Gottman Method Therapists in Deer Park, NY

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Cynthia Lynn Metzig
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, PhD
Verified Verified
Deer Park, NY 11729
I use a variety of counseling modalities including CBT, DBT, Client Centered, Gottman Method, and Psychodynamic.
A Doctoral LeveI licensed and Certified Mental Health Counselor with over 35 years of experience providing mental health services in a variety of settings. Working with individuals and couples. Specializing in rape crisis counseling, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, ADHD, divorce mediation, and those suffering from major mental illness. My therapeutic style is a direct and collaborative approach. In our journey I will match the mode of therapy to meet your specific needs.
I use a variety of counseling modalities including CBT, DBT, Client Centered, Gottman Method, and Psychodynamic.
A Doctoral LeveI licensed and Certified Mental Health Counselor with over 35 years of experience providing mental health services in a variety of settings. Working with individuals and couples. Specializing in rape crisis counseling, depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, ADHD, divorce mediation, and those suffering from major mental illness. My therapeutic style is a direct and collaborative approach. In our journey I will match the mode of therapy to meet your specific needs.
(631) 840-6151 View (631) 840-6151
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Patricia Cluett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Deer Park, NY 11729  (Online Only)
I am a licensed, certified social worker with 30-plus years of experience, and I love my job. I enjoy helping clients find their strengths and guide them to their goals. Together we can find the tools to allow you to gain your full potential. I have a calm presence which will enable me to connect with my clients. I see adults 18 years old and up. My clients come from a variety of backgrounds, and I feel comfortable working with people who suffer from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and various life changes.
I am a licensed, certified social worker with 30-plus years of experience, and I love my job. I enjoy helping clients find their strengths and guide them to their goals. Together we can find the tools to allow you to gain your full potential. I have a calm presence which will enable me to connect with my clients. I see adults 18 years old and up. My clients come from a variety of backgrounds, and I feel comfortable working with people who suffer from depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and various life changes.
(347) 657-6238 View (347) 657-6238
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Saadia Z. Yunus
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deer Park, NY 11729
Hi! Thanks for being here. I will give it my all to help you move from struggling to thriving and beyond the doubt and fear that holds you back in life. I ensure you are comfortable and motivated to believe in your ability to solve your own problems and heal from the past so it no longer controls your present. I work with individuals, couples, families, & groups and focus on strengths, resources, and resilience. As an EMDR certified therapist, I don't waste any time in working together towards FAST results.
Hi! Thanks for being here. I will give it my all to help you move from struggling to thriving and beyond the doubt and fear that holds you back in life. I ensure you are comfortable and motivated to believe in your ability to solve your own problems and heal from the past so it no longer controls your present. I work with individuals, couples, families, & groups and focus on strengths, resources, and resilience. As an EMDR certified therapist, I don't waste any time in working together towards FAST results.
(631) 214-2783 View (631) 214-2783
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Cherie Amanda Gonzalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deer Park, NY 11729  (Online Only)
My approach is to be warm, genuine, open and honest. My therapeutic approach comes from a family systems perspective as well as interpersonal framework. We'll explore different aspects of one self and enhance your ability to identify and analyze problems, explore solutions, and deepen your interpersonal connections. In recognizing your own strengths, my goal is to empower and understand you. I’m going to meet you right as you are, right now.
My approach is to be warm, genuine, open and honest. My therapeutic approach comes from a family systems perspective as well as interpersonal framework. We'll explore different aspects of one self and enhance your ability to identify and analyze problems, explore solutions, and deepen your interpersonal connections. In recognizing your own strengths, my goal is to empower and understand you. I’m going to meet you right as you are, right now.
(631) 250-2870 View (631) 250-2870
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Carrie Gardino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Deer Park, NY 11729
As a Clinician, with 17+ years' experience, I have an extensive background in working with children, adolescents, and families facing a range of stressors from mild relationship conflict to more intense mental health symptom management. My specialties include behavior modification and parent skills training to create long term change, strengthen relationships and foster motivation-based behavior compliance. At Behavioral Health Counseling our therapists provide evidenced-based, goal-oriented treatment to individuals, couples, families, and groups. Treatment and Behavior Plans are individualized to meet each patient’s need.
As a Clinician, with 17+ years' experience, I have an extensive background in working with children, adolescents, and families facing a range of stressors from mild relationship conflict to more intense mental health symptom management. My specialties include behavior modification and parent skills training to create long term change, strengthen relationships and foster motivation-based behavior compliance. At Behavioral Health Counseling our therapists provide evidenced-based, goal-oriented treatment to individuals, couples, families, and groups. Treatment and Behavior Plans are individualized to meet each patient’s need.
