Anxiety Therapists in Quogue, NY

I provide psychotherapy to adults using a collaborative approach in which we work together to help you heal and grow. First, I will assist you to help me understand your strengths, experiences, relationships, challenges, and goals. Then, in the context of a mutually respectful relationship, we can discuss how barriers may have developed and how we can resolve these so you can live the live you want and deserve. I integrate therapeutic interventions to meet your unique needs, including psychodynamic, EMDR, cognitive, behavioral, mindfulness, motivational, DBT skills, relapse prevention, and other approaches.

With over 12 years of experience working with adolescents, adults and couples, Mike focuses on a person’s strengths with compassion, empathy, and above all hearing the person as an individual. His area of focus includes those struggling with anxiety, depression, PTSD/trauma, obsessive compulsive disorders (OCD), relationship and family conflict, bereavement, personal growth, stress reduction and managing life transitions. Additionally, Mike has developed a special niche over the years in working with couples, young adults and middle aged adults navigating life transitions that take many forms and the LGBTQ+ community.

Do you feel like you’re always dealing with anxiety? Are you frustrated trying to manage day-to-day stress? Do you feel overwhelmed because of mood swings? Are you worried all the time? Stress and anxiety can be debilitating and affect our lives and interpersonal relationships in negative ways. Thankfully, there are many ways to treat anxiety and stress.

Welcome! My clinical experience is in providing individual, group and family therapy. I am consistently motivated by my work and seek to aid you through self-exploration and resilience. I recognize the importance of self-advocacy and meeting individuals where they are at in their process. As a therapist, I create a safe, trusting space- utilizing a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach to ensure clients feel understood as they build clarity, confidence, motivation, and direction. I use a variety of evidence-based treatment modalities, including cognitive behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing and mindfulness techniques.

Life situations can often burden us leaving us feeling overwhelmed and hopeless which can contribute to increased anxiety and disturbance in sleeping patterns. My specialty revolves around individual and family systems therapy which includes a unique approach to couples therapy (marriage counseling), life transitions, children, adolesecents and family of origin issues. Through my continuing post graduate training I have developed a behavioral, relational, and psychdynamic psychotheraputic approach to assist in allivating these patterns by enhancing communication styles, negotiating skills and problem solving techniques.

The clients drawn to my work are highly sensitive individuals involved in creative & spiritual lifestyles & want a therapist who is appreciative of their choices. I have extensive experience helping clients work through anxiety, depression & self-defeating thoughts & behaviors. Clients will care better for themselves, develop more successful relationships & have more confidence in their decisions. Clients will learn to strengthen their voice, define their boundaries & gain a more expanded view of their future. Once we are aware of our personal nuances, what soothes us, nourishes us & triggers us we can take the steps towards change.

The decision to begin counseling is one we make when in need of support & guidance & when the struggles of life may feel overwhelming or out of control. I offer a client centered, supportive environment where you can feel safe to explore your uniqueness, thoughts, feelings, & behaviors in order raise awareness of what may be holding you back from a more meaningful, happy, successful, & fulfilling life. I strongly believe in resilience & address trauma & grief while traveling with you on your healing journey.

I am a licensed psychotherapist. I have worked in the field for over 15 years addressing issues of mood disorders, anxiety disorders, PTSD, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, impulse control issues as well as relationship problems. I work with children and adults. My approach is client centered, I personalize my intervention to fit the needs of each individual client. I am proficient in psychodynamic, relational, cognitive behavioral therapy as well as play therapy and family systems therapy. My approach is thoughtful and insight oriented.

No matter the age or circumstance surrounding why you are seeking therapy, Alexandra creates a safe, supportive, and nurturing place to grow, learn and process past and current struggles. Alexandra truly feels blessed to work with unique individuals every day and enjoys watching her clients blossom in their healing journey through self-exploration, development of positive coping skills and processing trauma. She is experienced in working with children, teens, young adults and adults as they transition through different developmental stages.

If you are reading this you are making a courageous decision to find a therapist and change the patterns of your life. Welcome! I have been a licensed therapist for 34 years and I am continuously inspired by the strength, insight, clarity, and wisdom that is revealed in the safety of the therapeutic setting. My approach is client centered and I utilize cognitive behavioral and psychodynamic modalities as indicated by individual needs. I am very excited about the practical application of neuroscience that invites us to use the focus of the mind to harness the power of attention to enhance our lives.

Are you self- critical and always concerned with what others think? Are you afraid to assert yourself for fear of hurting someone else’s feelings? Do you feel resentful and mistreated by others? Do you live in a constant state of feeling anxious, guilt ridden and depressed? I have had good success in working with people who suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, and grief. By working together, in a supportive, accepting and interactive environment, you can begin to feel a sense of empowerment, self-confidence, and work through the obstacles that that are keeping you from moving forward.

In my work with clients, it is my foremost goal, that client's should feel understood, empowered, and supported as they navigate their personal journeys. I work with clients who are looking for a collaborative relationship, where they are seen as the experts in their own lives, and therapy is a tool to help them follow the paths that best support their personal development and well-being. Clients may be experiencing a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, stress or difficulties in managing emotions and relationships.

Life is often stressful, now so more than ever. The decision to begin therapy is a positive step, but finding the right therapist can be difficult. While we all seek to uncover and understand the sources of our problems, we also need concrete ideas for how to improve our lives. At various times in life we experience different issues, including anxiety, depression, damaged relationships, or a loss of direction. I utilize a flexible, integrative and interactive approach that is tailored to the client’s individual needs, goals, and expectations, and focuses on solutions.

I have 25+ years of experience working with children, adolescents, and adults. I use a creative, eclectic approach to help my clients gain a better understanding of their thoughts, emotions, and actions, help them through difficult periods, discover coping skills, and achieve a deeper satisfaction with their lives. I work with anxiety, anger, depression, bereavement, self-esteem and family issues. I am a licensed creative arts therapist, registered drama therapist, and certified counselor, and draw from CBT, DBT, and psychodynamic theories to inform my practice. In addition, I offer college counseling as an IEC.

You are a beautiful human with the ability to take control of your life and live in a way that is meaningful to you. Anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, troubled relationships and whatever other struggles you are facing don't define you. You can learn to grow if you get out of your own way and give yourself the chance. In order to change, support is imperative. Support is where I come in. I pride myself in providing my clients with a warm, empathetic environment that encourages them to look within and build upon the strength thats already there to help them reach their fullest potential. Your goals are my goals!