Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Setauket, NY

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Clear Path DBT
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
DBT is effective with borderline PD; chronic suicidal ideation; self-harm behaviors; Major Depression; Bipolar Disorder; Anxiety Disorders; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD); Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD); High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD); Eating Disorders; Substance abuse/Addictions; and confusion about gender identity.
We are a small, private psychology practice in Port Jefferson, NY in Suffolk County on Long Island. Our Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) practice is dedicated to the knowledgeable and compassionate care of individuals struggling with intense emotions, behavioral difficulties, problems in their relationships, and other mental health concerns. Clear Path DBT treats clients across all stages of life, from children (9 years and older) with emotional and behavioral dysregulation, to teens, young adults, college students, adults, and older adults. We strive to help individuals build a life worth living.
DBT is effective with borderline PD; chronic suicidal ideation; self-harm behaviors; Major Depression; Bipolar Disorder; Anxiety Disorders; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD); Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD); High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD); Eating Disorders; Substance abuse/Addictions; and confusion about gender identity.
We are a small, private psychology practice in Port Jefferson, NY in Suffolk County on Long Island. Our Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) practice is dedicated to the knowledgeable and compassionate care of individuals struggling with intense emotions, behavioral difficulties, problems in their relationships, and other mental health concerns. Clear Path DBT treats clients across all stages of life, from children (9 years and older) with emotional and behavioral dysregulation, to teens, young adults, college students, adults, and older adults. We strive to help individuals build a life worth living.
(631) 707-9163 View (631) 707-9163
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Mario Brajuha
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733  (Online Only)
Do you feel that your marriage has lost the spark? Are you asking yourself, what is wrong with my partner? Do you feel that you drink more than you used to? Is your teenage child acting as a runaway train? Does my child drink? Does she use drugs? Is she sexually active? Are you second-guessing your parenting skills? Is it them? Is it me? Do you feel that you have lost your grip on things? Contact me and I will help you better understand these concerns.Some people listen, and some wait to speak. I listen.
Do you feel that your marriage has lost the spark? Are you asking yourself, what is wrong with my partner? Do you feel that you drink more than you used to? Is your teenage child acting as a runaway train? Does my child drink? Does she use drugs? Is she sexually active? Are you second-guessing your parenting skills? Is it them? Is it me? Do you feel that you have lost your grip on things? Contact me and I will help you better understand these concerns.Some people listen, and some wait to speak. I listen.
(631) 880-4321 View (631) 880-4321
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Dr. Kim Lynn Lehnert
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
In my work as a clinical psychologist, I believe the connection between therapist and client to be the most important agent of change. Healing happens best in the context of a warm, collaborative and supportive relationship. When an individual is going through a difficult time or life experience, he or she often feels small, disconnected and incapable of making positive changes on his or her own. In safe connection, it becomes possible for the individual to feel empowered, connected and more flexible and capable of making the decisions and behavioral changes necessary to heal and/or move forward.
In my work as a clinical psychologist, I believe the connection between therapist and client to be the most important agent of change. Healing happens best in the context of a warm, collaborative and supportive relationship. When an individual is going through a difficult time or life experience, he or she often feels small, disconnected and incapable of making positive changes on his or her own. In safe connection, it becomes possible for the individual to feel empowered, connected and more flexible and capable of making the decisions and behavioral changes necessary to heal and/or move forward.
(631) 240-0508 View (631) 240-0508
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Amanda Lea Grodewald - Adler
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
I am a licensed psychologist specializing in CBT for children, adolescents, and adults. I am dedicated to offering state-of-the-art, scientifically-proven psychotherapy for a wide range of emotional and behavioral concerns. I provide individualized assessment and customized treatment plans with measurable goals so that therapy is short-term, and signs of progress are clear to all. I offer individual therapy, group therapy, and psychoeducational testing. Additionally, I run a specialized treatment program for insomnia. I am part of a group psychotherapy practice servicing the mental health needs of the community in central Suffolk County, NY.
I am a licensed psychologist specializing in CBT for children, adolescents, and adults. I am dedicated to offering state-of-the-art, scientifically-proven psychotherapy for a wide range of emotional and behavioral concerns. I provide individualized assessment and customized treatment plans with measurable goals so that therapy is short-term, and signs of progress are clear to all. I offer individual therapy, group therapy, and psychoeducational testing. Additionally, I run a specialized treatment program for insomnia. I am part of a group psychotherapy practice servicing the mental health needs of the community in central Suffolk County, NY.
(631) 707-9122 View (631) 707-9122
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Elma Pisano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
At some point in our lives, we all run into problems that seem too big or too persistent to handle alone. With more than 10 years of experience in private practice I've helped individuals, couples and families successfully overcome life's challenges and return to a happier and peaceful lifestyle. I'll help you overcome life's difficulties by teaching you the tools you need to achieve positive growth and change.
