Infidelity Therapists in Monsey, NY

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Jeffrey S Vallon
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, NBCC
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
I have worked with many populations: families with elderly parents, marital counseling stemming from infidelity, veterans, incarcerated inmates, in-patients with diagnosed mental illnesses, and more.
I work with the emotional needs of each person to feel the way we WANT to feel in our relationships with others- worthy, confident, and making a difference. These feelings don't happen in a vacuum, nor can they occur if we're feeling stagnant, anxious, or with a poor self confidence. We make the alliance to build on the foundation with one's own skills, together to make the changes to improve and to move forward in both personal and in relationships. Call me or email me at jsvallon@gmail.com and start the first step.
(914) 368-6042 View (914) 368-6042
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Bentzion Gruber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
Does sex addiction, pornography use, or infidelity or love affairs wreak havoc in your life? Do you feel powerless over your behaviors? Did/does it interfere with your marriage, your career, or your standing with your family or in the community? Did you get in trouble with the law, or are you afraid of the consequences of your actions? Have you tried to stop, but failed? Well, there is help, and there is a way out.
Does sex addiction, pornography use, or infidelity or love affairs wreak havoc in your life? Do you feel powerless over your behaviors? Did/does it interfere with your marriage, your career, or your standing with your family or in the community? Did you get in trouble with the law, or are you afraid of the consequences of your actions? Have you tried to stop, but failed? Well, there is help, and there is a way out.
(845) 273-3365 View (845) 273-3365
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Shmuel Skaist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CSAT-c
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Monsey, NY 10952
If you are a partner of a sex addict, I will support you in working through the trauma of betrayal and will work with both of you as a couple to face this difficult challenge.
My goal as a therapist is to help you learn skills for leading a more fulfilling and functional reality and to help you on your way to living your best life. I use an empathetic and individualized approach to help people of all backgrounds navigate life issues and stressors and make positive and meaningful changes. I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents on relationships, intimacy, parenting, life transitions, self-esteem, childhood traumas, traumatic events, and anxiety. If you need help realizing your full potential, I'll help you identify your obstacles and how to navigate them.
If you are a partner of a sex addict, I will support you in working through the trauma of betrayal and will work with both of you as a couple to face this difficult challenge.
My goal as a therapist is to help you learn skills for leading a more fulfilling and functional reality and to help you on your way to living your best life. I use an empathetic and individualized approach to help people of all backgrounds navigate life issues and stressors and make positive and meaningful changes. I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents on relationships, intimacy, parenting, life transitions, self-esteem, childhood traumas, traumatic events, and anxiety. If you need help realizing your full potential, I'll help you identify your obstacles and how to navigate them.
(845) 552-2431 View (845) 552-2431
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Couples/Marriages Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(347) 697-4476 View (347) 697-4476
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Rena J Goldin
Psychologist, PsyD, CGT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Monsey, NY 10952
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, as well as a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist with a practice operating in Bergen County, New Jersey. The knowledge, behavioral and emotional, gained through working with a Certified Gottman Therapist is invaluable to people in all states of a relationship. I believe that the Gottman Method is advantageous to all couples, pre-marital and marital. While most people enter couple's therapy after many years of distress and frustration, the interventions and skills learned are equally beneficial to couples at the beginning stage of their relationship.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, as well as a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist with a practice operating in Bergen County, New Jersey. The knowledge, behavioral and emotional, gained through working with a Certified Gottman Therapist is invaluable to people in all states of a relationship. I believe that the Gottman Method is advantageous to all couples, pre-marital and marital. While most people enter couple's therapy after many years of distress and frustration, the interventions and skills learned are equally beneficial to couples at the beginning stage of their relationship.
(201) 775-4783 View (201) 775-4783
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Abraham J Weiss
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Monsey, NY 10952
Welcome! Whether you are an individual dealing with anxiety, depression, or any other form of inner distress, or a couple trying to create a greater sense of connection and minimize negativity, or a family struggling with parenting or getting along, we will work together to achieve a place of contentedness, nurturing growth, true friendship and love.
