Gottman Method Therapists in Plainview, NY

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Donna Demenus Dholakia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MALD
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
I have a special interest and training in healing relationship distress and conflict using Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Do you feel unsatisfied with the direction of your life and the quality of your relationships? Do you feel stuck or lonely? Perhaps your persistent worries are narrowing your life? My goal is to empower adolescents, adults and couples to heal and grow into the people they would like to become, and to thrive in their lives and relationships. I work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, school-related difficulties, parenting issues, trauma, grief, and marriage/relationship issues. We will work collaboratively to identify your goals and create a plan to develop new strategies to manage life challenges.
I have a special interest and training in healing relationship distress and conflict using Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Do you feel unsatisfied with the direction of your life and the quality of your relationships? Do you feel stuck or lonely? Perhaps your persistent worries are narrowing your life? My goal is to empower adolescents, adults and couples to heal and grow into the people they would like to become, and to thrive in their lives and relationships. I work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, school-related difficulties, parenting issues, trauma, grief, and marriage/relationship issues. We will work collaboratively to identify your goals and create a plan to develop new strategies to manage life challenges.
(917) 789-1265 View (917) 789-1265
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Jennifer Mezey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
I am trained in different behavioral therapies, Conflict Resolution/Mediation and Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
Lao Tzu said, "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Today you took that step, and the journey has begun to a better you. My job on the journey is to be your map, guiding you to where you want to be in your life. Along the way you will learn tools and techniques to navigate through life's sometimes rough terrain. Utilizing these tools will help you to feel empowered and start to see your true ability.
I am trained in different behavioral therapies, Conflict Resolution/Mediation and Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
Lao Tzu said, "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Today you took that step, and the journey has begun to a better you. My job on the journey is to be your map, guiding you to where you want to be in your life. Along the way you will learn tools and techniques to navigate through life's sometimes rough terrain. Utilizing these tools will help you to feel empowered and start to see your true ability.
(516) 272-4219 View (516) 272-4219
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Daphne J. Schuster
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, LMFT, EdD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803  (Online Only)
I am known for Caring and Professional PERSONAL, MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIP Counseling. Life is all about relationships. We shape them, and they shape us - they touch us to our very core! But finding a well-qualified relationship therapist when your relationship is suffering can be very difficult! Many therapists lack the specialized training, experience, or license to work with couples and families. As a result, couples often experience marriage therapy as lukewarm in supporting the goal of life-long commitment. I am licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist, as well as Clinical Social Worker at the highest level of experience.
I am known for Caring and Professional PERSONAL, MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIP Counseling. Life is all about relationships. We shape them, and they shape us - they touch us to our very core! But finding a well-qualified relationship therapist when your relationship is suffering can be very difficult! Many therapists lack the specialized training, experience, or license to work with couples and families. As a result, couples often experience marriage therapy as lukewarm in supporting the goal of life-long commitment. I am licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist, as well as Clinical Social Worker at the highest level of experience.
(516) 650-6478 View (516) 650-6478
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TherapyMyWay.com
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
You want individualized therapy in a private, comfortable environment. You want only experienced therapists with specific background in working with your unique challenges and issues. You are looking for caring, focused, effective therapists who will develop strategies that will work for you.
You want individualized therapy in a private, comfortable environment. You want only experienced therapists with specific background in working with your unique challenges and issues. You are looking for caring, focused, effective therapists who will develop strategies that will work for you.
(516) 874-6366 View (516) 874-6366
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Dr. Fred L. Holtz
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
We provide therapy for personal growth and confidence in a comfortable, supportive atmosphere. Therapy motivates you to reach your highest potential and improve the quality of your life. Treatment is individualized, goals are mutually established, and feedback is given frequently. The supportive, engaging style of therapy encourages self-worth, achievement, relaxation, and better ability to cope with challenges. Visit our website to see all of our therapists.
We provide therapy for personal growth and confidence in a comfortable, supportive atmosphere. Therapy motivates you to reach your highest potential and improve the quality of your life. Treatment is individualized, goals are mutually established, and feedback is given frequently. The supportive, engaging style of therapy encourages self-worth, achievement, relaxation, and better ability to cope with challenges. Visit our website to see all of our therapists.
