Infidelity Therapists in Skaneateles, NY

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Stephanie Zuber
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
Skaneateles, NY 13152
I am currently not accepting new patients until 2024. Experiencing a loss of sexual desire? Arguing about frequency of sex? Worried about performance issues? Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity? Want to better understand your sexuality? I specialize in working with individuals, couples and multi-partnered relationships as they explore concerns related to sex, intimacy and gender identity. Using a combination of proven methods in sex therapy and relationship/family therapies, I help people heal and experience a satisfying sex life so they can live a more connected and thriving life.
I am currently not accepting new patients until 2024. Experiencing a loss of sexual desire? Arguing about frequency of sex? Worried about performance issues? Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity? Want to better understand your sexuality? I specialize in working with individuals, couples and multi-partnered relationships as they explore concerns related to sex, intimacy and gender identity. Using a combination of proven methods in sex therapy and relationship/family therapies, I help people heal and experience a satisfying sex life so they can live a more connected and thriving life.
(607) 228-8157 View (607) 228-8157
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Kirsten Lesch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSW, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152
You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are.The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates. It doesn't have to be this way.
You deserve a life that feels good. We know that even good relationships can get stuck in unhealthy patterns. Do you find that when you are trying to connect with your partner you end up in a cycle of communication that's not helpful or productive? Do you retreat and silence it until next time? There is always next time… Maybe this time they will understand…we become louder in hopes they see how hurt we are.The more we aren't seen and heard the more resentful we become. The explosions become more significant and the intimacy ceases, now you are just resentful roommates. It doesn't have to be this way.
(315) 646-4014 View (315) 646-4014
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Kelly A Clookey
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152
It’s time to nourish your heart, mind, body & soul! Self-care isn’t always easy but it is not selfish to prioritize your own wellbeing. Engaging in meaningful counseling sessions can support an overall sense of peace & change in how your brain processes and thinks about your experiences. Together we can work on reshaping negative thought patterns & can create new neuropathways for a healthier mind. I provide a safe space for healing by addressing matters of the heart & examining root issues. Specialized in adolescent/adult related issues such as stress/trauma, grief/loss, burnout, body image, depression/anxiety, addiction/OCD/aging.
It’s time to nourish your heart, mind, body & soul! Self-care isn’t always easy but it is not selfish to prioritize your own wellbeing. Engaging in meaningful counseling sessions can support an overall sense of peace & change in how your brain processes and thinks about your experiences. Together we can work on reshaping negative thought patterns & can create new neuropathways for a healthier mind. I provide a safe space for healing by addressing matters of the heart & examining root issues. Specialized in adolescent/adult related issues such as stress/trauma, grief/loss, burnout, body image, depression/anxiety, addiction/OCD/aging.
(315) 642-1701 View (315) 642-1701
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Mary Collins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Skaneateles, NY 13152
We all experience struggles throughout our life. Are you or a family member feeling overwhelmed or struggling with depression, anxiety, relationships, career, family issues, or current circumstances? Please know that you are not alone. I am here to assist you in uncovering potential obstacles, defining your life goals, and developing strategies and confidence to achieve them. Although our past cannot be altered, it does not have to dictate our future. We always have the power to shape what lies ahead!
We all experience struggles throughout our life. Are you or a family member feeling overwhelmed or struggling with depression, anxiety, relationships, career, family issues, or current circumstances? Please know that you are not alone. I am here to assist you in uncovering potential obstacles, defining your life goals, and developing strategies and confidence to achieve them. Although our past cannot be altered, it does not have to dictate our future. We always have the power to shape what lies ahead!
(315) 961-9957 View (315) 961-9957
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Tess Walsh Skaneateles Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA, CASAC
Verified Verified
Skaneateles, NY 13152
Now Currently Accepting New Clients. Are you struggling with who to call or where to turn right now? I understand that reaching out to talk to someone about your personal struggles or life challenges can be difficult and I am committed to provide you the support you need to promote personal growth through this unprecedented time. I am located on the beautiful Sinclair property in Skaneateles, offering a safe, quiet and discrete place of peace and tranquility. You are not alone, I will be by your side, helping you develop better clarity, understanding and direction. Please visit my website for more details on the services I offer.
