Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Port Jefferson Station, NY

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Clear Path DBT
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
DBT is effective with borderline PD; chronic suicidal ideation; self-harm behaviors; Major Depression; Bipolar Disorder; Anxiety Disorders; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD); Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD); High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD); Eating Disorders; Substance abuse/Addictions; and confusion about gender identity.
We are a small, private psychology practice in Port Jefferson, NY in Suffolk County on Long Island. Our Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) practice is dedicated to the knowledgeable and compassionate care of individuals struggling with intense emotions, behavioral difficulties, problems in their relationships, and other mental health concerns. Clear Path DBT treats clients across all stages of life, from children (9 years and older) with emotional and behavioral dysregulation, to teens, young adults, college students, adults, and older adults. We strive to help individuals build a life worth living.
DBT is effective with borderline PD; chronic suicidal ideation; self-harm behaviors; Major Depression; Bipolar Disorder; Anxiety Disorders; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD); Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD); High-Functioning Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD); Eating Disorders; Substance abuse/Addictions; and confusion about gender identity.
We are a small, private psychology practice in Port Jefferson, NY in Suffolk County on Long Island. Our Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) practice is dedicated to the knowledgeable and compassionate care of individuals struggling with intense emotions, behavioral difficulties, problems in their relationships, and other mental health concerns. Clear Path DBT treats clients across all stages of life, from children (9 years and older) with emotional and behavioral dysregulation, to teens, young adults, college students, adults, and older adults. We strive to help individuals build a life worth living.
(631) 707-9163 View (631) 707-9163
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Brittany Lynn Shillingford
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776  (Online Only)
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
Book with me now by clicking on my website. I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
(516) 217-2242 View (516) 217-2242
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Dr. Kim Lynn Lehnert
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
In my work as a clinical psychologist, I believe the connection between therapist and client to be the most important agent of change. Healing happens best in the context of a warm, collaborative and supportive relationship. When an individual is going through a difficult time or life experience, he or she often feels small, disconnected and incapable of making positive changes on his or her own. In safe connection, it becomes possible for the individual to feel empowered, connected and more flexible and capable of making the decisions and behavioral changes necessary to heal and/or move forward.
In my work as a clinical psychologist, I believe the connection between therapist and client to be the most important agent of change. Healing happens best in the context of a warm, collaborative and supportive relationship. When an individual is going through a difficult time or life experience, he or she often feels small, disconnected and incapable of making positive changes on his or her own. In safe connection, it becomes possible for the individual to feel empowered, connected and more flexible and capable of making the decisions and behavioral changes necessary to heal and/or move forward.
(631) 240-0508 View (631) 240-0508
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Brian J. Hanson
PhD
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
Not accepting new clients
I have dedicated my clinical work to providing compassionate and comprehensive care to individuals across all age groups facing serious, complex mental health challenges. I have developed extensive expertise in treating a wide range of conditions, including suicidal ideation and self-harm behaviors, trauma and PTSD, emotion and behavioral dysregulation, eating disorders, depression and mood disorders, anxiety disorders and ADHD. Through evidence-based interventions and a holistic approach, I aim to guide individuals towards greater resilience, self-awareness, and overall well-being.
I have dedicated my clinical work to providing compassionate and comprehensive care to individuals across all age groups facing serious, complex mental health challenges. I have developed extensive expertise in treating a wide range of conditions, including suicidal ideation and self-harm behaviors, trauma and PTSD, emotion and behavioral dysregulation, eating disorders, depression and mood disorders, anxiety disorders and ADHD. Through evidence-based interventions and a holistic approach, I aim to guide individuals towards greater resilience, self-awareness, and overall well-being.
(516) 614-6781 View (516) 614-6781
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Risa Levenson
Psychologist, PhD, CH
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
Hello and thank you for viewing my profile. I am excited to get to know my clients and help them achieve their short and long-term goals. I use hypnosis and mindfulness practices for those who are interested in learning to heal self. I enjoy working with "the overthinker" and "worrier". I have specialized training in working with individuals that live with anxiety disorders and cope with various medical conditions. I am a cognitive-behavioral therapist that has training in DBT.
