Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Port Washington, NY

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Karen Arluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
(347) 682-2790 View (347) 682-2790
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Lori Bellan
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050
I provide a safe, caring environment for my clients where we work together to build a mutually respectful and trusting relationship. My job is to help remove the obstacles in your way so self-realization can take place.
I provide a safe, caring environment for my clients where we work together to build a mutually respectful and trusting relationship. My job is to help remove the obstacles in your way so self-realization can take place.
(516) 628-7364 View (516) 628-7364
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(845) 415-1886 View (845) 415-1886
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Vella Consulting Inc
M Ed
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Educational and Therapeutic Consulting practice assisting parents in need of guidance with placement in traditional boarding schools, alternative day schools, colleges and all levels of therapeutic and residential placements for any age. Traditional and non traditional settings for children, young adults and adults.
Educational and Therapeutic Consulting practice assisting parents in need of guidance with placement in traditional boarding schools, alternative day schools, colleges and all levels of therapeutic and residential placements for any age. Traditional and non traditional settings for children, young adults and adults.
(516) 570-9487 View (516) 570-9487
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Haley Rottenberg
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050
Dr. Rottenberg is a clinical psychologist, licensed in New York State. Dr. Rottenberg specializes in evidence based treatments for children, adolescents, and adults. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help you learn skills to effectively manage thoughts, emotions, and urges. Dr. Rottenberg's approach of acceptance and change will help you to understand and validate your current experience while moving toward your life worth living.
Dr. Rottenberg is a clinical psychologist, licensed in New York State. Dr. Rottenberg specializes in evidence based treatments for children, adolescents, and adults. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help you learn skills to effectively manage thoughts, emotions, and urges. Dr. Rottenberg's approach of acceptance and change will help you to understand and validate your current experience while moving toward your life worth living.
(516) 980-5690 View (516) 980-5690
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Laura Lamontanaro
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050
I am a creative, compassionate and versatile clinical psychologist with more than twenty years of experience working with adults, adolescents and children in individual, family and group psychotherapy. Relationship problems bring many individuals into treatment. I work actively in treatment with my clients to increase their self-awareness so that they can identify and overcome emotional blocks and self-image problems that negatively impact their relationships and impede their sense of happiness and personal satisfaction.
I am a creative, compassionate and versatile clinical psychologist with more than twenty years of experience working with adults, adolescents and children in individual, family and group psychotherapy. Relationship problems bring many individuals into treatment. I work actively in treatment with my clients to increase their self-awareness so that they can identify and overcome emotional blocks and self-image problems that negatively impact their relationships and impede their sense of happiness and personal satisfaction.
(516) 806-6315 View (516) 806-6315
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Loren Lapenna Goold
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, L, C, S, W
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York, specializing in children, youth and families. My passion has always been to help children and adolescents find their strengths, learn to become mindful of their emotions and communicate their needs so they can be their best selves. Everyone should have a safe and healing place to work through life's difficulties. My goal is to help children reach their fullest potential and help their families live a more harmonious and happier life together.
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York, specializing in children, youth and families. My passion has always been to help children and adolescents find their strengths, learn to become mindful of their emotions and communicate their needs so they can be their best selves. Everyone should have a safe and healing place to work through life's difficulties. My goal is to help children reach their fullest potential and help their families live a more harmonious and happier life together.
(516) 980-5819 View (516) 980-5819
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Better Life Associates LLC
Limited Licensed Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Hi I’m Dr. Ev Kotowska. My passion as a clinician is to orient you towards a healing path that provides you with a deeper sense of purpose and meaning. I am patient-centered and integrate contemporary psychotherapy with eastern meditative and spiritual traditions. My training has covered the lifespan-from infants to elderly adults in multiple settings treating a wide range of mental health and behavioral difficulties that interfere with daily living. I am committed to creating a safe and warm environment utilizing evidence-based techniques and research to inform my practice and to help clients move toward their desired outcome.