Now Currently Accepting New Clients. Are you struggling with who to call or where to turn right now? I understand that reaching out to talk to someone about your personal struggles or life challenges can be difficult and I am committed to provide you the support you need to promote personal growth through this unprecedented time. I am located on the beautiful Sinclair property in Skaneateles, offering a safe, quiet and discrete place of peace and tranquility. You are not alone, I will be by your side, helping you develop better clarity, understanding and direction. Please visit my website for more details on the services I offer.
(315) 847-3862 View (315) 847-3862
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Fingerlakes LCSW Counseling Services, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Skaneateles, NY 13152
We have a team of therapist in-person and remote that are solution-focused therapists within sessions and believe in working side by side with clients in making progress. Our goal as a therapist is to make clients feel safe, confident and comfortable working through issues. We have a large amount of experience working with anxiety, panic, OCD, depression, bi-polar, marital issues, post-partum depression, grief/loss, and codependency
We have a team of therapist in-person and remote that are solution-focused therapists within sessions and believe in working side by side with clients in making progress. Our goal as a therapist is to make clients feel safe, confident and comfortable working through issues. We have a large amount of experience working with anxiety, panic, OCD, depression, bi-polar, marital issues, post-partum depression, grief/loss, and codependency
(315) 636-6220 View (315) 636-6220
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Lauren Ippoliti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152
Intimate relationships are an opportunity for great love, enrichment of our lives and true partnership. The challenges we face in modern-day society and the lack of training we receive often equate to great difficulties within some of our most important relationships. I love relational work because we have an opportunity to create meaningful, loving and supporting relationships, but only if we have the tools to do so. Imago Relationship Therapy provides tools, a perspective shift and a roadmap. This is courageous work, that can significantly impact yourself, your relationships and those around you.
Intimate relationships are an opportunity for great love, enrichment of our lives and true partnership. The challenges we face in modern-day society and the lack of training we receive often equate to great difficulties within some of our most important relationships. I love relational work because we have an opportunity to create meaningful, loving and supporting relationships, but only if we have the tools to do so. Imago Relationship Therapy provides tools, a perspective shift and a roadmap. This is courageous work, that can significantly impact yourself, your relationships and those around you.
(315) 756-3979 View (315) 756-3979
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Nicole Walker
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152  (Online Only)
This sucks, I get it. You're on here sifting through psychology today profiles trying to find a friendly face and a bio that "speaks" to you. Hoping to find a glimmer of hope that makes you believe you won't feel this way forever. I understand and I'm here to help. Do you feel like you're in a slump and can't get out of it? Is your relationship in a rut? Do you have a hard time saying "no" to others or ever worry you're living your life for someone else? I have your back to turn this around. I specialize in helping people live authentic lives and restore connection with themselves and others.
This sucks, I get it. You're on here sifting through psychology today profiles trying to find a friendly face and a bio that "speaks" to you. Hoping to find a glimmer of hope that makes you believe you won't feel this way forever. I understand and I'm here to help. Do you feel like you're in a slump and can't get out of it? Is your relationship in a rut? Do you have a hard time saying "no" to others or ever worry you're living your life for someone else? I have your back to turn this around. I specialize in helping people live authentic lives and restore connection with themselves and others.
(315) 325-8368 View (315) 325-8368
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Lauren O'Brien
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152  (Online Only)
​My name is Lauren Guest O'Brien and I have been working in the counseling field since 2005.  I am a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor.  I have experience working with individuals of all ages but my current practice is working with adolescents and adults.  I have expertise in a variety of mental health issues; my current passions are working in the areas of Anxiety, Trauma and Grief, Adjustment, Pregnancy/Prenatal, and Postpartum.
​My name is Lauren Guest O'Brien and I have been working in the counseling field since 2005.  I am a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor and a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor.  I have experience working with individuals of all ages but my current practice is working with adolescents and adults.  I have expertise in a variety of mental health issues; my current passions are working in the areas of Anxiety, Trauma and Grief, Adjustment, Pregnancy/Prenatal, and Postpartum.
(315) 325-8556 View (315) 325-8556
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Laura Brennan
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152
Therapy is a wonderful opportunity to gain a deeper sense of fulfillment in your life. Whether you’re new to therapy or have tried many different types of treatment, I’m here to help you. I am a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor, specializing in addiction, anxiety, depression, stress management, life transitions and other behavioral health concerns. My therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges.
Therapy is a wonderful opportunity to gain a deeper sense of fulfillment in your life. Whether you’re new to therapy or have tried many different types of treatment, I’m here to help you. I am a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor, specializing in addiction, anxiety, depression, stress management, life transitions and other behavioral health concerns. My therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges.