(631) 526-9482 View (631) 526-9482
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Lisa Labrusciano
MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Deer Park, NY 11729
Lisa'a specialty areas include anxiety, chronic illness, depression, family conflict, life transitions, and relationship concerns. She has experience working with couples, families, adults, and teens. She utilizes various therapeutic techniques to meet her clients where they are. She helps them identify their emotions and learn positive, healthy ways to express themselves. She has also worked with older populations providing support through the end-of-life phases. She works with stress management and emotional challenges throughout the life cycle.
Lisa'a specialty areas include anxiety, chronic illness, depression, family conflict, life transitions, and relationship concerns. She has experience working with couples, families, adults, and teens. She utilizes various therapeutic techniques to meet her clients where they are. She helps them identify their emotions and learn positive, healthy ways to express themselves. She has also worked with older populations providing support through the end-of-life phases. She works with stress management and emotional challenges throughout the life cycle.
(631) 201-5666 View (631) 201-5666
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FC Marrriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Deer Park, NY 11729
Not accepting new clients
My name is Francis and I welcome you on this ride we call life. My professional background is heavily invested in youth services and community outreach programs. My passion for helping and providing support is deeply rooted in my personality and personal lived experiences. After years in social services, I was driven by curiosity and longing to better understand relationships, so I became a Marriage and Family Therapist. My hope is to hone on my lived experiences coupled with clinical insight to further support individuals, couples, families, and communities to build healthier attachment bonds.
My name is Francis and I welcome you on this ride we call life. My professional background is heavily invested in youth services and community outreach programs. My passion for helping and providing support is deeply rooted in my personality and personal lived experiences. After years in social services, I was driven by curiosity and longing to better understand relationships, so I became a Marriage and Family Therapist. My hope is to hone on my lived experiences coupled with clinical insight to further support individuals, couples, families, and communities to build healthier attachment bonds.
(631) 825-8104 View (631) 825-8104

More Therapists Nearby

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Donna Demenus Dholakia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MALD
Verified Verified
Melville, NY 11747
I have a special interest and training in healing relationship distress and conflict using Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Do you feel unsatisfied with the direction of your life and the quality of your relationships? Do you feel stuck or lonely? Perhaps your persistent worries are narrowing your life? My goal is to empower adolescents, adults and couples to heal and grow into the people they would like to become, and to thrive in their lives and relationships. I work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, school-related difficulties, parenting issues, trauma, grief, and marriage/relationship issues. We will work collaboratively to identify your goals and create a plan to develop new strategies to manage life challenges.
I have a special interest and training in healing relationship distress and conflict using Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Do you feel unsatisfied with the direction of your life and the quality of your relationships? Do you feel stuck or lonely? Perhaps your persistent worries are narrowing your life? My goal is to empower adolescents, adults and couples to heal and grow into the people they would like to become, and to thrive in their lives and relationships. I work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, school-related difficulties, parenting issues, trauma, grief, and marriage/relationship issues. We will work collaboratively to identify your goals and create a plan to develop new strategies to manage life challenges.
(917) 789-1265 View (917) 789-1265
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Rachael Gibney
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Huntington, NY 11743  (Online Only)
Hello! I help adults and teens who are struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, depression or trauma responses by getting to know the unique individual you are through an exploration of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, experiences, relationship dynamics, self care routines, community involvement, personal and interpersonal goals and life dreams. By utilizing a variety of modalities such as Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems Therapy and Action Methods, I help you to understand and create meaning around what has already happened and walk with you on your path to fulfillment.
Hello! I help adults and teens who are struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, depression or trauma responses by getting to know the unique individual you are through an exploration of your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, experiences, relationship dynamics, self care routines, community involvement, personal and interpersonal goals and life dreams. By utilizing a variety of modalities such as Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems Therapy and Action Methods, I help you to understand and create meaning around what has already happened and walk with you on your path to fulfillment.
(929) 810-1139 View (929) 810-1139
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Lisa Current
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
I have taught masters level classes, delivered presentations on couples and family counseling, and am specially trained in Gottman Method Couples therapies.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), couples and families usually come to me because they are already aware that something needs to change. Understanding that relationship dynamics create the need for treatment, I work collaboratively with everyone involved to transform those dynamics. When working with clients to solve the problems they face, I use an inclusive approach, keeping in mind that everyone brings their own unique knowledge, perspective, strengths, and resources to their situation. I’m committed to using my understanding and expertise in mental health and relationships to help clients achieve their goals
I have taught masters level classes, delivered presentations on couples and family counseling, and am specially trained in Gottman Method Couples therapies.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), couples and families usually come to me because they are already aware that something needs to change. Understanding that relationship dynamics create the need for treatment, I work collaboratively with everyone involved to transform those dynamics. When working with clients to solve the problems they face, I use an inclusive approach, keeping in mind that everyone brings their own unique knowledge, perspective, strengths, and resources to their situation. I’m committed to using my understanding and expertise in mental health and relationships to help clients achieve their goals
(516) 604-3489 View (516) 604-3489
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Kelly A. Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
Such as, the Gottman Method and EFT for couples.
