Infidelity Therapists in New City, NY

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Starlee N Qualter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
Couples can easily get stuck in circular arguments or need help to overcome betrayal, improve communication, rediscover, or build greater intimacy.
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
Couples can easily get stuck in circular arguments or need help to overcome betrayal, improve communication, rediscover, or build greater intimacy.
I am a therapist with over 25 years of clinical experience. My approach is collaborative as therapy is a unique relationship. We begin with identifying where you are now while focusing on where you want to be. I use many different techniques in discovering the most effective path for you. For example, cognitive-behavioral therapy is very effective with issues such as anxiety and depression, while using an attachment-based lens can improve low self-esteem and relationship issues. If you are looking for an interactive therapist and are ready and willing to do the work, I will help you along your journey!
(845) 684-4291 View (845) 684-4291
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Jeffrey S Vallon
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, NBCC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
(914) 368-6042 View (914) 368-6042
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Mimi Gelb
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
(845) 445-6750 View (845) 445-6750
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Shannon Shaw LCSW-R, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, NATC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
I specialize in the issues of trauma, infidelity, anxiety, and depression in adults struggling with betrayal trauma in their primary relationship.
Welcome to my page! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in Betrayal Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse. I believe that finding a therapist that you can trust and feel comfortable with is half the battle in the journey of therapy. My first priority is just that! I am passionate about creating a safe, non judgmental and laid back environment.
I specialize in the issues of trauma, infidelity, anxiety, and depression in adults struggling with betrayal trauma in their primary relationship.
Welcome to my page! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in Betrayal Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse. I believe that finding a therapist that you can trust and feel comfortable with is half the battle in the journey of therapy. My first priority is just that! I am passionate about creating a safe, non judgmental and laid back environment.
(914) 758-0738 View (914) 758-0738
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Leading Edge Therapy & Coaching
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
I integrate the most effective approaches to mental health, marital, teen, family & addiction challenges. I blend traditional with cutting edge and provide concrete tools, practical advice, and spiritual guidance while effecting lasting change and healing. For 28 years, I have helped countless people struggling with depression, anxiety, ADD, trauma, low self-esteem, anger management, and with marriage, sexuality, family, teen & parenting challenges. In testimonials I have been described as "having vast knowledge"; "a very down to earth guy who puts you at ease almost instantly; as having "laser-sharp" perceptions; & "an old soul ."
I integrate the most effective approaches to mental health, marital, teen, family & addiction challenges. I blend traditional with cutting edge and provide concrete tools, practical advice, and spiritual guidance while effecting lasting change and healing. For 28 years, I have helped countless people struggling with depression, anxiety, ADD, trauma, low self-esteem, anger management, and with marriage, sexuality, family, teen & parenting challenges. In testimonials I have been described as "having vast knowledge"; "a very down to earth guy who puts you at ease almost instantly; as having "laser-sharp" perceptions; & "an old soul ."
(845) 262-2179 View (845) 262-2179
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Robert L Henderson
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
The decision to engage in psychotherapy is a very personal and courageous decision. I believe that it is important to obtain psychotherapy from a licensed professional who can provide you with the tools to heal your whole body and mind. I will provide you with the techniques to help you cope with the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that cause difficulties in your life. Whether you are depressed, anxious, or are dealing with another mental health concern, I provide a holistic type of therapy that will help you feel better and guide you through the difficulties and transitions in your life.
The decision to engage in psychotherapy is a very personal and courageous decision. I believe that it is important to obtain psychotherapy from a licensed professional who can provide you with the tools to heal your whole body and mind. I will provide you with the techniques to help you cope with the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that cause difficulties in your life. Whether you are depressed, anxious, or are dealing with another mental health concern, I provide a holistic type of therapy that will help you feel better and guide you through the difficulties and transitions in your life.
(845) 839-4072 View (845) 839-4072
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Diane Cleary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, ACSW, CATP, CTP
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, and you may have some mixed emotions about it. I am here to join you on this journey, you will not be alone! I am a caring, energetic, and non-judgemental therapist and my goal is to help you explore and manage difficult emotions and issues in your life in healthier ways. Building a trusting and therapeutic relationship with my clients is paramount to the treatment process. Through my own personal life/ professional experiences and training, I have a wealth of knowledge and expertise that I will use to work with you so that you can find more joy and peace in your life.
