Relationship Issues Therapists in Upper Arlington, OH

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Kristina L. Edler, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Waitlist for new clients
With over 10 years of experience, I am able to address issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Grief, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder, ADD/ADHD, Substance Abuse, and Relationship Difficulties using CBT, DBT, EMDR, Motivational Interviewing, and a Solution Focused Strengths-Based approach.
Welcome adults, teens, LGBTQ, couples, and families who are in need of a therapist with a sense of humor, engaging personality, perceptive mind, and caring attitude. As a client, you will experience a safe, non-judgmental place in which to process and explore feelings related to mood disorders, relationship issues, ADHD, grief, anxiety, substance abuse, and trauma. It is my goal to provide my clients with the tools necessary to take charge of their own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in order to reduce stress and enjoy life.
With over 10 years of experience, I am able to address issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Grief, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder, ADD/ADHD, Substance Abuse, and Relationship Difficulties using CBT, DBT, EMDR, Motivational Interviewing, and a Solution Focused Strengths-Based approach.
Welcome adults, teens, LGBTQ, couples, and families who are in need of a therapist with a sense of humor, engaging personality, perceptive mind, and caring attitude. As a client, you will experience a safe, non-judgmental place in which to process and explore feelings related to mood disorders, relationship issues, ADHD, grief, anxiety, substance abuse, and trauma. It is my goal to provide my clients with the tools necessary to take charge of their own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in order to reduce stress and enjoy life.
(380) 205-2516 View (380) 205-2516
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Maggie Reinmann
Counselor, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
My clinical specializations include depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, self-love, trauma, and women's issues.
I believe that every client has the tools required to make helpful and meaningful change in their lives. As a therapist, I view myself as a guide and appreciate that you are an expert about all things related to your life and your experiences. We will collaboratively make achievable goals to see change bloom. We will work together to challenge unhelpful, difficult thought patterns that we all have experienced.
My clinical specializations include depression, anxiety, relationship concerns, self-love, trauma, and women's issues.
I believe that every client has the tools required to make helpful and meaningful change in their lives. As a therapist, I view myself as a guide and appreciate that you are an expert about all things related to your life and your experiences. We will collaboratively make achievable goals to see change bloom. We will work together to challenge unhelpful, difficult thought patterns that we all have experienced.
(614) 482-2658 View (614) 482-2658
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Jazmine Galbreath
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Together we can build a positive therapeutic relationship to help you meet your personal goals.
As a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I am passionate about helping guide individuals on their journey towards transformative change. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space to share your concerns, struggles, and aspirations to facilitate personal growth. I utilize several evidence-based practices including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Motivation Interviewing (MI), and Person-Centered Therapy to tailor therapy based on the individual. My areas of focus are depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and relationship concerns. If you are viewing this page, you ha
Together we can build a positive therapeutic relationship to help you meet your personal goals.
As a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I am passionate about helping guide individuals on their journey towards transformative change. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space to share your concerns, struggles, and aspirations to facilitate personal growth. I utilize several evidence-based practices including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Motivation Interviewing (MI), and Person-Centered Therapy to tailor therapy based on the individual. My areas of focus are depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and relationship concerns. If you are viewing this page, you ha
(614) 739-8683 View (614) 739-8683
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Jana Bergfeld LISW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, or in a difficult relationship, therapy can help create more balance and renewed connection with others. Trained in Marriage and Family Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I use evidenced based practices to work with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, and life transitions, as well as, couples and family therapy. My philosophy about therapy is that everyone needs to experience safety, confidentiality and feel understood in order to make necessary changes that can lead to more fulfilling life choices.
Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, or in a difficult relationship, therapy can help create more balance and renewed connection with others. Trained in Marriage and Family Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I use evidenced based practices to work with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, and life transitions, as well as, couples and family therapy. My philosophy about therapy is that everyone needs to experience safety, confidentiality and feel understood in order to make necessary changes that can lead to more fulfilling life choices.
(614) 705-2798 View (614) 705-2798
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Amber L Ault
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, LISW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
I specialize in working w/ individuals & couples struggling w/ toxic relationship patterns often driven by personality disorders such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
You're here because you're somewhere between "deeply worried" & "frantic" over a difficult relationship. You feel frustrated, confused, hurt, angry, & maybe a little crazy. The other person may be a partner, parent, sibling, or adult child - someone w/whom you feel you want to have a relationship, but whose criticisms, controlling behaviors. volatility, manipulations, or demands steal your joy. They may also cost you a lot of time, money, energy, social support, & creativity. You wonder if you're dealing w Narcissistic Abuse. They refuse to change. You believe staying stuck where you are may destroy you, and you may be right.
