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Marnie Tetzlaff
Licensed Master Social Work, LMSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215  (Online Only)
If you’re just beginning the divorce process, struggling inside a relationship, or rebuilding afterward, I’m here to help you take the next step.
Navigating high-conflict divorces and complex relationship struggles can leave women feeling overwhelmed, fearful, and filled with self-doubt, uncertain about how to move forward. Some days, it takes all of our strength just to put one foot in front of the other. It’s tempting to operate on autopilot just to push through, thinking, “I’ll process everything later.” We prioritize everyone else above ourselves, especially if we are mothers, and our self-care falls by the wayside. It’s so much easier to focus on everyone else than ourselves.
If you’re just beginning the divorce process, struggling inside a relationship, or rebuilding afterward, I’m here to help you take the next step.
Navigating high-conflict divorces and complex relationship struggles can leave women feeling overwhelmed, fearful, and filled with self-doubt, uncertain about how to move forward. Some days, it takes all of our strength just to put one foot in front of the other. It’s tempting to operate on autopilot just to push through, thinking, “I’ll process everything later.” We prioritize everyone else above ourselves, especially if we are mothers, and our self-care falls by the wayside. It’s so much easier to focus on everyone else than ourselves.
(929) 822-6950 View (929) 822-6950
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Karin L Genis
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, JD, MA
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with individuals and couples seeking to repair and improve their relationships as well as co-parents navigating separation or divorce.
I work with individuals and couples seeking to transform themselves and their relationships. I provide tools and strategies to help clients let go of old relational patterns and habits and design and practice new ways of relating and being. I help them understand their coping strategies and inner conflicts and develop new relationships with themselves and others.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples seeking to repair and improve their relationships as well as co-parents navigating separation or divorce.
I work with individuals and couples seeking to transform themselves and their relationships. I provide tools and strategies to help clients let go of old relational patterns and habits and design and practice new ways of relating and being. I help them understand their coping strategies and inner conflicts and develop new relationships with themselves and others.
(347) 851-7254 View (347) 851-7254
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Bettina Thomsen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11242
I strive to create a space for you to freely explore whatever thoughts and feelings are on your mind, without fear of judgement or pressure. My style is warm and compassionate and I have a light hearted sense of humor which I interject into sessions when appropriate. I believe it is important to establish a collaborative relationship, and we will work together to help you to identify and reach your treatment goals. My practice focuses on helping individuals and families overcome the challenges of family conflict, parenting, anxiety, depression and major life changes. I specialize in working with children and families of divorce.
I strive to create a space for you to freely explore whatever thoughts and feelings are on your mind, without fear of judgement or pressure. My style is warm and compassionate and I have a light hearted sense of humor which I interject into sessions when appropriate. I believe it is important to establish a collaborative relationship, and we will work together to help you to identify and reach your treatment goals. My practice focuses on helping individuals and families overcome the challenges of family conflict, parenting, anxiety, depression and major life changes. I specialize in working with children and families of divorce.
(718) 502-6134 View (718) 502-6134
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Dr. Regina Bordieri
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11242  (Online Only)
I have extensive experience helping couples & families cope with life transitions & heal past relationship injuries. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help couples escape negative cycles, reduce conflict & reconnect - research consistently shows 90% report significant improvements. I also offer short-term, skills-based relationship coaching, premarital counseling, and relationship enhancement programs, Discernment Counseling for couples considering divorce, & therapy for couples coping with a bipolar diagnosis. I offer flexible scheduling options including Sat & Sun every weekend & online schedule to self-book appointments.
I have extensive experience helping couples & families cope with life transitions & heal past relationship injuries. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help couples escape negative cycles, reduce conflict & reconnect - research consistently shows 90% report significant improvements. I also offer short-term, skills-based relationship coaching, premarital counseling, and relationship enhancement programs, Discernment Counseling for couples considering divorce, & therapy for couples coping with a bipolar diagnosis. I offer flexible scheduling options including Sat & Sun every weekend & online schedule to self-book appointments.
