Infidelity Therapists in Piermont, NY

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Debra Heaphy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Piermont, NY 10968
With over 20 years experience, I provide a structured setting where people can explore the reasons for unhealthy patterns in their lives. I provide a supportive, interactive, solution focused, client centered, and confidential environment. Various treatment techniques are utilized and tailored to the specific needs of the client in order for healing, change, and growth to occur. I have worked with a diverse population of individuals exhibiting a wide range of conflicts, that include relationship and parenting issues, work stress, depression, anxiety and trauma.
With over 20 years experience, I provide a structured setting where people can explore the reasons for unhealthy patterns in their lives. I provide a supportive, interactive, solution focused, client centered, and confidential environment. Various treatment techniques are utilized and tailored to the specific needs of the client in order for healing, change, and growth to occur. I have worked with a diverse population of individuals exhibiting a wide range of conflicts, that include relationship and parenting issues, work stress, depression, anxiety and trauma.
(845) 367-7321 View (845) 367-7321
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Debra D Castaldo
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MS
Verified Verified
Piermont, NY 10968
Is your marriage CRASHING? Are you in need of a RELATIONSHIP REBOOT? (tm) Is your child testing limits? Are you struggling with depression and anxiety? Dr. Castaldo is a nationally recognized relationship expert who has been featured on CNN, FOX, NBC, in Ladies Home Journal, Woman's Day, Redbook, & More magazines, and has authored 3 books. Founder of the Center for Family and Couple Solutions, she uses a unique solution focused, brief approach to help clients build solutions quickly. She has special expertise in Divorce Prevention, Remarriage, Step Parenting, Child Management, Behavioral Issues, Family Conflict, Depression, Anxiety, Adoption, & Women's Issues.
Is your marriage CRASHING? Are you in need of a RELATIONSHIP REBOOT? (tm) Is your child testing limits? Are you struggling with depression and anxiety? Dr. Castaldo is a nationally recognized relationship expert who has been featured on CNN, FOX, NBC, in Ladies Home Journal, Woman's Day, Redbook, & More magazines, and has authored 3 books. Founder of the Center for Family and Couple Solutions, she uses a unique solution focused, brief approach to help clients build solutions quickly. She has special expertise in Divorce Prevention, Remarriage, Step Parenting, Child Management, Behavioral Issues, Family Conflict, Depression, Anxiety, Adoption, & Women's Issues.
(201) 494-2580 View (201) 494-2580
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Lori M Burns
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Piermont, NY 10968  (Online Only)
I have been practicing for over 20 years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in a variety of settings including hospitals, out patient mental health clinics, school-based counseling, and most recently a group private practice. I enjoy working with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. Many people struggle with depression, anxiety, stress, grief, unexpected crisis, tragedy and illnesses. I find my clients are looking to feel heard and understood, to feel like someone is really listening, understanding and validating their experiences.
I have been practicing for over 20 years as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in a variety of settings including hospitals, out patient mental health clinics, school-based counseling, and most recently a group private practice. I enjoy working with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. Many people struggle with depression, anxiety, stress, grief, unexpected crisis, tragedy and illnesses. I find my clients are looking to feel heard and understood, to feel like someone is really listening, understanding and validating their experiences.
(914) 499-0745 View (914) 499-0745
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Réka Foster
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Piermont, NY 10968
Welcome to Rèka Foster therapy. Whether you are trying to find solution for severe marital impasse, family conflict or dealing with anxiety, depression, psychotherapy is a great tool to address, change and discover new ways to live your life at your full potential. Rèka specializes and has excessive experience in group therapy, family, couples systemic psychotherapy and intervention as well as PTSD, trauma, complex trauma treatment, reduction of anxiety and depression.
