Infidelity Therapists in Bedford Hills, NY

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Erica Hershey Jaffe
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Bedford Hills, NY 10507
.Welcome! I am truly passionate about collaborating with you as we explore ways to find your authentic self and heal all of the old wounds and patterns that have stood or continue to stand in the way of your personal success as an individual, couple or family member. Are you and/or your current relationship challenged with issues of infidelity/"sexting"/virtual flirting via social networks or have you entered into the shame/blame game causing you and your partner to drift apart?
.Welcome! I am truly passionate about collaborating with you as we explore ways to find your authentic self and heal all of the old wounds and patterns that have stood or continue to stand in the way of your personal success as an individual, couple or family member. Are you and/or your current relationship challenged with issues of infidelity/"sexting"/virtual flirting via social networks or have you entered into the shame/blame game causing you and your partner to drift apart?
(424) 226-4872 View (424) 226-4872
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Aileen Blitz
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Bedford Hills, NY 10507
Dr. Blitz is a licensed Clinical Psychologist working with adults in psychoanalytically oriented psychotherapy. Her practice is grounded in the principals of interpersonal/relational psychotherapy, object relations , early development and attachment theory. She utilizes clinical hypnotherapy to treat symptoms of anxiety. She works in a collaborative manner. She is currently working virtually and plans to see people virtually and in person, in Mount Kisco/ Bedford, NY in 7/2023. Her specialty is in medical psychology, depression and anxiety, divorce, infertility, family/ work issues and life transitions. She also works with couples.
Dr. Blitz is a licensed Clinical Psychologist working with adults in psychoanalytically oriented psychotherapy. Her practice is grounded in the principals of interpersonal/relational psychotherapy, object relations , early development and attachment theory. She utilizes clinical hypnotherapy to treat symptoms of anxiety. She works in a collaborative manner. She is currently working virtually and plans to see people virtually and in person, in Mount Kisco/ Bedford, NY in 7/2023. Her specialty is in medical psychology, depression and anxiety, divorce, infertility, family/ work issues and life transitions. She also works with couples.
(917) 831-4237 View (917) 831-4237
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Phyllis Marton
MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bedford Hills, NY 10507
With compassion and acceptance, I would like to help alleviate the distress you may be experiencing at this point in your life. In the safety of my office, we can explore areas in which you may feel stuck or overwhelmed. I have worked extensively with individuals seeking to overcome addictions; who wish to make sense of relationships; who are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, loss, or sexuality; and who are experiencing major life transitions. By looking at internal dialogue and seeing where thought patterns may be self-defeating, I can help shift these to more optimal, self-nurturing thinking.
With compassion and acceptance, I would like to help alleviate the distress you may be experiencing at this point in your life. In the safety of my office, we can explore areas in which you may feel stuck or overwhelmed. I have worked extensively with individuals seeking to overcome addictions; who wish to make sense of relationships; who are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, loss, or sexuality; and who are experiencing major life transitions. By looking at internal dialogue and seeing where thought patterns may be self-defeating, I can help shift these to more optimal, self-nurturing thinking.
(914) 393-3216 View (914) 393-3216
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Andrea Spirn
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Bedford Hills, NY 10507
The experience of feeling truly heard and understood is in itself powerful and healing. If you are considering beginning therapy, you may feel alone with your suffering, suffocated or paralyzed by seemingly insurmountable problems. Within the safety and trust of the therapeutic relationship we develop, I will listen closely to you and remain present with your experience. We will work together to help you gain a sense of spaciousness, self-compassion and control around the issues that bring you to treatment.
The experience of feeling truly heard and understood is in itself powerful and healing. If you are considering beginning therapy, you may feel alone with your suffering, suffocated or paralyzed by seemingly insurmountable problems. Within the safety and trust of the therapeutic relationship we develop, I will listen closely to you and remain present with your experience. We will work together to help you gain a sense of spaciousness, self-compassion and control around the issues that bring you to treatment.
