Sex Therapists in Fairport, NY
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Megan specializes in providing sex therapy for individuals and couples struggling with sexual desire and functioning, compulsive sexual behaviors, non-monogamy, polyamory, kink-friendly and LGBT concerns.
Megan received her Masters of Science in Family Therapy from Friends University in Wichita, Kansas. She has provided services in a private practice setting for the past 7 years specializing in sex and relational therapy. She is currently a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
Megan specializes in providing sex therapy for individuals and couples struggling with sexual desire and functioning, compulsive sexual behaviors, non-monogamy, polyamory, kink-friendly and LGBT concerns.
Megan received her Masters of Science in Family Therapy from Friends University in Wichita, Kansas. She has provided services in a private practice setting for the past 7 years specializing in sex and relational therapy. She is currently a Certified Sex Therapist through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
![Photo of Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Therapy Services, LMHC, CMHIMP, NCC, MS, CNC, Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3ef16526-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Therapy Services
Counselor, LMHC, CMHIMP, NCC, MS, CNC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairport, NY 14450
Welcome! I am dedicated to helping you through personal, family, and health difficulties with empathy and expertise. At WHOLE, guiding you to your "best self" is our absolute priority. My style of mentoring is client centered and solution focused, giving my clients the opportunity to explore their struggles, find their strengths, and get what they want out of life. We can't wait to offer you hope for the future that can change your life and health long term. Call 585-524-0008 to book your first session within 7 days!
Welcome! I am dedicated to helping you through personal, family, and health difficulties with empathy and expertise. At WHOLE, guiding you to your "best self" is our absolute priority. My style of mentoring is client centered and solution focused, giving my clients the opportunity to explore their struggles, find their strengths, and get what they want out of life. We can't wait to offer you hope for the future that can change your life and health long term. Call 585-524-0008 to book your first session within 7 days!
![Photo of Steve Michener, LCSW, SAP, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/3de3d009-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Currently, I only have Monday morning appointments available. Have you been thinking about counseling for awhile? It's not uncommon for people to consider getting help for months before they make the first call. But remember, counseling is just people talking to each other. My goal is to help you to feel comfortable. I strive to create a non-judgmental atmosphere where people can develop the insights and skills they need to grow. My approach to counseling is down to earth and practical. I use a solution-focused approach that builds on the strengths already present in my clients.
Currently, I only have Monday morning appointments available. Have you been thinking about counseling for awhile? It's not uncommon for people to consider getting help for months before they make the first call. But remember, counseling is just people talking to each other. My goal is to help you to feel comfortable. I strive to create a non-judgmental atmosphere where people can develop the insights and skills they need to grow. My approach to counseling is down to earth and practical. I use a solution-focused approach that builds on the strengths already present in my clients.
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Evan Rubenstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairport, NY 14450 (Online Only)
Working through your struggles can feel like an isolating experience. I create a supportive and collaborative environment to help you safely work through your personal challenges and achieve your goals. I am an experienced Social Worker who’s practiced clinical therapy in acute, medical, community, and outpatient settings. I work with diverse populations ranging from college students to active adults. I specialize in, but am not limited to, working with anxiety, self esteem, ADHD, and life transitions. Additionally, with a background in visual arts, I embrace your creative process and understand the importance of self-expression.
Working through your struggles can feel like an isolating experience. I create a supportive and collaborative environment to help you safely work through your personal challenges and achieve your goals. I am an experienced Social Worker who’s practiced clinical therapy in acute, medical, community, and outpatient settings. I work with diverse populations ranging from college students to active adults. I specialize in, but am not limited to, working with anxiety, self esteem, ADHD, and life transitions. Additionally, with a background in visual arts, I embrace your creative process and understand the importance of self-expression.
![Photo of Bridget Lucchesi - Bridget Lucchesi, LCSW, PC, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/474808c0-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Bridget Lucchesi, LCSW, PC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fairport, NY 14450
If you feel anxious, depressed, fearful, relationship or family problems? We offer a cutting edge integrative assessment to address possible sources of your mental health symptoms versus simply treating the symptoms. We look at your overall health including hormones, vitamin deficiency and environmental issues that may play a role. We develop a unique individualized evidence based treatment plan to manage or resolve your symptoms. I bring an integrative strength based perspective to my counseling. We teach mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness.
