Sex Therapists in Buffalo, NY

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Sally Fries
MS, MHC-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14226
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
(716) 320-9352 View (716) 320-9352
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Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14203
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
(716) 462-5869 View (716) 462-5869
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Melody Miller
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14228
I work with adult clients on a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, career challenges, sexuality, and codependency.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and limited in-person therapy. I provide individual therapy for adults only. I do not currently treat children, adolescents, or couples. Availability: In-Person counseling on limited basis. Telehealth 9am-4pm Monday - Friday. In Person Tuesday & Wednesday 12pm-4pm
I work with adult clients on a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, career challenges, sexuality, and codependency.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and limited in-person therapy. I provide individual therapy for adults only. I do not currently treat children, adolescents, or couples. Availability: In-Person counseling on limited basis. Telehealth 9am-4pm Monday - Friday. In Person Tuesday & Wednesday 12pm-4pm
(716) 281-5468 View (716) 281-5468
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Lisa Anllo
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14209
My focus is on couples/sex therapy for which I have advanced post-doctoral training and over 25 years experience.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.
My focus is on couples/sex therapy for which I have advanced post-doctoral training and over 25 years experience.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.
(716) 638-2252 View (716) 638-2252
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Shay Kahani
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LISW-S, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14209  (Online Only)
I am sex, relationship and trauma certified therapist who helps clients to explore their sexuality and find the right place for them.
Sometimes we can feel stress and lost with relationships, our families, and ourselves. We all need help. Someone to listen to up. You might wish you could improve your sex life in your romantic relationships, or change your family and relationships interactions. Maybe you want to live a calm and peaceful life and overcome past traumas that don't let you move on. Replaying your history over and over, wishing things were different. It might be the way you think and treat yourself that brought you here. Maybe you want to discover more about yourself and never knew how.
I am sex, relationship and trauma certified therapist who helps clients to explore their sexuality and find the right place for them.
Sometimes we can feel stress and lost with relationships, our families, and ourselves. We all need help. Someone to listen to up. You might wish you could improve your sex life in your romantic relationships, or change your family and relationships interactions. Maybe you want to live a calm and peaceful life and overcome past traumas that don't let you move on. Replaying your history over and over, wishing things were different. It might be the way you think and treat yourself that brought you here. Maybe you want to discover more about yourself and never knew how.
(716) 466-9608 View (716) 466-9608
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Christine Turturro
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-P
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14221
My areas of clinical focus are oppositional defiance and conduct disorders, cluster B personalities, and sex therapy with a trauma informed approach.
Navigating conflict and emotional response is a crucial part of the human experience. In some cases, these challenges can become overwhelming or put us in positions where we feel disconnected from our authentic selves. Working with a mental health professional can help us to navigate our individual needs. I believe in an integrative model, prioritizing autonomy and truth to oneself.
My areas of clinical focus are oppositional defiance and conduct disorders, cluster B personalities, and sex therapy with a trauma informed approach.
Navigating conflict and emotional response is a crucial part of the human experience. In some cases, these challenges can become overwhelming or put us in positions where we feel disconnected from our authentic selves. Working with a mental health professional can help us to navigate our individual needs. I believe in an integrative model, prioritizing autonomy and truth to oneself.
(716) 222-8493 View (716) 222-8493
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Maureen Ryan
DNP, AHNP, CSC, NBC-HWC
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14201
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
(716) 508-3690 View (716) 508-3690
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Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness
MD, FECSM
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14201
Our sex therapists are certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.
We are confidential, open-minded, comprehensive and whole-person centered. The spectrum of human sexuality is vast, and our goal is helping you find your own wellness regarding sexual issues. The Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness provides care for common and complex sexual, intimacy, and relationship issues in people of all genders and ages. The Center is comprised of a sexual medicine specialist as well as a team of certified sex therapists and sex therapists in training. In addition to medical evaluation and treatment of sexual issues, we offer individual, relational, and group therapy.
Our sex therapists are certified by the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.
We are confidential, open-minded, comprehensive and whole-person centered. The spectrum of human sexuality is vast, and our goal is helping you find your own wellness regarding sexual issues. The Rochester Center for Sexual Wellness provides care for common and complex sexual, intimacy, and relationship issues in people of all genders and ages. The Center is comprised of a sexual medicine specialist as well as a team of certified sex therapists and sex therapists in training. In addition to medical evaluation and treatment of sexual issues, we offer individual, relational, and group therapy.
(585) 487-8663 View (585) 487-8663
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Terri St. George
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14201
As a Certified Sex Therapist, the majority of my practice is devoted to men, women & couples struggling w/problems of an intimate nature.