Hello and thank you for viewing my profile. I am excited to get to know my clients and help them achieve their short and long-term goals. I use hypnosis and mindfulness practices for those who are interested in learning to heal self. I enjoy working with "the overthinker" and "worrier". I have specialized training in working with individuals that live with anxiety disorders and cope with various medical conditions. I am a cognitive-behavioral therapist that has training in DBT.
(516) 758-1247 View (516) 758-1247
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Danielle LaGrandier
Art Therapist, MA, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776  (Online Only)
We all encounter wounds from different phases of life, relationships and traumas. However, we aren’t always taught the tools that offer us resolution and healing. We are conditioned to be victimized by this pain rather than transforming it for a greater purpose. I believe when we integrate using our gifts towards life’s challenges and fully embrace the darkness within us, we can use it to our advantage, turning our pain into purpose.
We all encounter wounds from different phases of life, relationships and traumas. However, we aren’t always taught the tools that offer us resolution and healing. We are conditioned to be victimized by this pain rather than transforming it for a greater purpose. I believe when we integrate using our gifts towards life’s challenges and fully embrace the darkness within us, we can use it to our advantage, turning our pain into purpose.
(516) 774-2534 View (516) 774-2534
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Risa Levenson
Psychologist, PhD, CH
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
Finding "our calm space" within in a very chaotic world is so important. Life will always throw challenges in our way, how we meet those challenges is very important to who we are as individuals. Find your "calm space". Learn to be your own best friend. Find healthy reciprocal relationships that will be with you for life. Understand that though you are hurting now, you are strong and resilient. There is always some discomfort in positive change. Turn off the social media often. Learn how to be mindful...learn how hypnotherapy (hypnosis + therapy) can change how you feel both physically and emotionally. Look forward!
Finding "our calm space" within in a very chaotic world is so important. Life will always throw challenges in our way, how we meet those challenges is very important to who we are as individuals. Find your "calm space". Learn to be your own best friend. Find healthy reciprocal relationships that will be with you for life. Understand that though you are hurting now, you are strong and resilient. There is always some discomfort in positive change. Turn off the social media often. Learn how to be mindful...learn how hypnotherapy (hypnosis + therapy) can change how you feel both physically and emotionally. Look forward!
(631) 253-8525 View (631) 253-8525
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Without Judgment Therapy Solutions
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
The people I work with have all types of issues they need help with. In particular, I have seen a lot of success helping people overcome past traumatic experiences as well as overwhelming present-day fears and worries. I also enjoy working with people who struggle with addictive behaviors and problems with mood. I use a nonjudgmental yet motivational approach to help people be the best versions of themselves they can be.
The people I work with have all types of issues they need help with. In particular, I have seen a lot of success helping people overcome past traumatic experiences as well as overwhelming present-day fears and worries. I also enjoy working with people who struggle with addictive behaviors and problems with mood. I use a nonjudgmental yet motivational approach to help people be the best versions of themselves they can be.
(361) 214-8196 View (361) 214-8196
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New Beginnings Psychology
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
As someone famous once sang, life is "a long and winding road". I have asked many adults "has your life followed the path you expected?" All have answered with a resounding "NO!" As children we are taught to be fair. Therefore, we often grow up expecting life to be fair and become angry, anxious, and depressed when faced with an unfair situation. One of my goals in treatment is to help clients to acknowledge the pain in a given situation, work through it, and move on. There is much more to life than just today. Each day can and should be met with enthusiasm, curiosity, and wonder. If this concept appeals to you, give me a call :)
As someone famous once sang, life is "a long and winding road". I have asked many adults "has your life followed the path you expected?" All have answered with a resounding "NO!" As children we are taught to be fair. Therefore, we often grow up expecting life to be fair and become angry, anxious, and depressed when faced with an unfair situation. One of my goals in treatment is to help clients to acknowledge the pain in a given situation, work through it, and move on. There is much more to life than just today. Each day can and should be met with enthusiasm, curiosity, and wonder. If this concept appeals to you, give me a call :)
(516) 788-5606 View (516) 788-5606
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Alexandra Paul
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
Owning your story takes bravery and is an integral part of the journey toward transformative change. If you are reading this you are already taking the first courageous step in committing to your personal growth and healing. I believe that therapy should provide a safe space for you to process and make meaning of your life, past and present, in order to help you envision and move toward a life worth living. I am here to form a strong relationship with individuals, to be genuine and compassionate, and to collaborate with you to shape your life in a way that is authentic to you and promotes well-being.
