Infidelity Therapists in Penn Yan, NY

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Tina Lass
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Penn Yan, NY 14527  (Online Only)
Hello! A little about me; I live in the beautiful Finger Lakes. I have been practicing for 18 years. I graduated from University of Buffalo in 2005. I believe in continuing education to increase skills. I have worked in hospitals; both inpatient and outpatient, schools and group homes. Prior to being a therapist, I was a case manager. I am excited about focusing solely on my private practice at this time. I look forward to working with many diverse individuals. I am also licensed in New Jersey to help meet the needs of individuals living and working in both states.
Hello! A little about me; I live in the beautiful Finger Lakes. I have been practicing for 18 years. I graduated from University of Buffalo in 2005. I believe in continuing education to increase skills. I have worked in hospitals; both inpatient and outpatient, schools and group homes. Prior to being a therapist, I was a case manager. I am excited about focusing solely on my private practice at this time. I look forward to working with many diverse individuals. I am also licensed in New Jersey to help meet the needs of individuals living and working in both states.
(315) 961-8679 View (315) 961-8679
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Kim Miller
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Penn Yan, NY 14527  (Online Only)
Hello and thank you for checking out my profile! I work with adults and couples of all ages struggling with a wide variety of issues. I understand the pain that accompanies anxiety, sadness, grief, trauma, relationship issues, life transitions and building personal strengths. I greatly admire those who decide to work towards improving their lives and who reach out for help. It is a pleasure and a privilege for me to partner with my clients on their journeys.
Hello and thank you for checking out my profile! I work with adults and couples of all ages struggling with a wide variety of issues. I understand the pain that accompanies anxiety, sadness, grief, trauma, relationship issues, life transitions and building personal strengths. I greatly admire those who decide to work towards improving their lives and who reach out for help. It is a pleasure and a privilege for me to partner with my clients on their journeys.
(315) 784-4120 View (315) 784-4120
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Janet Solomon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Penn Yan, NY 14527  (Online Only)
Hello! My name is Janet Solomon, and I am a licensed certified social worker ( LCSW). I have been in the mental health field for the past 25 years and I love what I do, helping others to live the best life to the fullest capacity. I work with folks 18 years and up. I see everyone as a human being first and the unique differences that make us who we are.
Hello! My name is Janet Solomon, and I am a licensed certified social worker ( LCSW). I have been in the mental health field for the past 25 years and I love what I do, helping others to live the best life to the fullest capacity. I work with folks 18 years and up. I see everyone as a human being first and the unique differences that make us who we are.
(914) 928-2563 View (914) 928-2563
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Elizabeth Cavanaugh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSEd
Verified Verified
Penn Yan, NY 14527
Sometimes something feels "off" but you don't know what it is. You feel sluggish, unmotivated, and overburdened by responsibilities. Maybe your relationships are suffering due to poor communication, or you feel you're not meeting the needs of the multiple roles you play in your life. Having a nonjudgmental space to express your frustrations and address these challenges is invaluable and proven to be effective.
Sometimes something feels "off" but you don't know what it is. You feel sluggish, unmotivated, and overburdened by responsibilities. Maybe your relationships are suffering due to poor communication, or you feel you're not meeting the needs of the multiple roles you play in your life. Having a nonjudgmental space to express your frustrations and address these challenges is invaluable and proven to be effective.
(516) 518-2225 View (516) 518-2225

Online Therapists

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James D Thauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
Hi, I'm James and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity. I also work with individuals who have concerns such as anxiety, depression, divorce, navigating family dynamics, loss, self-esteem, and a variety of other intra-personal concerns. I work collaboratively with clients to set goals, identify problematic patterns, increase awareness of patterns, and change or break those patterns. I have a down to earth approach and avoid the use of jargon. I make therapy approachable for even the biggest of skeptics.
Hi, I'm James and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity. I also work with individuals who have concerns such as anxiety, depression, divorce, navigating family dynamics, loss, self-esteem, and a variety of other intra-personal concerns. I work collaboratively with clients to set goals, identify problematic patterns, increase awareness of patterns, and change or break those patterns. I have a down to earth approach and avoid the use of jargon. I make therapy approachable for even the biggest of skeptics.