I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, and you may have some mixed emotions about it. I am here to join you on this journey, you will not be alone! I am a caring, energetic, and non-judgemental therapist and my goal is to help you explore and manage difficult emotions and issues in your life in healthier ways. Building a trusting and therapeutic relationship with my clients is paramount to the treatment process. Through my own personal life/ professional experiences and training, I have a wealth of knowledge and expertise that I will use to work with you so that you can find more joy and peace in your life.
(845) 407-9629 View (845) 407-9629
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Deborah Birnbaum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I offer a safe, positive, empathetic, and productive clinical environment that addresses individual needs. My treatment approach offers hopeful solutions without stigma, judgment, or empty labels. I challenge self-deception while encouraging assertiveness, authenticity, resilience, and conscious awareness. My style is interactive and engaging. Attention is placed on the patient's immediate experience and constructively expressing what is most real and alive in their inner world. When fears and barriers are shared in this relationship of trust, we set the groundwork for new possibilities and healing.
I offer a safe, positive, empathetic, and productive clinical environment that addresses individual needs. My treatment approach offers hopeful solutions without stigma, judgment, or empty labels. I challenge self-deception while encouraging assertiveness, authenticity, resilience, and conscious awareness. My style is interactive and engaging. Attention is placed on the patient's immediate experience and constructively expressing what is most real and alive in their inner world. When fears and barriers are shared in this relationship of trust, we set the groundwork for new possibilities and healing.
(914) 502-4419 View (914) 502-4419
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Dr. Neal Martin Blackstein
Counselor, LMHC, MS, PD, DCH
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
My therapeutic philosophy is dedicated to helping individuals achieve maximum emotional and physical well-being through personal mastery. My focus is both preventative and remedial. I teach body self-regulation to reduce stress, control autonomic functions, eliminate self-defeating thoughts, behaviors, and habits, and enhance communication and coping skills. I use three main modalities - Biofeedback, Hypnosis, and Psychotherapy. These may be used independently or in conjunction with each other, according to individual needs. I work with children, teenagers and adults.
My therapeutic philosophy is dedicated to helping individuals achieve maximum emotional and physical well-being through personal mastery. My focus is both preventative and remedial. I teach body self-regulation to reduce stress, control autonomic functions, eliminate self-defeating thoughts, behaviors, and habits, and enhance communication and coping skills. I use three main modalities - Biofeedback, Hypnosis, and Psychotherapy. These may be used independently or in conjunction with each other, according to individual needs. I work with children, teenagers and adults.
(845) 535-4202 View (845) 535-4202
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Dr. Michael Adler
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
Are you or someone you love struggling with addictions? You have tried everything you can but nothing has worked and you don’t know what else to do or where to turn. You have said "this is the last time" so many times its getting harder to believe you can actually change. Your relationships and performance at work are falling apart but you feel powerless to stop yourself. If this is true for you or someone you love, then it is crucial to know that there is hope and change is possible for you and the people you love.
Are you or someone you love struggling with addictions? You have tried everything you can but nothing has worked and you don’t know what else to do or where to turn. You have said "this is the last time" so many times its getting harder to believe you can actually change. Your relationships and performance at work are falling apart but you feel powerless to stop yourself. If this is true for you or someone you love, then it is crucial to know that there is hope and change is possible for you and the people you love.
(845) 720-4007 View (845) 720-4007
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Bridget Gunn
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Are you looking for a safe and supportive place to fully process your thoughts and feelings? Or hoping to learn specific tools to cope with stress? Beginning therapy is an admirable step. I am a New York City-based licensed therapist specializing in the treatment of trauma and anxiety. I’m an experienced provider of CBT, insight-oriented mindfulness-based counseling, and affirmative counseling for the LGBTQ+ community. I also use brainspotting therapy to help my clients process past trauma in an efficient and lasting way.
