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Laura Maneates
LMHC, MFT, CASAC-T, ABD
Verified Verified
Oneonta, NY 13820
Everyone is faced with challenges throughout life. Whether it be a challenging relationship, life transition, trauma, loss of: dream, loved one or unnamed void, loneliness, fear, negative thought pattens... The key to overcoming them is change. The first step to change is to realize everyone needs help with life's challenges. Asking for help will be the most important step you take in your healing journey of revisioning your life. I would be happy to work with you to help you uncover your true potential, to live the life you want to celebrate ! And to witness your discovery of your happier self, your genuine self, your Best Self!
Everyone is faced with challenges throughout life. Whether it be a challenging relationship, life transition, trauma, loss of: dream, loved one or unnamed void, loneliness, fear, negative thought pattens... The key to overcoming them is change. The first step to change is to realize everyone needs help with life's challenges. Asking for help will be the most important step you take in your healing journey of revisioning your life. I would be happy to work with you to help you uncover your true potential, to live the life you want to celebrate ! And to witness your discovery of your happier self, your genuine self, your Best Self!
(607) 388-4844 View (607) 388-4844
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Shannon McHugh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oneonta, NY 13820  (Online Only)
Maybe you've been feeling like it's been harder to keep things together at times, or you have goals/decisions you'd like to reach but a little something keeps pulling at you. Are you experiencing the "wonderment" they call life? Everyone experiences these spaces as a symptom of simply being human. We are multifaceted which gives us greater meaning and pushes us towards growth, though sometimes we can benefit from a respectful, trustworthy, judgment-free space that is tailored to your individual needs exactly where you are in your journey.
Maybe you've been feeling like it's been harder to keep things together at times, or you have goals/decisions you'd like to reach but a little something keeps pulling at you. Are you experiencing the "wonderment" they call life? Everyone experiences these spaces as a symptom of simply being human. We are multifaceted which gives us greater meaning and pushes us towards growth, though sometimes we can benefit from a respectful, trustworthy, judgment-free space that is tailored to your individual needs exactly where you are in your journey.
(607) 208-7983 View (607) 208-7983
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Daphne Haddock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oneonta, NY 13820
Let’s find out why you may be repeating old behavioral patterns, help you resolve challenges, and find new ways of doing things. Working through obstacles together, we will work in a psychodynamic and interpersonal framework. I am a great listener and deeply care about our work, you, and the process. Through a relationship that feels collaborative, in a safe and healthy holding environment we will explore what you are experiencing and work towards achieving your goals. I have additional training in holistic nutrition, yoga and meditation, which brings an understanding of the Mind Body connection to the therapeutic process.
Let’s find out why you may be repeating old behavioral patterns, help you resolve challenges, and find new ways of doing things. Working through obstacles together, we will work in a psychodynamic and interpersonal framework. I am a great listener and deeply care about our work, you, and the process. Through a relationship that feels collaborative, in a safe and healthy holding environment we will explore what you are experiencing and work towards achieving your goals. I have additional training in holistic nutrition, yoga and meditation, which brings an understanding of the Mind Body connection to the therapeutic process.
(646) 907-6370 View (646) 907-6370
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Bernadette Winters Bell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oneonta, NY 13820
Everyone suffers many losses in their lifetime. Grief is our reaction to loss based on what we have learned from childhood, what we have experienced as adults, and how we have chosen to respond. We then struggle to determine how to evolve and change. The grieving process does not follow a prescribed path. There are many commonalities to the grieving process, yet the journey is unique to the individual. Loss is typically defined as a death, but may take many forms: a relationship, a job, a pet. I specialize in many types of Grief and Transitions including Anticipatory. Absent, Complicated, Disenfranchised, Chronic, Delayed and Inhibited.
Everyone suffers many losses in their lifetime. Grief is our reaction to loss based on what we have learned from childhood, what we have experienced as adults, and how we have chosen to respond. We then struggle to determine how to evolve and change. The grieving process does not follow a prescribed path. There are many commonalities to the grieving process, yet the journey is unique to the individual. Loss is typically defined as a death, but may take many forms: a relationship, a job, a pet. I specialize in many types of Grief and Transitions including Anticipatory. Absent, Complicated, Disenfranchised, Chronic, Delayed and Inhibited.
