Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Locust Valley, NY

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Marianne F. Walters
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Locust Valley, NY 11560
I am an experienced, licensed clinical psychologist. Sound mental health is more than the absence of mood swings and mental problems. It is something based in reality. It allows you to enjoy your life and meet life's challenges while maintaining a healthy balance between all aspects of your life. I will work with you to achieve your goals and alleviate suffering. The work is conducted in a comfortable, caring and private setting.
I am an experienced, licensed clinical psychologist. Sound mental health is more than the absence of mood swings and mental problems. It is something based in reality. It allows you to enjoy your life and meet life's challenges while maintaining a healthy balance between all aspects of your life. I will work with you to achieve your goals and alleviate suffering. The work is conducted in a comfortable, caring and private setting.
(516) 554-0032 View (516) 554-0032
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Edward Meyer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, MA
Verified Verified
Locust Valley, NY 11560
I want to empower my clients to successfully overcome their personal challenges and lead happier lives. Many of my clients struggle with depression and anxiety and are pleased to discover the very real benefits of individual therapy. Other clients face family problems, relationship issues, or struggle with substance abuse. My clients find it beneficial to meet with an objective mental health professional with compassion, experience and expertise.
I want to empower my clients to successfully overcome their personal challenges and lead happier lives. Many of my clients struggle with depression and anxiety and are pleased to discover the very real benefits of individual therapy. Other clients face family problems, relationship issues, or struggle with substance abuse. My clients find it beneficial to meet with an objective mental health professional with compassion, experience and expertise.
(516) 701-3515 View (516) 701-3515
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Frances Cohen Praver
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Locust Valley, NY 11560
I am seeing patients on Skype, FaceTime, or phone at this time. As a clinical psychologist, relational psychoanlyst, and author my focus is on relationships with your unique self, intimate others, society, and me. Our work together in the here-and-now shows how earlier relationships and culture color your world. I work with real life experiences, wishes, and dreams. My goal is to help heal from prior hurt and to empower you to make change. The hope is for greater meaning, purpose, and love. The setting is serene and private. At all times, I provide utmost attention to your needs and desires. I aim to bring out the best in you.
I am seeing patients on Skype, FaceTime, or phone at this time. As a clinical psychologist, relational psychoanlyst, and author my focus is on relationships with your unique self, intimate others, society, and me. Our work together in the here-and-now shows how earlier relationships and culture color your world. I work with real life experiences, wishes, and dreams. My goal is to help heal from prior hurt and to empower you to make change. The hope is for greater meaning, purpose, and love. The setting is serene and private. At all times, I provide utmost attention to your needs and desires. I aim to bring out the best in you.
(516) 513-8458 View (516) 513-8458
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Nick DiPietro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Locust Valley, NY 11560  (Online Only)
Throughout my career I have worked with multiple different age groups utilizing different modalities to address individuals’ needs. Individual, couples, family and group therapy have all been used to help my clients reach their self-identified goals. With nearly a decade of counseling/psychotherapy experience, I am confident that my varied professional expertise will align closely with your needs. I encourage you to look further into my profile to discover if you feel your needs can be addressed with my added guidance and support. Feel free to reach out- the initial consultation is always free! - Nick
Throughout my career I have worked with multiple different age groups utilizing different modalities to address individuals’ needs. Individual, couples, family and group therapy have all been used to help my clients reach their self-identified goals. With nearly a decade of counseling/psychotherapy experience, I am confident that my varied professional expertise will align closely with your needs. I encourage you to look further into my profile to discover if you feel your needs can be addressed with my added guidance and support. Feel free to reach out- the initial consultation is always free! - Nick
(516) 217-9124 View (516) 217-9124

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Simona Noaghiul Yland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MD, MPH, LMFT
Verified Verified
Huntington, NY 11743
My choices of therapeutic models are specific to depression, anxiety, OCD, ADHD, PTSD, BPD, eating disorders, DID, bipolarity, or personality disorders.
Finding the right psychotherapist is challenging and can be a lengthy process. Once the search is completed and the therapy is under way, it will become rewarding and healing. My approach to psychotherapy is mindful, accepting and supportive. Trained in individual, couple, and family therapy, complex trauma, as well as clinical medicine and public health epidemiology, I provide treatment from an individualized integrative perspective, based on what is most beneficial to each person. My cultural and crosscultural perspectives allow me to factor in the cultural impact on human behavior.
My choices of therapeutic models are specific to depression, anxiety, OCD, ADHD, PTSD, BPD, eating disorders, DID, bipolarity, or personality disorders.
