Relationship Issues Therapists in Thornwood, NY
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Are you a high-achieving Type A who has accomplished professional success but is struggling? Do you feel disengaged, lonely, negative, and beginning to dislike the person you are becoming? I have specialized training with high-functioning individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and relationship issues. I can help you harness your difficulties by learning how to manage stressors that come up in life and building resilience. I combine strategies from the best in our field, including evidence-based, solution-focused, and exploratory treatment. Simply put, whatever you're going through, I can help.
Are you a high-achieving Type A who has accomplished professional success but is struggling? Do you feel disengaged, lonely, negative, and beginning to dislike the person you are becoming? I have specialized training with high-functioning individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, trauma, and relationship issues. I can help you harness your difficulties by learning how to manage stressors that come up in life and building resilience. I combine strategies from the best in our field, including evidence-based, solution-focused, and exploratory treatment. Simply put, whatever you're going through, I can help.
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Brenda DeEsso
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thornwood, NY 10594 (Online Only)
I believe the best predictor of effective therapy is the quality of the patient-therapist relationship.
I help those who are feeling overwhelmed and stressed, wanting to make and see changes for themselves, or struggling with feeling disconnected to their authentic self. This may be due to personal challenges, past events, relationships conflicts, or life transitions. I work with adults, young adults, adolescents and couples. My clients and I work together toward meeting desired results and creating a balanced management of life stressors.
I believe the best predictor of effective therapy is the quality of the patient-therapist relationship.
I help those who are feeling overwhelmed and stressed, wanting to make and see changes for themselves, or struggling with feeling disconnected to their authentic self. This may be due to personal challenges, past events, relationships conflicts, or life transitions. I work with adults, young adults, adolescents and couples. My clients and I work together toward meeting desired results and creating a balanced management of life stressors.
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Diana Zadrima Marriage And Family Therapist
MFT, Ms Ed
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Thornwood, NY 10594
Whether you're seeking to improve your relationship, work through personal challenges, or address family dynamics, I am here to support you on your journey toward healing and growth.
I am a licensed therapist with dual master’s degrees in Counseling and Personal Services, as well as Marriage and Family Therapy. I am also trained to Level Three in the Gottman Method for couples therapy. I am dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life's challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a crucial aspect of effective therapy. My approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client, integrating various theories and interventions to provide the most effective support possible.
Whether you're seeking to improve your relationship, work through personal challenges, or address family dynamics, I am here to support you on your journey toward healing and growth.
I am a licensed therapist with dual master’s degrees in Counseling and Personal Services, as well as Marriage and Family Therapy. I am also trained to Level Three in the Gottman Method for couples therapy. I am dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life's challenges and achieve meaningful, lasting change. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is a crucial aspect of effective therapy. My approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client, integrating various theories and interventions to provide the most effective support possible.
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Whether that loss be a relationship, a pet, or a family member, I am here to help you process it.
Are you currently experiencing grief due to the death of a loved one, a major life transition, or a terminal illness diagnosis? Are you looking to find ways to cope with or process the death or traumatic event? Do you need help communicating to loved ones or reinvesting in your life and your family's? Although it may seem impossible now, you can find peace and connection with your loss, while also adjusting to life without your loved one.
Whether that loss be a relationship, a pet, or a family member, I am here to help you process it.
Are you currently experiencing grief due to the death of a loved one, a major life transition, or a terminal illness diagnosis? Are you looking to find ways to cope with or process the death or traumatic event? Do you need help communicating to loved ones or reinvesting in your life and your family's? Although it may seem impossible now, you can find peace and connection with your loss, while also adjusting to life without your loved one.
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Susan Jennifer Polese
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Thornwood, NY 10594
I see our relationship as the primary healing tool - leading toward your personal empowerment and fulfillment.
I specialize in Female and Female Identifying empowerment and liberation. I'm a holistic counselor who employs positive psychology to help you make room for difficult emotions, deal with trauma, manage stress and help you live the life you want. In my therapy room you'll experience a caring approach focusing on your healing and empowerment. LGBTQAI+ (and non labeling) clients work with me to improve their lives from a place of strength. I'm listed as a mental health provider through True Colors, Sexual Minority Youth & Family Services, Connecticut.
I see our relationship as the primary healing tool - leading toward your personal empowerment and fulfillment.