(607) 327-4134 View (607) 327-4134
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Paige Stone
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oneonta, NY 13820
Life transitions can be challenging. Together we will navigate your life's challenges and find their path to healing and growth. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, develop coping skills, and ultimately, thrive. Whether you’re facing a significant life change or seeking support for emotional well-being, I’m here to be a sounding board as you go through your life experiences.
Life transitions can be challenging. Together we will navigate your life's challenges and find their path to healing and growth. My goal is to create a safe and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, develop coping skills, and ultimately, thrive. Whether you’re facing a significant life change or seeking support for emotional well-being, I’m here to be a sounding board as you go through your life experiences.
(607) 325-8537 View (607) 325-8537
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Jeanette Tolson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Oneonta, NY 13820
Waitlist for new clients
At this time, my practice has a waitlist and it is approximately a 6 week wait for a new client appointment. I specialize in working with sex and relationship difficulties and treat individuals and couples. I help people understand the relationship patterns they've developed and how they continue to play out, even though they aren't helpful anymore.
At this time, my practice has a waitlist and it is approximately a 6 week wait for a new client appointment. I specialize in working with sex and relationship difficulties and treat individuals and couples. I help people understand the relationship patterns they've developed and how they continue to play out, even though they aren't helpful anymore.
(607) 235-5770 View (607) 235-5770
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Melissa Fallon-Korb
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Oneonta, NY 13820
Not accepting new clients
In 20 years as a psychologist, I find healing and emotional growth start with developing a compassionate understanding of your life story and current circumstances. I focus on strengths and capabilities as the foundation for your growth and empowerment. I will regard you as the expert of your life and partner with you to develop treatment goals and approaches. I will focus on your emotional needs and help you develop skills for healthy relationships and better functioning in your life. I will also directly address the negative effects of oppression and discrimination as it impacts your mental health.
In 20 years as a psychologist, I find healing and emotional growth start with developing a compassionate understanding of your life story and current circumstances. I focus on strengths and capabilities as the foundation for your growth and empowerment. I will regard you as the expert of your life and partner with you to develop treatment goals and approaches. I will focus on your emotional needs and help you develop skills for healthy relationships and better functioning in your life. I will also directly address the negative effects of oppression and discrimination as it impacts your mental health.
(607) 267-0315 View (607) 267-0315

Online Therapists

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Angelica Garcia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13206  (Online Only)
For couples eager to deepen your bond and master communication, my Emotionally Focused Therapy approach transforms relationships with understanding and empathy.
Welcome to Together Therapy, where we believe in healing and growth through connection. I'm a dedicated therapist specializing in transforming relationships and personal recovery. Utilizing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples create lasting bonds and rediscover love and support in their relationship. For individuals grappling with personal trauma, Together Therapy offers a powerful, evidence-based approach with Written Exposure Therapy. This gentle yet effective method allows you to confront and process traumatic memories safely, facilitating healing and resilience.
For couples eager to deepen your bond and master communication, my Emotionally Focused Therapy approach transforms relationships with understanding and empathy.
Welcome to Together Therapy, where we believe in healing and growth through connection. I'm a dedicated therapist specializing in transforming relationships and personal recovery. Utilizing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples create lasting bonds and rediscover love and support in their relationship. For individuals grappling with personal trauma, Together Therapy offers a powerful, evidence-based approach with Written Exposure Therapy. This gentle yet effective method allows you to confront and process traumatic memories safely, facilitating healing and resilience.
(315) 758-3407 View (315) 758-3407
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Bonnie Dekin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baldwinsville, NY 13027  (Online Only)
My specialties include certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Clinical Hypnosis.
Now accepting new clients! Welcome! Let's collaborate and discover new potential and new strategies for life. Whether you are having feelings of anxiety, sadness, fears and worries, couple or family relationship issues I am here to help. I have advanced training to help you and your partner heal and reconnect. In addition, I offer clinical Emotionally Focused Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy. I work from an integrative/systemic perspective while considering Attachment Theory as it relates to all aspects of being human. I consider your unique perspectives and culture as we work together to help you heal.
My specialties include certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Clinical Hypnosis.