Are you a couple struggling to be heard and reaching for connection? Are you dealing with anxiety over a recent life transition? As a clinical therapist in DUMBO, I specialize in helping individuals cope with anxiety, couples in conflict increase positive interactions, and those going through life transitions find confidence. I also offer family therapy skills to children and parents struggling with behavioral challenges. We help those who feel stuck in patterns that don't seem to be working anymore by providing a safe, trustworthy and collaborative environment that works towards a sense of self-efficacy and change.
Such as, the Gottman Method and EFT for couples.
Are you a couple struggling to be heard and reaching for connection? Are you dealing with anxiety over a recent life transition? As a clinical therapist in DUMBO, I specialize in helping individuals cope with anxiety, couples in conflict increase positive interactions, and those going through life transitions find confidence. I also offer family therapy skills to children and parents struggling with behavioral challenges. We help those who feel stuck in patterns that don't seem to be working anymore by providing a safe, trustworthy and collaborative environment that works towards a sense of self-efficacy and change.
(516) 874-6917 View (516) 874-6917
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Tamara Fass
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Babylon, NY 11702
Additionally, as a couples therapist, I draw upon my expertise in the Gottman Method and utilize the PACT model to help couples not just survive but thrive together.
Envision a life free from the burdens of past trauma, where you connect deeply in your relationships with others and your relationship with yourself. This is the transformative power of trauma therapy that focuses on relationships– it's about transformation from the inside out. As human beings, we need love and connection. When these essential needs are unmet, we may find ourselves feeling spiraling in all areas of our lives, wondering how things got so out of hand. The gift of therapy is the path of freedom, self-discovery, and deep understanding.
Additionally, as a couples therapist, I draw upon my expertise in the Gottman Method and utilize the PACT model to help couples not just survive but thrive together.
Envision a life free from the burdens of past trauma, where you connect deeply in your relationships with others and your relationship with yourself. This is the transformative power of trauma therapy that focuses on relationships– it's about transformation from the inside out. As human beings, we need love and connection. When these essential needs are unmet, we may find ourselves feeling spiraling in all areas of our lives, wondering how things got so out of hand. The gift of therapy is the path of freedom, self-discovery, and deep understanding.
(516) 990-1917 View (516) 990-1917
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Neil Wolfson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, LCSW
Verified Verified
Commack, NY 11725  (Online Only)
Do you feel stuck? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, chronic illness, or relationship challenges? If you’re in pain, overwhelmed, or feel unable to pull yourself out of your circumstances, I can help. Using a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, EMDR Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and the Gottman Method for couples counseling, I can help you feel relief from your pain, gain more control of your life, and find a sense of purpose and direction.
Do you feel stuck? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, chronic illness, or relationship challenges? If you’re in pain, overwhelmed, or feel unable to pull yourself out of your circumstances, I can help. Using a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness, EMDR Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and the Gottman Method for couples counseling, I can help you feel relief from your pain, gain more control of your life, and find a sense of purpose and direction.
(516) 908-5316 View (516) 908-5316
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Jennifer Mezey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Plainview, NY 11803
I am trained in different behavioral therapies, Conflict Resolution/Mediation and Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
Lao Tzu said, "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Today you took that step, and the journey has begun to a better you. My job on the journey is to be your map, guiding you to where you want to be in your life. Along the way you will learn tools and techniques to navigate through life's sometimes rough terrain. Utilizing these tools will help you to feel empowered and start to see your true ability.
I am trained in different behavioral therapies, Conflict Resolution/Mediation and Level 3 trained in Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
Lao Tzu said, "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Today you took that step, and the journey has begun to a better you. My job on the journey is to be your map, guiding you to where you want to be in your life. Along the way you will learn tools and techniques to navigate through life's sometimes rough terrain. Utilizing these tools will help you to feel empowered and start to see your true ability.
(516) 272-4219 View (516) 272-4219
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Matthew T Murphy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772  (Online Only)
I specialize in anxiety, ADHD and helping parents navigate their child's developmental diagnosis. I conduct CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy), TF-CBT (trauma-focused CBT), ABA (behavioral therapy), solution-focused therapy, and structural and strategic family therapy. I love learning about neurobiology and the effects that stress has on the brain. A client can expect to encounter a warm, compassionate, and encouraging soul who has a dry sense of humor and tends to address problems in a straightforward manner.