At some point in our lives, we all run into problems that seem too big or too persistent to handle alone. With more than 10 years of experience in private practice I've helped individuals, couples and families successfully overcome life's challenges and return to a happier and peaceful lifestyle. I'll help you overcome life's difficulties by teaching you the tools you need to achieve positive growth and change.
(631) 714-2011 View (631) 714-2011
Michael Bordes
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
Waitlist for new clients
I have been a mental health counselor for nine years, offering care to individuals, families, and couples. I provide a non-judgmental space for the LGBTQ+ community, trauma survivors, as well as those working through their addiction and mental health issues. I look forward to speaking with you soon.
I have been a mental health counselor for nine years, offering care to individuals, families, and couples. I provide a non-judgmental space for the LGBTQ+ community, trauma survivors, as well as those working through their addiction and mental health issues. I look forward to speaking with you soon.
(631) 993-4094 View (631) 993-4094
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Sandy Schlesinger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
The decision to see a therapist is a personal one and perhaps the most important factor in that decision is the connection you make with the therapist that you choose. I create a safe, supportive and non-judgmental environment for you to discuss the challenges that you currently face. We will partner together to develop tools and coping skills to make positive change and live a happier life.
The decision to see a therapist is a personal one and perhaps the most important factor in that decision is the connection you make with the therapist that you choose. I create a safe, supportive and non-judgmental environment for you to discuss the challenges that you currently face. We will partner together to develop tools and coping skills to make positive change and live a happier life.
(631) 964-6027 View (631) 964-6027
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Amy D'Antonio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
Life can be stressful and overwhelming for teens, and adults. School, work, relationships, family issues, trauma, life transitions and social pressure can become challenging to cope with. These difficulties, in addition to other personal struggles, can lead to trouble in school or work, anxiety, depression, PTSD, opposition and defiance, irritability, relationship instability, feelings of low self esteem, and other concerns. We can work together to help you, or your child navigate a way towards a healthier, happier and more fulfilling life.
Life can be stressful and overwhelming for teens, and adults. School, work, relationships, family issues, trauma, life transitions and social pressure can become challenging to cope with. These difficulties, in addition to other personal struggles, can lead to trouble in school or work, anxiety, depression, PTSD, opposition and defiance, irritability, relationship instability, feelings of low self esteem, and other concerns. We can work together to help you, or your child navigate a way towards a healthier, happier and more fulfilling life.
(631) 309-2957 View (631) 309-2957
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Samantha Marzano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Setauket, NY 11733
Hi, I'm Sam and I'm so glad you're here! Taking the step to begin therapy is not always easy, and I would be honored to work alongside you. I believe in creating a safe, warm, and nonjudgmental environment where you feel heard and supported. I am here to meet you where you are at and help you to identify and work toward your goals.
Hi, I'm Sam and I'm so glad you're here! Taking the step to begin therapy is not always easy, and I would be honored to work alongside you. I believe in creating a safe, warm, and nonjudgmental environment where you feel heard and supported. I am here to meet you where you are at and help you to identify and work toward your goals.
(516) 916-6284 View (516) 916-6284
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Danielle LaGrandier
Art Therapist, MA, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Setauket, NY 11733  (Online Only)
We all encounter wounds from different phases of life, relationships and traumas. However, we aren’t always taught the tools that offer us resolution and healing. We are conditioned to be victimized by this pain rather than transforming it for a greater purpose. I believe when we integrate using our gifts towards life’s challenges and fully embrace the darkness within us, we can use it to our advantage, turning our pain into purpose.
We all encounter wounds from different phases of life, relationships and traumas. However, we aren’t always taught the tools that offer us resolution and healing. We are conditioned to be victimized by this pain rather than transforming it for a greater purpose. I believe when we integrate using our gifts towards life’s challenges and fully embrace the darkness within us, we can use it to our advantage, turning our pain into purpose.
(516) 774-2534 View (516) 774-2534

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Kathleen DiMartino
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, and have borderline personality disorder.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, and have borderline personality disorder.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
(631) 605-7205 View (631) 605-7205
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Stony Brook University Mind Body Center
Verified Verified
Stony Brook, NY 11794
We serve children (ages 5 and up), adolescents, and adults across the lifespan. We treat conditions including but not limited to Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality Disorder, Autism, Developmental Disorders. We also focus on the treatment of stress and anxiety in individuals coping with chronic medical illnesses.
We serve children (ages 5 and up), adolescents, and adults across the lifespan. We treat conditions including but not limited to Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality Disorder, Autism, Developmental Disorders. We also focus on the treatment of stress and anxiety in individuals coping with chronic medical illnesses.