I specialize in working w/ individuals & couples struggling w/ toxic relationship patterns often driven by personality disorders such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
You're here because you're somewhere between "deeply worried" & "frantic" over a difficult relationship. You feel frustrated, confused, hurt, angry, & maybe a little crazy. The other person may be a partner, parent, sibling, or adult child - someone w/whom you feel you want to have a relationship, but whose criticisms, controlling behaviors. volatility, manipulations, or demands steal your joy. They may also cost you a lot of time, money, energy, social support, & creativity. You wonder if you're dealing w Narcissistic Abuse. They refuse to change. You believe staying stuck where you are may destroy you, and you may be right.
(608) 557-3341 View (608) 557-3341
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Gretchen S Buckles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
I have training in Gestalt therapy, Mediation, Imago relationship therapy, and Gottman Method (level I).
For over 20 years, I have tried to create a warm, compassionate and non-judgmental atmosphere in which to address mood disorders, couples' issues, self-esteem, and work and life stress issues. I use a problem solving approach that focuses on strengths.
I have training in Gestalt therapy, Mediation, Imago relationship therapy, and Gottman Method (level I).
For over 20 years, I have tried to create a warm, compassionate and non-judgmental atmosphere in which to address mood disorders, couples' issues, self-esteem, and work and life stress issues. I use a problem solving approach that focuses on strengths.
(614) 664-6013 View (614) 664-6013
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Kathy Ortiz, LISW-S
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-S, MSW
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43220
I work with individuals, couples and families who are dealing with emotional or relationship issues.
I have 43 years of experience, in both mental health counseling and administrative work. My current practice is focused on assisting adults (ages 19-85) who are struggling with life issues, emotional stress, depression, anxiety and other challenges. The approaches I use are person-centered and motivational, with a focus on achieving the goals of the individual, family or couple. Assisting with skill building and/or identifying new tools can make the difference toward individual happiness and better life contentment.
I work with individuals, couples and families who are dealing with emotional or relationship issues.
I have 43 years of experience, in both mental health counseling and administrative work. My current practice is focused on assisting adults (ages 19-85) who are struggling with life issues, emotional stress, depression, anxiety and other challenges. The approaches I use are person-centered and motivational, with a focus on achieving the goals of the individual, family or couple. Assisting with skill building and/or identifying new tools can make the difference toward individual happiness and better life contentment.
(614) 383-9926 View (614) 383-9926
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Craig M. Noreen
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43220
Whether you're experiencing a difficult life event, dealing with a long-standing issue, struggling in a relationship, needing to make a tough decision, or just wanting to improve life, I'm here to help.
I know the decision to pursue counseling can be a difficult one. I applaud you for choosing to move forward. By doing so, you've taken the first step to making things better. Now comes the challenging task of finding the right therapist; someone who will be empathetic, insightful, and actively engaged in helping you reach your goals for therapy.
Whether you're experiencing a difficult life event, dealing with a long-standing issue, struggling in a relationship, needing to make a tough decision, or just wanting to improve life, I'm here to help.
I know the decision to pursue counseling can be a difficult one. I applaud you for choosing to move forward. By doing so, you've taken the first step to making things better. Now comes the challenging task of finding the right therapist; someone who will be empathetic, insightful, and actively engaged in helping you reach your goals for therapy.
(614) 914-2031 View (614) 914-2031
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Heidi Sommer McAlister
Counselor, MSEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION * GIFTED CHILDREN & ADULTS * EATING DISORDERS * GRIEF & LOSS * RELATIONSHIP CONFLICT * NARCISSISM IN FAMILY SYSTEM * FERTILITY CONCERNS * TRANSITION & ADJUSTMENT * Heidi Sommer McAlister believes in finding, developing, and utilizing the unique, inherent, and valuable qualities in each of us. The Sommer Group's philosophical stance is that we hold within ourselves the capacity for change and growth. Sometimes events occur in our lives that leave such a significant impact on us that we become confused and unsure about ourselves, our relationships, and the direction we want our lives to go in. Professional help can be critical during this time.
POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION * GIFTED CHILDREN & ADULTS * EATING DISORDERS * GRIEF & LOSS * RELATIONSHIP CONFLICT * NARCISSISM IN FAMILY SYSTEM * FERTILITY CONCERNS * TRANSITION & ADJUSTMENT * Heidi Sommer McAlister believes in finding, developing, and utilizing the unique, inherent, and valuable qualities in each of us. The Sommer Group's philosophical stance is that we hold within ourselves the capacity for change and growth. Sometimes events occur in our lives that leave such a significant impact on us that we become confused and unsure about ourselves, our relationships, and the direction we want our lives to go in. Professional help can be critical during this time.
