Infidelity Therapists in New Paltz, NY

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Donna Boundy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, -, R
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
With evening and weekend hours available, I aim to make help accessible to my clients. And with over 35 year of work in the field, I bring that deep experience and wisdom to the work. I feel very effective working with clients on many issues: COUPLES: Infidelity, loss of emotional/intimate closeness, communication problems, anger issues, and parenting. FAMILIES: blended family issues, adoption/fostercare, caregiving decisions, substance abuse concerns. INDIVIDUAL: Anxiety, substance abuse, recovery and relapse prevention, self-esteem, anger management, trauma and its aftermath, depression, relationship issues, adoption issues.
With evening and weekend hours available, I aim to make help accessible to my clients. And with over 35 year of work in the field, I bring that deep experience and wisdom to the work. I feel very effective working with clients on many issues: COUPLES: Infidelity, loss of emotional/intimate closeness, communication problems, anger issues, and parenting. FAMILIES: blended family issues, adoption/fostercare, caregiving decisions, substance abuse concerns. INDIVIDUAL: Anxiety, substance abuse, recovery and relapse prevention, self-esteem, anger management, trauma and its aftermath, depression, relationship issues, adoption issues.
(845) 943-0883 View (845) 943-0883
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Dr. Mitch PsyD and Lisa Life Coaching Specialists
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Life Coach for Private Marriage/Couples & Anxiety, have had 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (having a Male and Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and/or Anxiety. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are very Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriages/Couples & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program (monthly) for Tune-Ups for Life.
(845) 588-9141 View (845) 588-9141
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Rebecca Nidorf
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, SFFCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561
Let me help you to find clarity, authenticity, and courage in your relationships, your professional life and your personal journey. I provide a free phone consultation where you will be able to explore my background, modalities and experience. I have been treating people clinically for over 25 years. I am passionate about my work and love seeing my clients successfully engage in therapy. Nothing is more exciting to me than watching my clients make powerful life changes.
Let me help you to find clarity, authenticity, and courage in your relationships, your professional life and your personal journey. I provide a free phone consultation where you will be able to explore my background, modalities and experience. I have been treating people clinically for over 25 years. I am passionate about my work and love seeing my clients successfully engage in therapy. Nothing is more exciting to me than watching my clients make powerful life changes.
(845) 397-1286 View (845) 397-1286
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Amy Benedict
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561
A well lived life inevitably presents challenges. It is natural and healthy to seek out support to help you through. I'm honored to welcome individuals, couples and families into therapy where both inner and relational awareness can grow and develop. Our work together will build on your strengths. We'll explore the roots of your distress, where you're stuck, and why. Shedding light on frustrating patterns, disconnection, trauma, depression, anxiety and grief can reveal a path to a deeper more compassionate connection with yourself -- opening up new possibilities for your life and relationships.
A well lived life inevitably presents challenges. It is natural and healthy to seek out support to help you through. I'm honored to welcome individuals, couples and families into therapy where both inner and relational awareness can grow and develop. Our work together will build on your strengths. We'll explore the roots of your distress, where you're stuck, and why. Shedding light on frustrating patterns, disconnection, trauma, depression, anxiety and grief can reveal a path to a deeper more compassionate connection with yourself -- opening up new possibilities for your life and relationships.
(917) 398-9288 View (917) 398-9288
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Kristy (Kris) LaRocca
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561
Waitlist for new clients
My goal is to create a therapeutic environment where you feel safe, non-judged, and truly seen and heard. Building a trusting and authentic connection is essential before real therapy work can begin. I collaborate with clients to deepen self-understanding, find meaning in life's challenges, and ultimately live more fully and authentically. I take an integrative, holistic approach tailored to each client's unique and evolving needs. Understanding the mind-body connection, I incorporate somatic strategies to build embodied awareness and regulation skills. My training allows me to attune to the profound wisdom held in the body.
My goal is to create a therapeutic environment where you feel safe, non-judged, and truly seen and heard. Building a trusting and authentic connection is essential before real therapy work can begin. I collaborate with clients to deepen self-understanding, find meaning in life's challenges, and ultimately live more fully and authentically. I take an integrative, holistic approach tailored to each client's unique and evolving needs. Understanding the mind-body connection, I incorporate somatic strategies to build embodied awareness and regulation skills. My training allows me to attune to the profound wisdom held in the body.