(516) 701-2231 View (516) 701-2231
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Pamela Price-Lerner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck? Stressed? Anxious? Going through something? I will help you feel more empowered as we explore what you are going through, find your strengths & learn how to use them effectively. Together we will identify and change your negative & unhelpful thoughts & behaviors that keep you stuck & unhappy or stressed I love to work with clients who want to make lasting changes in their lives and want to improve their mental health. I love the deep and meaningful connections formed with my clients. I offer virtual individual counseling & marriage counseling. Now offering intensive sessions for individuals, couples and EMDR!
Are you feeling stuck? Stressed? Anxious? Going through something? I will help you feel more empowered as we explore what you are going through, find your strengths & learn how to use them effectively. Together we will identify and change your negative & unhelpful thoughts & behaviors that keep you stuck & unhappy or stressed I love to work with clients who want to make lasting changes in their lives and want to improve their mental health. I love the deep and meaningful connections formed with my clients. I offer virtual individual counseling & marriage counseling. Now offering intensive sessions for individuals, couples and EMDR!
(516) 469-3495 View (516) 469-3495
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Sherry Henig
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
Put simply, I'd like to help you and/or your family member(s), feel less worried, less sad, and, in general, less distressed. With over 40 years of experience, I feel that I've been able to provide that to many hundreds of people with whom I've worked. Whether it's your child or teen who is suffering (I work with all manner of child and adolescent issues, including ADHD, academic underachievement, oppositional defiance, anxiety, depression and limitations in social skills) or whether it's you, your relationship or your family that is troubled, I have the experience to help resolve issues.
Put simply, I'd like to help you and/or your family member(s), feel less worried, less sad, and, in general, less distressed. With over 40 years of experience, I feel that I've been able to provide that to many hundreds of people with whom I've worked. Whether it's your child or teen who is suffering (I work with all manner of child and adolescent issues, including ADHD, academic underachievement, oppositional defiance, anxiety, depression and limitations in social skills) or whether it's you, your relationship or your family that is troubled, I have the experience to help resolve issues.
(516) 586-0640 View (516) 586-0640
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Jaimie Zelinger
MFT
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
Do you feel stuck sometimes or feel lost with no one to turn to? Are you facing a significant life transition? Have you been trying to get yourself out of the same old patterns and it’s just not working? I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families on improving anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, communication struggles, self-care, and life changes. I will work with you to create coping skills and empower you to work towards increased happiness.
Do you feel stuck sometimes or feel lost with no one to turn to? Are you facing a significant life transition? Have you been trying to get yourself out of the same old patterns and it’s just not working? I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families on improving anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, communication struggles, self-care, and life changes. I will work with you to create coping skills and empower you to work towards increased happiness.
(516) 774-1434 View (516) 774-1434
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Pablo Idez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CCTP, CMC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with Anxiety and Panic Disorder as it relates to relationships, career and performance concerns. I also work with many couples, offering marital, pre-marital and, separation counseling. My approach is eclectic and patient-centered, drawing from scientific/ evidence-based treatments such as CBT, ACT, Trauma-informed. Above all, my services are compassionate and inspired at times by mindfulness and other eastern approaches. Therapy is offered conveniently over telehealth on Long Island ( Nassau & Suffolk County) to those in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Bronx and Staten Island.
I specialize in working with Anxiety and Panic Disorder as it relates to relationships, career and performance concerns. I also work with many couples, offering marital, pre-marital and, separation counseling. My approach is eclectic and patient-centered, drawing from scientific/ evidence-based treatments such as CBT, ACT, Trauma-informed. Above all, my services are compassionate and inspired at times by mindfulness and other eastern approaches. Therapy is offered conveniently over telehealth on Long Island ( Nassau & Suffolk County) to those in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Bronx and Staten Island.
(347) 772-8373 View (347) 772-8373
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Long Island Psychotherapy & Counseling P.C.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, LMHC, CASAC, CMC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803  (Online Only)
Now accepting Blue Cross, Aetna, Northwell, United, Oxford & Oscar. We understand how debilitating anxiety, panic attacks, and depression can be. We prioritize creating a welcoming and safe environment where individuals can share their struggles and receive treatment and support from highly trained therapists. At Long Island Psychotherapy & Counseling, we utilize evidence-based techniques to treat symptoms such as racing thoughts, obsessive behavior, and feelings of hopelessness. Our team's expertise have helped thousands of clients gain control over their lives again. Join us today to begin your journey towards healing.
Now accepting Blue Cross, Aetna, Northwell, United, Oxford & Oscar. We understand how debilitating anxiety, panic attacks, and depression can be. We prioritize creating a welcoming and safe environment where individuals can share their struggles and receive treatment and support from highly trained therapists. At Long Island Psychotherapy & Counseling, we utilize evidence-based techniques to treat symptoms such as racing thoughts, obsessive behavior, and feelings of hopelessness. Our team's expertise have helped thousands of clients gain control over their lives again. Join us today to begin your journey towards healing.