I specialize in Female and Female Identifying empowerment and liberation. I'm a holistic counselor who employs positive psychology to help you make room for difficult emotions, deal with trauma, manage stress and help you live the life you want. In my therapy room you'll experience a caring approach focusing on your healing and empowerment. LGBTQAI+ (and non labeling) clients work with me to improve their lives from a place of strength. I'm listed as a mental health provider through True Colors, Sexual Minority Youth & Family Services, Connecticut.
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At times, life can be particularly painful and/or challenging. Sometimes the reasons are clear; sometimes you may have no idea why you feel the way you do. Talking with a well-trained empathic therapist can be a great source of comfort and support. It can help you clarify and change the unhealthy patterns in your life.
At times, life can be particularly painful and/or challenging. Sometimes the reasons are clear; sometimes you may have no idea why you feel the way you do. Talking with a well-trained empathic therapist can be a great source of comfort and support. It can help you clarify and change the unhealthy patterns in your life.
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Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I can help your child explore their feelings, make sense of their experience, and develop their full potential. I can help your child become their own therapist by learning techniques and coping strategies to learn how to deal with their challenges in their lives. I work well with children and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, social issues, learning issues, attention deficit disorder, and body image issues. Clients often see improved well-being early on in therapy.
Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I can help your child explore their feelings, make sense of their experience, and develop their full potential. I can help your child become their own therapist by learning techniques and coping strategies to learn how to deal with their challenges in their lives. I work well with children and adolescents struggling with anxiety, depression, social issues, learning issues, attention deficit disorder, and body image issues. Clients often see improved well-being early on in therapy.
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Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? Our Practice offers a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I have extensive experience working with children and adolescents who may be struggling with school issues, depression, anxiety, ADHD, behavioral and family issues, and autism spectrum disorders. You can talk to me about anything. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Clients often feel better early on in treatment.
Have you wondered if your child or adolescent would benefit from therapy? Our Practice offers a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. I have extensive experience working with children and adolescents who may be struggling with school issues, depression, anxiety, ADHD, behavioral and family issues, and autism spectrum disorders. You can talk to me about anything. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Clients often feel better early on in treatment.
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Have you wondered if you would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. As a senior therapist at Greenwich Psychology Group, I enjoy working with children and adolescents that may be struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral or family issues. You can talk to me about anything; nothing will surprise me. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Clients often feel better early on in treatment.
Have you wondered if you would benefit from therapy? I offer a complimentary consultation to discuss any questions you may have. As a senior therapist at Greenwich Psychology Group, I enjoy working with children and adolescents that may be struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, behavioral or family issues. You can talk to me about anything; nothing will surprise me. I am accessible to parents and easy to talk to. I focus on your child, recognize their strengths, and develop tools to become their own therapist by learning how to deal with challenges. Clients often feel better early on in treatment.
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I am a Columbia-trained clinical psychologist with expertise in treating a variety of life difficulties, including anxiety, depression, academic and career struggles, and self-esteem issues. I work well with a variety of clients, from college and graduate students to senior executives. I am compassionate, easy to talk to, and real. Whether you are experiencing chronic feelings of anxiety, unhappiness, or procrastinating and feeling stuck, I can help get your life back on track and reach your full potential. My clients often see reduction in symptoms and improvement early on in treatment.
I am a Columbia-trained clinical psychologist with expertise in treating a variety of life difficulties, including anxiety, depression, academic and career struggles, and self-esteem issues. I work well with a variety of clients, from college and graduate students to senior executives. I am compassionate, easy to talk to, and real. Whether you are experiencing chronic feelings of anxiety, unhappiness, or procrastinating and feeling stuck, I can help get your life back on track and reach your full potential. My clients often see reduction in symptoms and improvement early on in treatment.
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Diana Soler
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thornwood, NY 10594 (Online Only)
You are courageous for starting your healing journey! As a queer Latinx woman, I want to provide a supportive environment for those that don’t often feel understood or seen in their personal lives. I strive to empower and support individuals to be the best version of themselves. Through developing a genuine connection in our virtual sessions, we will work towards finding your purpose and self-worth.
You are courageous for starting your healing journey! As a queer Latinx woman, I want to provide a supportive environment for those that don’t often feel understood or seen in their personal lives. I strive to empower and support individuals to be the best version of themselves. Through developing a genuine connection in our virtual sessions, we will work towards finding your purpose and self-worth.