Hi I’m Dr. Ev Kotowska. My passion as a clinician is to orient you towards a healing path that provides you with a deeper sense of purpose and meaning. I am patient-centered and integrate contemporary psychotherapy with eastern meditative and spiritual traditions. My training has covered the lifespan-from infants to elderly adults in multiple settings treating a wide range of mental health and behavioral difficulties that interfere with daily living. I am committed to creating a safe and warm environment utilizing evidence-based techniques and research to inform my practice and to help clients move toward their desired outcome.
(516) 217-3647 View (516) 217-3647
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Hilary Hovis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
If you're feeling filled with self-doubt, or like you can't turn off your thoughts, you are not alone. Life is full of challenges and transitions, and when these obstacles become overwhelming, certain emotions and behavioral patterns may affect your relationships, career, and sense of self-esteem. As a therapist specializing in the treatment of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and eating disorders, I provide a safe space to identify what you'd like your life to look like, and explore what's keeping you "stuck". For more info follow us on instagram/tiktok... Username: hlwtherapy
If you're feeling filled with self-doubt, or like you can't turn off your thoughts, you are not alone. Life is full of challenges and transitions, and when these obstacles become overwhelming, certain emotions and behavioral patterns may affect your relationships, career, and sense of self-esteem. As a therapist specializing in the treatment of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and eating disorders, I provide a safe space to identify what you'd like your life to look like, and explore what's keeping you "stuck". For more info follow us on instagram/tiktok... Username: hlwtherapy
(929) 325-1124 View (929) 325-1124
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Michelle A Collins-Greene
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP, CGP, AGPA-F
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Waitlist for new clients
I have openings for group psychotherapy. It includes 2 sessions of individual intakes before joining a group. I have been in private practice for 35 years treating a wide range of personal and emotional issues for professionals, artists, creative individuals, young adult women, mothers, career women, men in relationships, teenagers in stressful family relationships, parents wanting to improve parent-child relationships of all ages, and couples. I am a Certified Group therapist and Board certified in Group Psychotherapy. I have an ongoing Women's Group in the evening.
I have openings for group psychotherapy. It includes 2 sessions of individual intakes before joining a group. I have been in private practice for 35 years treating a wide range of personal and emotional issues for professionals, artists, creative individuals, young adult women, mothers, career women, men in relationships, teenagers in stressful family relationships, parents wanting to improve parent-child relationships of all ages, and couples. I am a Certified Group therapist and Board certified in Group Psychotherapy. I have an ongoing Women's Group in the evening.
(516) 767-2166 View (516) 767-2166
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Gabriela Weinberg-gitlin
LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050
I center my work with the Hispanic population and conduct sessions in Spanish and English. In my practice, I serve adults, adolescents, children, families and couples for over 20 years. My professional orientation is client-centered and problem solving/solution focused – integrating cognitive and family systems approaches. I offer brief, intermittent and longer term treatments, individual, couples, and family therapy. Referral problems typically include mood disorders, relationship, parenting, family, adolescent behavior and adjustment problems, trauma and abuse issues, anxiety disorders, loss and bereavement and marital issues and post-divorce adjustment.
I center my work with the Hispanic population and conduct sessions in Spanish and English. In my practice, I serve adults, adolescents, children, families and couples for over 20 years. My professional orientation is client-centered and problem solving/solution focused – integrating cognitive and family systems approaches. I offer brief, intermittent and longer term treatments, individual, couples, and family therapy. Referral problems typically include mood disorders, relationship, parenting, family, adolescent behavior and adjustment problems, trauma and abuse issues, anxiety disorders, loss and bereavement and marital issues and post-divorce adjustment.
(516) 986-3104 View (516) 986-3104
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Lynn Higgins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I am a licensed clinical social worker, certified psychoanalyst and PsyaD candidate. Whether we are struggling inside of ourselves, with a loved one, or our children, it is helpful to understand why we may be struggling, and what we can do to change things in our lives. Anxiety and /or depression can leave us feeling lost and confused at times. Finding our way back through understanding can be rewarding and helpful. I treat children, adolescents, people who struggle with addictions and are ready for treatment, and families.
