Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Medford, NY

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Hannah Pollard
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Medford, NY 11763  (Online Only)
Many adverse experiences have shaped us from birth to the present moment and I am committed to exploring these experiences with you. Using a psychodynamic and trauma-informed approach to encourage healing, we will work on specific goals for you to become the highest version of yourself. Along with our past, our present is very much relevant to our healing process, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) we will work on taking control and modifying your negative thinking patterns. I believe we are all individually and uniquely different, so I like to take a humanistic and strength based approach to each of your own needs and goals
Many adverse experiences have shaped us from birth to the present moment and I am committed to exploring these experiences with you. Using a psychodynamic and trauma-informed approach to encourage healing, we will work on specific goals for you to become the highest version of yourself. Along with our past, our present is very much relevant to our healing process, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) we will work on taking control and modifying your negative thinking patterns. I believe we are all individually and uniquely different, so I like to take a humanistic and strength based approach to each of your own needs and goals
(631) 315-8424 View (631) 315-8424
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Medford, NY 11763
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(516) 252-3126 View (516) 252-3126
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Dr. Jonathan Small
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Medford, NY 11763
I am a psychologist in private practice for over 20 years. The people I see struggle with depression, anxiety, loss, troubling behavior, and relationship problems. I strive to be warm and empathic and provide a space where people can work through past painful experiences and develop stronger coping skills and healthier patterns of relating to others. I help to identify sources of hope and meaning that help cope with stressful circumstances. Psychotherapy can help bring about a greater sense of emotional freedom, self esteem, and more satisfying relationships.
I am a psychologist in private practice for over 20 years. The people I see struggle with depression, anxiety, loss, troubling behavior, and relationship problems. I strive to be warm and empathic and provide a space where people can work through past painful experiences and develop stronger coping skills and healthier patterns of relating to others. I help to identify sources of hope and meaning that help cope with stressful circumstances. Psychotherapy can help bring about a greater sense of emotional freedom, self esteem, and more satisfying relationships.
(631) 337-8830 View (631) 337-8830
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Vanessa Sejour
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Medford, NY 11763  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult task. You have to think of what it is you would like to work on and if the person smiling to your left will "get" you. This is a good time to introduce myself.
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult task. You have to think of what it is you would like to work on and if the person smiling to your left will "get" you. This is a good time to introduce myself.
(516) 362-1991 View (516) 362-1991
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Caroline G O'Connell
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, Ed, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Medford, NY 11763
Are you navigating life challenges such as substance abuse, depression, anxiety, trauma, or a personality disorder? If you're looking to transform your life, find clarity, and achieve personal growth, you’ve already taken a brave first step towards healing. My practice offers a sanctuary where your goals are our central focus, providing a safe space to explore your aspirations and empower you towards the life you desire. Together, we can unlock your potential and guide you on a path of self-discovery and resilience.
Are you navigating life challenges such as substance abuse, depression, anxiety, trauma, or a personality disorder? If you're looking to transform your life, find clarity, and achieve personal growth, you’ve already taken a brave first step towards healing. My practice offers a sanctuary where your goals are our central focus, providing a safe space to explore your aspirations and empower you towards the life you desire. Together, we can unlock your potential and guide you on a path of self-discovery and resilience.
(631) 825-7647 View (631) 825-7647
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Michaela Donohue
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Medford, NY 11763
Michaela has experience working with individuals who struggle with a wide range of mental health issues such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, low self esteem, and stress management. Michaela acknowledges that everyone has their own challenges and deserves to be heard. Michaela believes that every individual is different therefore utilizes the therapeutic intervention that will benefit each client the most. Interventions include: CBT, DBT, Executive Functioning skills training, Motivational Interviewing, and more. Michaela provides a relaxed and comfortable space for her clients to feel safe and secure.
Michaela has experience working with individuals who struggle with a wide range of mental health issues such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, low self esteem, and stress management. Michaela acknowledges that everyone has their own challenges and deserves to be heard. Michaela believes that every individual is different therefore utilizes the therapeutic intervention that will benefit each client the most. Interventions include: CBT, DBT, Executive Functioning skills training, Motivational Interviewing, and more. Michaela provides a relaxed and comfortable space for her clients to feel safe and secure.
(631) 489-8634 View (631) 489-8634

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Dr. Lucie M. Taustine
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Farmingville, NY 11738  (Online Only)
My patients are adult individuals and couples with diverse backgrounds and varied needs. They represent every gender, orientation, and identification. I work with patients experiencing a wide array of symptoms and issues, ranging from mild concerns through catastrophic symptoms. People of all ethnicities, faiths, races, belief systems, and cultures are welcome in my (virtual) practice; all can expect to find respect, genuine caring, palpable empathy, dignity, collaborative treatment. Many concerns can be resolved effectively via virtual/remote treatment, but if you require in-person care, I will help with a referral (for now).