(716) 466-5358 View (716) 466-5358
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Patrick Cayouette
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618  (Online Only)
I assist couples with general communication, infidelity, separation reunification, and general marital stress.
I've worked in the mental health field since 2000 with various populations (individuals, couples and families), however, my specialties include men's studies, pornography/sexual addiction, relationship health for married couples & EMDR. I especially find men experience challenges in life and lack the means or opportunities to be supported, validated heard. I strive to be practical and direct, yet effective in fostering change. Whether guiding couples in marriage prep or in marital strain, I develop understanding of relationships, creating an open, honest and safe communication style which fosters intimacy through challenges.
I assist couples with general communication, infidelity, separation reunification, and general marital stress.
I've worked in the mental health field since 2000 with various populations (individuals, couples and families), however, my specialties include men's studies, pornography/sexual addiction, relationship health for married couples & EMDR. I especially find men experience challenges in life and lack the means or opportunities to be supported, validated heard. I strive to be practical and direct, yet effective in fostering change. Whether guiding couples in marriage prep or in marital strain, I develop understanding of relationships, creating an open, honest and safe communication style which fosters intimacy through challenges.
(585) 471-6453 View (585) 471-6453
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Kate van Ingen Kelsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Marcellus, NY 13108  (Online Only)
I have over 25 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors. Couples work helps members listen differently, understand, and negotiate respectfully. I help parents understand children's behavior through a social emotional developmental lens. Individual work within the context of relationships explores self care. Our lives are affected by the systems in which we live and work.
I have over 25 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors. Couples work helps members listen differently, understand, and negotiate respectfully. I help parents understand children's behavior through a social emotional developmental lens. Individual work within the context of relationships explores self care. Our lives are affected by the systems in which we live and work.
(315) 291-8383 View (315) 291-8383
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Rene A Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
Affairs are painful and complicated to recover from and I understand how to assist clients.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
Affairs are painful and complicated to recover from and I understand how to assist clients.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
(716) 703-8969 View (716) 703-8969
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Michael J Heath
Counselor, LMHC, AAPC, MDiv
Verified Verified
Fayetteville, NY 13066  (Online Only)
Specifically since 1978, I've helped individuals and couples with communication, stress, depression, sex, affairs, porn, PTSD.
Hi. Since 1978 I've help individuals and couples with communication,stress, depression, sex, affairs, pornography, PTSD. My comprehensive approach to counseling integrates the psychological and spiritual aspects of life in a way which not only treats painful symptoms but also heals the underlying emotional wounds. I believe that empathic listening without judging is the foundation of emotinal healing.Therapy is a process of gaining a wider perspective which reveals how past trauma are connected to present problems.Greater mindfulness reveals how old, problematic response patterns can be discarded and replaced by new and better ones.
Specifically since 1978, I've helped individuals and couples with communication, stress, depression, sex, affairs, porn, PTSD.
Hi. Since 1978 I've help individuals and couples with communication,stress, depression, sex, affairs, pornography, PTSD. My comprehensive approach to counseling integrates the psychological and spiritual aspects of life in a way which not only treats painful symptoms but also heals the underlying emotional wounds. I believe that empathic listening without judging is the foundation of emotinal healing.Therapy is a process of gaining a wider perspective which reveals how past trauma are connected to present problems.Greater mindfulness reveals how old, problematic response patterns can be discarded and replaced by new and better ones.
(315) 565-6140 View (315) 565-6140
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Kevin K White
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tonawanda, NY 14223  (Online Only)
Stress, Anxiety, Relationships, Anger Management Additional areas of focus: Trauma and abuse, Intimacy-related issues, Career difficulties, Depression, Codependency, Divorce and separation, Family Problems, Forgiveness, Infidelity, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Sel-Love.
I am licensed in New York with 23 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, & anger management. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
Stress, Anxiety, Relationships, Anger Management Additional areas of focus: Trauma and abuse, Intimacy-related issues, Career difficulties, Depression, Codependency, Divorce and separation, Family Problems, Forgiveness, Infidelity, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Sel-Love.