(619) 332-0627 View (619) 332-0627
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NYC Healing Center | Tabitha Azor
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11234
I work with individuals and couples but specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship enrichment, divorce, and reconciliation counseling.
Have you been feeling like you’re not yourself? Have you noticed a change in your mood and emotional state and perhaps don’t know what to do? Do you lack confidence and want to change how you think and feel about yourself? If you’ve answered yes to any of these questions, you find yourself struggling with your day-to-day activities, or just need some extra support during this time; I can help.
I work with individuals and couples but specialize in anxiety, depression, relationship enrichment, divorce, and reconciliation counseling.
Have you been feeling like you’re not yourself? Have you noticed a change in your mood and emotional state and perhaps don’t know what to do? Do you lack confidence and want to change how you think and feel about yourself? If you’ve answered yes to any of these questions, you find yourself struggling with your day-to-day activities, or just need some extra support during this time; I can help.
(929) 205-8647 View (929) 205-8647
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Katie Johntz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MFA, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11215
People come to therapy for all kinds of reasons. Anxiety or sadness. Grief, divorce or chronic illness. Some are tearful or angry—lonely—can’t get out of bed. Some may just be struggling to organize themselves to get out the door in the morning You may long for an enthusiasm you once had, or a partner or companion who feels like home. —Maybe you’re hoping to find that sense of home within yourself. Is your child shy or anxious? Have school mornings become a battle zone? I bring over 20 years' experience to the pleasure of helping children, adults & parents overcome whatever has them -stuck-
People come to therapy for all kinds of reasons. Anxiety or sadness. Grief, divorce or chronic illness. Some are tearful or angry—lonely—can’t get out of bed. Some may just be struggling to organize themselves to get out the door in the morning You may long for an enthusiasm you once had, or a partner or companion who feels like home. —Maybe you’re hoping to find that sense of home within yourself. Is your child shy or anxious? Have school mornings become a battle zone? I bring over 20 years' experience to the pleasure of helping children, adults & parents overcome whatever has them -stuck-
(718) 612-7636 View (718) 612-7636
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Natasha Pasternack
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11211
I have worked extensively with individuals and couples experiencing rupture and repair from infidelity, relationship changes including separation and divorce, and changes to the family unit, such as the birth of a child or illness of a family member.
Sometimes life’s hard moments don’t pass as quickly as we wish. This can be especially felt in the context of relationships with those whom we care deeply for: the connection may begin to feel stale; communication breaks down; one person’s growth doesn’t always align with another and relational dynamics may change.
I have worked extensively with individuals and couples experiencing rupture and repair from infidelity, relationship changes including separation and divorce, and changes to the family unit, such as the birth of a child or illness of a family member.
Sometimes life’s hard moments don’t pass as quickly as we wish. This can be especially felt in the context of relationships with those whom we care deeply for: the connection may begin to feel stale; communication breaks down; one person’s growth doesn’t always align with another and relational dynamics may change.
(347) 970-8270 View (347) 970-8270
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Debra Jacoby
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215  (Online Only)
As a Narrative Life Coach, I want to help clients unlock the themes and patterns of their lives by asking probing questions and helping them work towards their next chapters. I offer weekly optional writing exercises and readings to support this journey. Narrative Coaching works well with anyone going through a painful loss or rejection, such as a death, break-up or divorce, as well as anyone who desires change but feels stuck or struggling. I'd like to help clients to realize their potentials by exploring possibilities, expanding their thinking and re-writing their narrative.
As a Narrative Life Coach, I want to help clients unlock the themes and patterns of their lives by asking probing questions and helping them work towards their next chapters. I offer weekly optional writing exercises and readings to support this journey. Narrative Coaching works well with anyone going through a painful loss or rejection, such as a death, break-up or divorce, as well as anyone who desires change but feels stuck or struggling. I'd like to help clients to realize their potentials by exploring possibilities, expanding their thinking and re-writing their narrative.