Finding the right psychotherapist is challenging and can be a lengthy process. Once the search is completed and the therapy is under way, it will become rewarding and healing. My approach to psychotherapy is mindful, accepting and supportive. Trained in individual, couple, and family therapy, complex trauma, as well as clinical medicine and public health epidemiology, I provide treatment from an individualized integrative perspective, based on what is most beneficial to each person. My cultural and crosscultural perspectives allow me to factor in the cultural impact on human behavior.
(631) 850-3051 View (631) 850-3051
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Erika Lopez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Roslyn Heights, NY 11577  (Online Only)
If you are struggling with self-esteem, relationship, suicidal urges/thoughts/history, self harm urges/thoughts/history, personal trauma, feeling disconnected/dissociated, impulsivity, over controlled, OCD, BPD, Bipolar Dx, Schizoaffective Dx, interpersonal effectiveness or any behavioral issues and you are looking to experience life being happy, feeling heard and understanding that you matter, then you are my ideal client.
If you are struggling with self-esteem, relationship, suicidal urges/thoughts/history, self harm urges/thoughts/history, personal trauma, feeling disconnected/dissociated, impulsivity, over controlled, OCD, BPD, Bipolar Dx, Schizoaffective Dx, interpersonal effectiveness or any behavioral issues and you are looking to experience life being happy, feeling heard and understanding that you matter, then you are my ideal client.
(516) 550-0737 View (516) 550-0737
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Laurie Giannola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-C, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743  (Online Only)
I am a dedicated therapist specializing in treatment for individuals struggling with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), anxiety, depression and OCD. With a firm emphasis on evidence-based practices and treatment outcomes, I employ a range of therapeutic approaches, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Mindfulness-Based techniques, to support my clients' healing and personal growth.
I am a dedicated therapist specializing in treatment for individuals struggling with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD), Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), anxiety, depression and OCD. With a firm emphasis on evidence-based practices and treatment outcomes, I employ a range of therapeutic approaches, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Mindfulness-Based techniques, to support my clients' healing and personal growth.
(631) 759-8112 View (631) 759-8112
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Christine M Newman
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Jericho, NY 11753
Some of the conditions I treat include but are not limited to: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Panic Disorder, Specific Phobias, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Eating Disorders, School Refusal, ADHD and more.
I understand that reaching out to a therapist for the first time can be very scary. I do my best to create an environment where my clients are met with compassion and understanding, without fear of judgment. I provide individuals with evidence-based treatment to help them overcome their difficulties. I believe that it is important to custom tailor therapy to each individual, as no two people are exactly the same. I believe one of the most important aspects of treatment is meeting each client where they are in readiness, while also encouraging movement towards their goals.
Some of the conditions I treat include but are not limited to: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Panic Disorder, Specific Phobias, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Eating Disorders, School Refusal, ADHD and more.
I understand that reaching out to a therapist for the first time can be very scary. I do my best to create an environment where my clients are met with compassion and understanding, without fear of judgment. I provide individuals with evidence-based treatment to help them overcome their difficulties. I believe that it is important to custom tailor therapy to each individual, as no two people are exactly the same. I believe one of the most important aspects of treatment is meeting each client where they are in readiness, while also encouraging movement towards their goals.
(516) 719-6383 x1 View (516) 719-6383 x1
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Danielle Cimafonte
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Lloyd Harbor, NY 11743  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I have experience in working with the young adult/adult population with a variety of different needs. I have worked within both an inpatient and outpatient setting offering support and therapy weekly to meet the needs of my clients. I use a combination of therapeutic modalities with experience in cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and have intensive training in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as well. My training has allowed me to work with people with a number of different diagnoses including Depression, Anxiety, Borderline Personality Disorder, Adjustment Disorder, Self-injurious behavior and suicidal thinking.
I have experience in working with the young adult/adult population with a variety of different needs. I have worked within both an inpatient and outpatient setting offering support and therapy weekly to meet the needs of my clients. I use a combination of therapeutic modalities with experience in cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and have intensive training in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as well. My training has allowed me to work with people with a number of different diagnoses including Depression, Anxiety, Borderline Personality Disorder, Adjustment Disorder, Self-injurious behavior and suicidal thinking.
(516) 517-6645 View (516) 517-6645
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Virtual Psychological Testing Group
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Westbury, NY 11590
Partial List of Services: ADHD - Mental Health - Compatibility - Emotional Intelligence - Autism - Career - Athletes - Personality - Anxiety - Borderline Personality - Creativity - Emotional Dysregulation - Fluid Intelligence - Testing for Mensa - Multiple Intelligences - OCD - Preschool IQ - Learning Disabilities - Giftedness - Learning Differences.
