Infidelity Therapists in Somers, NY

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Stephen A. Buglione, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
(914) 827-5214 View (914) 827-5214
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Nancy W Cocola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
I have extensive experience working with straight, lesbian, and gay individuals around pre-marital and marital healthy communication, sex, infidelity, parenting, amicable divorce, and retirement.
It can be daunting to find a therapist who speaks your language and is the right match for you. My professional experience and therapeutic approach has developed over more than 35 years of private practice. You will find my approach warm, straightforward, conversational, and focused. I offer a blend of psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, which means I respect the value of understanding past influences and patterns while believing that by developing specific new skills you can successfully change unhealthy behavior and thinking.
I have extensive experience working with straight, lesbian, and gay individuals around pre-marital and marital healthy communication, sex, infidelity, parenting, amicable divorce, and retirement.
It can be daunting to find a therapist who speaks your language and is the right match for you. My professional experience and therapeutic approach has developed over more than 35 years of private practice. You will find my approach warm, straightforward, conversational, and focused. I offer a blend of psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, which means I respect the value of understanding past influences and patterns while believing that by developing specific new skills you can successfully change unhealthy behavior and thinking.
(845) 795-3031 View (845) 795-3031
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Arnold C Morgan
Psychologist, MS, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Somers, NY 10589
Waitlist for new clients
Stress compromises your immune system, quality of life, and push you out of balance. Please click on "website" located under my picture to the left of this paragraph for information about how I practice and the services I offer. Under the "De-Stress" heading you will find free guided audio relaxation selections. Share them with friends and family. I can help you to change your anxiety and stress even in these most stressful times.
Stress compromises your immune system, quality of life, and push you out of balance. Please click on "website" located under my picture to the left of this paragraph for information about how I practice and the services I offer. Under the "De-Stress" heading you will find free guided audio relaxation selections. Share them with friends and family. I can help you to change your anxiety and stress even in these most stressful times.
(914) 502-4873 View (914) 502-4873
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Dr. Jennifer F. D'Agostino
Counselor, PhD, MS, LMHC, NCC, CASAC
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
I offer a non-judgmental, holistic, supportive approach to therapy with a focus on positive self-improvement, transformation & wellness. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy even when there is not an immediate challenge or crisis. Goals in therapy are achieved collaboratively. I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, loss/bereavement, mood/personality/eating disorders, substance abuse, ADHD & changing destructive patterns. I work with individuals (children/adolescents/adults), families, couples, and groups. I offer animal-assisted interventions including therapy dogs and equine-assisted mental health sessions.
I offer a non-judgmental, holistic, supportive approach to therapy with a focus on positive self-improvement, transformation & wellness. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy even when there is not an immediate challenge or crisis. Goals in therapy are achieved collaboratively. I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, loss/bereavement, mood/personality/eating disorders, substance abuse, ADHD & changing destructive patterns. I work with individuals (children/adolescents/adults), families, couples, and groups. I offer animal-assisted interventions including therapy dogs and equine-assisted mental health sessions.
(914) 368-2533 View (914) 368-2533
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Lorin S Woolfe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
You will get the benefit of a therapist who has over 30 years experience but who still enjoys the challenge of helping every client explore their issues and find the right solutions and strategies for accomplishing them. I am extremely sensitive to diversity and multi-cultural issues, have dealt with clients from many ethnic groups and speak excellent Spanish. I am also very conversant with workplace issues, having also pursued a corporate career and functioned in that environment.
You will get the benefit of a therapist who has over 30 years experience but who still enjoys the challenge of helping every client explore their issues and find the right solutions and strategies for accomplishing them. I am extremely sensitive to diversity and multi-cultural issues, have dealt with clients from many ethnic groups and speak excellent Spanish. I am also very conversant with workplace issues, having also pursued a corporate career and functioned in that environment.