(614) 985-5500 View (614) 985-5500
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Deborah Susan Green-Lauber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-S
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
I have been a psychotherapist for over 25 years, helping people survive and thrive during life's transitions. If you are experiencing stress in your relationship, a change in your work situation, loss, parenting struggles, difficulty making decisions, or other stressful situations, I can help you through this difficult time. Now offering Teletherapy sessions as well as in-person sessions.
I have been a psychotherapist for over 25 years, helping people survive and thrive during life's transitions. If you are experiencing stress in your relationship, a change in your work situation, loss, parenting struggles, difficulty making decisions, or other stressful situations, I can help you through this difficult time. Now offering Teletherapy sessions as well as in-person sessions.
(614) 914-4802 View (614) 914-4802
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Holly Mundon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW , LISW-S, CCTP , CDCA
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43212
Are you having struggles in your job or  relationship? Have you been diagnosed with a mental illness and need coping skills as you learn to manage all that it entails? Do you need education, support, and encouragement? I work with grief/loss, trauma, Depression, Anxiety, coping skills & boundaries, relationship and job stressors, life transitions, and general support. I am passionate about helping those who are 'helping professions' and work with health professionals and first responders dealing with secondary trauma. We will work together to set goals for taking the next steps to feel better.
Are you having struggles in your job or  relationship? Have you been diagnosed with a mental illness and need coping skills as you learn to manage all that it entails? Do you need education, support, and encouragement? I work with grief/loss, trauma, Depression, Anxiety, coping skills & boundaries, relationship and job stressors, life transitions, and general support. I am passionate about helping those who are 'helping professions' and work with health professionals and first responders dealing with secondary trauma. We will work together to set goals for taking the next steps to feel better.
(614) 665-1728 View (614) 665-1728
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Jessica L Leser
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43212
I hold passion in building a strong therapeutic relationship while providing a safe and judgement free space.
I believe in the art of slowing down, working together to mend dysregulation, and guiding my clients on the journey home to themselves. With orientations in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, mindfulness, and compassion techniques – I aim to take incremental steps toward transformation by identifying and building off of established strengths, while discovering more depth. My method to therapy is holistic healing that encompasses a multilayer look at an individual’s physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being.
I hold passion in building a strong therapeutic relationship while providing a safe and judgement free space.
I believe in the art of slowing down, working together to mend dysregulation, and guiding my clients on the journey home to themselves. With orientations in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, mindfulness, and compassion techniques – I aim to take incremental steps toward transformation by identifying and building off of established strengths, while discovering more depth. My method to therapy is holistic healing that encompasses a multilayer look at an individual’s physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being.
(614) 654-5710 View (614) 654-5710
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Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couples Workshops/Seminars
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43220
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(234) 278-2351 View (234) 278-2351
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Megan Beebe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW, MSW
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
I am a Licensed Independent Social Worker who specializes in individual counseling for children, adolescents, and young adults. I help individuals manage anxiety, depression, anger, behavioral issues, disorders related to trauma, relationship issues, major life adjustments/ transitions, and other personal issues. I have a bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Miami University and a master’s degree in Social Work from Louisiana State University.
I am a Licensed Independent Social Worker who specializes in individual counseling for children, adolescents, and young adults. I help individuals manage anxiety, depression, anger, behavioral issues, disorders related to trauma, relationship issues, major life adjustments/ transitions, and other personal issues. I have a bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Miami University and a master’s degree in Social Work from Louisiana State University.
(740) 982-9023 View (740) 982-9023
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Janie Hernandez
Counselor, MEd, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43220
I have a passion for supporting college student, individuals struggling with life transitions, career changes, relationship issues (including abuse and gaslighting), and navigating the difficulties of parenthood.
Are you feeling more overwhelmed, on edge, or more irritable than usual? Are you feeling overwhelmed by household chores and responsibilities? Are you struggling to adjust to a transition, or feeling unfulfilled or unappreciated and looking to make a change? I am here to offer a safe, non-judgmental space and to provide support. Taking the leap to start therapy for the first time, or finding a new provider, can be such a difficult and anxiety inducing process and I strive to make it as comfortable and stress free as possible.
I have a passion for supporting college student, individuals struggling with life transitions, career changes, relationship issues (including abuse and gaslighting), and navigating the difficulties of parenthood.
Are you feeling more overwhelmed, on edge, or more irritable than usual? Are you feeling overwhelmed by household chores and responsibilities? Are you struggling to adjust to a transition, or feeling unfulfilled or unappreciated and looking to make a change? I am here to offer a safe, non-judgmental space and to provide support. Taking the leap to start therapy for the first time, or finding a new provider, can be such a difficult and anxiety inducing process and I strive to make it as comfortable and stress free as possible.