For over twenty years, we have provided advanced psychological testing using scientifically proven and established tests. Our principal psychologist, Dr. Alan Jacobson, oversees all testing. We will design a testing battery to meet your unique needs so that we can answer any questions you have, give you suggestions to help you overcome barriers, reach your potential, and bring welcome clarity to your day-to-day life. Our reports present substantial information beyond simply describing challenges; we provide insight and an individualized toolkit. We can also help you get any necessary accommodations at work or school.
Partial List of Services: ADHD - Mental Health - Compatibility - Emotional Intelligence - Autism - Career - Athletes - Personality - Anxiety - Borderline Personality - Creativity - Emotional Dysregulation - Fluid Intelligence - Testing for Mensa - Multiple Intelligences - OCD - Preschool IQ - Learning Disabilities - Giftedness - Learning Differences.
For over twenty years, we have provided advanced psychological testing using scientifically proven and established tests. Our principal psychologist, Dr. Alan Jacobson, oversees all testing. We will design a testing battery to meet your unique needs so that we can answer any questions you have, give you suggestions to help you overcome barriers, reach your potential, and bring welcome clarity to your day-to-day life. Our reports present substantial information beyond simply describing challenges; we provide insight and an individualized toolkit. We can also help you get any necessary accommodations at work or school.
(339) 217-3832 View (339) 217-3832
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Krista Altman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Manhasset, NY 11030
I’ve been focusing on Dialectical Behavior Therapy for the past 12 years which works well to treat BPD and a range of other emotional issues.
I have worked in Mental Health for 20 years. I have experience in a diverse range of settings. I’ve helped justice involved individuals, street homeless, severe issues in acute care, persistent mental illness on a community level and those struggling with trauma, addiction, in adolescents through late adulthood.
I’ve been focusing on Dialectical Behavior Therapy for the past 12 years which works well to treat BPD and a range of other emotional issues.
I have worked in Mental Health for 20 years. I have experience in a diverse range of settings. I’ve helped justice involved individuals, street homeless, severe issues in acute care, persistent mental illness on a community level and those struggling with trauma, addiction, in adolescents through late adulthood.
(516) 518-5782 View (516) 518-5782
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Lauren Nissenbaum
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Jericho, NY 11753
Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Life Transitions, Self-Esteem, Addictions, Grief and Loss, Anger Management, Communication, Emotional Regulation, Family Dynamics, Stress Management, Borderline Personality Disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Binge Eating Disorder, Body Image.
Asking for help can seem overwhelming, intimidating, and uncomfortable, but it is a clear sign of strength. You are giving yourself a chance to be seen and heard, while also gaining a better understanding of your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I value the special connections that are established between myself and my clients through building rapport. It is my responsibility to ensure that my clients are receiving individualized care based on their current needs and concerns.
Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Life Transitions, Self-Esteem, Addictions, Grief and Loss, Anger Management, Communication, Emotional Regulation, Family Dynamics, Stress Management, Borderline Personality Disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Binge Eating Disorder, Body Image.
Asking for help can seem overwhelming, intimidating, and uncomfortable, but it is a clear sign of strength. You are giving yourself a chance to be seen and heard, while also gaining a better understanding of your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I value the special connections that are established between myself and my clients through building rapport. It is my responsibility to ensure that my clients are receiving individualized care based on their current needs and concerns.
(516) 973-1030 View (516) 973-1030
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Rebecca Fields
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Manhasset, NY 11030
Rebecca is a Licensed Master Social Worker. She received her undergraduate degree from Temple University and received her masters degree from Stony Brook University in social work with a specialization in families, youth and transition to adulthood. Rebecca has experience working with children and adolescents who struggle with anxiety, depression, OCD, borderline personality disorder, relationship and family conflicts, and low-self esteem in both a foster care and school setting.
Rebecca is a Licensed Master Social Worker. She received her undergraduate degree from Temple University and received her masters degree from Stony Brook University in social work with a specialization in families, youth and transition to adulthood. Rebecca has experience working with children and adolescents who struggle with anxiety, depression, OCD, borderline personality disorder, relationship and family conflicts, and low-self esteem in both a foster care and school setting.
(516) 210-4749 View (516) 210-4749
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Karen Arluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Washington, NY 11050  (Online Only)
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
(347) 682-2790 View (347) 682-2790
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Jennifer Innabi
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
Harrison, NY 10528
I have treated many diagnosis such as but not limited to, depression, anxiety, co-occurring disorders, oppositional defiant disorder, bi polar, psychosis and borderline personality disorder.
I take pride in not being a “robotic” therapist. I personally believe being asked question after question will ultimately shut down a client and possibly worsen their anxiety about therapy or in general. I am able to effectively work on all issues while creating a comfortable and laid back environment for all my clients where they do not feel pressured. However, I will appropriately challenge you if I am observing oppositional tendencies, which are hurting your treatment goals; do not be nervous about being challenged, change and improvement require being challenged and getting out of your comfort zone!