(914) 344-2099 View (914) 344-2099

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Steffani Brandenburg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
I come from a relational, holistic, strength-based perspective. My practice of over 30 years has taught me that psychotherapy is a blend of art and science. Compassion, creativity, and attuned listening coupled with well researched therapies and holistic thinking (mind-body-spirit) defines my practice. Throughout my career I have been dedicated to helping people overcome obstacles so that they can lead authentic and fulfilling lives. Treatment specialization includes: Therapy for depression and anxiety, pre-marital counseling, marriage/relationship concerns including loss of emotional/sexual intimacy, infidelity, women's sexual health concerns, issues specific to the LGBTQ community
I come from a relational, holistic, strength-based perspective. My practice of over 30 years has taught me that psychotherapy is a blend of art and science. Compassion, creativity, and attuned listening coupled with well researched therapies and holistic thinking (mind-body-spirit) defines my practice. Throughout my career I have been dedicated to helping people overcome obstacles so that they can lead authentic and fulfilling lives. Treatment specialization includes: Therapy for depression and anxiety, pre-marital counseling, marriage/relationship concerns including loss of emotional/sexual intimacy, infidelity, women's sexual health concerns, issues specific to the LGBTQ community
(914) 882-8478 View (914) 882-8478
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Amy S. Cohen
Psychologist, PsyD, MPH
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
Often the clients I see are at a crisis point in an important relationship. The discovery of an infidelity, coping with a breakup, the launching of kids into college, the rollercoaster of dating, negotiating difficult family dynamics, divorce, remarriage and conflicts in the workplace, are issues in which I have expertise. I also specialize in treating high school age teenagers who are coping with shifting friend groups, self image and the typical growing pains of school and relationships.
Often the clients I see are at a crisis point in an important relationship. The discovery of an infidelity, coping with a breakup, the launching of kids into college, the rollercoaster of dating, negotiating difficult family dynamics, divorce, remarriage and conflicts in the workplace, are issues in which I have expertise. I also specialize in treating high school age teenagers who are coping with shifting friend groups, self image and the typical growing pains of school and relationships.
(914) 265-2202 View (914) 265-2202
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships. .
(347) 997-8676 View (347) 997-8676
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Stephen A. Buglione, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
(914) 827-5214 View (914) 827-5214
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Kristine Danback
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
Katonah, NY 10536
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am the owner of Random Thoughts Psychological Therapy. A clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-CT, divorce coach/mediator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting, focusing on high conflict divorces/relationships. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: narcissistic abuse, parenting, betrayal & loss. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.
(203) 884-0487 View (203) 884-0487
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Ivan Diller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Katonah, NY 10536
Are you or someone you love having difficulty adjusting to a life change? In my practice I treat adolescents, adults, couples, and families dealing with a wide range of issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, parenting, bullying, divorce, grief and loss, high-school-to-college transition and adjustment, marriage, infidelity, mid-life, career, sexual orientation and gender identity, HIV/AIDS.
Are you or someone you love having difficulty adjusting to a life change? In my practice I treat adolescents, adults, couples, and families dealing with a wide range of issues, including depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, parenting, bullying, divorce, grief and loss, high-school-to-college transition and adjustment, marriage, infidelity, mid-life, career, sexual orientation and gender identity, HIV/AIDS.
(914) 570-0134 View (914) 570-0134
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Judy Scheel, Ph.D., LCSW, CEDS
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CEDS
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
Waitlist for new clients
Treatment of individuals & couples for sexuality issues includes sexual intimacy (low desire, satisfaction, performance,) porn addiction & affairs.