(607) 208-7736 View (607) 208-7736
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Sara Freed
Cert, Coach
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11219
For many couples, I'm the last stop. They've been to so many therapists already that they wonder, "Why would you be any different?" It's simple: I've been there, done that. In addition to my extensive training, I understand firsthand what you're going through - whether that's dating life, an engagement, a brand new marriage, a struggling marriage, a divorce, or blending families. I know what it takes to get through it and come out stronger on the other side. And I'm proud to say I have an amazing success rate with my clients.
For many couples, I'm the last stop. They've been to so many therapists already that they wonder, "Why would you be any different?" It's simple: I've been there, done that. In addition to my extensive training, I understand firsthand what you're going through - whether that's dating life, an engagement, a brand new marriage, a struggling marriage, a divorce, or blending families. I know what it takes to get through it and come out stronger on the other side. And I'm proud to say I have an amazing success rate with my clients.
(646) 846-4608 View (646) 846-4608
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Sylvia Teresa Ortiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSEd, SEP
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201  (Online Only)
; infidelity, job loss, school or workplace bullying, illness, death of loved one, divorce, accidents, etc.
Are you feeling a diminished sense of self-confidence? Are you feeling that the way you view yourself is keeping you from experiencing life fully and/or causing you suffering? Are you experiencing nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety, depression, fears, anger, impaired concentration, difficulties at work, school or home? If you answered "yes" to any question, you may be reacting to trauma.
; infidelity, job loss, school or workplace bullying, illness, death of loved one, divorce, accidents, etc.
Are you feeling a diminished sense of self-confidence? Are you feeling that the way you view yourself is keeping you from experiencing life fully and/or causing you suffering? Are you experiencing nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety, depression, fears, anger, impaired concentration, difficulties at work, school or home? If you answered "yes" to any question, you may be reacting to trauma.
(917) 675-3984 View (917) 675-3984
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Lin Shlonsky
MBHt, BFPR
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11228
You may be feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in patterns of codependency, or navigating a difficult life transition. Maybe you’re dealing with family conflict, grief, or struggling to rebuild your sense of self after divorce, infertility, or infidelity. Perhaps the weight of unresolved trauma, PTSD, or the stress of everyday life has made it hard to move forward. You want to feel more at peace, develop stronger self-esteem, and break free from emotional patterns that no longer serve you. You’re seeking relief, understanding, and a path to heal, but it feels like you haven’t found the right support to guide you there—yet.
You may be feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, stuck in patterns of codependency, or navigating a difficult life transition. Maybe you’re dealing with family conflict, grief, or struggling to rebuild your sense of self after divorce, infertility, or infidelity. Perhaps the weight of unresolved trauma, PTSD, or the stress of everyday life has made it hard to move forward. You want to feel more at peace, develop stronger self-esteem, and break free from emotional patterns that no longer serve you. You’re seeking relief, understanding, and a path to heal, but it feels like you haven’t found the right support to guide you there—yet.
(718) 568-7390 View (718) 568-7390
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Jennifer Elaine Brandt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215
Therapy clarifies what has and hasn't worked in one's life. Together we will find a way to make your desired changes, so you can live a more fulfilling and authentic life. I provide a compassionate and honest environment in which you can feel heard and deeply understood. Guiding clients to discover their truths is, in large part, how I see my role, throughout which feelings around intimacy, loss, shame, and anger are often central themes. Couples counseling, addiction, divorce, co-parenting, sexual identity and sexual dysfunction issues are some of my specialties.
Therapy clarifies what has and hasn't worked in one's life. Together we will find a way to make your desired changes, so you can live a more fulfilling and authentic life. I provide a compassionate and honest environment in which you can feel heard and deeply understood. Guiding clients to discover their truths is, in large part, how I see my role, throughout which feelings around intimacy, loss, shame, and anger are often central themes. Couples counseling, addiction, divorce, co-parenting, sexual identity and sexual dysfunction issues are some of my specialties.