(380) 208-0763 View (380) 208-0763
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Aaron L Engel
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43220
You feel like your romantic relationship lacks direction. You start arguing over small things, but the arguments perhaps persist because you both focus on winning instead of solving the problem. You have stressful careers, but meeting career and home demands seem impossible. You want the best for your kids, but are you pushing them too hard or not hard enough? Perhaps you are both used to getting your way at work, but at home, there is a need for compromise. Maybe the spark that was once there has left, at least most of the time. You want to have what you once had, but are not sure how. You love your partner but aren't "in love."
You feel like your romantic relationship lacks direction. You start arguing over small things, but the arguments perhaps persist because you both focus on winning instead of solving the problem. You have stressful careers, but meeting career and home demands seem impossible. You want the best for your kids, but are you pushing them too hard or not hard enough? Perhaps you are both used to getting your way at work, but at home, there is a need for compromise. Maybe the spark that was once there has left, at least most of the time. You want to have what you once had, but are not sure how. You love your partner but aren't "in love."
(380) 204-9208 View (380) 204-9208
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Amanda Winck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
My areas of focus include women’s issues, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, and college students/emerging young adults.
Welcome! I am a licensed independent social worker with a passion for helping women in all stages of life. I believe that every person is the expert of their own life and has the ability to both accept and change what will give them a life worth living, and I strive to help each individual see their unique strengths.
My areas of focus include women’s issues, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, and college students/emerging young adults.
Welcome! I am a licensed independent social worker with a passion for helping women in all stages of life. I believe that every person is the expert of their own life and has the ability to both accept and change what will give them a life worth living, and I strive to help each individual see their unique strengths.
(614) 414-3638 View (614) 414-3638
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Margaret L. Sullivan
, MA,, MS ed,, LSW
Verified Verified
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Be assured that our relationship will be a collaboration of mutual respect.
When you're with me, trust that it will be a HIPAA compliant, safe and secure experience, with optional, scheduled office appointments upon request. Who is a typical client and what brings him or her to seek help? You are an individual who may have a busy schedule, a family, or perhaps a physical or psychological mobility issue. You are someone who may have no previous exposure to therapy, counseling or consultation services, or someone who is a seasoned traveler. Whatever the reason, your comprehensive needs are my professional priority.
Be assured that our relationship will be a collaboration of mutual respect.
When you're with me, trust that it will be a HIPAA compliant, safe and secure experience, with optional, scheduled office appointments upon request. Who is a typical client and what brings him or her to seek help? You are an individual who may have a busy schedule, a family, or perhaps a physical or psychological mobility issue. You are someone who may have no previous exposure to therapy, counseling or consultation services, or someone who is a seasoned traveler. Whatever the reason, your comprehensive needs are my professional priority.
(380) 207-1102 View (380) 207-1102
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Stephanie Jefferson
Counselor, MEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Have you recently lost a loved one? Moved away from family or lost a job? Graduated and felt unsure what to do next? Did a relationship end that left you feeling heartbroken? Have you lost motivation to get tasks done and spend time with friends? I can help you process your loss, learn coping skills, understand why you feel the way you feel, and most importantly, adjust to your new normal.
Have you recently lost a loved one? Moved away from family or lost a job? Graduated and felt unsure what to do next? Did a relationship end that left you feeling heartbroken? Have you lost motivation to get tasks done and spend time with friends? I can help you process your loss, learn coping skills, understand why you feel the way you feel, and most importantly, adjust to your new normal.
(614) 666-6822 View (614) 666-6822
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Reclaim Your Path LLC
LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Upper Arlington, OH 43221
Waitlist for new clients
Perhaps your life seems to check all the boxes from an outside perspective. But inside you feel stuck, struggling to experience the life you want. Maybe you’re reconciling with traumas from your past, coping with the chronic stress of work or school, or dealing with relationship issues, anxiety, or depression. Life may have thrown you an unexpected detour or significant loss, finding yourself at a crossroads in your career or at the end of a significant relationship. Or, things might be going well, but you know you have the potential for more. If any of this resonates, I can work with you to explore, define, and reclaim your path.
Perhaps your life seems to check all the boxes from an outside perspective. But inside you feel stuck, struggling to experience the life you want. Maybe you’re reconciling with traumas from your past, coping with the chronic stress of work or school, or dealing with relationship issues, anxiety, or depression. Life may have thrown you an unexpected detour or significant loss, finding yourself at a crossroads in your career or at the end of a significant relationship. Or, things might be going well, but you know you have the potential for more. If any of this resonates, I can work with you to explore, define, and reclaim your path.
(380) 207-1261 View (380) 207-1261
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.