With years of training & personal analysis, I am solidly qualified to treat individuals/couples/families for mental health issues like anxiety & depression & interpersonal issues. I am certified as an EATING DISORDER expert (CEDS) & provide treatment for SEXUAL ISSUES with training from NYU Langone Medical. I am an Associate Member of SSTAR (Society for Sex Therapy & Research.) My approaches are fueled by many years of training in psychological theories. I am licensed in NC, NY & CA with offices in Charlotte, NC, New York, NY & offer video sessions for CA residents. I write two Blogs for psychologytoday.com on Sex & Eating Issues
Treatment of individuals & couples for sexuality issues includes sexual intimacy (low desire, satisfaction, performance,) porn addiction & affairs.
With years of training & personal analysis, I am solidly qualified to treat individuals/couples/families for mental health issues like anxiety & depression & interpersonal issues. I am certified as an EATING DISORDER expert (CEDS) & provide treatment for SEXUAL ISSUES with training from NYU Langone Medical. I am an Associate Member of SSTAR (Society for Sex Therapy & Research.) My approaches are fueled by many years of training in psychological theories. I am licensed in NC, NY & CA with offices in Charlotte, NC, New York, NY & offer video sessions for CA residents. I write two Blogs for psychologytoday.com on Sex & Eating Issues
(914) 602-2557 View (914) 602-2557
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Resa Fremed
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Katonah, NY 10536  (Online Only)
I am an experienced marriage and family therapist licensed in NY and CT offering comprehensive therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. My specialites include anxiety, depression, affairs, divorce, relationship issues, sexual issues, intimacy, grief and peer relationships. In my practice I deal directly with strategies to enable personal and family growth and life enhancement.
I am an experienced marriage and family therapist licensed in NY and CT offering comprehensive therapeutic services for individuals, couples and families. My specialites include anxiety, depression, affairs, divorce, relationship issues, sexual issues, intimacy, grief and peer relationships. In my practice I deal directly with strategies to enable personal and family growth and life enhancement.
(914) 487-3978 View (914) 487-3978
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(914) 685-9740 View (914) 685-9740
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Karen Fleming-Sherman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSN, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
Are you tired of getting caught in the same old fights with your partner/spouse, kids, ex-husband or wife, parent(s), siblings, boss? Suffering from a serious illness in yourself or someone in your family? Dissatisfied with the quality of your life and relationships? Are you struggling with parenting issues? Dealing with loss? In a comfortable, non judgmental environment, you will discover the tools to navigate the sometimes stormy waters of life and make your relationships more fulfilling. I will be an active participant in the therapeutic process by giving you feedback and out of session assignments.
Are you tired of getting caught in the same old fights with your partner/spouse, kids, ex-husband or wife, parent(s), siblings, boss? Suffering from a serious illness in yourself or someone in your family? Dissatisfied with the quality of your life and relationships? Are you struggling with parenting issues? Dealing with loss? In a comfortable, non judgmental environment, you will discover the tools to navigate the sometimes stormy waters of life and make your relationships more fulfilling. I will be an active participant in the therapeutic process by giving you feedback and out of session assignments.
(914) 215-5055 View (914) 215-5055
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Sandra Tica
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
When you feel safe and supported in the therapeutic environment, the partnership you develop with a therapist can bring about gains that will change the trajectory of your life in significant and deeply rewarding ways.
When you feel safe and supported in the therapeutic environment, the partnership you develop with a therapist can bring about gains that will change the trajectory of your life in significant and deeply rewarding ways.
(914) 350-4694 View (914) 350-4694
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Karen Hastings
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, BSW, AAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bedford, NY 10506  (Online Only)
Sometimes on our journey we need an objective guide. I can help you manage problems involving "big feelings” that otherwise overwhelm. If your goal is to start getting new results for old recurring problems we can do that with compassion and curiosity. It is important to explore our personal history to understand why we think or behave the ways we currently do. While personal growth isn't always painless, you don't have to be alone in the process if you have a therapist who will commit to the process along side of you. I can help you gain new perspectives that will get you to solve problems effectively.