(929) 447-2415 View (929) 447-2415
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Brad Gorfein
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
I'm Brad Gorfein, a non-traditional practitioner with over a decade of experience. I take an integrated modalities approach offering holistic, person-centered services that consider the mind, body, and soul. You are the protagonist and author of your own story, and my role is to empower you to pick up the pen in your life. Through a personalized blend of coping skills, trancework, and coaching we can tap into the unconscious and deep parts of you to unleash profound and far-reaching changes.
I'm Brad Gorfein, a non-traditional practitioner with over a decade of experience. I take an integrated modalities approach offering holistic, person-centered services that consider the mind, body, and soul. You are the protagonist and author of your own story, and my role is to empower you to pick up the pen in your life. Through a personalized blend of coping skills, trancework, and coaching we can tap into the unconscious and deep parts of you to unleash profound and far-reaching changes.
(845) 327-2418 View (845) 327-2418
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Andrea Grumbine
Creative Arts Therapist, LCAT, ATR-BC, SEP, MS, MFA
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
Trained in a somatic approach to psychotherapy, I work with trauma and the impact painful life experiences have on one’s ability to connect with others, engage more fully in their chosen pursuits and find greater levels of inner peace. I have come to understand that we can’t be fully in the present or move towards the future if we are caught in the traumatic energy of the past. While suffering is part of the human condition, we hold within the very structures of our brains and the core of our regulatory systems the means to survive devastating life experiences as well as the capacity for growth and change.
Trained in a somatic approach to psychotherapy, I work with trauma and the impact painful life experiences have on one’s ability to connect with others, engage more fully in their chosen pursuits and find greater levels of inner peace. I have come to understand that we can’t be fully in the present or move towards the future if we are caught in the traumatic energy of the past. While suffering is part of the human condition, we hold within the very structures of our brains and the core of our regulatory systems the means to survive devastating life experiences as well as the capacity for growth and change.
(845) 697-9522 View (845) 697-9522
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Janice Cyr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
It's hard to say when things 'shifted', but you realize that you barely recognize the person you've been living with. It's both heart wrenching and horrifying to imagine that you and your partner have grown so far apart. You're questioning your relationship - maybe ALL of your relationships. You're a stranger to your partner, and they, to you. What brought us together to begin with? And why can't we work through even the simplest things? At some point maybe you convinced yourself that 'this will pass'. Maybe it started when you got that new job, when your kids were born, when... But now, the distance between you can't be ignored.
It's hard to say when things 'shifted', but you realize that you barely recognize the person you've been living with. It's both heart wrenching and horrifying to imagine that you and your partner have grown so far apart. You're questioning your relationship - maybe ALL of your relationships. You're a stranger to your partner, and they, to you. What brought us together to begin with? And why can't we work through even the simplest things? At some point maybe you convinced yourself that 'this will pass'. Maybe it started when you got that new job, when your kids were born, when... But now, the distance between you can't be ignored.
(845) 237-3723 View (845) 237-3723
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Heather L. Barton
MSW
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561  (Online Only)
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the day-to-day challenges of parenting a neurodivergent child? If your home has become a battleground over simple routines like getting ready for school, mealtimes, or bedtime, and you’re carrying the weight of guilt, frustration, and exhaustion, you’re not alone. I understand that the constant push and pull can leave you feeling drained and unsure of your next steps. In our work together, I’ll help you develop clear communication strategies to ease the tension and build a more peaceful home environment. It is possible. Family after family I work with experience these results!
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the day-to-day challenges of parenting a neurodivergent child? If your home has become a battleground over simple routines like getting ready for school, mealtimes, or bedtime, and you’re carrying the weight of guilt, frustration, and exhaustion, you’re not alone. I understand that the constant push and pull can leave you feeling drained and unsure of your next steps. In our work together, I’ll help you develop clear communication strategies to ease the tension and build a more peaceful home environment. It is possible. Family after family I work with experience these results!
(845) 209-2453 View (845) 209-2453
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Dr. Christine Curry-Tuthill
Counselor, LMHC, PhD
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561  (Online Only)
Anxiety. I hate that guy! Alright, I know it's not a real person. Still, if you have had anxiety, you know what I mean. I first experienced anxiety when I was 6. It was my nearly constant companion for many years. I know it can feel that it takes away from who you are, who you want to become. Until it doesn't. Until you find a way to beat it back, put it in the background. Silence it. I can teach you how to do that.