(410) 422-7299 View (410) 422-7299
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Marianne Gunther
Art Therapist, MPS, ATR-BC, LCAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11217
I have come to accept that the very thing that causes pain in our lives can be the opportunity for transformation and joy. Death, divorce, loss of employment, and now with Covid-19, are unavoidable human traumas. We simply can not defeat these losses. What we can do is bravely embrace our frailty and slowly discover our inherent well-being and resiliency. Through a trusting therapeutic relationship, you can begin to mend the fragments and feel the soft strength within you.
I have come to accept that the very thing that causes pain in our lives can be the opportunity for transformation and joy. Death, divorce, loss of employment, and now with Covid-19, are unavoidable human traumas. We simply can not defeat these losses. What we can do is bravely embrace our frailty and slowly discover our inherent well-being and resiliency. Through a trusting therapeutic relationship, you can begin to mend the fragments and feel the soft strength within you.
(646) 906-8770 View (646) 906-8770
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Elizabeth Anton
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11207  (Online Only)
Welcome! I am an LMHC with 20+ years of clinical experience in the field. My practice focuses on the "life story" of the whole client, including family, interests, and personal characteristics. Are you struggling through a separation, divorce, or co-parenting problem? Do you worry that your relationship could be healthier, or that you and your partner can do more to support one another rather than argue? These are my areas of specialty, along with adults/young adults struggling with life transitions, relationships, work/life stress, depression, anxiety, body image, disordered eating, and/or eating disorders.
Welcome! I am an LMHC with 20+ years of clinical experience in the field. My practice focuses on the "life story" of the whole client, including family, interests, and personal characteristics. Are you struggling through a separation, divorce, or co-parenting problem? Do you worry that your relationship could be healthier, or that you and your partner can do more to support one another rather than argue? These are my areas of specialty, along with adults/young adults struggling with life transitions, relationships, work/life stress, depression, anxiety, body image, disordered eating, and/or eating disorders.
(332) 263-4024 View (332) 263-4024
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Neelam Al-Angurli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11215
I have been practicing for over 28 years as a couples, family and individual therapist, for children, adolescents and adults. My areas of specialty include relationships, how to manage conflicts, parenting teens, how to maintain intimacy and co-parent effectively, including the difficulties of dating, infidelity, divorce, sex and finances. Individual problems include depression, anxiety, panic attacks, history of trauma, infertility, and other personal issues. Early career work supervising therapists in a court based crisis unit led me to many decades of work with NYC teens and their families.
I have been practicing for over 28 years as a couples, family and individual therapist, for children, adolescents and adults. My areas of specialty include relationships, how to manage conflicts, parenting teens, how to maintain intimacy and co-parent effectively, including the difficulties of dating, infidelity, divorce, sex and finances. Individual problems include depression, anxiety, panic attacks, history of trauma, infertility, and other personal issues. Early career work supervising therapists in a court based crisis unit led me to many decades of work with NYC teens and their families.
(917) 909-4885 View (917) 909-4885
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Micaela Wire
Psychologist, PhD, MSEd
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201
I also work with many families to process separation, divorce, foster care/adoption, trauma, and grief and loss.
Hello! I am a New York State licensed psychologist, with a degree in school psychology, specializing in the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of various academic, developmental, and psychological difficulties. I have extensive experience working with children and their parents experiencing difficulties with behavior management, along with family stress and anxiety. I also specialize in educational planning and consultation, and am happy to counsel families through the DOE special-education process (ex. obtaining an IEP, securing services, applications to state-approved or private programs).
I also work with many families to process separation, divorce, foster care/adoption, trauma, and grief and loss.
Hello! I am a New York State licensed psychologist, with a degree in school psychology, specializing in the assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of various academic, developmental, and psychological difficulties. I have extensive experience working with children and their parents experiencing difficulties with behavior management, along with family stress and anxiety. I also specialize in educational planning and consultation, and am happy to counsel families through the DOE special-education process (ex. obtaining an IEP, securing services, applications to state-approved or private programs).