(315) 302-1398 View (315) 302-1398
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Michelle VanHatten
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Skaneateles, NY 13152
You lie awake at night, going over the day again and wondering where it all went wrong. Before you have time to figure it out, yet another hectic day has begun. As a parent of a child who has experienced a challenge or traumatic experience, it's like you're being asked to do it all. The problem is that there's never enough energy, time, or information to manage the difficult behaviors. Before you know it, you've seen multiple therapists and nothing seems to work. The parenting suggestions just don't fit the socially awkward tantrums, fits of rage, or your child's need to control. You're nearing the end of your rope, but what's next?
You lie awake at night, going over the day again and wondering where it all went wrong. Before you have time to figure it out, yet another hectic day has begun. As a parent of a child who has experienced a challenge or traumatic experience, it's like you're being asked to do it all. The problem is that there's never enough energy, time, or information to manage the difficult behaviors. Before you know it, you've seen multiple therapists and nothing seems to work. The parenting suggestions just don't fit the socially awkward tantrums, fits of rage, or your child's need to control. You're nearing the end of your rope, but what's next?
(315) 506-4383 View (315) 506-4383
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Erin M. Yudikaitis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Skaneateles, NY 13152  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I’m Erin. Thank you for taking the time to visit my page. Sometimes taking the first step to start therapy can be hard. My goal is to make the process easy for you so that you can begin to focus on your goals. I know how difficult life can be and how hard it is to heal. I work along side you to help and support you with this. I take a strength based and solution focused approach.
Hello, I’m Erin. Thank you for taking the time to visit my page. Sometimes taking the first step to start therapy can be hard. My goal is to make the process easy for you so that you can begin to focus on your goals. I know how difficult life can be and how hard it is to heal. I work along side you to help and support you with this. I take a strength based and solution focused approach.
(315) 753-5447 View (315) 753-5447

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Kate van Ingen Kelsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Marcellus, NY 13108  (Online Only)
I have over 25 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors. Couples work helps members listen differently, understand, and negotiate respectfully. I help parents understand children's behavior through a social emotional developmental lens. Individual work within the context of relationships explores self care. Our lives are affected by the systems in which we live and work.
I have over 25 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors. Couples work helps members listen differently, understand, and negotiate respectfully. I help parents understand children's behavior through a social emotional developmental lens. Individual work within the context of relationships explores self care. Our lives are affected by the systems in which we live and work.
(315) 291-8383 View (315) 291-8383
Photo of Maria Page, MS, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Maria Page
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Auburn, NY 13021
Is your relationship struggling? Are you feeling defeated? Is it impacting your home life? I am here to offer you and your partner a safe space to work through your issues and build a stronger relationship together. Life brings difficulties to each of us and sometimes we need another person to help us through the difficulties. Together we can work towards building a stronger future.
Is your relationship struggling? Are you feeling defeated? Is it impacting your home life? I am here to offer you and your partner a safe space to work through your issues and build a stronger relationship together. Life brings difficulties to each of us and sometimes we need another person to help us through the difficulties. Together we can work towards building a stronger future.
(315) 903-7641 View (315) 903-7641
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Sally Rousseau
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Marcellus, NY 13108  (Online Only)
Hi there, I'm Sally! My name is Sally Rousseau and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Upstate New York working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with individuals, couples and families and specialize in life cycle stage transitions using family systems, attachment, mindfulness and cognitive theory-based approaches to help my clients to start feeling better. I create a therapeutic environment that allows clients to feel safe and heard; I also use humor and irreverence appropriately and respectfully.
Hi there, I'm Sally! My name is Sally Rousseau and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Upstate New York working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with individuals, couples and families and specialize in life cycle stage transitions using family systems, attachment, mindfulness and cognitive theory-based approaches to help my clients to start feeling better. I create a therapeutic environment that allows clients to feel safe and heard; I also use humor and irreverence appropriately and respectfully.
(347) 632-9753 View (347) 632-9753
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Melissa Gallup
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, -PIP
Verified Verified
Auburn, NY 13021  (Online Only)
As humans we can get caught up in being human doings instead of human BEINGS. This mindset can be invalidating, robotic and cause a disconnect between our heart and our minds. We can identify these traits and shift our perspectives by allowing ourselves the time and space to feel and heal. When we are validating, compassionate and kind to ourselves we can embrace our inner desires and experience deeper connections. Then, together, we can embrace the possibility of change and hope through therapeutic discussions and professional guidance. This degree of encouragement can be exactly what you may need to find your way in your journey.