Anxiety. I hate that guy! Alright, I know it's not a real person. Still, if you have had anxiety, you know what I mean. I first experienced anxiety when I was 6. It was my nearly constant companion for many years. I know it can feel that it takes away from who you are, who you want to become. Until it doesn't. Until you find a way to beat it back, put it in the background. Silence it. I can teach you how to do that.
(845) 419-4094 View (845) 419-4094
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Roseanne C Vecchione
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, R-LCSW, ACSW, DCSW
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
I work with individuals seeking to enhance their opportunities for growth in professional, and personal arenas, as well as with those currently struggling through emotional and mental challenges. Techniques include Psychodynamic, Psychoanalytic, Cognitive Behavioral and Mindfulness Techniques for Individuals and Couples. Please visit my web-site www.upper-east-psychotherapy.com. Sessions are offered via Telehealth (we see and hear one another) using a secure medical web-portal that is HIPPA compliant.
I work with individuals seeking to enhance their opportunities for growth in professional, and personal arenas, as well as with those currently struggling through emotional and mental challenges. Techniques include Psychodynamic, Psychoanalytic, Cognitive Behavioral and Mindfulness Techniques for Individuals and Couples. Please visit my web-site www.upper-east-psychotherapy.com. Sessions are offered via Telehealth (we see and hear one another) using a secure medical web-portal that is HIPPA compliant.
(646) 798-7167 View (646) 798-7167
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Donnie Joseph
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561  (Online Only)
Donnie Joseph has 27 years of experience working in social service and counseling spaces. During that time he has worked to counsel and support people during challenging times in their lives- whether in a psychiatric unit, emergency department, an outpatient substance abuse program, a long-term residential adolescent program, or a stabilization unit, Donnie considers it an honor and a privilege to stand alongside people and be a source of support during these vulnerable times.
Donnie Joseph has 27 years of experience working in social service and counseling spaces. During that time he has worked to counsel and support people during challenging times in their lives- whether in a psychiatric unit, emergency department, an outpatient substance abuse program, a long-term residential adolescent program, or a stabilization unit, Donnie considers it an honor and a privilege to stand alongside people and be a source of support during these vulnerable times.
(845) 539-1372 View (845) 539-1372
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Irina Gillett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561
Whether you're worrying often, struggling with relationship stress and conflict, needing to process traumatic events, or wanting to experience a more loving sense of self, beginning therapy can be anxiety-provoking and takes courage. I hope to make your experience a little easier by listening with compassion and curiosity, moving at your pace, and centering the therapy around your needs. Do others describe you as overachieving, self-reliant, perfectionistic, or Type-A? Do you struggle with creating enough balance in your life? Do you forget about your needs & desires, and then find yourself feeling burnt out or resentful of others?
Whether you're worrying often, struggling with relationship stress and conflict, needing to process traumatic events, or wanting to experience a more loving sense of self, beginning therapy can be anxiety-provoking and takes courage. I hope to make your experience a little easier by listening with compassion and curiosity, moving at your pace, and centering the therapy around your needs. Do others describe you as overachieving, self-reliant, perfectionistic, or Type-A? Do you struggle with creating enough balance in your life? Do you forget about your needs & desires, and then find yourself feeling burnt out or resentful of others?
(929) 357-1598 View (929) 357-1598
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Paul Houtkooper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
Are you struggling to feel like "yourself" again? Are you unable to feel settled, unable to keep up with your schedule or commitments? Are you feeling upset or more emotional for no apparent reason? Crises, be they large or small, disorient and leave us feeling uncertain, less able to rely upon and function like "ourselves." Growth and change are among the most positive and humanly adaptive qualities and yet the most uncertain and difficult experiences in life. At such times we want unbiased and reliable support to help restore our sense of self and help make positive choices for our lives.
Are you struggling to feel like "yourself" again? Are you unable to feel settled, unable to keep up with your schedule or commitments? Are you feeling upset or more emotional for no apparent reason? Crises, be they large or small, disorient and leave us feeling uncertain, less able to rely upon and function like "ourselves." Growth and change are among the most positive and humanly adaptive qualities and yet the most uncertain and difficult experiences in life. At such times we want unbiased and reliable support to help restore our sense of self and help make positive choices for our lives.