Now accepting new clients! Welcome! Let's collaborate and discover new potential and new strategies for life. Whether you are having feelings of anxiety, sadness, fears and worries, couple or family relationship issues I am here to help. I have advanced training to help you and your partner heal and reconnect. In addition, I offer clinical Emotionally Focused Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy. I work from an integrative/systemic perspective while considering Attachment Theory as it relates to all aspects of being human. I consider your unique perspectives and culture as we work together to help you heal.
(315) 757-3580 View (315) 757-3580
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Linda J Arkin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodstock, NY 12498
I am a psychotherapist in private practice for over twenty years. I treat families, adolescents and adults, especially those seeking help with depression, eating problems, trauma, anxiety, relationship problems, low self-esteem, LGBTQ issues, career decisions, cult involvement and feelings of isolation. I supervise other psychotherapists in a collaborative and supportive environment, with an emphasis on independent and creative thinking. I use varied approaches in my practice, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to treat trauma victims and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples.
I am a psychotherapist in private practice for over twenty years. I treat families, adolescents and adults, especially those seeking help with depression, eating problems, trauma, anxiety, relationship problems, low self-esteem, LGBTQ issues, career decisions, cult involvement and feelings of isolation. I supervise other psychotherapists in a collaborative and supportive environment, with an emphasis on independent and creative thinking. I use varied approaches in my practice, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to treat trauma victims and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples.
(646) 600-9198 View (646) 600-9198
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Cy Valdez
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
Albany, NY 12206  (Online Only)
My therapeutic style incorporates narrative therapy, EFT & SFT while also being poly and kink informed.
As a Black, queer, Caribbean/LatinX individual who practices therapy from a non-oppressive and radically authentic lens I draw on over ten years of experience working with women, children and communities of color around topics of equity, sexuality, education, LGBTQ+, and trauma. I use my knowledge and background to analyze issues with a strong understanding of the systems, personal history and survival skills that influence your identity today. I am interested in understanding 'personal language' (emotions and perspective) to address the current design of your relationships and encourage transformations better suited for your goals
My therapeutic style incorporates narrative therapy, EFT & SFT while also being poly and kink informed.
As a Black, queer, Caribbean/LatinX individual who practices therapy from a non-oppressive and radically authentic lens I draw on over ten years of experience working with women, children and communities of color around topics of equity, sexuality, education, LGBTQ+, and trauma. I use my knowledge and background to analyze issues with a strong understanding of the systems, personal history and survival skills that influence your identity today. I am interested in understanding 'personal language' (emotions and perspective) to address the current design of your relationships and encourage transformations better suited for your goals
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Lori S Weinreich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Poughkeepsie, NY 12603  (Online Only)
My training was based on a clinically validated program called Emotionally Focused Therapy(EFT).
Are you unhappy and feel alone in your relationship or marriage? Are there problems with infidelity? Is there a lack of intimacy in your relationship? Do you feel disconnected from your partner and that your partner doesn't understand you? I am a couples counselor and have been able to help many relationships that have often been neglected for too long. The approach that I use does not assign blame to either person. I focus on discovering the awareness of the negative cycle that a couple gets into and help to create a positive and more understanding cycle.
My training was based on a clinically validated program called Emotionally Focused Therapy(EFT).
Are you unhappy and feel alone in your relationship or marriage? Are there problems with infidelity? Is there a lack of intimacy in your relationship? Do you feel disconnected from your partner and that your partner doesn't understand you? I am a couples counselor and have been able to help many relationships that have often been neglected for too long. The approach that I use does not assign blame to either person. I focus on discovering the awareness of the negative cycle that a couple gets into and help to create a positive and more understanding cycle.
(845) 580-2248 View (845) 580-2248
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Embrace Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Campbell Hall, NY 10916
We use CBT, IPT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic, Person-Centered Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, DBT, and EFT.
When you seek the emotional growth that you deserve, you will experience change and improvements in your relationships. The therapeutic process will push you beyond the limits of your comfort; but at the end of the journey, you will experience growth, change in perspective, increase self-awareness and increase coping skills to improve the quality of your life. We are a private practice group that provides general psychotherapy treatment such as anxiety, depression and also specializes in women's maternal mental wellbeing such as postpartum, infertility and stillbirth. We are dedicated to restoring our client’s mental wellbeing.
We use CBT, IPT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic, Person-Centered Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, DBT, and EFT.