Are you looking for a safe and supportive place to fully process your thoughts and feelings? Or hoping to learn specific tools to cope with stress? Beginning therapy is an admirable step. I am a New York City-based licensed therapist specializing in the treatment of trauma and anxiety. I’m an experienced provider of CBT, insight-oriented mindfulness-based counseling, and affirmative counseling for the LGBTQ+ community. I also use brainspotting therapy to help my clients process past trauma in an efficient and lasting way.
(646) 437-8166 View (646) 437-8166
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Tony Han
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I work with children, adolescents, and adults with a wide range of psychological and interpersonal challenges in life, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, life transition, relationship problems, and developmental disorders. I believe that psychotherapy is a process in which client and therapist collaborate in order to help client to improve self-understanding, overcome painful emotions, and discover new and widened perspectives about himself/herself, others, and life. I facilitate client's discovery and development of balanced and integrated personality so that he/she can transcend his/her psychological conflicts.
I work with children, adolescents, and adults with a wide range of psychological and interpersonal challenges in life, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, life transition, relationship problems, and developmental disorders. I believe that psychotherapy is a process in which client and therapist collaborate in order to help client to improve self-understanding, overcome painful emotions, and discover new and widened perspectives about himself/herself, others, and life. I facilitate client's discovery and development of balanced and integrated personality so that he/she can transcend his/her psychological conflicts.
(917) 983-2486 View (917) 983-2486
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Christian Counseling Center of NY & NJ, LLC.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
Are you feeling stuck in PTSD, anxiety, or depression? Do you experience intrusive ruminating thoughts? Overthink and question yourself; you are not alone. Are you a victim of Sexual Abuse/Trauma? Or maybe you are unsure what the problem is, but you know you want and need some help.
Are you feeling stuck in PTSD, anxiety, or depression? Do you experience intrusive ruminating thoughts? Overthink and question yourself; you are not alone. Are you a victim of Sexual Abuse/Trauma? Or maybe you are unsure what the problem is, but you know you want and need some help.
(551) 366-8873 View (551) 366-8873
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Stacey Glick-Novack
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC, ACSW
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Searching for happiness? If you desire clarity, inspiration, and a plan to reach your personal best, my therapeutic approach will aid you to navigate in the direction toward a self-fulfilling life. Together we will focus on strategies to help you cope and improve your present situation while developing skills for your future.
Searching for happiness? If you desire clarity, inspiration, and a plan to reach your personal best, my therapeutic approach will aid you to navigate in the direction toward a self-fulfilling life. Together we will focus on strategies to help you cope and improve your present situation while developing skills for your future.
(201) 690-6760 View (201) 690-6760
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Rivki Nicole Nyer
Pre-Licensed Professional, M Ed, MFT
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families find healing and growth. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can comfortably explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Everyone has within them the capacity for self-healing and transformation. I work with individuals struggling with anxious thoughts, feelings of sadness and hopelessness, traumatic memories, and family conflicts. My approach is empathetic, creative, humorous, and collaborative. Therapy is a partnership; together, we will work towards your goals and understand your true self on a deeper level.
Welcome! I am passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families find healing and growth. I aim to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can comfortably explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Everyone has within them the capacity for self-healing and transformation. I work with individuals struggling with anxious thoughts, feelings of sadness and hopelessness, traumatic memories, and family conflicts. My approach is empathetic, creative, humorous, and collaborative. Therapy is a partnership; together, we will work towards your goals and understand your true self on a deeper level.
(484) 878-5067 View (484) 878-5067
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Shemsi Prinzivalli
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCTS
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
With over 25 years of experience in the mental health field, I work with a wide range of human difficulties. From young adults trying to find their way, to individuals struggling with anxiety or depression, I believe that my work is to draw out the hidden potential in each person. Throughout the years I have trained in a wide spectrum of modalities, ranging from cognitive-behavioral therapy, to attachment theory and advanced work with the subconscious mind. And sometimes just talking about an issue in a safe environment, giving it words, allows the next step towards a happier life.