I have treated many diagnosis such as but not limited to, depression, anxiety, co-occurring disorders, oppositional defiant disorder, bi polar, psychosis and borderline personality disorder.
I take pride in not being a “robotic” therapist. I personally believe being asked question after question will ultimately shut down a client and possibly worsen their anxiety about therapy or in general. I am able to effectively work on all issues while creating a comfortable and laid back environment for all my clients where they do not feel pressured. However, I will appropriately challenge you if I am observing oppositional tendencies, which are hurting your treatment goals; do not be nervous about being challenged, change and improvement require being challenged and getting out of your comfort zone!
(914) 996-4332 View (914) 996-4332
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Cleopatra Zhonga
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Mamaroneck, NY 10543  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
If you find yourself wrestling with overwhelming intrusive thoughts and exhausting compulsions, anxiety, emotional dysregulation or specific phobias, I am here to guide you. I help clients courageously confront OCD's challenges or cognitive distortions of anxiety, seeking relief from intrusive thoughts and behaviors. Additionally, I work with clients who experience BPD or emotional dysregulation. I offer DBT skills to promote distress tolerance and cultivate mindfulness, empowering clients to navigate their emotions with resilience and self-awareness. Together we will learn effective strategies to regain control.
If you find yourself wrestling with overwhelming intrusive thoughts and exhausting compulsions, anxiety, emotional dysregulation or specific phobias, I am here to guide you. I help clients courageously confront OCD's challenges or cognitive distortions of anxiety, seeking relief from intrusive thoughts and behaviors. Additionally, I work with clients who experience BPD or emotional dysregulation. I offer DBT skills to promote distress tolerance and cultivate mindfulness, empowering clients to navigate their emotions with resilience and self-awareness. Together we will learn effective strategies to regain control.
(914) 685-5856 View (914) 685-5856
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Jennifer Babekov
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rye, NY 10580
Do you find yourself unable to cope with daily life stressors? Are you currently struggling with addictive, impulsive or self destructive behaviors that are impacting your current functioning and relationships? Are your emotions and mood becoming harder to regulate? If so, you have come to the right place. I help address these experiences by integrating multiple therapeutic modalities, with a specific emphasis on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to target maladaptive thoughts and behavioral patterns you may be engaging in.
Do you find yourself unable to cope with daily life stressors? Are you currently struggling with addictive, impulsive or self destructive behaviors that are impacting your current functioning and relationships? Are your emotions and mood becoming harder to regulate? If so, you have come to the right place. I help address these experiences by integrating multiple therapeutic modalities, with a specific emphasis on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to target maladaptive thoughts and behavioral patterns you may be engaging in.
(631) 201-5791 View (631) 201-5791
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Jonathan Kelly
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Roslyn Heights, NY 11577
Do you have a tough time controlling your emotions and feel stuck? Do you act on your impulses and struggle to stay calm in tough situations. Does this make it hard for you to reach your goals? I help teens , adults , and families with valuable skills to guide you. I can teach you how to manage your emotions better, develop healthier ways to cope and make real progress in a steady, positive way
Do you have a tough time controlling your emotions and feel stuck? Do you act on your impulses and struggle to stay calm in tough situations. Does this make it hard for you to reach your goals? I help teens , adults , and families with valuable skills to guide you. I can teach you how to manage your emotions better, develop healthier ways to cope and make real progress in a steady, positive way
(516) 613-5541 View (516) 613-5541
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Lori Bellan
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
I provide a safe, caring environment for my clients where we work together to build a mutually respectful and trusting relationship. My job is to help remove the obstacles in your way so self-realization can take place.
I provide a safe, caring environment for my clients where we work together to build a mutually respectful and trusting relationship. My job is to help remove the obstacles in your way so self-realization can take place.
(516) 628-7364 View (516) 628-7364
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Bridget McNamara
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Roslyn Heights, NY 11577
Are you suffering with suicidal thoughts/behaviors, self-harm, managing your emotions, interpersonal issues, impulsivity or trauma? If so, I am here to help. My ideal client may be struggling with functioning in many areas of their life and may have a past history of trauma that they have not been able to share. The clients I treat are seeking skills to be able to treat these symptoms so they can heal.
Are you suffering with suicidal thoughts/behaviors, self-harm, managing your emotions, interpersonal issues, impulsivity or trauma? If so, I am here to help. My ideal client may be struggling with functioning in many areas of their life and may have a past history of trauma that they have not been able to share. The clients I treat are seeking skills to be able to treat these symptoms so they can heal.
(516) 689-1296 View (516) 689-1296

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.