If you feel anxious, depressed, fearful, relationship or family problems? We offer a cutting edge integrative assessment to address possible sources of your mental health symptoms versus simply treating the symptoms. We look at your overall health including hormones, vitamin deficiency and environmental issues that may play a role. We develop a unique individualized evidence based treatment plan to manage or resolve your symptoms. I bring an integrative strength based perspective to my counseling. We teach mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness.
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Melissa W Collins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fairport, NY 14450
I believe in the importance of relationships; the relationship you have with yourself and your relationship with others. I work with couples to improve communication, emotional/sexual intimacy, learn love languages, rebuild respect and trust, and adjust to parenthood. I work alongside individuals who are on their journey to strengthen their emotional well being, lessen anxiety, obtain insight into triggers/behaviors and unlearn old ways of thinking with new ways of being. I help individuals and couples navigate the emotions and adjustments to life transitions, such as a child, grief and loss, careers, and relationships.
I believe in the importance of relationships; the relationship you have with yourself and your relationship with others. I work with couples to improve communication, emotional/sexual intimacy, learn love languages, rebuild respect and trust, and adjust to parenthood. I work alongside individuals who are on their journey to strengthen their emotional well being, lessen anxiety, obtain insight into triggers/behaviors and unlearn old ways of thinking with new ways of being. I help individuals and couples navigate the emotions and adjustments to life transitions, such as a child, grief and loss, careers, and relationships.
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Finding the perfect therapist, much like finding the perfect pair of jeans, can be both an exciting and daunting task. Finding the right fit is crucial to building a strong and successful working relationship. As a licensed mental health counselor, it is my goal to help establish a warm and empathic environment that fits you and/or your partner/family to explore your concerns and work to accomplish your goals. I work with a variety of clients tackling relational issues or seeking deep understanding of themselves. I specialize in LGBTQ+ informed treatment, couples counseling & sexual and intimacy-based concerns.
Finding the perfect therapist, much like finding the perfect pair of jeans, can be both an exciting and daunting task. Finding the right fit is crucial to building a strong and successful working relationship. As a licensed mental health counselor, it is my goal to help establish a warm and empathic environment that fits you and/or your partner/family to explore your concerns and work to accomplish your goals. I work with a variety of clients tackling relational issues or seeking deep understanding of themselves. I specialize in LGBTQ+ informed treatment, couples counseling & sexual and intimacy-based concerns.
![Photo of Lisa Fogel - Lisa Fogel, LCSW-R, PLLC, LCSW-R, PLLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/0bc2e85f-32ae-4f56-8b46-6a78f2e9d7de/1/320x400.jpeg)
Lisa Fogel, LCSW-R, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, PLLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairport, NY 14450 (Online Only)
I am a telehealth provider. If you: Avoid conflict by appeasing others, struggle to set boundaries and limits, struggle with relationships, put off verbalizing your needs, feel resentment or anxiety, feel unsettled and misunderstood, overdeliver leading to exhaustion, wonder why you are not being heard, strive to please others while sacrificing your needs, or are a child of an alcoholic / addiction, I can help you improve your relationships, increase self-esteem, prioritize needs, set healthy boundaries, sleep better, communicate your needs, and re-establish self care.
I am a telehealth provider. If you: Avoid conflict by appeasing others, struggle to set boundaries and limits, struggle with relationships, put off verbalizing your needs, feel resentment or anxiety, feel unsettled and misunderstood, overdeliver leading to exhaustion, wonder why you are not being heard, strive to please others while sacrificing your needs, or are a child of an alcoholic / addiction, I can help you improve your relationships, increase self-esteem, prioritize needs, set healthy boundaries, sleep better, communicate your needs, and re-establish self care.
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Jessica Janik McDermott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Waitlist for new clients
You have a complicated relationship with sex. There are many reasons for this, and you recognize the need to explore exactly how it all connects. You want to feel more confident as a sexual being, overcome anxiety around sex, and feel a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).
You have a complicated relationship with sex. There are many reasons for this, and you recognize the need to explore exactly how it all connects. You want to feel more confident as a sexual being, overcome anxiety around sex, and feel a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).
![Photo of Pebble Kranz - Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness, MD, FECSM](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/44d0a707-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Our sex therapists are certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.
We are confidential, open-minded, comprehensive and whole-person centered. The spectrum of human sexuality is vast, and our goal is helping you find your own wellness regarding sexual issues. The Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness provides care for common and complex sexual, intimacy, and relationship issues in people of all genders and ages. The Center is comprised of a sexual medicine specialist as well as a team of certified sex therapists and sex therapists in training. In addition to medical evaluation and treatment of sexual issues, we offer individual, relational, and group therapy.