(917) 243-9271 View (917) 243-9271
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Susan MacNeil
Counselor, PhD, NCC, BCC
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
"PSYCHOLOGY WITH A SOUL" Are you seeking change, are you in crisis, does your life seem to be falling apart? I can help you ease the suffering that exists. I work through issues by understanding Relationship: with the self, your family, love relationships, friends and colleagues, and how to sustain them. Another major transitional life issue is finding your purpose and creating a vision of the future, which are the keynotes to happiness. I am informed by a number of techniques: Attachment Focused EMDR. positive, psychodynamic, relational and transpersonal psychology; however, "love in action" is the focal point of the work.
"PSYCHOLOGY WITH A SOUL" Are you seeking change, are you in crisis, does your life seem to be falling apart? I can help you ease the suffering that exists. I work through issues by understanding Relationship: with the self, your family, love relationships, friends and colleagues, and how to sustain them. Another major transitional life issue is finding your purpose and creating a vision of the future, which are the keynotes to happiness. I am informed by a number of techniques: Attachment Focused EMDR. positive, psychodynamic, relational and transpersonal psychology; however, "love in action" is the focal point of the work.
(646) 681-5608 View (646) 681-5608
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Mary Jane Pikul
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561
It is my passion to help women uncover their true potential and live their best life. I believe we are designed to be happy and we have all that we need within us to create the life we want, regardless of our experiences or circumstances. My focus is to help you understand and uncover core beliefs that are creating challenges in your experiences that have been holding you back from your highest potential. My approach is integrative and I specialize in anxiety and separation, fertility, relationships, self-worth and career issues.
It is my passion to help women uncover their true potential and live their best life. I believe we are designed to be happy and we have all that we need within us to create the life we want, regardless of our experiences or circumstances. My focus is to help you understand and uncover core beliefs that are creating challenges in your experiences that have been holding you back from your highest potential. My approach is integrative and I specialize in anxiety and separation, fertility, relationships, self-worth and career issues.
(845) 622-7795 View (845) 622-7795
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Marcina Hale
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, EFT-CC
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
My work is focused very much on personal development and introspection. With workshops that involve deep inner personal work, it is important to me that you are willing to commit to therapy and truly prepared to dedicate time to experiencing your life in a new way. It is often very rewarding but can also be a challenging experience to have real change in your life. My work is for those who are ready to grow, learn and are open to the experience of transformation.
My work is focused very much on personal development and introspection. With workshops that involve deep inner personal work, it is important to me that you are willing to commit to therapy and truly prepared to dedicate time to experiencing your life in a new way. It is often very rewarding but can also be a challenging experience to have real change in your life. My work is for those who are ready to grow, learn and are open to the experience of transformation.
(203) 212-9243 View (203) 212-9243
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Clayton Horsey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
Hello Everyone! I work with individuals and couples. I teach couples simple, proven, and easy to learn skills from Harville Hendrix's Imago Relationship Therapy that partners can use to repair, or improve their current, and future relationships. I work with adults to help them understand what caused the stuck places in their lives and together we collaborate to create solutions that heal those issues and create positive change.
Hello Everyone! I work with individuals and couples. I teach couples simple, proven, and easy to learn skills from Harville Hendrix's Imago Relationship Therapy that partners can use to repair, or improve their current, and future relationships. I work with adults to help them understand what caused the stuck places in their lives and together we collaborate to create solutions that heal those issues and create positive change.
(845) 533-3282 View (845) 533-3282
Suzana G. Hauer
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New Paltz, NY 12561  (Online Only)
I am a clinical psychologist who conducts therapy in both English and in my native Brazilian Portuguese. My approach is insight oriented but I can also use elements of cognitive therapy to help individuals develop practical and life skills. I work collaboratively with my patients whether it's to help them build better relationships, balance work and personal life, or navigate a new life in a different culture.
I am a clinical psychologist who conducts therapy in both English and in my native Brazilian Portuguese. My approach is insight oriented but I can also use elements of cognitive therapy to help individuals develop practical and life skills. I work collaboratively with my patients whether it's to help them build better relationships, balance work and personal life, or navigate a new life in a different culture.
(718) 530-0156 View (718) 530-0156
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Brad Schultz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
New Paltz, NY 12561
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
(646) 461-4949 View (646) 461-4949
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.