When you seek the emotional growth that you deserve, you will experience change and improvements in your relationships. The therapeutic process will push you beyond the limits of your comfort; but at the end of the journey, you will experience growth, change in perspective, increase self-awareness and increase coping skills to improve the quality of your life. We are a private practice group that provides general psychotherapy treatment such as anxiety, depression and also specializes in women's maternal mental wellbeing such as postpartum, infertility and stillbirth. We are dedicated to restoring our client’s mental wellbeing.
(914) 402-9682 View (914) 402-9682
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Abby Nordquist
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13210
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and specialize in helping couples increase connection, communicate more deeply and effectively, and create a relationship that is full of intimacy, closeness, security, and joy.
A happy and secure marriage is wonderful, and can be tough to maintain. Keeping your relationship solid during a really difficult season in life is even harder. So many couples struggle to stay connected when they're going through something difficult: trying to have a baby, adjusting to parenthood, job changes, financial stressors, grief, or health issues. Other couples find themselves simply drifting apart: they're not sure when things changed, but one day they looked up and realized their communication sucks and they barely spend time together. And when this happens, so many couples don't know what to do or how to reconnect.
I have advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy and specialize in helping couples increase connection, communicate more deeply and effectively, and create a relationship that is full of intimacy, closeness, security, and joy.
A happy and secure marriage is wonderful, and can be tough to maintain. Keeping your relationship solid during a really difficult season in life is even harder. So many couples struggle to stay connected when they're going through something difficult: trying to have a baby, adjusting to parenthood, job changes, financial stressors, grief, or health issues. Other couples find themselves simply drifting apart: they're not sure when things changed, but one day they looked up and realized their communication sucks and they barely spend time together. And when this happens, so many couples don't know what to do or how to reconnect.
(315) 993-6173 View (315) 993-6173
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Dr. Jennifer Coppola
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Manlius, NY 13104
I am an affirmative therapist who provides family, couple, and individual therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I work towards providing emotionally focused and culturally sensitive interventions. I have specialty training in supporting the LGBQ, transgender, and gender diverse/expansive communities. I also specialize in couples therapy, using my published theory of couples therapy but also tailoring my approach to be client driven. Through teletherapy I work with couples and families across New York State. I provide superbills for out of network benefits.
I am an affirmative therapist who provides family, couple, and individual therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I work towards providing emotionally focused and culturally sensitive interventions. I have specialty training in supporting the LGBQ, transgender, and gender diverse/expansive communities. I also specialize in couples therapy, using my published theory of couples therapy but also tailoring my approach to be client driven. Through teletherapy I work with couples and families across New York State. I provide superbills for out of network benefits.
(315) 366-4855 View (315) 366-4855
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Susan Krauss
Master Social Work, LMSW
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
I use mindfulness, energy psychology, EFT, to relieve stress, heal trauma, anxiety, relationships. We work collaboratively, listening to conflicting parts and needs, discovering how to integrate these parts to fulfill your unique potential, talents, and power, learning to recognize and transform blocks to their fulfillment. With those who wish to explore spiritual aspects, we look at the meaning of experience, including mindfulness meditation, teachings from all religions, radical acceptance, emotional intelligence. We work on many levels, from practical decision making; connecting past and present issues; symptom abatement and coping skills, goal setting; to a spiritual search for the authentic self and its means of expression.
I use mindfulness, energy psychology, EFT, to relieve stress, heal trauma, anxiety, relationships. We work collaboratively, listening to conflicting parts and needs, discovering how to integrate these parts to fulfill your unique potential, talents, and power, learning to recognize and transform blocks to their fulfillment. With those who wish to explore spiritual aspects, we look at the meaning of experience, including mindfulness meditation, teachings from all religions, radical acceptance, emotional intelligence. We work on many levels, from practical decision making; connecting past and present issues; symptom abatement and coping skills, goal setting; to a spiritual search for the authentic self and its means of expression.
(845) 393-9316 View (845) 393-9316
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Debra Franklin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ellenville, NY 12428  (Online Only)
After 33 years of experience with adults, children, families, and couples, and many transformational groups, I developed Heart Path Therapy® (HPT), integrating the most life changing tools. They include ancient spiritual wisdom, guided imagery, inner childwork, energy psychology (similar to EFT & EMDR), use of sound, and ancestral connection work (Family Constellations). The goal is to transform emotional and relational struggles by bringing compassion to the source and in turn empower a greater sense of meaning and purpose in life. Join an adolescent or adult HPT® GROUP, inspiring online heart opening communities.
