for individuals (18+) and couples who reside in Oregon. I offer a warm, supportive therapeutic relationship where we work together to address your hopes and fears. Through individual therapy, I will work with you to explore issues in your life that are limiting your ability to experience joy or reach your goals while guiding you towards recognizing and reconnecting with your whole self. Together, we can address what is going on in your life and your relationships so that you can find more peace, connectivity, and satisfaction.
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Oregon Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97330
Oregon Counseling of Corvallis provides individual, couples and family counseling. Our Willamette Valley based group of dedicated, licensed professional counselors and therapists has treated thousands of clients with issues ranging from anxiety and depression, to relationship, sexuality and trauma.
Oregon Counseling of Corvallis provides individual, couples and family counseling. Our Willamette Valley based group of dedicated, licensed professional counselors and therapists has treated thousands of clients with issues ranging from anxiety and depression, to relationship, sexuality and trauma.
(458) 209-2729 View (458) 209-2729
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Sarah Wheeler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97331
Hi there, if you've been feeling stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges, I'm here to help. My ideal clients are those navigating big life transitions, experiencing relationship challenges, grieving a loss, or struggling with symptoms of anxiety or depression. They want to find a safe space where they can feel heard, understood, and supported on their journey towards healing and growth. My approach is tailored to each client's unique needs, with empathy, compassion, and practical strategies to help them feel better.
Hi there, if you've been feeling stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges, I'm here to help. My ideal clients are those navigating big life transitions, experiencing relationship challenges, grieving a loss, or struggling with symptoms of anxiety or depression. They want to find a safe space where they can feel heard, understood, and supported on their journey towards healing and growth. My approach is tailored to each client's unique needs, with empathy, compassion, and practical strategies to help them feel better.
(503) 483-6927 View (503) 483-6927
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Adrian C Mcbroom
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97330
I believe our capacity to connect, both with ourselves and with those we love is vital to our happiness. When we are in a state of disconnection, we can feel anxious, isolated, empty, and depressed. I get this, and feel its my job to provide a safe place where you can trust, feel respected and cared for, in the process of therapy. I understand its difficult to feel worried, discouraged, and overwhelmed by everyday challenges. We all have suffered in silence, waiting for things to get better, because seeking help may seem too scary....I want to help.
I believe our capacity to connect, both with ourselves and with those we love is vital to our happiness. When we are in a state of disconnection, we can feel anxious, isolated, empty, and depressed. I get this, and feel its my job to provide a safe place where you can trust, feel respected and cared for, in the process of therapy. I understand its difficult to feel worried, discouraged, and overwhelmed by everyday challenges. We all have suffered in silence, waiting for things to get better, because seeking help may seem too scary....I want to help.
(541) 360-8746 View (541) 360-8746
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Elise Miller
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MA, NCC, NTP
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97333  (Online Only)
If you've ever felt like you're living in survival mode, I hear you. In our work together, we'll explore the experiences and patterns that keep you stuck to better understand how these experiences have impacted your ability to feel safe, both out in the world and within your own body. I'll encourage you to embrace this exploration with a sense of gentleness and curiosity, remembering not to place judgment on yourself throughout your healing journey. I view therapy as a space for deep connection and full emotional expression, all the way from tears to laughter.
If you've ever felt like you're living in survival mode, I hear you. In our work together, we'll explore the experiences and patterns that keep you stuck to better understand how these experiences have impacted your ability to feel safe, both out in the world and within your own body. I'll encourage you to embrace this exploration with a sense of gentleness and curiosity, remembering not to place judgment on yourself throughout your healing journey. I view therapy as a space for deep connection and full emotional expression, all the way from tears to laughter.
(458) 232-3464 View (458) 232-3464
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Stefan Pasymowski
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97331
I believe that all behavior makes sense when we fully appreciate the context in which it occurs. Often we find that our patterns of behavior have their origins in previous life experiences and relationships. As a relationally and systemically trained therapist, my aim is to assist you in better understanding how various factors can affect how you think and feel, and how you respond to challenging situations in your life. My hope is that through our work you feel greater alignment with your values and what is most important to you.
I believe that all behavior makes sense when we fully appreciate the context in which it occurs. Often we find that our patterns of behavior have their origins in previous life experiences and relationships. As a relationally and systemically trained therapist, my aim is to assist you in better understanding how various factors can affect how you think and feel, and how you respond to challenging situations in your life. My hope is that through our work you feel greater alignment with your values and what is most important to you.