(914) 954-8843 View (914) 954-8843
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Michael Schwarzchild
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Somers, NY 10589  (Online Only)
Through my psychology practice, I offer compassionate guidance on your unique path. With over 40 years of experience providing psychotherapy to diverse clients, I am deeply captivated by the intricate process of human growth and healing. As a past President of the Connecticut Psychological Association, I've dedicated my career to understanding and assisting individuals, couples, and families in navigating life's challenges. I'm committed to utilizing my knowledge, training, and experience to alleviate psychological and emotional pain. My services are provided exclusively via telehealth, and I am licensed in Connecticut and New York.
Through my psychology practice, I offer compassionate guidance on your unique path. With over 40 years of experience providing psychotherapy to diverse clients, I am deeply captivated by the intricate process of human growth and healing. As a past President of the Connecticut Psychological Association, I've dedicated my career to understanding and assisting individuals, couples, and families in navigating life's challenges. I'm committed to utilizing my knowledge, training, and experience to alleviate psychological and emotional pain. My services are provided exclusively via telehealth, and I am licensed in Connecticut and New York.
(203) 916-6853 View (203) 916-6853
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Family Solutions of Westchester, LLC
BS, LP, MFT
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589  (Online Only)
Family Solutions of Westchester, LLC. founder, Innes Frey, uses an innovative, refreshing and short-term therapeutic approach, F.S.T, focusing on the positive reinforcement of solutions to achieve change, providing an exclusive therapeutic environment that is custom tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual client - child, couple, or the family.
Family Solutions of Westchester, LLC. founder, Innes Frey, uses an innovative, refreshing and short-term therapeutic approach, F.S.T, focusing on the positive reinforcement of solutions to achieve change, providing an exclusive therapeutic environment that is custom tailored to meet the unique needs of each individual client - child, couple, or the family.
(845) 478-1127 View (845) 478-1127
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Stress Free Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MBA, CASAC
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
Need Couples Counseling? Have Anxiety and Depression? Dealing with Substance Abuse or other Addictions? Have Anger Management and Mood Swing Issues? Can you benefit from Stress Management? Dealing with Type A people in your life? Chris Colasuonno, LCSW-R, MBA-CASAC has counseled thousands of clients utilizing a Solutions Oriented Approach to help individuals achieve their GOALS! Offering Experience, Empathy and Caring in a Solution Oriented approach. Free Consultation, Night and Weekend appointments available. Affordable and Confidential!. www.stressfreecounseling.com
Need Couples Counseling? Have Anxiety and Depression? Dealing with Substance Abuse or other Addictions? Have Anger Management and Mood Swing Issues? Can you benefit from Stress Management? Dealing with Type A people in your life? Chris Colasuonno, LCSW-R, MBA-CASAC has counseled thousands of clients utilizing a Solutions Oriented Approach to help individuals achieve their GOALS! Offering Experience, Empathy and Caring in a Solution Oriented approach. Free Consultation, Night and Weekend appointments available. Affordable and Confidential!. www.stressfreecounseling.com
(914) 486-5776 View (914) 486-5776
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Sandra Tica
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Somers, NY 10589
When you feel safe and supported in the therapeutic environment, the partnership you develop with a therapist can bring about gains that will change the trajectory of your life in significant and deeply rewarding ways.
When you feel safe and supported in the therapeutic environment, the partnership you develop with a therapist can bring about gains that will change the trajectory of your life in significant and deeply rewarding ways.
(914) 350-4694 View (914) 350-4694
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Sara Frankie
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
Why is it that the most important relationship in our lives is often the one that gets the least attention? Self-care is so essential, and yet many of us leave it for last or skip it all together. Many of us in today’s society feel enormous pressure to do and have it all, often at the expense of our happiness and mental health. The resulting anxiety, stress, and depression can be difficult to manage on your own. In my practice, I focus on the therapeutic relationship and interpersonal connection, as I believe that trust and an open dialogue are the first steps in achieving meaningful change.