I am a licensed clinical social worker, certified psychoanalyst and PsyaD candidate. Whether we are struggling inside of ourselves, with a loved one, or our children, it is helpful to understand why we may be struggling, and what we can do to change things in our lives. Anxiety and /or depression can leave us feeling lost and confused at times. Finding our way back through understanding can be rewarding and helpful. I treat children, adolescents, people who struggle with addictions and are ready for treatment, and families.
(516) 246-2086 View (516) 246-2086
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Marianne F. Walters
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I am an experienced, licensed clinical psychologist. Sound mental health is more than the absence of mood swings and mental problems. It is something based in reality. It allows you to enjoy your life and meet life's challenges while maintaining a healthy balance between all aspects of your life. I will work with you to achieve your goals and alleviate suffering. The work is conducted in a comfortable, caring and private setting.
I am an experienced, licensed clinical psychologist. Sound mental health is more than the absence of mood swings and mental problems. It is something based in reality. It allows you to enjoy your life and meet life's challenges while maintaining a healthy balance between all aspects of your life. I will work with you to achieve your goals and alleviate suffering. The work is conducted in a comfortable, caring and private setting.
(516) 554-0032 View (516) 554-0032
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Debby Stromberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I believe that talking about your thoughts and feelings with me, in my safe and welcoming office, will help you feel better. My style is friendly and interactive, and I offer feedback. Together, we can explore the history of your life and learn about the patterns that exist. You will soon be able to make the changes that will help you live the life you desire. I specialize in issues related to relationships, family, career, self-esteem, fear, stress/nervousness/anxiety, loneliness/isolation, sadness/depression, body image, food/dieting/weight, parenting, pre-natal/post-natal, and feeling overwhelmed and confused.
I believe that talking about your thoughts and feelings with me, in my safe and welcoming office, will help you feel better. My style is friendly and interactive, and I offer feedback. Together, we can explore the history of your life and learn about the patterns that exist. You will soon be able to make the changes that will help you live the life you desire. I specialize in issues related to relationships, family, career, self-esteem, fear, stress/nervousness/anxiety, loneliness/isolation, sadness/depression, body image, food/dieting/weight, parenting, pre-natal/post-natal, and feeling overwhelmed and confused.
(516) 693-8072 View (516) 693-8072
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Dr. Regina Louise Cofrin. Gestalt & Hypnotherapy
Counselor, PhD, EdD, LMHC, PROF, HYPNOTH
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I am committed with consistent care to help you center yourself to discover who you really are underneath the many layers/masks that keep you from feeling 'whole and complete.' Cofrin Care Counseling connects congruently and sees the unique individual that you are! I am compassionate; my creed is that true 'connection' and communication' cure. I make authentic contact through Higher Consciousness to help you to create change through choices. Herein lies your freedom! Cofrin Counseling caters to all ages and diagnosis. I specialize in Adolescents, Family therapy and Couples Counseling utilizing a Gestalt approach to Psychotherapy.
I am committed with consistent care to help you center yourself to discover who you really are underneath the many layers/masks that keep you from feeling 'whole and complete.' Cofrin Care Counseling connects congruently and sees the unique individual that you are! I am compassionate; my creed is that true 'connection' and communication' cure. I make authentic contact through Higher Consciousness to help you to create change through choices. Herein lies your freedom! Cofrin Counseling caters to all ages and diagnosis. I specialize in Adolescents, Family therapy and Couples Counseling utilizing a Gestalt approach to Psychotherapy.
(516) 318-1535 View (516) 318-1535
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Amy Roth
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
I am a licensed Social Worker with 25 years of experience dedicated to helping children, teens and adults navigate their mental health challenges. My practice focuses on psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, allowing me to tailor my approach to meet the unique needs of each client. Throughout my career, I have developed a deep understanding of the complexities of mental health and the importance of a supportive therapeutic relationship. My goal is to create a safe and compassionate environment where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings, gain insight into their behaviors and develop effective coping strategies.
I am a licensed Social Worker with 25 years of experience dedicated to helping children, teens and adults navigate their mental health challenges. My practice focuses on psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, allowing me to tailor my approach to meet the unique needs of each client. Throughout my career, I have developed a deep understanding of the complexities of mental health and the importance of a supportive therapeutic relationship. My goal is to create a safe and compassionate environment where clients can explore their thoughts and feelings, gain insight into their behaviors and develop effective coping strategies.