I am licensed in New York with 23 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, & anger management. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
(716) 350-2625 View (716) 350-2625
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Karen Fernandez-Cosgrove
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manlius, NY 13104  (Online Only)
I have over 25 years of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, and families who are dealing with multiple issues including relationship issues, infidelity, anxiety, life transitions, grief, infertility, and parenting issues.
Often the hardest part of solving problems is finding the right person to help you. Since therapy can be an exciting, challenging, and at times a daunting process, it is important to know that you are working with a therapist who is experienced with the issues you are struggling with.
I have over 25 years of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, and families who are dealing with multiple issues including relationship issues, infidelity, anxiety, life transitions, grief, infertility, and parenting issues.
Often the hardest part of solving problems is finding the right person to help you. Since therapy can be an exciting, challenging, and at times a daunting process, it is important to know that you are working with a therapist who is experienced with the issues you are struggling with.
(315) 496-4751 View (315) 496-4751
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Ashera DeRosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14213
I have extensive experience working with couples with mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, sexual trauma, affairs, and Out of Control Sexual Behavior.
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
I have extensive experience working with couples with mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunction, sexual trauma, affairs, and Out of Control Sexual Behavior.
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
(716) 466-5509 View (716) 466-5509
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Sara Ormsby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Not Verified Not Verified
4 Endorsed
Webster, NY 14580
I also offer couples counseling to work through such difficulties as communication barriers, infidelity, blended families, financial stress, etc.
My belief in the resilience of the human spirit is the source from which I draw my hope - the same hope that I offer to my clients. Whether you are experiencing a life change such as divorce or loss, substance abuse, family conflict, or are simply in need of support as you navigate through one of life's challenges, there is hope for you as well. I have guided and supported many people through these same challenges with compassion, professionalism, and humor.
I also offer couples counseling to work through such difficulties as communication barriers, infidelity, blended families, financial stress, etc.
My belief in the resilience of the human spirit is the source from which I draw my hope - the same hope that I offer to my clients. Whether you are experiencing a life change such as divorce or loss, substance abuse, family conflict, or are simply in need of support as you navigate through one of life's challenges, there is hope for you as well. I have guided and supported many people through these same challenges with compassion, professionalism, and humor.
(585) 633-7664 View (585) 633-7664
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Thomas Livernois
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, Veteran, Video
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
HIPAA compliant video sessions available. The problem with daily life is that it is so daily. Sometimes life feels like a grind. Sometimes we lack direction. Sometimes life is just plain painful. You may be experiencing depression, relationship struggles, divorce, separation, infidelity, anger, anxiety, grief and loss, or addiction. Wherever you are, that is the starting line for the rest of your life. That does not mean the rest of your life has to be more of the same. How about a new direction...a new perspective? I may be able to help. The first step is yours. I look forward to your call.
HIPAA compliant video sessions available. The problem with daily life is that it is so daily. Sometimes life feels like a grind. Sometimes we lack direction. Sometimes life is just plain painful. You may be experiencing depression, relationship struggles, divorce, separation, infidelity, anger, anxiety, grief and loss, or addiction. Wherever you are, that is the starting line for the rest of your life. That does not mean the rest of your life has to be more of the same. How about a new direction...a new perspective? I may be able to help. The first step is yours. I look forward to your call.
(716) 800-4173 View (716) 800-4173
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Lisa van Leeuwen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14618
Department of Veteran Affairs for over 9 years.
I'm passionate about providing a safe and therapeutic space for those who have experienced childhood, sexual, race or gender based, or combat-related trauma. I'm trained in trauma-informed mental health care and developed my therapeutic approach working with a diverse population of individuals, couple, parents, and families. I'm deeply sensitive to racial, cultural, occupational, economic, and social justice-related influences on how we experience and heal from trauma.
Department of Veteran Affairs for over 9 years.
I'm passionate about providing a safe and therapeutic space for those who have experienced childhood, sexual, race or gender based, or combat-related trauma. I'm trained in trauma-informed mental health care and developed my therapeutic approach working with a diverse population of individuals, couple, parents, and families. I'm deeply sensitive to racial, cultural, occupational, economic, and social justice-related influences on how we experience and heal from trauma.