My patients are adult individuals and couples with diverse backgrounds and varied needs. They represent every gender, orientation, and identification. I work with patients experiencing a wide array of symptoms and issues, ranging from mild concerns through catastrophic symptoms. People of all ethnicities, faiths, races, belief systems, and cultures are welcome in my (virtual) practice; all can expect to find respect, genuine caring, palpable empathy, dignity, collaborative treatment. Many concerns can be resolved effectively via virtual/remote treatment, but if you require in-person care, I will help with a referral (for now).
(516) 980-5705 View (516) 980-5705
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Lauren Lara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holtsville, NY 11742  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
(631) 920-4174 View (631) 920-4174
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Katherine Orobona
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Hauppauge, NY 11749  (Online Only)
Our Childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we have all experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
Our Childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we have all experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
(516) 219-9782 View (516) 219-9782
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Judith H. Grodinsky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Hauppauge, NY 11749  (Online Only)
My name is Judy and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker-R/Therapist with over 23 years experience in private practice. I specialize in counseling children, adolescents, and adults in individual, family, and group modalities. I assist these individuals navigate life's rapids helping them experience joys while confronting challenges of life's transitions. I aid parents in helping their children navigate the land mines of contemporary childhood. I believe in the work I do and I sincerely want to help people live richer, more satisfying lives. I am committed to supporting my clients in achieving their fullest potential.
My name is Judy and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker-R/Therapist with over 23 years experience in private practice. I specialize in counseling children, adolescents, and adults in individual, family, and group modalities. I assist these individuals navigate life's rapids helping them experience joys while confronting challenges of life's transitions. I aid parents in helping their children navigate the land mines of contemporary childhood. I believe in the work I do and I sincerely want to help people live richer, more satisfying lives. I am committed to supporting my clients in achieving their fullest potential.
(631) 392-7186 View (631) 392-7186
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Samantha Hallock
MHC-LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hauppauge, NY 11749
The first step to getting help is thinking about it- so be proud of yourself because you are already a step closer to your goals! My goal throughout the therapeutic process is provide support to my clients as they discover their capabilities. I aim to create a safe and welcoming environment to explore your thoughts and challenge yourself along your healing journey.
The first step to getting help is thinking about it- so be proud of yourself because you are already a step closer to your goals! My goal throughout the therapeutic process is provide support to my clients as they discover their capabilities. I aim to create a safe and welcoming environment to explore your thoughts and challenge yourself along your healing journey.
(631) 529-4998 View (631) 529-4998
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Jennifer O'Connell
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Ronkonkoma, NY 11749  (Online Only)
I am a licensed therapist committed to helping others heal, grow, and develop deeper self awareness. I believe one's experience in therapy should be safe, supportive, and non-judgmental. I strive to make my office a compassionate, and welcoming environment that promotes growth, self-exploration and healing. My clinical approach is warm, empathetic, and collaborative. I customize treatment to each individual, as I believe each person comes to therapy with their own unique strengths, experiences, and needs. I routinely ask for feedback to ensure my clients are getting the most out of their time in therapy.
I am a licensed therapist committed to helping others heal, grow, and develop deeper self awareness. I believe one's experience in therapy should be safe, supportive, and non-judgmental. I strive to make my office a compassionate, and welcoming environment that promotes growth, self-exploration and healing. My clinical approach is warm, empathetic, and collaborative. I customize treatment to each individual, as I believe each person comes to therapy with their own unique strengths, experiences, and needs. I routinely ask for feedback to ensure my clients are getting the most out of their time in therapy.
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Lindsey A Reifert-Wrobel
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ronkonkoma, NY 11749
Welcome to my practice... I obtained my Masters Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Long Island University in 2015. ​
Welcome to my practice... I obtained my Masters Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Long Island University in 2015. ​
(631) 964-6064 View (631) 964-6064
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Erica Michelle Lucks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hauppauge, NY 11749
"You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be." - Marianne Williamson
"You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be." - Marianne Williamson
(631) 629-2250 x108 View (631) 629-2250 x108
Jennifer Sutherland
Psychologist, PsyD
Not Verified Not Verified
Ronkonkoma, NY 11749
I work with my clients to provide much needed mindfulness and coping skills in order to combat day to day stressors. We work together to create achievable goals and then utilize emotion regulation and practical problem solving skills in order to obtain these goals. When working with adolescents, it is also important to provide support to school personnel and families in order to see gains in treatment. Many of my clients have struggled with self-harm and issues with self-acceptance. I help to provide healing and validation that is needed in order to finally be free of these struggles.