(631) 459-4625 View (631) 459-4625
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Brittany Lynn Shillingford
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson, NY 11777  (Online Only)
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
(516) 217-2242 View (516) 217-2242
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Theresa Domenichello
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
Is your anxiety getting in the way of accomplishing your life goals? Do you have a complicated relationship with food & your body? Do you struggle with relationships or feel like you have limited support from people in general? Does life feel like one bad situation after another, almost like you can't catch a break? If any of this resonates, I would be glad to walk with you in your journey of leading a more authentic, fulfilling life. I believe that our early experiences really shape us, and at times (even unknowingly) make us feel stuck.
Is your anxiety getting in the way of accomplishing your life goals? Do you have a complicated relationship with food & your body? Do you struggle with relationships or feel like you have limited support from people in general? Does life feel like one bad situation after another, almost like you can't catch a break? If any of this resonates, I would be glad to walk with you in your journey of leading a more authentic, fulfilling life. I believe that our early experiences really shape us, and at times (even unknowingly) make us feel stuck.
(516) 217-3905 View (516) 217-3905
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Johanna Sangemino
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with adults presenting with anxiety and OCD. I understand that letting go of anxiety can feel insurmountable, and I work with you to develop the tools to free yourself from worry and better connect with what is important to you.
I specialize in working with adults presenting with anxiety and OCD. I understand that letting go of anxiety can feel insurmountable, and I work with you to develop the tools to free yourself from worry and better connect with what is important to you.
(631) 856-7205 View (631) 856-7205
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Rosemarie Bruno
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, LCSW
Verified Verified
South Setauket, NY 11720
I believe the most important aspect of therapy is the relationship you build with your therapist. A good therapeutic relationship is one in which you not only gain insight into your thoughts and behaviors, but you also feel accepted and supported as you work toward making positive changes in your life. My main goal as a therapist is to build a therapeutic alliance with each person I work with that is based on acceptance, trust and support, from which it is possible to reach a level of awareness that opens the door to life altering changes and transformations.
I believe the most important aspect of therapy is the relationship you build with your therapist. A good therapeutic relationship is one in which you not only gain insight into your thoughts and behaviors, but you also feel accepted and supported as you work toward making positive changes in your life. My main goal as a therapist is to build a therapeutic alliance with each person I work with that is based on acceptance, trust and support, from which it is possible to reach a level of awareness that opens the door to life altering changes and transformations.
(516) 209-4706 View (516) 209-4706
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Dr. Heather D, PhD - The Mastery Life
PhD
Verified Verified
Stony Brook, NY 11790
My passion and interest is in people, their stories, their struggles and their triumphs. This has led me to my mission to help people create the life they have always wanted. I passionately believe that the key of being a good therapist/counselor/coach/mentor is not to help people be something they’re not... but it’s to help people become more of who they really are!
My passion and interest is in people, their stories, their struggles and their triumphs. This has led me to my mission to help people create the life they have always wanted. I passionately believe that the key of being a good therapist/counselor/coach/mentor is not to help people be something they’re not... but it’s to help people become more of who they really are!
(631) 801-4871 View (631) 801-4871
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LeeAnn H Mogel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
East Setauket, NY 11733
Is your child struggling with Anxiety, Depression, OCD, ADHD, Self-Esteem or Self-Compassion? Do they have a diagnosis of Autism and struggle with social skills? Are you a mom overwhelmed with caregiving responsibilities and the stressors of everyday life? Having the role of a child and mother in this day of age, is overwhelming and comes with increasing responsibilities and societal pressures. As a child and adult therapist I would like to help you reach your goals and integrate the knowledge and skills to handle life's challenges.
Is your child struggling with Anxiety, Depression, OCD, ADHD, Self-Esteem or Self-Compassion? Do they have a diagnosis of Autism and struggle with social skills? Are you a mom overwhelmed with caregiving responsibilities and the stressors of everyday life? Having the role of a child and mother in this day of age, is overwhelming and comes with increasing responsibilities and societal pressures. As a child and adult therapist I would like to help you reach your goals and integrate the knowledge and skills to handle life's challenges.
(516) 430-4638 View (516) 430-4638
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Lauren Lara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
East Setauket, NY 11733  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
(631) 920-4174 View (631) 920-4174
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Billy Poerio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
Do you wake up dreading the day before you? Do you feel like there are tasks that you know you have to do but, never get around to doing them? Are you or a loved one just feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where to turn? Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or having difficulty managing life transitions, relationships, or daily stress, I can help. I work with teens and adults to help create strategies that reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression and chronic stress.
Do you wake up dreading the day before you? Do you feel like there are tasks that you know you have to do but, never get around to doing them? Are you or a loved one just feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where to turn? Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or having difficulty managing life transitions, relationships, or daily stress, I can help. I work with teens and adults to help create strategies that reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression and chronic stress.
(631) 212-1013 View (631) 212-1013

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.