Gottman Method Therapists in Saint James, NY
Long Island Wellness Associates (LIWA)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, OSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint James, NY 11780 (Online Only)
At LIWA, we understand that seeking support is the first big step toward making positive changes in your life. Together we can continue to take the next steps toward reaching your goals.
At LIWA, we understand that seeking support is the first big step toward making positive changes in your life. Together we can continue to take the next steps toward reaching your goals.
Anita Amoroso
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint James, NY 11780 (Online Only)
While life alone can be chaotic, it doesn't make it any easier if you're having difficulties in your personal relationships too. This can lead to negative thoughts, depression & anxiety. Are you feeling unhappy in your relationship? Feeling disconnected from your partner, or there was an affair, maybe communication is difficult. Looking to reconnect, improve communication, resolve, or add a newness & freshness to the relationship? Know that it is possible. Time to feel good again & get rid of the heaviness of an unhappy & unhealthy relationship. Time to create a new you & a new relationship! Life will feel so much better!
While life alone can be chaotic, it doesn't make it any easier if you're having difficulties in your personal relationships too. This can lead to negative thoughts, depression & anxiety. Are you feeling unhappy in your relationship? Feeling disconnected from your partner, or there was an affair, maybe communication is difficult. Looking to reconnect, improve communication, resolve, or add a newness & freshness to the relationship? Know that it is possible. Time to feel good again & get rid of the heaviness of an unhappy & unhealthy relationship. Time to create a new you & a new relationship! Life will feel so much better!
Prof. Demi Kostouros
Counselor, LMHC, RBT, Lcoach, Couples, ADHD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Saint James, NY 11780
Struggling in your relationship? Whether you're dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, facing communication, trust and intimacy issues, feeling like your partner doesn't understand you, or dealing with a divorce, we' re here! What sets us apart is our structured approach. We'll start with weekly sessions, then transition to biweekly, and eventually monthly meetings. Plus, after your "graduation", we'll have two check-ins per year to ensure those healthy habits stick. In between sessions, we'll assign tasks to work on your relationship, and you'll have access to us outside of appointments for advice and support.
Struggling in your relationship? Whether you're dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, facing communication, trust and intimacy issues, feeling like your partner doesn't understand you, or dealing with a divorce, we' re here! What sets us apart is our structured approach. We'll start with weekly sessions, then transition to biweekly, and eventually monthly meetings. Plus, after your "graduation", we'll have two check-ins per year to ensure those healthy habits stick. In between sessions, we'll assign tasks to work on your relationship, and you'll have access to us outside of appointments for advice and support.
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I use my knowledge of the Gottman method in order to treat couples struggling in their relationships and her military experience for trauma informed therapy.
I am a Clinical Mental Health counselor at South Shore Psychological Care. I earned my B.A. in Fine Art and a minor in Psychology from S.U.N.Y Plattsburgh. I have spent the last ten years aiding military families by using my training in psychology throughout Europe and America. This inspired me to continue my education and complete my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University in Missouri. I utilize Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a Family Systems Approach to help my clients become best versions of them.
I use my knowledge of the Gottman method in order to treat couples struggling in their relationships and her military experience for trauma informed therapy.
I am a Clinical Mental Health counselor at South Shore Psychological Care. I earned my B.A. in Fine Art and a minor in Psychology from S.U.N.Y Plattsburgh. I have spent the last ten years aiding military families by using my training in psychology throughout Europe and America. This inspired me to continue my education and complete my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University in Missouri. I utilize Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a Family Systems Approach to help my clients become best versions of them.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist, who is trained in a variety of psychotherapeutic interventions such as psychodynamic therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and the Gottman Method for couples therapy.
Accepting new clients in NY and MA, for virtual appointments only. Sometimes the roads we chose to traverse become less easy to navigate as situations change, circumstances reach beyond our control, or life simply needs some readjusting to get back on track. I strive to provide individual clients and couples with a vehicle to discover the answers that they seek about themselves and their relationships. I help clients learn the tools they need to navigate the road on their own, and find the healing that they desire.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist, who is trained in a variety of psychotherapeutic interventions such as psychodynamic therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and the Gottman Method for couples therapy.