Welcome! Whether you are an individual dealing with anxiety, depression, or any other form of inner distress, or a couple trying to create a greater sense of connection and minimize negativity, or a family struggling with parenting or getting along, we will work together to achieve a place of contentedness, nurturing growth, true friendship and love.
(862) 259-7663 View (862) 259-7663

More Therapists Nearby

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Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Hempstead, NY 10977
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
(315) 367-3054 View (315) 367-3054
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Mimi Gelb
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spring Valley, NY 10977
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
For over 12 years, I have helped couples better their relationships. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT), I offer customized counseling for a range of client needs in a secure, nurturing, and professional environment. Many issues can arise during marriage or long term relationships. Infidelity, poor communication, and loss of trust are among the most common issues we encounter. Helping couples to resolves these conflicts, repair damage, and reconnect is the most satisfying work I do.
(845) 445-6750 View (845) 445-6750
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Gerson Lovera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901  (Online Only)
Hi! Are you someone trying to make sense of own your feelings? Or someone who is actively reflecting on how to find joy in life and minimize their pain? Maybe you are struggling to understand the “how” or “why” it happened. If this is you, I'm glad you found me. I'm a psychotherapist that offers a space for teens and adults to learn more about how to maximize their understanding of their feelings/thoughts/emotions and learn to put the "pieces of the puzzle together". I also work with people going through major life changes, that involve their relationships, health, and careers.
Hi! Are you someone trying to make sense of own your feelings? Or someone who is actively reflecting on how to find joy in life and minimize their pain? Maybe you are struggling to understand the “how” or “why” it happened. If this is you, I'm glad you found me. I'm a psychotherapist that offers a space for teens and adults to learn more about how to maximize their understanding of their feelings/thoughts/emotions and learn to put the "pieces of the puzzle together". I also work with people going through major life changes, that involve their relationships, health, and careers.
(845) 393-9074 View (845) 393-9074
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Pillar Therapy
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
Spring Valley, NY 10977  (Online Only)
I AM CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS.***Do you suffer from anxiety whether it's Covid-19 related or worldly day to day pressures? Do you have children who are struggling with school or interpersonal conflicts? Are you a teenager who people "don't get" and you just feel lost and alone in the world, and can't seem to allow anybody in, no matter how hard you try? Are you a parent who is having difficulty in getting through to your kids, and feeling overwhelmed? Are you looking for clarity and perspective? Look no further, Hope is here!
I AM CURRENTLY ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS.***Do you suffer from anxiety whether it's Covid-19 related or worldly day to day pressures? Do you have children who are struggling with school or interpersonal conflicts? Are you a teenager who people "don't get" and you just feel lost and alone in the world, and can't seem to allow anybody in, no matter how hard you try? Are you a parent who is having difficulty in getting through to your kids, and feeling overwhelmed? Are you looking for clarity and perspective? Look no further, Hope is here!
(845) 479-5729 View (845) 479-5729
Photo of Yehonatan Banayan, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist
Yehonatan Banayan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Airmont, NY 10952  (Online Only)
Do you want results? Are you finding that you keep getting in your own way? That your emotions, trauma, pain, old stories and anxiety are preventing you from living the life you are meant to live? Or maybe nothing is clicking for you, no matter how are hard you try. The good news is that there is always a way, a technique or subtle perspective that can and will shift you and your life. The catch? You need to be willing to step into the unknown and get uncomfortable.
Do you want results? Are you finding that you keep getting in your own way? That your emotions, trauma, pain, old stories and anxiety are preventing you from living the life you are meant to live? Or maybe nothing is clicking for you, no matter how are hard you try. The good news is that there is always a way, a technique or subtle perspective that can and will shift you and your life. The catch? You need to be willing to step into the unknown and get uncomfortable.
(347) 919-7259 View (347) 919-7259
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Anita Horvath
MS, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spring Valley, NY 10977  (Online Only)
My focus is on marriage & family therapy and maternal/perinatal support. As we journey through marriage and parenthood, we often encounter difficult experiences that leave us feeling stuck in stress, regret and confusion. Birth trauma, postpartum depression, overwhelming identity shifts and relationship problems are a few examples. Sometimes we need extra support to get through these. Contemporary culture doesn’t prioritize mothers or value marriage, contributes to mental health issues among children, and leaves families isolated and unsupported. It makes sense to feel like you need extra support. It takes courage to ask for it.