Why is it that the most important relationship in our lives is often the one that gets the least attention? Self-care is so essential, and yet many of us leave it for last or skip it all together. Many of us in today’s society feel enormous pressure to do and have it all, often at the expense of our happiness and mental health. The resulting anxiety, stress, and depression can be difficult to manage on your own. In my practice, I focus on the therapeutic relationship and interpersonal connection, as I believe that trust and an open dialogue are the first steps in achieving meaningful change.
(914) 354-3735 View (914) 354-3735
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Alan Ivicic
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Somers, NY 10589
Not accepting new clients
Maybe you don’t feel like yourself and need some help finding a sense of balance in your life. Perhaps you and your partner are not on the same page and you both want help getting back on course. Therapy can help you. Suffering from emotional pain on your own is very difficult. It can feel scary and intimidating reaching out for help. Reaching out to a therapist is an important step towards healing, self-growth, and building resiliency. You have internal strengths such as wisdom and motivation. You are making a great choice looking for someone who can help you mobilize these strengths.
Maybe you don’t feel like yourself and need some help finding a sense of balance in your life. Perhaps you and your partner are not on the same page and you both want help getting back on course. Therapy can help you. Suffering from emotional pain on your own is very difficult. It can feel scary and intimidating reaching out for help. Reaching out to a therapist is an important step towards healing, self-growth, and building resiliency. You have internal strengths such as wisdom and motivation. You are making a great choice looking for someone who can help you mobilize these strengths.
(646) 760-8252 View (646) 760-8252

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Steffani Brandenburg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
I come from a relational, holistic, strength-based perspective. My practice of over 30 years has taught me that psychotherapy is a blend of art and science. Compassion, creativity, and attuned listening coupled with well researched therapies and holistic thinking (mind-body-spirit) defines my practice. Throughout my career I have been dedicated to helping people overcome obstacles so that they can lead authentic and fulfilling lives. Treatment specialization includes: Therapy for depression and anxiety, pre-marital counseling, marriage/relationship concerns including loss of emotional/sexual intimacy, infidelity, women's sexual health concerns, issues specific to the LGBTQ community
I come from a relational, holistic, strength-based perspective. My practice of over 30 years has taught me that psychotherapy is a blend of art and science. Compassion, creativity, and attuned listening coupled with well researched therapies and holistic thinking (mind-body-spirit) defines my practice. Throughout my career I have been dedicated to helping people overcome obstacles so that they can lead authentic and fulfilling lives. Treatment specialization includes: Therapy for depression and anxiety, pre-marital counseling, marriage/relationship concerns including loss of emotional/sexual intimacy, infidelity, women's sexual health concerns, issues specific to the LGBTQ community
(914) 882-8478 View (914) 882-8478
Photo of James Foley - Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert, MSW, LCSW, SOTS, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
(347) 997-8676 View (347) 997-8676
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Lora Sant
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brewster, NY 10509  (Online Only)
My expertise is working with couples and individuals who want to improve their communication and resolve conflict harmoniously. Strong emotions such as anger, depression, and anxiety can stymie resolution or reconciliation. Are you both committed to your relationship, but struggling to resolve a conflict or get along? Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity. I get excited when I have the opportunity to help couples find connection in the midst of the conflict.
My expertise is working with couples and individuals who want to improve their communication and resolve conflict harmoniously. Strong emotions such as anger, depression, and anxiety can stymie resolution or reconciliation. Are you both committed to your relationship, but struggling to resolve a conflict or get along? Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity. I get excited when I have the opportunity to help couples find connection in the midst of the conflict.
(845) 839-4025 View (845) 839-4025
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Amy S. Cohen
Psychologist, PsyD, MPH
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
Often the clients I see are at a crisis point in an important relationship. The discovery of an infidelity, coping with a breakup, the launching of kids into college, the rollercoaster of dating, negotiating difficult family dynamics, divorce, remarriage and conflicts in the workplace, are issues in which I have expertise. I also specialize in treating high school age teenagers who are coping with shifting friend groups, self image and the typical growing pains of school and relationships.