Welcome to Rèka Foster therapy. Whether you are trying to find solution for severe marital impasse, family conflict or dealing with anxiety, depression, psychotherapy is a great tool to address, change and discover new ways to live your life at your full potential. Rèka specializes and has excessive experience in group therapy, family, couples systemic psychotherapy and intervention as well as PTSD, trauma, complex trauma treatment, reduction of anxiety and depression.
(845) 253-9172 View (845) 253-9172

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Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Hempstead, NY 10977
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
(315) 367-3054 View (315) 367-3054
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Starlee N Qualter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
West Nyack, NY 10994
Couples can easily get stuck in circular arguments or need help to overcome betrayal, improve communication, rediscover, or build greater intimacy.
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
Couples can easily get stuck in circular arguments or need help to overcome betrayal, improve communication, rediscover, or build greater intimacy.
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
(845) 684-4291 View (845) 684-4291
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Jeffrey S Vallon
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, NBCC
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
(914) 368-6042 View (914) 368-6042
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Bentzion Gruber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
Spring Valley, NY 10977
Does sex addiction, pornography use, or infidelity or love affairs wreak havoc in your life? Do you feel powerless over your behaviors? Did/does it interfere with your marriage, your career, or your standing with your family or in the community? Did you get in trouble with the law, or are you afraid of the consequences of your actions? Have you tried to stop, but failed? Well, there is help, and there is a way out.
Does sex addiction, pornography use, or infidelity or love affairs wreak havoc in your life? Do you feel powerless over your behaviors? Did/does it interfere with your marriage, your career, or your standing with your family or in the community? Did you get in trouble with the law, or are you afraid of the consequences of your actions? Have you tried to stop, but failed? Well, there is help, and there is a way out.
(845) 273-3365 View (845) 273-3365
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Robert Diamond
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Riverdale, NY 10471
Perhaps you’re feeling like a broken record, yet you never feel understood by your partner. Maybe you’re walking on eggshells trying to avoid starting the next argument. Possibly, the pain of your spouse’s infidelity is making you doubt if you can ever get close again. Once a source of connection, fun, and intimacy, your sexual relationship is non-existent. As a husband and a father, I understand well the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a a long-term relationship.
Perhaps you’re feeling like a broken record, yet you never feel understood by your partner. Maybe you’re walking on eggshells trying to avoid starting the next argument. Possibly, the pain of your spouse’s infidelity is making you doubt if you can ever get close again. Once a source of connection, fun, and intimacy, your sexual relationship is non-existent. As a husband and a father, I understand well the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a a long-term relationship.
(646) 762-1378 View (646) 762-1378
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Akeisha Rivera
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
White Plains, NY 10601  (Online Only)
I'm Dr. Akeisha Rivera and I'm a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). I specialize in helping couples overcome infidelity, affairs, constant fighting, a lack of intimacy, and emotional disconnection. I do this by helping you communicate in a safe, nonjudgmental space and by providing you with tools to help you thrive within your relationship. My goal is to help you become the best possible version of yourself so that you and your partner can rebuild your bond and make it stronger than ever before.
I'm Dr. Akeisha Rivera and I'm a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). I specialize in helping couples overcome infidelity, affairs, constant fighting, a lack of intimacy, and emotional disconnection. I do this by helping you communicate in a safe, nonjudgmental space and by providing you with tools to help you thrive within your relationship. My goal is to help you become the best possible version of yourself so that you and your partner can rebuild your bond and make it stronger than ever before.
(914) 825-4132 View (914) 825-4132
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Bronxville, NY 10708
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
(347) 997-8676 View (347) 997-8676
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Laura Fechter
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Scarsdale, NY 10583
I also have experience with couples who are working through infidelity.
I have 24 years of experience in working with adults and adolescents who present with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, ADHD, identity issues, trauma, parenting issues, family conflict, and relationship difficulties. I work with clients to understand the root of their current difficulties, and to help them develop the insight that they will need to avoid repeating problematic patterns. I meet the client where he/she is at to work on the issues that both feel most relevant and also interfere most with their enjoyment of life. There is a dual focus on symptom relief and on building introspection and self-esteem.