With over 25 years of experience in the mental health field, I work with a wide range of human difficulties. From young adults trying to find their way, to individuals struggling with anxiety or depression, I believe that my work is to draw out the hidden potential in each person. Throughout the years I have trained in a wide spectrum of modalities, ranging from cognitive-behavioral therapy, to attachment theory and advanced work with the subconscious mind. And sometimes just talking about an issue in a safe environment, giving it words, allows the next step towards a happier life.
(201) 431-3326 View (201) 431-3326
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Richard J Vega
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, BCD
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I am a licensed bilingual (English-Spanish speaking) psychotherapist with 20 years clinical experience working with adolescents, families, adults, seniors, & couples- diagnosing and treating behavioral health conditions. I'm an NASW member since 1997 & Board Certified since 2002. My theoretical orientation is eclectic- encompassing systems & cognitive behavioral theories, brief therapy & solution-focused principles. I use proven techniques to reduce emotional symptoms & stress, change behavior & improve quality of life. This is done by focusing on the patient's primary relationships, identifying and developing strengths/coping skills, emphasizing acceptance of responsibility for one's decisions and by proactively working to prevent problem re-occurrence.
I am a licensed bilingual (English-Spanish speaking) psychotherapist with 20 years clinical experience working with adolescents, families, adults, seniors, & couples- diagnosing and treating behavioral health conditions. I'm an NASW member since 1997 & Board Certified since 2002. My theoretical orientation is eclectic- encompassing systems & cognitive behavioral theories, brief therapy & solution-focused principles. I use proven techniques to reduce emotional symptoms & stress, change behavior & improve quality of life. This is done by focusing on the patient's primary relationships, identifying and developing strengths/coping skills, emphasizing acceptance of responsibility for one's decisions and by proactively working to prevent problem re-occurrence.
(646) 392-7220 View (646) 392-7220
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Regina I Sarabia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with the alarm in the morning, reminding you of the reality of an unhappy, unfulfilled life? Or the desperate hope that the next cup of coffee will give you the energy to keep you going? You deserve better. You deserve a life full of hope and happiness. Have you ever wondered what is holding you back from that life? Congratulations on taking the first step to figuring it out! Many people find themselves stuck, feeling alone, unheard, and in a lot of pain. I am here to show you that you are not alone, that we are in this together; and most importantly, that there is hope.
Are you struggling with the alarm in the morning, reminding you of the reality of an unhappy, unfulfilled life? Or the desperate hope that the next cup of coffee will give you the energy to keep you going? You deserve better. You deserve a life full of hope and happiness. Have you ever wondered what is holding you back from that life? Congratulations on taking the first step to figuring it out! Many people find themselves stuck, feeling alone, unheard, and in a lot of pain. I am here to show you that you are not alone, that we are in this together; and most importantly, that there is hope.
(914) 758-1086 View (914) 758-1086
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Ellen E Rubinstein
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I am a licensed clinical psychologist practicing for over 25 years. I specialize in treating a wide range of concerns including but not limited to: depression, anxiety, trauma, illness and disability, life transitions, relationship and family problems and bereavement. The most significant work happens when clients are open to change and personal exploration.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist practicing for over 25 years. I specialize in treating a wide range of concerns including but not limited to: depression, anxiety, trauma, illness and disability, life transitions, relationship and family problems and bereavement. The most significant work happens when clients are open to change and personal exploration.
(845) 262-4825 View (845) 262-4825
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Felicia Newman Asch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New City, NY 10956
Maybe things haven't been going well for you recently. Perhaps there are some unresolved relationship or personal issues that are keeping you from having the life you envision for yourself and are causing you to feel depressed or anxious. Maybe you feel stuck in old patterns that you know are holding you back and just can't figure out how to make the necessary changes but you are motivated and ready to get to work. I can offer you a safe, non judgmental place to explore what is holding you back or causing you pain so that you can feel better.
Maybe things haven't been going well for you recently. Perhaps there are some unresolved relationship or personal issues that are keeping you from having the life you envision for yourself and are causing you to feel depressed or anxious. Maybe you feel stuck in old patterns that you know are holding you back and just can't figure out how to make the necessary changes but you are motivated and ready to get to work. I can offer you a safe, non judgmental place to explore what is holding you back or causing you pain so that you can feel better.
(973) 363-2272 View (973) 363-2272
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.