I specialize in anxiety, ADHD and helping parents navigate their child's developmental diagnosis. I conduct CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), ACT (acceptance and commitment therapy), TF-CBT (trauma-focused CBT), ABA (behavioral therapy), solution-focused therapy, and structural and strategic family therapy. I love learning about neurobiology and the effects that stress has on the brain. A client can expect to encounter a warm, compassionate, and encouraging soul who has a dry sense of humor and tends to address problems in a straightforward manner.
(631) 868-5561 View (631) 868-5561
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Jaimie Zelinger
MFT
Verified Verified
Plainview, NY 11803
Do you feel stuck sometimes or feel lost with no one to turn to? Are you facing a significant life transition? Have you been trying to get yourself out of the same old patterns and it’s just not working? I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families on improving anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, communication struggles, self-care, and life changes. I will work with you to create coping skills and empower you to work towards increased happiness.
Do you feel stuck sometimes or feel lost with no one to turn to? Are you facing a significant life transition? Have you been trying to get yourself out of the same old patterns and it’s just not working? I am a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families on improving anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship issues, communication struggles, self-care, and life changes. I will work with you to create coping skills and empower you to work towards increased happiness.
(516) 774-1434 View (516) 774-1434
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Luis Miguel Amador
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Huntington, NY 11743
My therapeutic approach is rooted in building better behaviors & working to make progress on healthy routines that help my clients better deal with life's stressors. Through my work, I have noticed a recurring theme of unorganized & scattered thinking & a fear of growth and change. I have also noticed that we all have internal strengths that we have not found & unlocked due to fear and self-doubt. My life & treatment philosophy overlap as my work is rooted in the understanding & belief that growth & development are ongoing processes that are guided by consistency in routines.
My therapeutic approach is rooted in building better behaviors & working to make progress on healthy routines that help my clients better deal with life's stressors. Through my work, I have noticed a recurring theme of unorganized & scattered thinking & a fear of growth and change. I have also noticed that we all have internal strengths that we have not found & unlocked due to fear and self-doubt. My life & treatment philosophy overlap as my work is rooted in the understanding & belief that growth & development are ongoing processes that are guided by consistency in routines.
(516) 788-8740 View (516) 788-8740
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Long Island Wellness Associates (LIWA)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, OSW-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787  (Online Only)
At LIWA, we understand that seeking support is the first big step toward making positive changes in your life. Together we can continue to take the next steps toward reaching your goals.
At LIWA, we understand that seeking support is the first big step toward making positive changes in your life. Together we can continue to take the next steps toward reaching your goals.
(631) 613-8817 View (631) 613-8817
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Paul Teri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11788
I've always thought that life is extraordinarily beautiful, but also exceedingly difficult and even brutal at times. As a therapist, my goal is to make the therapeutic process comfortable, meaningful, and productive. I've worked with all walks of life, but I think the kinds of people who might benefit the most from my services are those that are looking to gain insight and use that insight to create lasting change. My approach is simple, 50% bottom up - How did we get here? & 50% top down - What can we do about it? Over time, we'll work to put the pieces together, establish a plan of action, and create hope for a better tomorrow.
I've always thought that life is extraordinarily beautiful, but also exceedingly difficult and even brutal at times. As a therapist, my goal is to make the therapeutic process comfortable, meaningful, and productive. I've worked with all walks of life, but I think the kinds of people who might benefit the most from my services are those that are looking to gain insight and use that insight to create lasting change. My approach is simple, 50% bottom up - How did we get here? & 50% top down - What can we do about it? Over time, we'll work to put the pieces together, establish a plan of action, and create hope for a better tomorrow.
(631) 832-4190 View (631) 832-4190
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Dani Cleary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Kings Park, NY 11754
Hello! My name is Dani Cleary and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), based in Long Island, New York, and working with clients via telehealth. I work with adolescents, adults, and persons 65 years and older. I specialize in anxiety, depression, stress, and grief, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, a Psychodynamic Approach, and Strength-Based Perspective. I have found that my approach and style are a good fit for a broad range of ages, as I typically treat adolescents to 65 years and older populations. As broad as those ages are, comes the broad range of conditions and transitions in life.
Hello! My name is Dani Cleary and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), based in Long Island, New York, and working with clients via telehealth. I work with adolescents, adults, and persons 65 years and older. I specialize in anxiety, depression, stress, and grief, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, a Psychodynamic Approach, and Strength-Based Perspective. I have found that my approach and style are a good fit for a broad range of ages, as I typically treat adolescents to 65 years and older populations. As broad as those ages are, comes the broad range of conditions and transitions in life.
(646) 722-6809 View (646) 722-6809

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.