My focus is on marriage & family therapy and maternal/perinatal support. As we journey through marriage and parenthood, we often encounter difficult experiences that leave us feeling stuck in stress, regret and confusion. Birth trauma, postpartum depression, overwhelming identity shifts and relationship problems are a few examples. Sometimes we need extra support to get through these. Contemporary culture doesn’t prioritize mothers or value marriage, contributes to mental health issues among children, and leaves families isolated and unsupported. It makes sense to feel like you need extra support. It takes courage to ask for it.
(518) 351-7688 View (518) 351-7688
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Nadine B Castro
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901
Do you feel out of sorts, weighed down, stressed by everyday life or by some specific issues that you don't seem to be able to resolve? I can help you identify what is getting in your way and preventing you from fulfilling your aspirations and reaching your goals. I'll help you focus on the alterations needed so your life becomes happy, serene and exciting. It is often how we think that prevents us from finding solutions. Talking things out with an empathic other helps, and friends do. But they often project themselves into your situation and give you advice from THEIR perspective . A good therapist sees things through YOUR eyes.
Do you feel out of sorts, weighed down, stressed by everyday life or by some specific issues that you don't seem to be able to resolve? I can help you identify what is getting in your way and preventing you from fulfilling your aspirations and reaching your goals. I'll help you focus on the alterations needed so your life becomes happy, serene and exciting. It is often how we think that prevents us from finding solutions. Talking things out with an empathic other helps, and friends do. But they often project themselves into your situation and give you advice from THEIR perspective . A good therapist sees things through YOUR eyes.
(845) 415-4090 View (845) 415-4090
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Joe Willis
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Montebello, NY 10901  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
“I don’t feel heard,” or “I can’t seem to do anything right,” are common feelings expressed in couples’ therapy. Another client may come confused, “People are telling me I have anger issues.” And other folks feel overwhelmed and stressed, “My life is changing dramatically and I’m not sure what to do next.” As one who has had many life experiences, I may identify with many of the feelings you are experiencing. Whether it is your relationships, feelings of anxiety or depression, or struggles with the choice’s life has put in front of you.
“I don’t feel heard,” or “I can’t seem to do anything right,” are common feelings expressed in couples’ therapy. Another client may come confused, “People are telling me I have anger issues.” And other folks feel overwhelmed and stressed, “My life is changing dramatically and I’m not sure what to do next.” As one who has had many life experiences, I may identify with many of the feelings you are experiencing. Whether it is your relationships, feelings of anxiety or depression, or struggles with the choice’s life has put in front of you.
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Improve Your Mental
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, R
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Nanuet, NY 10954  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, or loss? Would you like to work on your interpersonal relationships? If this resonates with you, you’ve come to the right place! We understand the challenges you’re facing, and we're here to help guide you. Life can throw unexpected challenges our way, leaving us feeling lost and disoriented. Whether you’re grappling with the complexities of relationships, battling with self-doubt, low self-esteem, or navigating feelings of anxiety and depression, know that you are not alone. Our clinicians are highly skilled and look forward to working with you.
Do you find yourself struggling with issues such as anxiety, depression, or loss? Would you like to work on your interpersonal relationships? If this resonates with you, you’ve come to the right place! We understand the challenges you’re facing, and we're here to help guide you. Life can throw unexpected challenges our way, leaving us feeling lost and disoriented. Whether you’re grappling with the complexities of relationships, battling with self-doubt, low self-esteem, or navigating feelings of anxiety and depression, know that you are not alone. Our clinicians are highly skilled and look forward to working with you.
(845) 593-8263 View (845) 593-8263
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Dr. Michael Adler
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
Are you or someone you love struggling with addictions? You have tried everything you can but nothing has worked and you don’t know what else to do or where to turn. You have said "this is the last time" so many times its getting harder to believe you can actually change. Your relationships and performance at work are falling apart but you feel powerless to stop yourself. If this is true for you or someone you love, then it is crucial to know that there is hope and change is possible for you and the people you love.