Sometimes on our journey we need an objective guide. I can help you manage problems involving "big feelings” that otherwise overwhelm. If your goal is to start getting new results for old recurring problems we can do that with compassion and curiosity. It is important to explore our personal history to understand why we think or behave the ways we currently do. While personal growth isn't always painless, you don't have to be alone in the process if you have a therapist who will commit to the process along side of you. I can help you gain new perspectives that will get you to solve problems effectively.
(480) 470-9590 View (480) 470-9590
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John D McCabe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
In my over 25 years of clinical experience, I have found that there are common psychological obstacles that prevent people from experiencing a high-quality life. Many people have histories of working hard to build better lives and manage distressing psychological symptoms, yet remain stuck in frustrating patterns, unable to make positive changes. I believe that the difficulty is not in the effort they have put in to try and improve, but in the missing personal insights, and the lack of knowledge regarding the use of specialized improvement strategies.
In my over 25 years of clinical experience, I have found that there are common psychological obstacles that prevent people from experiencing a high-quality life. Many people have histories of working hard to build better lives and manage distressing psychological symptoms, yet remain stuck in frustrating patterns, unable to make positive changes. I believe that the difficulty is not in the effort they have put in to try and improve, but in the missing personal insights, and the lack of knowledge regarding the use of specialized improvement strategies.
(914) 595-4767 View (914) 595-4767
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Silvia B. Espinal
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
“To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.” bell hooks. Would you like professional support to understand and heal your relationships? if you are searching for a safe therapeutic space where you can openly express your emotions and find solutions to your issues, I will be a suitable therapist for you. I am a relational psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and educator, and I will work with you in coping with heartaches caused by trauma, ruptures, loneliness, discord, and loss and support you through your healing.
“To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.” bell hooks. Would you like professional support to understand and heal your relationships? if you are searching for a safe therapeutic space where you can openly express your emotions and find solutions to your issues, I will be a suitable therapist for you. I am a relational psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and educator, and I will work with you in coping with heartaches caused by trauma, ruptures, loneliness, discord, and loss and support you through your healing.
(917) 994-6446 View (917) 994-6446
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Head In the Right Direction Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Mount Kisco, NY 10549
We have been helping people learn how to make the changes they want since 2008. Relationship woes? Existential Angst? Have a troubled teen or child in trouble? Feel stuck your life? You are not alone. There are other people out here going through this too. This is temporary. We will reach out to you, discuss your needs, and pair you with a therapist familiar with your needs. Together, you will meet, identify issues, collaborate to create a plan, follow through with some reasonable interventions, and figure out ways to make the changes last.
We have been helping people learn how to make the changes they want since 2008. Relationship woes? Existential Angst? Have a troubled teen or child in trouble? Feel stuck your life? You are not alone. There are other people out here going through this too. This is temporary. We will reach out to you, discuss your needs, and pair you with a therapist familiar with your needs. Together, you will meet, identify issues, collaborate to create a plan, follow through with some reasonable interventions, and figure out ways to make the changes last.
(646) 819-0218 View (646) 819-0218
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Linda Jame
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Katonah, NY 10536
Attention...what does it take to get our attention? Usually, it's something unfamiliar. I work with individuals who experience a "symptom," a grief, a depression, an anxiety, a life-threatening illness, a crisis in an important relationship; a time when you are asked to pause, to pay attention to your self and bring curiosity to your life. A symptom is an invitation to look at the story of your life and visit where you have felt alone and where you need to come home to yourself in order to make this issue transform and experience more fulfillment.
Attention...what does it take to get our attention? Usually, it's something unfamiliar. I work with individuals who experience a "symptom," a grief, a depression, an anxiety, a life-threatening illness, a crisis in an important relationship; a time when you are asked to pause, to pay attention to your self and bring curiosity to your life. A symptom is an invitation to look at the story of your life and visit where you have felt alone and where you need to come home to yourself in order to make this issue transform and experience more fulfillment.
(914) 214-1724 View (914) 214-1724

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.