Often the clients I see are at a crisis point in an important relationship. The discovery of an infidelity, coping with a breakup, the launching of kids into college, the rollercoaster of dating, negotiating difficult family dynamics, divorce, remarriage and conflicts in the workplace, are issues in which I have expertise. I also specialize in treating high school age teenagers who are coping with shifting friend groups, self image and the typical growing pains of school and relationships.
(914) 265-2202 View (914) 265-2202
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Erica Hershey Jaffe
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Bedford Hills, NY 10507
.Welcome! I am truly passionate about collaborating with you as we explore ways to find your authentic self and heal all of the old wounds and patterns that have stood or continue to stand in the way of your personal success as an individual, couple or family member. Are you and/or your current relationship challenged with issues of infidelity/"sexting"/virtual flirting via social networks or have you entered into the shame/blame game causing you and your partner to drift apart?
.Welcome! I am truly passionate about collaborating with you as we explore ways to find your authentic self and heal all of the old wounds and patterns that have stood or continue to stand in the way of your personal success as an individual, couple or family member. Are you and/or your current relationship challenged with issues of infidelity/"sexting"/virtual flirting via social networks or have you entered into the shame/blame game causing you and your partner to drift apart?
(424) 226-4872 View (424) 226-4872
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Jessica Zweiman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
North Salem, NY 10560
I work with adult individuals, couples and families in the areas of grief, trauma, marital & family discord & relationships, infidelity, eating disorders of all kinds, anxiety, depression, gender/identity issues.
I am a firm believer that no matter the struggle, all people have the ability and the right to heal. It is important to get messy, to spend time talking it out, to tap into everything that is being buried within; perhaps somewhere unclaimed. Over time, the therapeutic journey can lead to a place of letting go and clearing space inside for forgiveness and empathy. When one creates space for growth, of both the past and the present, you can regain a balance and a sense of being grounded.
I work with adult individuals, couples and families in the areas of grief, trauma, marital & family discord & relationships, infidelity, eating disorders of all kinds, anxiety, depression, gender/identity issues.
I am a firm believer that no matter the struggle, all people have the ability and the right to heal. It is important to get messy, to spend time talking it out, to tap into everything that is being buried within; perhaps somewhere unclaimed. Over time, the therapeutic journey can lead to a place of letting go and clearing space inside for forgiveness and empathy. When one creates space for growth, of both the past and the present, you can regain a balance and a sense of being grounded.
(475) 473-9206 View (475) 473-9206
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Resa Fremed
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Katonah, NY 10536  (Online Only)
I am an experienced marriage and family therapist licensed in NY and CT offering comprehensive therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. My specialites include anxiety, depression, affairs, divorce, relationship issues, sexual issues, intimacy, grief and peer relationships. In my practice I deal directly with strategies to enable personal and family growth and life enhancement.
I am an experienced marriage and family therapist licensed in NY and CT offering comprehensive therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. My specialites include anxiety, depression, affairs, divorce, relationship issues, sexual issues, intimacy, grief and peer relationships. In my practice I deal directly with strategies to enable personal and family growth and life enhancement.
(914) 487-3978 View (914) 487-3978
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Ivan Diller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Katonah, NY 10536
Are you or someone you love having difficulty adjusting to a life change? In my practice I treat adolescents, adults, couples, and families dealing with a wide range of issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, parenting, bullying, divorce, grief and loss, high-school-to-college transition and adjustment, marriage, infidelity, mid-life, career, sexual orientation and gender identity, HIV/AIDS.
Are you or someone you love having difficulty adjusting to a life change? In my practice I treat adolescents, adults, couples, and families dealing with a wide range of issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, parenting, bullying, divorce, grief and loss, high-school-to-college transition and adjustment, marriage, infidelity, mid-life, career, sexual orientation and gender identity, HIV/AIDS.
(914) 570-0134 View (914) 570-0134
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Kristine Danback
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
Katonah, NY 10536
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
(203) 884-0487 View (203) 884-0487

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.