Accepting new clients in NY and MA, for virtual appointments only. Sometimes the roads we chose to traverse become less easy to navigate as situations change, circumstances reach beyond our control, or life simply needs some readjusting to get back on track. I strive to provide individual clients and couples with a vehicle to discover the answers that they seek about themselves and their relationships. I help clients learn the tools they need to navigate the road on their own, and find the healing that they desire.
Alexa Sadowsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11745
Do you feel like you’re in a constant struggle with worry, low motivation, panic, unpredictable moods, or with your past? Is the daily struggle dragging down your quality of life like an anchor? Are you in a relationship where you feel you’re not being heard, or you’re tired of the same issues coming up, or someone has been unfaithful and you agonize over how could you ever rebuild what you two had before? I approach every client with an open mind without assumptions about your life. I will help relieve those struggles, forming a trusting, collaborative relationship with you on this journey towards peace.
Do you feel like you’re in a constant struggle with worry, low motivation, panic, unpredictable moods, or with your past? Is the daily struggle dragging down your quality of life like an anchor? Are you in a relationship where you feel you’re not being heard, or you’re tired of the same issues coming up, or someone has been unfaithful and you agonize over how could you ever rebuild what you two had before? I approach every client with an open mind without assumptions about your life. I will help relieve those struggles, forming a trusting, collaborative relationship with you on this journey towards peace.
As a therapist, my mission is to deepen the conversations we have with ourselves, creating opportunities for growth. By deepening our relationships with Self, we can gain better perspective on our choices — how we got to this moment, as well as how to move forward. Through a therapeutic, strength-based partnership in a welcoming, supportive, and judgment-free environment, we will explore your potential and move toward a place of authenticity and contentment. I specialize in adults and adolescents who struggle with trauma, anxiety, depression, shame, eating disorders, body-image, parenting, marital problems and attachment issues.
As a therapist, my mission is to deepen the conversations we have with ourselves, creating opportunities for growth. By deepening our relationships with Self, we can gain better perspective on our choices — how we got to this moment, as well as how to move forward. Through a therapeutic, strength-based partnership in a welcoming, supportive, and judgment-free environment, we will explore your potential and move toward a place of authenticity and contentment. I specialize in adults and adolescents who struggle with trauma, anxiety, depression, shame, eating disorders, body-image, parenting, marital problems and attachment issues.
Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Do you often put your needs at the bottom of your to-do list? Do you wonder if life should feel better and happier? Now, more than ever, people are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about how to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself or your spouse/family can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body.
Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Do you often put your needs at the bottom of your to-do list? Do you wonder if life should feel better and happier? Now, more than ever, people are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about how to manage their relationships, careers, and lives. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself or your spouse/family can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body.
Maria Alejandra Mirabella
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787 (Online Only)
As a bilingual therapist fluent in both Spanish and English, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate some of life's most important and often challenging transitions. Whether you're stepping into marriage, embracing the joys and struggles of parenthood, dealing with separation, or contemplating the next phase of your relationship, I offer a supportive and empathetic space where you can openly explore your thoughts and feelings.
As a bilingual therapist fluent in both Spanish and English, I am dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate some of life's most important and often challenging transitions. Whether you're stepping into marriage, embracing the joys and struggles of parenthood, dealing with separation, or contemplating the next phase of your relationship, I offer a supportive and empathetic space where you can openly explore your thoughts and feelings.
Candice Farrell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Thank you for visiting my page, and welcome to my practice! It takes a tremendous amount of courage and wisdom to recognize the need for change and to take the first step. I am a very open, supportive, compassionate individual. I believe in the power of human connection and feel that therapy is most effective when a genuine, trusting, and collaborative dynamic exists between us. As your therapist, I will help you feel empowered to take the next steps to improve your life. I look forward to connecting!