As humans we can get caught up in being human doings instead of human BEINGS. This mindset can be invalidating, robotic and cause a disconnect between our heart and our minds. We can identify these traits and shift our perspectives by allowing ourselves the time and space to feel and heal. When we are validating, compassionate and kind to ourselves we can embrace our inner desires and experience deeper connections. Then, together, we can embrace the possibility of change and hope through therapeutic discussions and professional guidance. This degree of encouragement can be exactly what you may need to find your way in your journey.
(315) 273-4743 View (315) 273-4743
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Rebecca Austin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Auburn, NY 13021
I am a Licensed Social Worker with a passion for decreasing the stigma surrounding mental health and promoting the health and well being of my clients. For my undergraduate degree, I moved from Central Jersey (Yes! It exists!) to South Jersey to attend Stockton University. I received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Social Work with a Minor in Behavioral Neuroscience from Stockton, and then moved on to attend graduate school in Philadelphia. I received my Master of Social Work Degree with a clinical concentration from the University of Pennsylvania’s School of Social Policy and Practice in May of 2020.
I am a Licensed Social Worker with a passion for decreasing the stigma surrounding mental health and promoting the health and well being of my clients. For my undergraduate degree, I moved from Central Jersey (Yes! It exists!) to South Jersey to attend Stockton University. I received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Social Work with a Minor in Behavioral Neuroscience from Stockton, and then moved on to attend graduate school in Philadelphia. I received my Master of Social Work Degree with a clinical concentration from the University of Pennsylvania’s School of Social Policy and Practice in May of 2020.
(315) 631-1272 View (315) 631-1272
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Jennifer Beaton
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Auburn, NY 13021
I helped people navigate a variety of topics, including anxiety, codependency, substance abuse, relational issues, ADHD, gender/identity exploration, and religious trauma, among others. My ideal client is ready to explore, ask questions, and get to the root of things. They want to improve their relationship with themselves and others. They are an active participant in the therapeutic process and are willing to work with me to explore solutions.
I helped people navigate a variety of topics, including anxiety, codependency, substance abuse, relational issues, ADHD, gender/identity exploration, and religious trauma, among others. My ideal client is ready to explore, ask questions, and get to the root of things. They want to improve their relationship with themselves and others. They are an active participant in the therapeutic process and are willing to work with me to explore solutions.
(315) 818-3130 View (315) 818-3130
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Alexandra Paul
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camillus, NY 13031
Owning your story takes bravery and is an integral part of the journey toward transformative change. If you are reading this you are already taking the first courageous step in committing to your personal growth and healing. I believe that therapy should provide a safe space for you to process and make meaning of your life, past and present, in order to help you envision and move toward a life worth living. I am here to form a strong relationship with individuals, to be genuine and compassionate, and to collaborate with you to shape your life in a way that is authentic to you and promotes well-being.
Owning your story takes bravery and is an integral part of the journey toward transformative change. If you are reading this you are already taking the first courageous step in committing to your personal growth and healing. I believe that therapy should provide a safe space for you to process and make meaning of your life, past and present, in order to help you envision and move toward a life worth living. I am here to form a strong relationship with individuals, to be genuine and compassionate, and to collaborate with you to shape your life in a way that is authentic to you and promotes well-being.
(315) 306-3503 View (315) 306-3503
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Christopher J Thomas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS, CASAC-M
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auburn, NY 13024
Are you struggling with a mental health issue? Do you lack motivation, focus, and direction? Are you overwhelmed with life stressors and emotions? Are you living in the past, stuck, and unable to move forward? Do you use alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex or gaming to “cope” with life stressors? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you would benefit from counseling with an objective, nonjudgmental, and supportive therapist. Let me be that therapist for you. Life can be hard, stressful, and challenging but you do not have to navigate this trip alone.
Are you struggling with a mental health issue? Do you lack motivation, focus, and direction? Are you overwhelmed with life stressors and emotions? Are you living in the past, stuck, and unable to move forward? Do you use alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex or gaming to “cope” with life stressors? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you would benefit from counseling with an objective, nonjudgmental, and supportive therapist. Let me be that therapist for you. Life can be hard, stressful, and challenging but you do not have to navigate this trip alone.
(315) 712-1300 View (315) 712-1300

Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.