I also have experience with couples who are working through infidelity.
I have 24 years of experience in working with adults and adolescents who present with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, ADHD, identity issues, trauma, parenting issues, family conflict, and relationship difficulties. I work with clients to understand the root of their current difficulties, and to help them develop the insight that they will need to avoid repeating problematic patterns. I meet the client where he/she is at to work on the issues that both feel most relevant and also interfere most with their enjoyment of life. There is a dual focus on symptom relief and on building introspection and self-esteem.
(917) 725-2074 View (917) 725-2074
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Dominique Sampson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bronx, NY 10471  (Online Only)
Have you contemplated cheating or divorce to solve the loneliness and regret? I can help! I enjoy sitting with couples as they sort through the tough stuff.
Why do we keep arguing about the same things over and over again? I've tried to forgive you but I can't stop thinking that I would be happier with someone else. I don't know if it's worth the fight anymore. We've grown apart and I don't remember the last time we've experienced real connection, maybe you've never even loved me. I'm insecure and doubtful that things will change. Everyone says I deserve better. I'm not sure where we are anymore and I need support getting back to love. I just need a safe space without judgement to be vulnerable and say the things that I'm really feeling. Have you found yourself asking these questions?
Have you contemplated cheating or divorce to solve the loneliness and regret? I can help! I enjoy sitting with couples as they sort through the tough stuff.
Why do we keep arguing about the same things over and over again? I've tried to forgive you but I can't stop thinking that I would be happier with someone else. I don't know if it's worth the fight anymore. We've grown apart and I don't remember the last time we've experienced real connection, maybe you've never even loved me. I'm insecure and doubtful that things will change. Everyone says I deserve better. I'm not sure where we are anymore and I need support getting back to love. I just need a safe space without judgement to be vulnerable and say the things that I'm really feeling. Have you found yourself asking these questions?
(914) 409-9389 View (914) 409-9389
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Annmarie B Boyle
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Rochelle, NY 10804  (Online Only)
I work with couples to overcome infidelity, persistent conflict, and other relationship issues. I work with individuals to challenge negative thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that create patterns that keep them stuck. My approach is emotionally focused and attachment-based, to help clients gain insight and resume positive progress in their lives. See my profile at helloalma.com/providers/annmarie-boyle/ and request a free 15-minute consultation. I accept many insurance plans. Visit me at helloalma.com and let change start today.
I work with couples to overcome infidelity, persistent conflict, and other relationship issues. I work with individuals to challenge negative thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that create patterns that keep them stuck. My approach is emotionally focused and attachment-based, to help clients gain insight and resume positive progress in their lives. See my profile at helloalma.com/providers/annmarie-boyle/ and request a free 15-minute consultation. I accept many insurance plans. Visit me at helloalma.com and let change start today.
(516) 265-7500 View (516) 265-7500
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Meredith Mey Griffin
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Nyack, NY 10994  (Online Only)
Are you at a point in your life where you feel like something has to give? It could be a major struggle like infidelity, divorce, low self-esteem, or having a stressful job that is impacting your personal life, or just feeling like you're not quite happy and need to figure out why.
Are you at a point in your life where you feel like something has to give? It could be a major struggle like infidelity, divorce, low self-esteem, or having a stressful job that is impacting your personal life, or just feeling like you're not quite happy and need to figure out why.
(585) 294-0081 View (585) 294-0081
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Mimi Gelb
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
(845) 445-6750 View (845) 445-6750
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Engage Psychotherapy LCSW, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
West Nyack, NY 10994
Couples counseling, children and adolescents, gender identity and sexual orientation work, trauma recovery, OCD, shame, grief, interpersonal relationship issues, infidelity, self esteem and many other issues.