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Do you know a highly successful individual who feels stuck? Who feels that there is more to life and longs for better health, more wealth and happiness? Does this sound familiar to you? Whether it's feelings of anxiety, issues with self confidence, sleep issues, finding your purpose in life or managing your emotions, I can help you uncover the root cause of these feelings and free yourself from the obsolete beliefs and behaviors that keep you from living the life you always dreamed of living. As a "brain trainer", learning leader, and Supt. of Schools I have helped 1000's of children, teens, and adults find personal success.
Do you know a highly successful individual who feels stuck? Who feels that there is more to life and longs for better health, more wealth and happiness? Does this sound familiar to you? Whether it's feelings of anxiety, issues with self confidence, sleep issues, finding your purpose in life or managing your emotions, I can help you uncover the root cause of these feelings and free yourself from the obsolete beliefs and behaviors that keep you from living the life you always dreamed of living. As a "brain trainer", learning leader, and Supt. of Schools I have helped 1000's of children, teens, and adults find personal success.
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I am a clinical psychologist with expertise in treating a variety of life difficulties, including anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, sexual issues, and career issues. I work well with a variety of clients, from adolescents, adults, parents to executives. I am compassionate, easy to talk to, and real. Whether you are experiencing chronic feelings of anxiety, unhappiness, or procrastinating and feeling stuck in your career, I can help get your life back on track and reach your full potential. My clients often see a reduction in symptoms and improvement early on in treatment.
I am a clinical psychologist with expertise in treating a variety of life difficulties, including anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, sexual issues, and career issues. I work well with a variety of clients, from adolescents, adults, parents to executives. I am compassionate, easy to talk to, and real. Whether you are experiencing chronic feelings of anxiety, unhappiness, or procrastinating and feeling stuck in your career, I can help get your life back on track and reach your full potential. My clients often see a reduction in symptoms and improvement early on in treatment.
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I have developed expertise in such areas as: chronic pain and medical illnesses, relationship issues, marital and couples counseling, parenting concerns, stress management and relaxation techniques, life transitions and coaching and addictions.
Isn't it frustrating to be confronted with life issues that can cause hardship and emotional pain. That despite your best efforts a more desirable outcome seems illusive. Sometimes, we all need a helping hand to identify and initiate more effective life strategies. I can help you promote desirable changes with either long standing personal issues or more acute ones that have been brought on by circumstances or unfortunate life events. No matter what the situation, the opportunity for positive change is always present.
I have developed expertise in such areas as: chronic pain and medical illnesses, relationship issues, marital and couples counseling, parenting concerns, stress management and relaxation techniques, life transitions and coaching and addictions.
Isn't it frustrating to be confronted with life issues that can cause hardship and emotional pain. That despite your best efforts a more desirable outcome seems illusive. Sometimes, we all need a helping hand to identify and initiate more effective life strategies. I can help you promote desirable changes with either long standing personal issues or more acute ones that have been brought on by circumstances or unfortunate life events. No matter what the situation, the opportunity for positive change is always present.
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If you are having trouble in your relationships, just ending one, or seeking a committed relationship, we can work together to understand your difficulties and help you feel more empowered to get what you need in your life.
Choosing the right therapist can make all the difference. You may be someone who understands that a behavioral issue is getting in the way of successful relationships at work or at home, but can't figure out how to change it. You may be someone who is going through a life transition such as the birth of a new baby, career change, retirement, or loss of a partner. You may feel anxious, down, or have a general inability to feel happy. You may be someone who is seeking neuroaffirming care from a therapist who is sensitive, or you may feel burnout from masking or trying to conform to a world that doesn’t “get” you.
If you are having trouble in your relationships, just ending one, or seeking a committed relationship, we can work together to understand your difficulties and help you feel more empowered to get what you need in your life.
Choosing the right therapist can make all the difference. You may be someone who understands that a behavioral issue is getting in the way of successful relationships at work or at home, but can't figure out how to change it. You may be someone who is going through a life transition such as the birth of a new baby, career change, retirement, or loss of a partner. You may feel anxious, down, or have a general inability to feel happy. You may be someone who is seeking neuroaffirming care from a therapist who is sensitive, or you may feel burnout from masking or trying to conform to a world that doesn’t “get” you.