Owning your story takes bravery and is an integral part of the journey toward transformative change. If you are reading this you are already taking the first courageous step in committing to your personal growth and healing. I believe that therapy should provide a safe space for you to process and make meaning of your life, past and present, in order to help you envision and move toward a life worth living. I am here to form a strong relationship with individuals, to be genuine and compassionate, and to collaborate with you to shape your life in a way that is authentic to you and promotes well-being.
(315) 306-3503 View (315) 306-3503
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Crewson Andrew Martin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-R, CHT, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
I have been treating clients for almost 43 years ow. My framework in treatment is the symbiotic and cybernetic relationship between mind and body based in Buddhist Psychology, knowing and appreciating that an imbalance in one directly and drastically affects the other. My primary treatment modality is MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy). Balance and homeostasis are the ultimate goals
I have been treating clients for almost 43 years ow. My framework in treatment is the symbiotic and cybernetic relationship between mind and body based in Buddhist Psychology, knowing and appreciating that an imbalance in one directly and drastically affects the other. My primary treatment modality is MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy). Balance and homeostasis are the ultimate goals
(631) 880-2531 View (631) 880-2531
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Elizabeth Regina
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
I have 15 years of experience working in the community with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, mood disorders, personality disorders, ADHD, OCD, and other disorders as well. I’ve worked with adults, adolescents, and children in varied settings. In inpatient hospital settings, and partial hospital settings as well as at my private practice. I use varied therapeutic modalities that are tailored to the specific needs of my client. I utilize empathy and compassion to tailor my therapeutic interventions to the needs of you or your child. I can assist with family issues, behavioral issues, marital issues and psychiatric issues.
I have 15 years of experience working in the community with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, mood disorders, personality disorders, ADHD, OCD, and other disorders as well. I’ve worked with adults, adolescents, and children in varied settings. In inpatient hospital settings, and partial hospital settings as well as at my private practice. I use varied therapeutic modalities that are tailored to the specific needs of my client. I utilize empathy and compassion to tailor my therapeutic interventions to the needs of you or your child. I can assist with family issues, behavioral issues, marital issues and psychiatric issues.
(631) 509-7486 View (631) 509-7486
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Kristin Amber Scher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
Waitlist for new clients
Our thoughts have the ability to impact the quality of our life. "Change your thoughts and you change your world" Norman Vincent Peale. Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, we will focus on solutions, challenge distorted thinking and work towards changing destructive patterns of behavior. As a psychotherapist, I will assist you in achieving your goals and work with you to establish positive coping mechanisms to help manage your symptoms.
Our thoughts have the ability to impact the quality of our life. "Change your thoughts and you change your world" Norman Vincent Peale. Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, we will focus on solutions, challenge distorted thinking and work towards changing destructive patterns of behavior. As a psychotherapist, I will assist you in achieving your goals and work with you to establish positive coping mechanisms to help manage your symptoms.
(516) 226-7620 View (516) 226-7620

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Kathleen DiMartino
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, and have borderline personality disorder.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, and have borderline personality disorder.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
(631) 605-7205 View (631) 605-7205
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Erika Lopez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mount Sinai, NY 11766  (Online Only)
If you are struggling with self-esteem, relationship, suicidal urges/thoughts/history, self harm urges/thoughts/history, personal trauma, feeling disconnected/dissociated, impulsivity, over controlled, OCD, BPD, Bipolar Dx, Schizoaffective Dx, interpersonal effectiveness or any behavioral issues and you are looking to experience life being happy, feeling heard and understanding that you matter, then you are my ideal client.