(347) 527-4172 View (347) 527-4172
Rev. D L C Boyce
DD, DMin, PhD, LMSW
Not Verified Not Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11236
to assist you to overcome: Low Self Esteem, Low Self Worth, Insecurity, Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Procrastination, Relationship Issues- Divorce/Separation/Singleness .
Let's Talk w/ Rev. Dr. DLC Boyce, helps those who have found themselves stuck - disconnected from God. It's designed for those who have been unable to achieve goals in their lives; for individuals/ couples/families/groups, who feel they have been wounded by crisis/ situations/circumstances -- by people, institutions within society or by society itself. It is also designed for those who've, seemingly, sabotaged themselves, and, as a result, have been prevented from taking advantage of opportunities.
to assist you to overcome: Low Self Esteem, Low Self Worth, Insecurity, Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Procrastination, Relationship Issues- Divorce/Separation/Singleness .
Let's Talk w/ Rev. Dr. DLC Boyce, helps those who have found themselves stuck - disconnected from God. It's designed for those who have been unable to achieve goals in their lives; for individuals/ couples/families/groups, who feel they have been wounded by crisis/ situations/circumstances -- by people, institutions within society or by society itself. It is also designed for those who've, seemingly, sabotaged themselves, and, as a result, have been prevented from taking advantage of opportunities.
(347) 474-7851 View (347) 474-7851
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Joy Fullhardt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11201  (Online Only)
As a therapist with over 30 years experience, I focus my practice on life transitions such as divorce, grief/loss, retirement, medical issues, ageism, "empty nest" syndrome and moving. I also assist in helping clients, couples and families struggling with relationships and/or addictions. Once thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are validated, discussed, re-structured, and re-directed, an opportunity for positive transformation, for better physical and emotional health, and for a wonderful quality of life will result.
As a therapist with over 30 years experience, I focus my practice on life transitions such as divorce, grief/loss, retirement, medical issues, ageism, "empty nest" syndrome and moving. I also assist in helping clients, couples and families struggling with relationships and/or addictions. Once thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are validated, discussed, re-structured, and re-directed, an opportunity for positive transformation, for better physical and emotional health, and for a wonderful quality of life will result.
(516) 540-2237 View (516) 540-2237
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Jennifer Shrier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11201
I specialize with individuals adjusting to role changes, or dealing with anxiety, depression, divorce, relationship issues, and family conflicts.
Moving through life's situations, can be challenging. Receiving support and guidance can be helpful in building self confidence and strength to handle difficulties and address conflicts. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, experienced in working with adults treating a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship conflicts, pregnancy, and divorce. I did my undergraduate work at Cornell University, and I received my Masters from NYU.
I specialize with individuals adjusting to role changes, or dealing with anxiety, depression, divorce, relationship issues, and family conflicts.
Moving through life's situations, can be challenging. Receiving support and guidance can be helpful in building self confidence and strength to handle difficulties and address conflicts. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, experienced in working with adults treating a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship conflicts, pregnancy, and divorce. I did my undergraduate work at Cornell University, and I received my Masters from NYU.
(917) 982-2841 View (917) 982-2841
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Therapy Brooklyn
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11222
Therapy Brooklyn is a group practice made up of BIPOC clinicians, We work with individuals, couples and families. Our work with families focuses on communication issues, transitions (i.e. divorce, arrival of a new sibling), self esteem, difficulty regulating emotions and behavioral issues at home and at school. We specialize in adults struggling with depression, anxiety, and relationship issues. Couples work focuses on lack of communication, loss of connection, infidelity and intimacy issues.
Therapy Brooklyn is a group practice made up of BIPOC clinicians, We work with individuals, couples and families. Our work with families focuses on communication issues, transitions (i.e. divorce, arrival of a new sibling), self esteem, difficulty regulating emotions and behavioral issues at home and at school. We specialize in adults struggling with depression, anxiety, and relationship issues. Couples work focuses on lack of communication, loss of connection, infidelity and intimacy issues.
(917) 809-5820 View (917) 809-5820
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Divorce Therapists

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.