A skilled therapist can help you work through difficulties you may not have been able to overcome on your own. Life is hard; and the very real challenges, setbacks, & obstacles we experience along the way can stand in the way of happiness. I believe that a strong & loving connection to yourself & others can buffer the stress in life, and this is where I can help: I am a generalist therapist w/specialties in Sex Therapy, Couples/Marital Therapy, Maternal/Reproductive Mental Health (specializing in perinatal loss & grief), and breast & GYN cancer recovery.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, the majority of my practice is devoted to men, women & couples struggling w/problems of an intimate nature.
A skilled therapist can help you work through difficulties you may not have been able to overcome on your own. Life is hard; and the very real challenges, setbacks, & obstacles we experience along the way can stand in the way of happiness. I believe that a strong & loving connection to yourself & others can buffer the stress in life, and this is where I can help: I am a generalist therapist w/specialties in Sex Therapy, Couples/Marital Therapy, Maternal/Reproductive Mental Health (specializing in perinatal loss & grief), and breast & GYN cancer recovery.
(518) 930-5551 View (518) 930-5551
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Matthew Willner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14202  (Online Only)
I believe therapy should feel like a safe environment where you are treated with openness and compassion. I bring deep knowledge alternative sexualities communities, including LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, and BDSM/kink aligned people. I primarily work with men, and focus on a diverse presenting issues, including anxiety, depression, identity development, and relationship challenges. I also have extensive experience with clients struggling with problematic sexual behaviors and associated shame or guilt.
I believe therapy should feel like a safe environment where you are treated with openness and compassion. I bring deep knowledge alternative sexualities communities, including LGBTQ+, non-monogamous, sex positive, and BDSM/kink aligned people. I primarily work with men, and focus on a diverse presenting issues, including anxiety, depression, identity development, and relationship challenges. I also have extensive experience with clients struggling with problematic sexual behaviors and associated shame or guilt.
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Khristopher Decker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MSW, CISD
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14202
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/sexuality related concerns, workplace stress, and couples counseling.
I think you are amazing for taking the next step to create the life you want. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/sexuality related concerns, workplace stress, and couples counseling.
I think you are amazing for taking the next step to create the life you want. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
(716) 325-1404 View (716) 325-1404
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Ashera DeRosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14213
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
(716) 466-5509 View (716) 466-5509
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Rachel Pancake
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14212
I am constantly inspired by the knowledge and depth people can reach when they are eager to explore themselves. I am always honored to help clients consider both their light and dark sides on their adventure into growth. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing via telemedicine. I earned my Masters with an emphasis in sexuality and relationships from California State University, Northridge. I have specialized in treating Eating Disorders through my rewarding work with Monte Nido. My international work helping communities in conflict and poverty led to an invaluable empathy and understanding for cultural diversity.
I am constantly inspired by the knowledge and depth people can reach when they are eager to explore themselves. I am always honored to help clients consider both their light and dark sides on their adventure into growth. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing via telemedicine. I earned my Masters with an emphasis in sexuality and relationships from California State University, Northridge. I have specialized in treating Eating Disorders through my rewarding work with Monte Nido. My international work helping communities in conflict and poverty led to an invaluable empathy and understanding for cultural diversity.
(805) 549-4229 View (805) 549-4229
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Dr. Cayla Marie Guadalupe-Murdoch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14224  (Online Only)
You did it! You stepped over that barrier. Welcome, I am so happy you are here. Engaging in therapy is a journey, and it takes courage to take that leap forward, and I am honored to be able to go on that journey with you. As you experience normal reactions to abnormal events, we can work together to build resilience and re-establish stable ground.
You did it! You stepped over that barrier. Welcome, I am so happy you are here. Engaging in therapy is a journey, and it takes courage to take that leap forward, and I am honored to be able to go on that journey with you. As you experience normal reactions to abnormal events, we can work together to build resilience and re-establish stable ground.
(716) 229-5247 View (716) 229-5247
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Nicole Brown
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14209
Are you having a hard time relating to your partner? Are you communicating but it seems as if nothing is changing? Do you desire better communication or want to enhance intimacy? Are you stressed about things continually happening in your life? Does dealing with things seem to be just too hard to do? Would you like to begin to feel as if you have some sense of control again? I understand that dealing with various life events, relationships, traumas, and even one’s own self can be overwhelming. These (seemingly minor) events can contribute to emotional issues that affect one’s health and general well-being. *New clients-June 2021
Are you having a hard time relating to your partner? Are you communicating but it seems as if nothing is changing? Do you desire better communication or want to enhance intimacy? Are you stressed about things continually happening in your life? Does dealing with things seem to be just too hard to do? Would you like to begin to feel as if you have some sense of control again? I understand that dealing with various life events, relationships, traumas, and even one’s own self can be overwhelming. These (seemingly minor) events can contribute to emotional issues that affect one’s health and general well-being. *New clients-June 2021
(716) 300-2325 View (716) 300-2325
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F. Paul Muccigrosso II
BS, MSW, MBA
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14226
Having difficulty navigating life? Finding it troublesome to find peace at home? at work? with getting proper care? Working with Veterans of the US Armed Forces, their families and those reintegrating into society is where I dedicate a great deal of my time and study. I interface well with those who have experienced episodic or chronic exposure to trauma or who feel they need to "start a new life" or gain "a fresh start". Together, we can focus on resiliency and perseverance.