Our sex therapists are certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.
We are confidential, open-minded, comprehensive and whole-person centered. The spectrum of human sexuality is vast, and our goal is helping you find your own wellness regarding sexual issues. The Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness provides care for common and complex sexual, intimacy, and relationship issues in people of all genders and ages. The Center is comprised of a sexual medicine specialist as well as a team of certified sex therapists and sex therapists in training. In addition to medical evaluation and treatment of sexual issues, we offer individual, relational, and group therapy.
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I am currently working towards certification as a Sex Therapist (CST).
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society to enhance your lived experience. My work with you is person-centered, in that your goals and experiences are essential to our process. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
I am currently working towards certification as a Sex Therapist (CST).
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society to enhance your lived experience. My work with you is person-centered, in that your goals and experiences are essential to our process. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
![Photo of Eleni Economides, CST, CLC, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/5cb5872f-1058-4498-9558-9c87c8e85408/1/320x400.jpeg)
If you are a woman who is the lower libido partner in your intimate relationship, you're likely stuck on the sexual anxiety hamster wheel. If you’re stuck here, then sex means stress. At least once or twice a week, you feel dread about when the next time might be that your partner will want to have sex because you are rarely in the mood for it. You avoid cuddling, hugging, and kissing your partner out of fear that if you do, they will think you are in the mood. You pull away when your partner tries to hug or kiss you and you look busy or say you are busy to avoid their affection turning into a request for sex. Sounds familiar?
If you are a woman who is the lower libido partner in your intimate relationship, you're likely stuck on the sexual anxiety hamster wheel. If you’re stuck here, then sex means stress. At least once or twice a week, you feel dread about when the next time might be that your partner will want to have sex because you are rarely in the mood for it. You avoid cuddling, hugging, and kissing your partner out of fear that if you do, they will think you are in the mood. You pull away when your partner tries to hug or kiss you and you look busy or say you are busy to avoid their affection turning into a request for sex. Sounds familiar?
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Jessica Morillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsford, NY 14534 (Online Only)
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As a sex therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you love!
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As a sex therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you love!
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Janie Kleinberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsford, NY 14534
Talking about sex can be a liberating and empowering experience. You might be experiencing a decrease in sexual desire, struggling with sexual function, or wanting to explore what sexuality looks like for you. These topics and the entire spectrum of sexual concerns and questions are valid and deserve to be heard. Many folks avoid addressing sexual wellness concerns because of the shame, fear, and anxiety they feel around sex and their bodies. Working towards more fulfilling sexual connections with ourselves and others can spark deep reflection and growth in our lives. I work best with individuals who are eager to explore and learn.
Talking about sex can be a liberating and empowering experience. You might be experiencing a decrease in sexual desire, struggling with sexual function, or wanting to explore what sexuality looks like for you. These topics and the entire spectrum of sexual concerns and questions are valid and deserve to be heard. Many folks avoid addressing sexual wellness concerns because of the shame, fear, and anxiety they feel around sex and their bodies. Working towards more fulfilling sexual connections with ourselves and others can spark deep reflection and growth in our lives. I work best with individuals who are eager to explore and learn.
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Annette Lee
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Macedon, NY 14502
Waitlist for new clients
Do you feel like everything on the outside is "perfect" but you are struggling on the inside? Does life seem great "on paper" but you aren't happy? Do you feel like all your friends are happy and you're a mess? These feelings are more common than you think and can come from all kinds of sources - family problems, transition/change, and just an overall uncertainty of who you are and what you want -including questions about sexuality and gender. Life doesn't come with a handbook. But the good news is that I don't think we need one!
Do you feel like everything on the outside is "perfect" but you are struggling on the inside? Does life seem great "on paper" but you aren't happy? Do you feel like all your friends are happy and you're a mess? These feelings are more common than you think and can come from all kinds of sources - family problems, transition/change, and just an overall uncertainty of who you are and what you want -including questions about sexuality and gender. Life doesn't come with a handbook. But the good news is that I don't think we need one!
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Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice, PC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Some are certified by American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, & Therapists; Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute.
If you are overwhelmed, confused, hurt and/or just need support we are here for you. For over 20 years, we have helped couples, families & individuals achieve health & healing & it would be an honor to help you. Most clients are stuck in unhealthy patterns that create & maintain distance & emotional pain. Often communication is about defending instead of understanding. We work to create safety so clients can have the connection they desire. We help our clients heal the pain & resentment, while creating healthy patterns that allows each person to be their authentic self. We are open to all people who are seeking growth & stability.