(347) 772-8373 View (347) 772-8373
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Amy B Rothstein
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
Waitlist for new clients
Anxiety and stress are normal reactions to life's challenges. Anxiety can help us focus on solving problems or achieving success. But when anxiety begins to spiral and take over, it can be paralyzing, negatively affecting our relationships, school/career performance and mental and physical health. If you are experiencing chronic worry, panic, obsessive fears, social anxiety, stress at work/school, or marital difficulties, I can help by teaching you proven strategies to conquer your symptoms by changing negative thoughts and unhelpful behaviors. You will learn more effective coping techniques, gain back control and focus more on living a productive, happier life.
Anxiety and stress are normal reactions to life's challenges. Anxiety can help us focus on solving problems or achieving success. But when anxiety begins to spiral and take over, it can be paralyzing, negatively affecting our relationships, school/career performance and mental and physical health. If you are experiencing chronic worry, panic, obsessive fears, social anxiety, stress at work/school, or marital difficulties, I can help by teaching you proven strategies to conquer your symptoms by changing negative thoughts and unhelpful behaviors. You will learn more effective coping techniques, gain back control and focus more on living a productive, happier life.
(516) 350-5493 View (516) 350-5493
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Kristen Whelan - People Pleasing - Relationship Challenges
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
Relatability is key when it comes to the therapy room! We each have experiences that shape the way we view ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. I will help you reconnect with yourself and build genuine and thriving relationships. I am a Clinical Social Worker with more than twelve years of experience supporting adults (18+) and couples in overcoming anxiety/depression, relationship challenges, self-esteem, chronic stress, and life-transitions.
Relatability is key when it comes to the therapy room! We each have experiences that shape the way we view ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. I will help you reconnect with yourself and build genuine and thriving relationships. I am a Clinical Social Worker with more than twelve years of experience supporting adults (18+) and couples in overcoming anxiety/depression, relationship challenges, self-esteem, chronic stress, and life-transitions.
(516) 908-9513 View (516) 908-9513
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Josephine Venezia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
Awareness is everything and so is attitude. Through awareness, we can change attitudes. I am passionate about working together with individuals and families during challenging times. My passion is empowering clients to reach their full potential, uncovering their untapped strengths and resources to increase over-all satisfaction and well-being.
Awareness is everything and so is attitude. Through awareness, we can change attitudes. I am passionate about working together with individuals and families during challenging times. My passion is empowering clients to reach their full potential, uncovering their untapped strengths and resources to increase over-all satisfaction and well-being.
(516) 882-3292 View (516) 882-3292
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Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couples Workshops/Seminars
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Seminars, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session (Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops/Seminars are Designed to be Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate Your Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(516) 604-5107 View (516) 604-5107
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Old Brookville Psychotherapy LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803  (Online Only)
Hello and Thank You:) We have helped many people heal from their past and learn how to have healthier relationships. If that is what you are looking for, we can help you too! Maybe you are living a life that does not represent you or your dreams right now. And you might have a vision of the life that you want to live but you do not know how to get there. We can teach you how, step by step. And we can help you heal from your past. That way, you will know how to make decisions that will create a life which is authentic and fulfilling. We also provide family sessions for those who want to work with their family as well as individually.
Hello and Thank You:) We have helped many people heal from their past and learn how to have healthier relationships. If that is what you are looking for, we can help you too! Maybe you are living a life that does not represent you or your dreams right now. And you might have a vision of the life that you want to live but you do not know how to get there. We can teach you how, step by step. And we can help you heal from your past. That way, you will know how to make decisions that will create a life which is authentic and fulfilling. We also provide family sessions for those who want to work with their family as well as individually.
(516) 279-1038 View (516) 279-1038

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Sean Tendler
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Jericho, NY 11753
I sincerely believe that people can change. Sometimes we just need help navigating that process. If you are experiencing distress, despair, or maybe just feel lost, I will help you find a solution. My approach involves helping people get unstuck from the destructive traps that we find ourselves in. I can help you tap into your internal strength, tenacity, and motivation. This will empower you to not only achieve your goals, but sustain them long-term. I do this through effective therapy techniques backed by scientific research, coupled with compassion, support, and encouragement. In our sessions, we can heal your suffering together.