Thank you for visiting my page, and welcome to my practice! It takes a tremendous amount of courage and wisdom to recognize the need for change and to take the first step. I am a very open, supportive, compassionate individual. I believe in the power of human connection and feel that therapy is most effective when a genuine, trusting, and collaborative dynamic exists between us. As your therapist, I will help you feel empowered to take the next steps to improve your life. I look forward to connecting!
Are you tired of working so hard in life but feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and unfulfilled? On the outside, things may look like everything is going well. But inside, your emotions, personal struggles and/or relationship challenges are bringing you down. You may be feeling exhausted, stressed out and sad by painful memories, life experiences or marital problems. You want things to be different and realize it’s time to do something different. You want to heal the pain you’ve been experiencing and feel more optimistic about your future. You deserve to have more satisfaction and enjoyment in the life you worked so hard to achieve.
Are you tired of working so hard in life but feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and unfulfilled? On the outside, things may look like everything is going well. But inside, your emotions, personal struggles and/or relationship challenges are bringing you down. You may be feeling exhausted, stressed out and sad by painful memories, life experiences or marital problems. You want things to be different and realize it’s time to do something different. You want to heal the pain you’ve been experiencing and feel more optimistic about your future. You deserve to have more satisfaction and enjoyment in the life you worked so hard to achieve.
Life can be tough. We sometimes find ourselves feeling unfulfilled, anxious, depressed, and stressed. I work with individuals, couples, children, adolescents, older adults, veterans, and families. I have a broad scope of clinical experience, including supporting clients with depression, anxiety, marital conflict, career transition, and trauma. I believe healing is best accomplished by addressing challenges through a holistic lens which includes the mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of ourselves.
Life can be tough. We sometimes find ourselves feeling unfulfilled, anxious, depressed, and stressed. I work with individuals, couples, children, adolescents, older adults, veterans, and families. I have a broad scope of clinical experience, including supporting clients with depression, anxiety, marital conflict, career transition, and trauma. I believe healing is best accomplished by addressing challenges through a holistic lens which includes the mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of ourselves.
Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couple Workshop/Specialist
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Stony Brook, NY 11790
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Trish J Nauss
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11790
I'm Trish J. Nauss, LCSW-R, founder of A Different View Psychotherapy, Unique Therapy for the Unique You! Through the healing power of psychotherapy, I provide a unique journey of healing to individuals, couples & families. I treat Anxiety, Past Trauma, Life Transitions/adjustment issues, Relationship /Couples/Marital/ Pre-Marital Issues & other areas that you can find more details about on my website. I’m trained in & use CBT combined with other methods, strategies & approaches tailored to you personally. I’m trained in mindfulness which I use along with a client-centered approach combined with empowerment & self-esteem building.
I'm Trish J. Nauss, LCSW-R, founder of A Different View Psychotherapy, Unique Therapy for the Unique You! Through the healing power of psychotherapy, I provide a unique journey of healing to individuals, couples & families. I treat Anxiety, Past Trauma, Life Transitions/adjustment issues, Relationship /Couples/Marital/ Pre-Marital Issues & other areas that you can find more details about on my website. I’m trained in & use CBT combined with other methods, strategies & approaches tailored to you personally. I’m trained in mindfulness which I use along with a client-centered approach combined with empowerment & self-esteem building.
People are occasionally presented with circumstances that tax their ability to effectively cope with life's challenges. A central aspect to helping clients is Ms. Regan's belief in the unique qualities and strengths of each person. In a warm and empathic environment these core strengths can be drawn out, amplified and enlisted to solve their problems and meet life challenges. The goal is to help people enhance understanding and develop new skills that create a sense of competence, balance and well being. This process provides the foundation for personal growth and positive change in one's life.
People are occasionally presented with circumstances that tax their ability to effectively cope with life's challenges. A central aspect to helping clients is Ms. Regan's belief in the unique qualities and strengths of each person. In a warm and empathic environment these core strengths can be drawn out, amplified and enlisted to solve their problems and meet life challenges. The goal is to help people enhance understanding and develop new skills that create a sense of competence, balance and well being. This process provides the foundation for personal growth and positive change in one's life.