Some are certified by American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, & Therapists; Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute.
If you are overwhelmed, confused, hurt and/or just need support we are here for you. For over 20 years, we have helped couples, families & individuals achieve health & healing & it would be an honor to help you. Most clients are stuck in unhealthy patterns that create & maintain distance & emotional pain. Often communication is about defending instead of understanding. We work to create safety so clients can have the connection they desire. We help our clients heal the pain & resentment, while creating healthy patterns that allows each person to be their authentic self. We are open to all people who are seeking growth & stability.
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William A Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR, DST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14625
This therapist has been providing treatment that have helped many people experience a rich connection with their sexuality, and mutual sexual connections with others.
Are you seeking help with sexual or relationship concerns? Some fear that sexual issues will isolate them from others or cause rifts in their relationships. Do you wish to connect with others in a more positive way? Are you seeking a richer connection with your own sexuality, either within yourself or within your relationships? If you have experienced isolation, anxiety, and depression related to sexual concerns, I am eager to help you move to a place of deeper intimacy and peace. My 40+ years in the mental health field has focused on helping clients in a variety of contexts with sexual issues as a Certified Sex Therapist
This therapist has been providing treatment that have helped many people experience a rich connection with their sexuality, and mutual sexual connections with others.
Are you seeking help with sexual or relationship concerns? Some fear that sexual issues will isolate them from others or cause rifts in their relationships. Do you wish to connect with others in a more positive way? Are you seeking a richer connection with your own sexuality, either within yourself or within your relationships? If you have experienced isolation, anxiety, and depression related to sexual concerns, I am eager to help you move to a place of deeper intimacy and peace. My 40+ years in the mental health field has focused on helping clients in a variety of contexts with sexual issues as a Certified Sex Therapist
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As a Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist who specializes in life transitions such as marriage, divorce, and relational concerns, female/male sexuality, dysfunction/concerns, sexual trauma, and gender identity.
Life as you know it has changed. Whether it be suddenly or over time, everything that once was is no longer. You may be asking yourself; why me, how did this happen, am I the only one who feels this way, what, if anything could I do different, or can I actually feel better? Maybe you are telling yourself; I am all alone in this, no one will understand how I feel, I don't know where to begin and cannot imagine getting past all this. The feelings of sadness, anger, confusion, frustration or being scared are overwhelming. You're just trying to make sense of it all. It is a huge step to seek out support but you are here and not alone.
As a Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist who specializes in life transitions such as marriage, divorce, and relational concerns, female/male sexuality, dysfunction/concerns, sexual trauma, and gender identity.
Life as you know it has changed. Whether it be suddenly or over time, everything that once was is no longer. You may be asking yourself; why me, how did this happen, am I the only one who feels this way, what, if anything could I do different, or can I actually feel better? Maybe you are telling yourself; I am all alone in this, no one will understand how I feel, I don't know where to begin and cannot imagine getting past all this. The feelings of sadness, anger, confusion, frustration or being scared are overwhelming. You're just trying to make sense of it all. It is a huge step to seek out support but you are here and not alone.
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Serenity Walk Counseling, Sarah Martyn, LCSW,CASAC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW , CASAC
Verified Verified
Victor, NY 14564
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I'd like to introduce myself. I am Sarah Gwen. I go by Sarah or Gwen. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Master Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor (CASAC), and I am almost ready to apply to be a Certified Sex Therapist (CST). I really enjoy learning, helping, connecting, and facing challenges. I also love animals, music, nature, tattoos,and food. I am Native Hawaiian, raised in San Diego. I have been here in the Finger Lakes for 13 years. I am a mother of three, ranging from 25 to 11 yrs. I consider myself warm, casual and intelligent. I would love to meet and see if I can help. No pressure.
Hello, I'd like to introduce myself. I am Sarah Gwen. I go by Sarah or Gwen. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Master Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor (CASAC), and I am almost ready to apply to be a Certified Sex Therapist (CST). I really enjoy learning, helping, connecting, and facing challenges. I also love animals, music, nature, tattoos,and food. I am Native Hawaiian, raised in San Diego. I have been here in the Finger Lakes for 13 years. I am a mother of three, ranging from 25 to 11 yrs. I consider myself warm, casual and intelligent. I would love to meet and see if I can help. No pressure.
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Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, mindfulness, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, mindfulness, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.