I work with my clients to provide much needed mindfulness and coping skills in order to combat day to day stressors. We work together to create achievable goals and then utilize emotion regulation and practical problem solving skills in order to obtain these goals. When working with adolescents, it is also important to provide support to school personnel and families in order to see gains in treatment. Many of my clients have struggled with self-harm and issues with self-acceptance. I help to provide healing and validation that is needed in order to finally be free of these struggles.
(631) 993-4173 View (631) 993-4173
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Rachel A Roger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Farmingville, NY 11738
I like to think that I am in the business of mental WELLness. Clients come from all different places in life, it is my calling to help them express what they need, and my passion to find ways to help.
I like to think that I am in the business of mental WELLness. Clients come from all different places in life, it is my calling to help them express what they need, and my passion to find ways to help.
(631) 201-5263 View (631) 201-5263
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Taylor Logerfo
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hauppauge, NY 11749
Taylor is a mental health professional who believes in empowering her clients in discovering their own self-worth and confidence. Taylor holds her license in mental health counseling with experience helping individuals of all backgrounds. Taylor adapts her counseling approaches to meet the unique needs of each client she works with. Taylor believes it is the power of empathy that fosters healing and growth to assist her clients in taking control of their lives in order for them to achieve their goals.
Taylor is a mental health professional who believes in empowering her clients in discovering their own self-worth and confidence. Taylor holds her license in mental health counseling with experience helping individuals of all backgrounds. Taylor adapts her counseling approaches to meet the unique needs of each client she works with. Taylor believes it is the power of empathy that fosters healing and growth to assist her clients in taking control of their lives in order for them to achieve their goals.
(631) 250-2841 View (631) 250-2841
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Stav Levy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SIFI, Emdr, DBT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coram, NY 11727  (Online Only)
Let’s walk through the beach, the woods. Take a sip of tea with fresh mint, and enter a world of imagination, creativity, become one with the river, no judgment, safety, healing, serenity, grounding, love, solace, and always meeting you where you’re at. I take a holistic approach and focus on the mind body connection. I believe guided imagery meditation, motivational interviewing, dbt, creativity, psychodynamic, trauma informed care, emdr, and person centered approaches are ideal. I prefer to assist anyone who has felt demoralized or ostracized because of who they are. I believe we can impact the world together one smile at a time.
Let’s walk through the beach, the woods. Take a sip of tea with fresh mint, and enter a world of imagination, creativity, become one with the river, no judgment, safety, healing, serenity, grounding, love, solace, and always meeting you where you’re at. I take a holistic approach and focus on the mind body connection. I believe guided imagery meditation, motivational interviewing, dbt, creativity, psychodynamic, trauma informed care, emdr, and person centered approaches are ideal. I prefer to assist anyone who has felt demoralized or ostracized because of who they are. I believe we can impact the world together one smile at a time.
(516) 271-1731 View (516) 271-1731
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Lori Thompson-Maranda
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CEAP
Verified Verified
Farmingville, NY 11738
I believe there is strength to be found in our weaknesses, love to be found through our pain, and light after our darkest days. The pain of healing comes with the self-awareness that otherwise may be over looked. When it becomes more painful to stay in our past then it is scary to step out of it is when the journey begins. I walk beside my clients, not in-front or behind. I remain steady and follow their lead. I provide the safety and hope that everyone needs to face their pain, to feel their pain, and to keep going anyway.
I believe there is strength to be found in our weaknesses, love to be found through our pain, and light after our darkest days. The pain of healing comes with the self-awareness that otherwise may be over looked. When it becomes more painful to stay in our past then it is scary to step out of it is when the journey begins. I walk beside my clients, not in-front or behind. I remain steady and follow their lead. I provide the safety and hope that everyone needs to face their pain, to feel their pain, and to keep going anyway.
(631) 257-3766 View (631) 257-3766
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Jessica A Lopez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holtsville, NY 11742
Imagine being able to come up with more than one reason to be grateful? Or grateful for much of anything at all, truly, rather than a laundry list of gratitudes that you think you "should" be grateful for. All those "shoulds". Reminding yourself everyday that what you're doing is not what you "should" be doing. You "shouldn't" think like this or you "shouldn't" feel like that. You begin to disapprove of yourself even, thinking that your undeserving of your own pain. You can see how these unrealistic expectations and the harsh judments you place on yourself, could lead you directly towards a place of suffering & self sabotage.
Imagine being able to come up with more than one reason to be grateful? Or grateful for much of anything at all, truly, rather than a laundry list of gratitudes that you think you "should" be grateful for. All those "shoulds". Reminding yourself everyday that what you're doing is not what you "should" be doing. You "shouldn't" think like this or you "shouldn't" feel like that. You begin to disapprove of yourself even, thinking that your undeserving of your own pain. You can see how these unrealistic expectations and the harsh judments you place on yourself, could lead you directly towards a place of suffering & self sabotage.
(631) 378-5019 View (631) 378-5019

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.