Having difficulty navigating life? Finding it troublesome to find peace at home? at work? with getting proper care? Working with Veterans of the US Armed Forces, their families and those reintegrating into society is where I dedicate a great deal of my time and study. I interface well with those who have experienced episodic or chronic exposure to trauma or who feel they need to "start a new life" or gain "a fresh start". Together, we can focus on resiliency and perseverance.
(716) 265-4734 View (716) 265-4734
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Nicole S Urdang
Counselor, MS, NCC, DHM
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14222
Hello, I've been a psychotherapist in private practice for over 45 years. That experience, coupled with earlier work in hospitals and clinics, means I have helped thousands of people, from seven to ninety years old, deal with just about every problem you can imagine. My practice is truly holistic, in that I not only consider your thoughts and feelings, but also your history, habits and lifestyle.
Hello, I've been a psychotherapist in private practice for over 45 years. That experience, coupled with earlier work in hospitals and clinics, means I have helped thousands of people, from seven to ninety years old, deal with just about every problem you can imagine. My practice is truly holistic, in that I not only consider your thoughts and feelings, but also your history, habits and lifestyle.
(716) 882-0848 View (716) 882-0848
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Lisa Lutz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14223
Do you and your partner struggle to communicate with each other? Do you find yourself wishing that your partner truly heard you? Relationship therapy may provide the answers you seek. I offer an environment that is supportive to recovering the relationship that you and your partner desire. My goal is to work with you in a way that feels respectful, challenging and nurturing. I already believe that you have what it takes to bring positive change to your relationship.
Do you and your partner struggle to communicate with each other? Do you find yourself wishing that your partner truly heard you? Relationship therapy may provide the answers you seek. I offer an environment that is supportive to recovering the relationship that you and your partner desire. My goal is to work with you in a way that feels respectful, challenging and nurturing. I already believe that you have what it takes to bring positive change to your relationship.
(716) 204-7990 View (716) 204-7990
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Gigi Gaczewski
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14226
Are you part of the LGBTQIA+/kink/BDSM/ENM communities or seeking to explore this part of your identity? Have you ever felt judgment upon bringing this up? Have you ever just not felt comfortable bringing this up? Well, as a queer kink-identified therapist I understand that this is part of your identity and not a pathology. Does this mean I am going to try to move you towards ethical non monogamy or kink/BDSM? Nope! It means that this is a safe space to be you or explore those ideas. And if that’s not you? I welcome you as well.
Are you part of the LGBTQIA+/kink/BDSM/ENM communities or seeking to explore this part of your identity? Have you ever felt judgment upon bringing this up? Have you ever just not felt comfortable bringing this up? Well, as a queer kink-identified therapist I understand that this is part of your identity and not a pathology. Does this mean I am going to try to move you towards ethical non monogamy or kink/BDSM? Nope! It means that this is a safe space to be you or explore those ideas. And if that’s not you? I welcome you as well.
(716) 466-9673 View (716) 466-9673
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Melissa Hoch-Petronella
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14224  (Online Only)
I specialize in patients that struggle with substance abuse, dual diagnosis, anxiety, depression, family/marital issues, adjustment disorders, dissociative identity disorders, Bi-Polar Disorder, Grief & Loss, Eating Disorders and PTSD. I work extensively with Veterans, Law Enforcement and First Responders with acute trauma and PTSD. I’m EMDR trained who specializes in helping you understand the impact that life events have on your current thoughts and behaviors.
I specialize in patients that struggle with substance abuse, dual diagnosis, anxiety, depression, family/marital issues, adjustment disorders, dissociative identity disorders, Bi-Polar Disorder, Grief & Loss, Eating Disorders and PTSD. I work extensively with Veterans, Law Enforcement and First Responders with acute trauma and PTSD. I’m EMDR trained who specializes in helping you understand the impact that life events have on your current thoughts and behaviors.
(716) 354-8559 View (716) 354-8559
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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.