I sincerely believe that people can change. Sometimes we just need help navigating that process. If you are experiencing distress, despair, or maybe just feel lost, I will help you find a solution. My approach involves helping people get unstuck from the destructive traps that we find ourselves in. I can help you tap into your internal strength, tenacity, and motivation. This will empower you to not only achieve your goals, but sustain them long-term. I do this through effective therapy techniques backed by scientific research, coupled with compassion, support, and encouragement. In our sessions, we can heal your suffering together.
(631) 529-2170 View (631) 529-2170
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Jenny Moss
LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11773
As your therapist, I want nothing more than for you to feel safe & comfortable & will work with you to explore your past, present, and future self. Finding a therapist who can meet your needs, bring calm & purpose to your life, can be challenging, and many times feel overwhelming. As such, I want to applaud you for taking these vital first steps in bringing therapy into your life. Being part of someone's journey to self-realization & healing is both an honor and a privilege that I do not take lightly. I will teach you how to separate yourself from the problem(s) you are experiencing in order to work through them.
As your therapist, I want nothing more than for you to feel safe & comfortable & will work with you to explore your past, present, and future self. Finding a therapist who can meet your needs, bring calm & purpose to your life, can be challenging, and many times feel overwhelming. As such, I want to applaud you for taking these vital first steps in bringing therapy into your life. Being part of someone's journey to self-realization & healing is both an honor and a privilege that I do not take lightly. I will teach you how to separate yourself from the problem(s) you are experiencing in order to work through them.
(516) 412-7442 View (516) 412-7442
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Dr. Yishai Barkhordari
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11791  (Online Only)
The marriage feels "meh." Your love and commitment are strong, but something is off. Talking about it hasn't helped. It just leads to more arguing, pain, and resentment. It feels like things are getting worse. You both desperately want to fix it. Because as much as you love each other, you can't sign up to keep doing this for the next decade and beyond. Something has to change. And in your bones, you know it can be how you are in your marriage. It’s time to renew your relationship.
The marriage feels "meh." Your love and commitment are strong, but something is off. Talking about it hasn't helped. It just leads to more arguing, pain, and resentment. It feels like things are getting worse. You both desperately want to fix it. Because as much as you love each other, you can't sign up to keep doing this for the next decade and beyond. Something has to change. And in your bones, you know it can be how you are in your marriage. It’s time to renew your relationship.
(845) 516-6335 View (845) 516-6335
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Sammy Touma
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
Syosset, NY 11773
I am here for YOU, with almost a decade of experience. I want you to feel at ease and comfortable with my approachable style. I have a results-driven record of being effective and efficient. Depending on your specific struggles and circumstances, I will design a personalized approach. Various types of psychotherapy will be customized specifically for you. These include: EMDR for trauma, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy based on Psychoanalytic Principles and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy related approaches, etc. Please visit: www.zocdoc.com/professional/samya-sammy-touma-lcsw-431236 for more details.
I am here for YOU, with almost a decade of experience. I want you to feel at ease and comfortable with my approachable style. I have a results-driven record of being effective and efficient. Depending on your specific struggles and circumstances, I will design a personalized approach. Various types of psychotherapy will be customized specifically for you. These include: EMDR for trauma, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy based on Psychoanalytic Principles and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy related approaches, etc. Please visit: www.zocdoc.com/professional/samya-sammy-touma-lcsw-431236 for more details.
(516) 441-2596 View (516) 441-2596
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Shanely Marmolejos
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Hicksville, NY 11801
I specialize in working with women and couples. I am trained in perinatal mental health through Postpartum Support International, specializing in working with perinatal depression, postpartum anxiety, infertility, and pregnancy loss. In my couples work, I utilize Gottman-based strategies. I work closely with parents on parenting difficulties and strategies, as well as co-parenting dynamics. Besides supporting couples and women in their motherhood journeys, I am also passionate about supporting high achieving women manage anxiety and stress and unlearning unhelpful patterns in their personal and professional lives.
I specialize in working with women and couples. I am trained in perinatal mental health through Postpartum Support International, specializing in working with perinatal depression, postpartum anxiety, infertility, and pregnancy loss. In my couples work, I utilize Gottman-based strategies. I work closely with parents on parenting difficulties and strategies, as well as co-parenting dynamics. Besides supporting couples and women in their motherhood journeys, I am also passionate about supporting high achieving women manage anxiety and stress and unlearning unhelpful patterns in their personal and professional lives.
(347) 696-4949 View (347) 696-4949
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.