(585) 636-3195 View (585) 636-3195
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Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Syracuse, NY 13212
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
(315) 367-3054 View (315) 367-3054
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Dr. Courtney Graham
Counselor, EdD, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14607
For the past 15+ years I have worked with clients on difficulties ranging from: anxiety and depression, identity and self-esteem, change and transition, and relationship concerns (my specialty), such as infidelity, trust, and commitment.
Has it been awhile since you have felt like yourself? Are you struggling with a romantic relationship, your friends or family members, or with depressive or anxious feelings? My goal is to help clients talk through whatever they are struggling with and find a happier and healthier place in their lives. My approach to counseling is down to earth, compassionate, and honest. I am unique in my approach offering a specialized combination of life-coaching, motivation, and problem-solving in hopes of helping my clients work through the heaviness in their mind and find stability and happiness once again.
For the past 15+ years I have worked with clients on difficulties ranging from: anxiety and depression, identity and self-esteem, change and transition, and relationship concerns (my specialty), such as infidelity, trust, and commitment.
Has it been awhile since you have felt like yourself? Are you struggling with a romantic relationship, your friends or family members, or with depressive or anxious feelings? My goal is to help clients talk through whatever they are struggling with and find a happier and healthier place in their lives. My approach to counseling is down to earth, compassionate, and honest. I am unique in my approach offering a specialized combination of life-coaching, motivation, and problem-solving in hopes of helping my clients work through the heaviness in their mind and find stability and happiness once again.
(585) 591-6594 View (585) 591-6594
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Emotivate Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MDiv, LCSW, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
Webster, NY 14580
Are you trying to navigate relationship difficulties? Do your conflicts seem to repeat themselves over and over? Perhaps, you and your partner have simply grown distant from each other, or you are just looking for a more intimate bond and connection. Whether you are newly weds, having trouble conceiving, facing infidelity, or empty nesters, there is a tried and true way to navigate these experiences. Your relationship doesn't have to suffer any longer, there is a way through your unique circumstances. Let us help you find the connection that you truly desire in your relationship.
Are you trying to navigate relationship difficulties? Do your conflicts seem to repeat themselves over and over? Perhaps, you and your partner have simply grown distant from each other, or you are just looking for a more intimate bond and connection. Whether you are newly weds, having trouble conceiving, facing infidelity, or empty nesters, there is a tried and true way to navigate these experiences. Your relationship doesn't have to suffer any longer, there is a way through your unique circumstances. Let us help you find the connection that you truly desire in your relationship.
(585) 501-3045 View (585) 501-3045
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Peter Meglin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
I am a licensed and seasoned clinical social worker (LCSW-R) in practice for 30+ years, specializing in couples and individual therapy. My academic training was at the University at Buffalo; my post-graduate and continuing education was at The Marriage Counseling Center, where I mentored new therapists and developed a strong word-of-mouth following. Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
I am a licensed and seasoned clinical social worker (LCSW-R) in practice for 30+ years, specializing in couples and individual therapy. My academic training was at the University at Buffalo; my post-graduate and continuing education was at The Marriage Counseling Center, where I mentored new therapists and developed a strong word-of-mouth following. Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
(716) 638-2185 View (716) 638-2185
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Tanya Peterson
Occupational Therapist, MS, OTR/L, ABS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13202
Perhaps you're struggling with desire or working with your partner to navigate infidelity. Maybe you're unsure how to communicate your needs and feeling less than satisfied in your relationship. My unique and holistic approach to sex therapy incorporates somatic awareness and nervous system regulation ensuring you are treated as a whole person, and not just a diagnosis. I'm here to walk beside you, offering compassionate support and empowering interventions to help you reclaim control and rediscover a sense of fulfillment. My practice is sex positive, gender affirming, and kink allied.
Perhaps you're struggling with desire or working with your partner to navigate infidelity. Maybe you're unsure how to communicate your needs and feeling less than satisfied in your relationship. My unique and holistic approach to sex therapy incorporates somatic awareness and nervous system regulation ensuring you are treated as a whole person, and not just a diagnosis. I'm here to walk beside you, offering compassionate support and empowering interventions to help you reclaim control and rediscover a sense of fulfillment. My practice is sex positive, gender affirming, and kink allied.
(315) 847-4195 View (315) 847-4195

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.