Are you or someone you love struggling with addictions? You have tried everything you can but nothing has worked and you don’t know what else to do or where to turn. You have said "this is the last time" so many times its getting harder to believe you can actually change. Your relationships and performance at work are falling apart but you feel powerless to stop yourself. If this is true for you or someone you love, then it is crucial to know that there is hope and change is possible for you and the people you love.
(845) 720-4007 View (845) 720-4007
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Amelie Southwood
Counselor, LMHC, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Suffern, NY 10901
To accept life's major changes with grace and dignity can be excruciatingly difficult. And yet, it is a challenge to welcome because when approached with careful consideration, it invites self-definition and intentional living. Are psychic wounds or limiting self-beliefs holding you back? What matters most to you? The Chinese sage, Lao Tsu, said, "If you don't change direction, you will end up where you are heading." Are you happy with your direction? If not, come see me. I listen carefully and help you find your way. I am an active, fully-engaged therapist.
To accept life's major changes with grace and dignity can be excruciatingly difficult. And yet, it is a challenge to welcome because when approached with careful consideration, it invites self-definition and intentional living. Are psychic wounds or limiting self-beliefs holding you back? What matters most to you? The Chinese sage, Lao Tsu, said, "If you don't change direction, you will end up where you are heading." Are you happy with your direction? If not, come see me. I listen carefully and help you find your way. I am an active, fully-engaged therapist.
(646) 362-8535 View (646) 362-8535
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Deborah Birnbaum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901
I offer a safe, positive, empathetic, and productive clinical environment that emphasizes individual and family needs. My treatment approach offers hopeful solutions without stigma, judgment, or empty labels. I challenge self-deception while encouraging assertiveness, authenticity, and self awareness. My practice specialties include: 1) helping adolescents and adults who struggle with relationship issues, trauma, abuse, grief and loss, life transitions, anxiety, phobias, depression, and work/life balance; 2) couples therapy; and 3) domestic violence education and safety planning.
I offer a safe, positive, empathetic, and productive clinical environment that emphasizes individual and family needs. My treatment approach offers hopeful solutions without stigma, judgment, or empty labels. I challenge self-deception while encouraging assertiveness, authenticity, and self awareness. My practice specialties include: 1) helping adolescents and adults who struggle with relationship issues, trauma, abuse, grief and loss, life transitions, anxiety, phobias, depression, and work/life balance; 2) couples therapy; and 3) domestic violence education and safety planning.
(914) 502-4419 View (914) 502-4419
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Maria Becchere
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Spring Valley, NY 10977  (Online Only)
I am a licensed mental health counselor with over ten years of clinical experience. In my practice, I work with adults and couples of diverse backgrounds. I am a sex-positive therapist and familiar with LGBTQA issues. I have experience working with depression, anxiety, trauma and PTSD, cultural and immigration difficulties, identity issues as well as relational difficulties and conflicts.
I am a licensed mental health counselor with over ten years of clinical experience. In my practice, I work with adults and couples of diverse backgrounds. I am a sex-positive therapist and familiar with LGBTQA issues. I have experience working with depression, anxiety, trauma and PTSD, cultural and immigration difficulties, identity issues as well as relational difficulties and conflicts.
(347) 603-1647 View (347) 603-1647
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Regina I Sarabia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with the alarm in the morning, reminding you of the reality of an unhappy, unfulfilled life? Or the desperate hope that the next cup of coffee will give you the energy to keep you going? You deserve better. You deserve a life full of hope and happiness. Have you ever wondered what is holding you back from that life? Congratulations on taking the first step to figuring it out! Many people find themselves stuck, feeling alone, unheard, and in a lot of pain. I am here to show you that you are not alone, that we are in this together; and most importantly, that there is hope.
Are you struggling with the alarm in the morning, reminding you of the reality of an unhappy, unfulfilled life? Or the desperate hope that the next cup of coffee will give you the energy to keep you going? You deserve better. You deserve a life full of hope and happiness. Have you ever wondered what is holding you back from that life? Congratulations on taking the first step to figuring it out! Many people find themselves stuck, feeling alone, unheard, and in a lot of pain. I am here to show you that you are not alone, that we are in this together; and most importantly, that there is hope.
(914) 758-1086 View (914) 758-1086

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.