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Hawthorne, NY 10532
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a Male/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
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Personal Life Wellness Marriage and Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Pleasantville, NY 10570
Through compassionate and evidence-based therapy techniques, I'll help you learn how to communicate effectively, build trust, and develop the skills you need to overcome challenges and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
If you're seeking a therapist who understands the importance of finding the right fit and is dedicated to helping you make significant changes in your life and relationships, you've come to the right place. As an experienced therapist, I specialize in empowering my clients to take action and create meaningful transformations. Clients describe me as compassionate, insightful, and empowering, valuing the safe environment I create for them to explore their challenges. With extensive training in the latest therapeutic techniques and methodologies, I bring a wealth of knowledge to our sessions.
Through compassionate and evidence-based therapy techniques, I'll help you learn how to communicate effectively, build trust, and develop the skills you need to overcome challenges and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
If you're seeking a therapist who understands the importance of finding the right fit and is dedicated to helping you make significant changes in your life and relationships, you've come to the right place. As an experienced therapist, I specialize in empowering my clients to take action and create meaningful transformations. Clients describe me as compassionate, insightful, and empowering, valuing the safe environment I create for them to explore their challenges. With extensive training in the latest therapeutic techniques and methodologies, I bring a wealth of knowledge to our sessions.
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I listen as we co-create a trusted relationship where we examine any patterns of thinking and behavior that no longer serve you, their origin, and how to transform them.
Beginning therapy is a commitment to yourself. In a safe, supportive setting, I partner with my clients in bravely exploring their challenges and hopes. From addressing the emotions of major life transitions - feeling anxious, depressed, afraid, angry, grieving - to developing the interpersonal skills needed to navigate and be successful in personal and professional relationships, our work will draw from a variety of therapeutic approaches to ease suffering, increase coping, and enhance quality of life. I work with individuals age 13 and older.
I listen as we co-create a trusted relationship where we examine any patterns of thinking and behavior that no longer serve you, their origin, and how to transform them.
Beginning therapy is a commitment to yourself. In a safe, supportive setting, I partner with my clients in bravely exploring their challenges and hopes. From addressing the emotions of major life transitions - feeling anxious, depressed, afraid, angry, grieving - to developing the interpersonal skills needed to navigate and be successful in personal and professional relationships, our work will draw from a variety of therapeutic approaches to ease suffering, increase coping, and enhance quality of life. I work with individuals age 13 and older.
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As a Mental Health Counselor, I am committed to providing a safe, supportive, and collaborative environment for my clients to explore their life challenges. I am here to validate your unique experience and work with you to find strategies that fit your life. I value the strength of the therapeutic relationship and believe it is the building block from which you can bring about positive change in your life. I use an integrative approach primarily rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), and solutions-focused techniques.
As a Mental Health Counselor, I am committed to providing a safe, supportive, and collaborative environment for my clients to explore their life challenges. I am here to validate your unique experience and work with you to find strategies that fit your life. I value the strength of the therapeutic relationship and believe it is the building block from which you can bring about positive change in your life. I use an integrative approach primarily rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), and solutions-focused techniques.
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Andrea D Gordon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Pleasantville, NY 10570
I believe the therapeutic relationship can be a remarkable and corrective experience.
I have over 40 years experience treating individuals, couples and groups. My techniques vary according to the needs of my clients. I offer brief treatment with focus on a specific issue; long term psychodynamic psychotherapy for greater self understanding;and EMDR for traumas. I’ve worked supportively with hundreds of clients in troubled relationships whether they decide to work through the issues with the partner or separate and begin a new phase of life. Teaching mindfulness techniques I help clients learn to pause, and change negative reacting. I created a Cd: Journey to Inner Peace: Meditation and relaxation exercises.
I believe the therapeutic relationship can be a remarkable and corrective experience.
I have over 40 years experience treating individuals, couples and groups. My techniques vary according to the needs of my clients. I offer brief treatment with focus on a specific issue; long term psychodynamic psychotherapy for greater self understanding;and EMDR for traumas. I’ve worked supportively with hundreds of clients in troubled relationships whether they decide to work through the issues with the partner or separate and begin a new phase of life. Teaching mindfulness techniques I help clients learn to pause, and change negative reacting. I created a Cd: Journey to Inner Peace: Meditation and relaxation exercises.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.