If you are struggling with self-esteem, relationship, suicidal urges/thoughts/history, self harm urges/thoughts/history, personal trauma, feeling disconnected/dissociated, impulsivity, over controlled, OCD, BPD, Bipolar Dx, Schizoaffective Dx, interpersonal effectiveness or any behavioral issues and you are looking to experience life being happy, feeling heard and understanding that you matter, then you are my ideal client.
(516) 550-0737 View (516) 550-0737
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Bridget McNamara
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mount Sinai, NY 11766
Are you suffering with suicidal thoughts/behaviors, self-harm, managing your emotions, interpersonal issues, impulsivity or trauma? If so, I am here to help. My ideal client may be struggling with functioning in many areas of their life and may have a past history of trauma that they have not been able to share. The clients I treat are seeking skills to be able to treat these symptoms so they can heal.
Are you suffering with suicidal thoughts/behaviors, self-harm, managing your emotions, interpersonal issues, impulsivity or trauma? If so, I am here to help. My ideal client may be struggling with functioning in many areas of their life and may have a past history of trauma that they have not been able to share. The clients I treat are seeking skills to be able to treat these symptoms so they can heal.
(516) 689-1296 View (516) 689-1296
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Jeanette Lorandini
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Mount Sinai, NY 11766
Does your child have problems regulating his or her emotions? Do they go from 0-100 in no time and are they prone to frequent behavioral and emotional outbursts? Have you noticed a change in him or her? Are you concerned that your child might be unhappy? I offer a warm, genuine, and skillful approach to treatment in which children/adolescents learn that its ok to be emotional. That being sensitive is not a bad thing at all . Although others may not understand , I will sit with you, listen, observe, and we will ride this journey together. I have helped thousands of families to heal. Let me offer you the same hope.
Does your child have problems regulating his or her emotions? Do they go from 0-100 in no time and are they prone to frequent behavioral and emotional outbursts? Have you noticed a change in him or her? Are you concerned that your child might be unhappy? I offer a warm, genuine, and skillful approach to treatment in which children/adolescents learn that its ok to be emotional. That being sensitive is not a bad thing at all . Although others may not understand , I will sit with you, listen, observe, and we will ride this journey together. I have helped thousands of families to heal. Let me offer you the same hope.
(631) 479-3942 View (631) 479-3942
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Christopher Montano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Mount Sinai, NY 11766
I offer bilingual DBT and CBT treatment for adolescents, adults, and their families. I work best with clients that are seeking intensive support and are committed to making positive changes in their life. At Suffolk DBT we provide a fully comprehensive Dialectical Behavior Program. We will help you learn to become more self aware, regulate emotions, get through a crisis without making things worse, and have healthier relationships. If you avoid things due to anxiety we will help you approach things using skills , one specifically called opposite action.
I offer bilingual DBT and CBT treatment for adolescents, adults, and their families. I work best with clients that are seeking intensive support and are committed to making positive changes in their life. At Suffolk DBT we provide a fully comprehensive Dialectical Behavior Program. We will help you learn to become more self aware, regulate emotions, get through a crisis without making things worse, and have healthier relationships. If you avoid things due to anxiety we will help you approach things using skills , one specifically called opposite action.
(516) 689-7584 View (516) 689-7584
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Lauren Lara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
East Setauket, NY 11733  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
(631) 920-4174 View (631) 920-4174
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Emily English
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
If you're feeling overwhelmed by depression and anxiety, wrestling with past traumas, or simply seeking personal growth, I'm here to support you. I understand the weight of these challenges and your need for a safe space. You want someone who will listen without judgment, someone who can guide you through the complexities of your emotions and experiences. You're seeking a transformation—a way to overcome your hurdles, discover your strengths, and build a more fulfilling life.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by depression and anxiety, wrestling with past traumas, or simply seeking personal growth, I'm here to support you. I understand the weight of these challenges and your need for a safe space. You want someone who will listen without judgment, someone who can guide you through the complexities of your emotions and experiences. You're seeking a transformation—a way to overcome your hurdles, discover your strengths, and build a more fulfilling life.
(631) 780-4093 View (631) 780-4093

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.