After 33 years of experience with adults, children, families, and couples, and many transformational groups, I developed Heart Path Therapy® (HPT), integrating the most life changing tools. They include ancient spiritual wisdom, guided imagery, inner childwork, energy psychology (similar to EFT & EMDR), use of sound, and ancestral connection work (Family Constellations). The goal is to transform emotional and relational struggles by bringing compassion to the source and in turn empower a greater sense of meaning and purpose in life. Join an adolescent or adult HPT® GROUP, inspiring online heart opening communities.
(860) 308-1071 View (860) 308-1071
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Skylar Colle
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I use a combination of different orientations including Sex Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic Work, Internal Family Systems, and Accelerated Resolution Therapy.
If you are a couple or individual that is struggling or needs support with attachment insecurities, nervous system responses, trauma, anxiety, intimacy issues, sexual concerns, PTSD, and or relationship dissatisfaction; I am here to support you and give you tools to heal. I am an open, warm, empathic therapist that is progress oriented. I am sex positive and kink affirmative. I enjoy helping couples and individuals find their way to more happiness, connection, and security. I use scientifically proven and evidence based therapy models to support growth, change, and increased confidence.
I use a combination of different orientations including Sex Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic Work, Internal Family Systems, and Accelerated Resolution Therapy.
If you are a couple or individual that is struggling or needs support with attachment insecurities, nervous system responses, trauma, anxiety, intimacy issues, sexual concerns, PTSD, and or relationship dissatisfaction; I am here to support you and give you tools to heal. I am an open, warm, empathic therapist that is progress oriented. I am sex positive and kink affirmative. I enjoy helping couples and individuals find their way to more happiness, connection, and security. I use scientifically proven and evidence based therapy models to support growth, change, and increased confidence.
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Christa Lloyd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Albany, NY 12207  (Online Only)
Life can be challenging. Are you struggling with a relationship? Experiencing anxiety or depression? Contemplating divorce? Recovering from a beak-up? Starting over? Trying to get your ex back? I help my clients improve their relationships. Sometimes this involves healing from childhood issues. Sometimes it involves gaining clarity in the present. My approach is compassionate and holistic. Techniques include; CBT, Psychodynamic, EFT, client centered, and solution focused.
Life can be challenging. Are you struggling with a relationship? Experiencing anxiety or depression? Contemplating divorce? Recovering from a beak-up? Starting over? Trying to get your ex back? I help my clients improve their relationships. Sometimes this involves healing from childhood issues. Sometimes it involves gaining clarity in the present. My approach is compassionate and holistic. Techniques include; CBT, Psychodynamic, EFT, client centered, and solution focused.
(845) 668-6808 View (845) 668-6808
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Jennifer Greene
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850
I utilize training in psychodynamic approaches, Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness, attachment/traumawork, EMDR, Jungian dreamwork for deeper psychological processes, and EFT for couples.
Taking time to sort through your thoughts and feelings with someone safe and very present is one of the greatest gifts to give yourself. I'm here to help you find relief, understand, heal, integrate, and grow. Through warm acceptance, genuine presence, and attuned reflections, I build a trusting partnership. Together in this supportive, emotionally engaged alliance, we create the experiences that deepen your relationship with self and others. In this new self-awareness, I help you reconnect with your innate strengths. Using these capabilities, I will guide you to develop successful skills and coping strategies to reach your goals.
I utilize training in psychodynamic approaches, Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness, attachment/traumawork, EMDR, Jungian dreamwork for deeper psychological processes, and EFT for couples.
Taking time to sort through your thoughts and feelings with someone safe and very present is one of the greatest gifts to give yourself. I'm here to help you find relief, understand, heal, integrate, and grow. Through warm acceptance, genuine presence, and attuned reflections, I build a trusting partnership. Together in this supportive, emotionally engaged alliance, we create the experiences that deepen your relationship with self and others. In this new self-awareness, I help you reconnect with your innate strengths. Using these capabilities, I will guide you to develop successful skills and coping strategies to reach your goals.
(607) 275-5787 View (607) 275-5787
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.