There are many times in life where we just feel "stuck." Whether that be at work, in our relationships, or just finding the motivation to get through the day, sometimes it can feel insurmountable. Together we can work to push forward and find ways to become "unstuck" in your life. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to identify your goals and the pathways to get to them. Additionally, we will learn ways to adjust your perspective which can be a powerful means to change your way of thinking, and mood, for the better.
There are many times in life where we just feel "stuck." Whether that be at work, in our relationships, or just finding the motivation to get through the day, sometimes it can feel insurmountable. Together we can work to push forward and find ways to become "unstuck" in your life. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to identify your goals and the pathways to get to them. Additionally, we will learn ways to adjust your perspective which can be a powerful means to change your way of thinking, and mood, for the better.
Finding a therapist that matches your style and needs can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. Please review my website at www.drschlee.com to see if my training & experience will help you end that search. I primarily use cognitive-behavioral methods to help clients gain insight re: areas in their lives that need a "tune-up." Getting started can feel overwhelming. After 25+ years as a therapist, I'm equipped to ease the process for you. Want a more satisfying life? Let's figure out how to get you there.
Finding a therapist that matches your style and needs can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. Please review my website at www.drschlee.com to see if my training & experience will help you end that search. I primarily use cognitive-behavioral methods to help clients gain insight re: areas in their lives that need a "tune-up." Getting started can feel overwhelming. After 25+ years as a therapist, I'm equipped to ease the process for you. Want a more satisfying life? Let's figure out how to get you there.
Joseph Patrick Iannotto
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11790 (Online Only)
I worked with teens, young adults, older adults and couples. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, lgbtq+ related issues, relationship issues & family conflicts. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in this process.
I worked with teens, young adults, older adults and couples. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, lgbtq+ related issues, relationship issues & family conflicts. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in this process.
Counseling Services of Long Island
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11794
With more than 25 years of success operating a Clinical Social Work practice with high-impact results, Counseling Services of Long Island is a highly regarded and trusted resource for clients and therapists alike throughout the region. We are known for our professional skills, and our compassionate and non-judgmental approach in helping clients achieve positive change, happiness and emotional well-being. We accept many insurance plans, and provide individual, family, group and specialized counseling for couples. We also have a special, copyrighted ADHD program - 'From Distraction to Action' for teens and their parents.
With more than 25 years of success operating a Clinical Social Work practice with high-impact results, Counseling Services of Long Island is a highly regarded and trusted resource for clients and therapists alike throughout the region. We are known for our professional skills, and our compassionate and non-judgmental approach in helping clients achieve positive change, happiness and emotional well-being. We accept many insurance plans, and provide individual, family, group and specialized counseling for couples. We also have a special, copyrighted ADHD program - 'From Distraction to Action' for teens and their parents.
Emotional Health Counseling Consulting LCSW PC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Have you experienced an event or many events that have completely changed your life and view of the world? Do you feel anxious, afraid, and alone? Are you finding it difficult to “relax” despite feeling fatigued? This can be very difficult and it’s also incredibly common for people who have experienced trauma. Trauma creates physical and emotional effects on the mind and body. As such, working with a trained trauma therapist can change your life! We offer effective trauma therapy and utilize EMDR throughout the practice. It helps people heal from trauma and have healthier, happier relationships and a more meaningful life.
Have you experienced an event or many events that have completely changed your life and view of the world? Do you feel anxious, afraid, and alone? Are you finding it difficult to “relax” despite feeling fatigued? This can be very difficult and it’s also incredibly common for people who have experienced trauma. Trauma creates physical and emotional effects on the mind and body. As such, working with a trained trauma therapist can change your life! We offer effective trauma therapy and utilize EMDR throughout the practice. It helps people heal from trauma and have healthier, happier relationships and a more meaningful life.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.