(458) 207-5613 View (458) 207-5613
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Age Wise, LLC
Psychologist, PsyD, LP
Verified Verified
Corvallis, OR 97333
Welcome to support for the second half of life! If you are dealing with changing health, self-reinvention, or aging, you have found a therapeutic home. Meeting is convenient: You can see me at the Sage Center, at an Assisted Living or Skilled Nursing facility, or work by video or phone - I have provided telehealth since 2005. You can expect compassion based on 40-years experience including career and retirement counseling, LGBTQ advocacy and counseling, inpatient gero-psych, work at care facilities and work with first nations people in 3 countries will allow us to get to the issues quickly and with deep understanding.
Welcome to support for the second half of life! If you are dealing with changing health, self-reinvention, or aging, you have found a therapeutic home. Meeting is convenient: You can see me at the Sage Center, at an Assisted Living or Skilled Nursing facility, or work by video or phone - I have provided telehealth since 2005. You can expect compassion based on 40-years experience including career and retirement counseling, LGBTQ advocacy and counseling, inpatient gero-psych, work at care facilities and work with first nations people in 3 countries will allow us to get to the issues quickly and with deep understanding.
(971) 248-9563 View (971) 248-9563
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M. Declan McCarron
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97330
I believe everyone deserves to be content/happy in life and in their relationships. At times, this can be challenging and people tend to get "stuck." Asking for help can be hard, but so rewarding when you take the risk to change and build awareness. With professional skills, loads of compassion, and a collaborative effort I can definitely help adults, teenagers, and families in figuring out how to get "unstuck" and enjoy their lives to the fullest. I have extensive experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, and PTSD. I particularly like working with clients, helping them free themselves from the trauma of the past.
I believe everyone deserves to be content/happy in life and in their relationships. At times, this can be challenging and people tend to get "stuck." Asking for help can be hard, but so rewarding when you take the risk to change and build awareness. With professional skills, loads of compassion, and a collaborative effort I can definitely help adults, teenagers, and families in figuring out how to get "unstuck" and enjoy their lives to the fullest. I have extensive experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, and PTSD. I particularly like working with clients, helping them free themselves from the trauma of the past.
(503) 743-6246 View (503) 743-6246
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Wholehearted Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97330  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Not accepting new clients. Hello! I'm Karen Haag, and Wholehearted Counseling is my completely virtual private practice. I specialize in working with women with trauma, particularly childhood abuse, sexual abuse, incest, and emotional abuse. Together, we explore the impact of past experiences on the brain, body, and mind. We work to identify the negative self-scripts and worldviews that are the result of trauma, and to replace these with more realistic, adaptive, and compassionate internal and external responses. My style of therapy is warm and down to earth, and my primary goal is to create a genuine human-to-human relationship.
Not accepting new clients. Hello! I'm Karen Haag, and Wholehearted Counseling is my completely virtual private practice. I specialize in working with women with trauma, particularly childhood abuse, sexual abuse, incest, and emotional abuse. Together, we explore the impact of past experiences on the brain, body, and mind. We work to identify the negative self-scripts and worldviews that are the result of trauma, and to replace these with more realistic, adaptive, and compassionate internal and external responses. My style of therapy is warm and down to earth, and my primary goal is to create a genuine human-to-human relationship.
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Sam H.W. Sappington, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97333
Over the years I see that I am very well-suited to work with clients who are experiencing a major life transition. These include changes in relationship status, employment, health, sexual/ gender identity, as well as retirement/aging concerns. While transitions can bring new opportunities, such changes also come with an array of losses, endings and goodbyes. Transitions can generate challenging symptoms, including a sense of grieving, starting over and/or confronting the unknown. Life can lead one to a place where it pushes you to explore your personality and life choices, and make new sense of your life experiences.
Over the years I see that I am very well-suited to work with clients who are experiencing a major life transition. These include changes in relationship status, employment, health, sexual/ gender identity, as well as retirement/aging concerns. While transitions can bring new opportunities, such changes also come with an array of losses, endings and goodbyes. Transitions can generate challenging symptoms, including a sense of grieving, starting over and/or confronting the unknown. Life can lead one to a place where it pushes you to explore your personality and life choices, and make new sense of your life experiences.
(541) 507-0203 View (541) 507-0203
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Annmarie O'Daniel
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Corvallis, OR 97333
I am a licensed professional counselor working with young adults, adults, couples, and families. I do my best work with clients seeking couples counseling, family counseling, parenting support, counseling for life transitions (divorce, loss, birth/adoption, postpartum, and relocation), and college student counseling. My goal is to meet you and your family where you are at. You are the expert on you and your family's needs.
I am a licensed professional counselor working with young adults, adults, couples, and families. I do my best work with clients seeking couples counseling, family counseling, parenting support, counseling for life transitions (divorce, loss, birth/adoption, postpartum, and relocation), and college student counseling. My goal is to meet you and your family where you are at. You are the expert on you and your family's needs.
(541) 329-1422 View (541) 329-1422

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.