(516) 259-3636 View (516) 259-3636
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Samantha Pidgeon
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Washington, NY 11050
Life can be difficult at times and it takes strength to reach out to someone for help. Through our therapeutic relationship, my goal is to help you gain self-awareness about potential negative thinking patterns and ultimately increase stability and independence. We live in a world of many different stressors and pressures and I hope to help you learn to cope with these issues in a positive way. Mental health is just as important as physical, through all stages of life. I utilize a person-centered approach in order to explore past and current issues in order to help you learn different tools to help you take control of your life.
Life can be difficult at times and it takes strength to reach out to someone for help. Through our therapeutic relationship, my goal is to help you gain self-awareness about potential negative thinking patterns and ultimately increase stability and independence. We live in a world of many different stressors and pressures and I hope to help you learn to cope with these issues in a positive way. Mental health is just as important as physical, through all stages of life. I utilize a person-centered approach in order to explore past and current issues in order to help you learn different tools to help you take control of your life.
(516) 614-6962 View (516) 614-6962
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Mark Lazarus
Psychologist, PhD
Not Verified Not Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I provide Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (CBT) to enhance your life satisfaction, sense of mastery, and connectedness with others, utilizing a warm, evidence-based, humane, collaborative manner. Therapy is not something I do TO you, but instead, a "journey" that we take together in partnership (and sometimes in laughter). We will go at your pace and focus on YOUR goals for you. I will attempt to build on your strengths and the coping skills you already possess, and to educate you about communication, problem-solving, and stress-management tools that are new to you. I have been in practice for 30 years.
I provide Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (CBT) to enhance your life satisfaction, sense of mastery, and connectedness with others, utilizing a warm, evidence-based, humane, collaborative manner. Therapy is not something I do TO you, but instead, a "journey" that we take together in partnership (and sometimes in laughter). We will go at your pace and focus on YOUR goals for you. I will attempt to build on your strengths and the coping skills you already possess, and to educate you about communication, problem-solving, and stress-management tools that are new to you. I have been in practice for 30 years.
(516) 262-5101 View (516) 262-5101
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Katherine Aloisi
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSEd
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
Have you ever wondered why you think, feel, and act in the ways that you do? Are you interested in developing a greater understanding of yourself and learning strategies to help you feel better? If you answered ‘yes’ to either of these questions, you’re in the right place. Being curious about ourselves and others is a central focus of therapy. In gaining greater understanding and compassion for ourselves we can change our patterns of thinking, reduce distressing emotions, and interact in healthier ways with the world around us.
Have you ever wondered why you think, feel, and act in the ways that you do? Are you interested in developing a greater understanding of yourself and learning strategies to help you feel better? If you answered ‘yes’ to either of these questions, you’re in the right place. Being curious about ourselves and others is a central focus of therapy. In gaining greater understanding and compassion for ourselves we can change our patterns of thinking, reduce distressing emotions, and interact in healthier ways with the world around us.
(516) 666-4882 View (516) 666-4882
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Denise Kornrich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050
I have been a licensed psychotherapist for children, adolescents, young adults and parents for more than thirty years. My clinical expertise includes working with clients who are depressed or anxious, feel dissatisfied in their relationships, get stuck in negative thinking, are stressed by life transitions, or are overwhelmed with academic challenges. For parents, I can provide effective strategies to improve your understanding, communication, and connection with your child. My warmth, enthusiasm and compassion allow me to easily establish and maintain a strong rapport with individuals of all ages.
I have been a licensed psychotherapist for children, adolescents, young adults and parents for more than thirty years. My clinical expertise includes working with clients who are depressed or anxious, feel dissatisfied in their relationships, get stuck in negative thinking, are stressed by life transitions, or are overwhelmed with academic challenges. For parents, I can provide effective strategies to improve your understanding, communication, and connection with your child. My warmth, enthusiasm and compassion allow me to easily establish and maintain a strong rapport with individuals of all ages.
(516) 774-4264 View (516) 774-4264
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.