Our team of clinicians has been hand-picked for their expertise and diverse areas of experience. Children or adults, individuals or couples, LGBTQ+, English or Spanish (or Japanese or Hungarian!), EMDR or psychodynamic, CBT or body-centered work. ​Whatever you are looking for, we have someone who can help.
Couples counseling, children and adolescents, gender identity and sexual orientation work, trauma recovery, OCD, shame, grief, interpersonal relationship issues, infidelity, self esteem and many other issues.
Our team of clinicians has been hand-picked for their expertise and diverse areas of experience. Children or adults, individuals or couples, LGBTQ+, English or Spanish (or Japanese or Hungarian!), EMDR or psychodynamic, CBT or body-centered work. ​Whatever you are looking for, we have someone who can help.
(845) 498-1723 View (845) 498-1723
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Shari Simon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Scarsdale, NY 10583  (Online Only)
Clients describe me as empathetic, supportive, humorous, attentive, and authentic. I have spent years supporting individuals, couples & families navigating interpersonal challenges, anxiety, depression, infidelity, trauma, stress, self-esteem, work challenges, and life transitions. I also provide premarital counseling. I have expertise supporting the unique challenges of marginalized communities including Black, POC, LGBTQIA+, neurodiverse, poly, etc. I am passionate about providing therapy because I know firsthand that finding a culturally aware therapist is not an easy feat.
Clients describe me as empathetic, supportive, humorous, attentive, and authentic. I have spent years supporting individuals, couples & families navigating interpersonal challenges, anxiety, depression, infidelity, trauma, stress, self-esteem, work challenges, and life transitions. I also provide premarital counseling. I have expertise supporting the unique challenges of marginalized communities including Black, POC, LGBTQIA+, neurodiverse, poly, etc. I am passionate about providing therapy because I know firsthand that finding a culturally aware therapist is not an easy feat.
(929) 552-3366 View (929) 552-3366
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Felita Granby
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bronxville, NY 10708
I have worked with couples dealing with infidelity and financial issues, of whom are on the brink of separation and/or divorce.
Many of us experience instances in our lives, in which we feel overwhelmed and engulfed in sadness. We may find ourselves in periods of despair, or just needing someone to help navigate disruptions in our relationships. With over 20 years of experience, I have been trained to assist individuals with the struggles of life, to empower, and provide effective coping skills.
I have worked with couples dealing with infidelity and financial issues, of whom are on the brink of separation and/or divorce.
Many of us experience instances in our lives, in which we feel overwhelmed and engulfed in sadness. We may find ourselves in periods of despair, or just needing someone to help navigate disruptions in our relationships. With over 20 years of experience, I have been trained to assist individuals with the struggles of life, to empower, and provide effective coping skills.
(646) 760-8094 View (646) 760-8094
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Marlene Dmytryshyn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACHP-SW
Verified Verified
Scarsdale, NY 10583  (Online Only)
My areas of expertise are grief and loss, caregiver stressors, life transitions, relationship issues, infidelity, divorce, and coping with acute and chronic illness.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, grief? Life is challenging! We do not always get what we want when we want it. The gap between the wanting and the getting is the place of positive growth or repeating the same old patterns that are not fruitful. I will walk that road with you no matter how bumpy and challenging. I am a licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years of experience in helping people overcome and bear with this thing we call "my life". My clinical venues have been in hospital, palliative care and hospice domains and private practice. Let us take your present journey into your better future!
My areas of expertise are grief and loss, caregiver stressors, life transitions, relationship issues, infidelity, divorce, and coping with acute and chronic illness.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, grief? Life is challenging! We do not always get what we want when we want it. The gap between the wanting and the getting is the place of positive growth or repeating the same old patterns that are not fruitful. I will walk that road with you no matter how bumpy and challenging. I am a licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years of experience in helping people overcome and bear with this thing we call "my life". My clinical venues have been in hospital, palliative care and hospice domains and private practice. Let us take your present journey into your better future!
(914) 514-9996 View (914) 514-9996

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.